Ask a complete failure anything.
> 36 year old male
> kissless virgin
> no friends
> bad relationship with family
> minimum wage job despite university education
> chronic illness
Ask a complete failure anything
Connor Cruz
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Nathan Wright
That sucks op, but you made your sandwich now eat it or try to change it.
For respects,
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Jordan Hughes
why don't you be someone else for a while and have some fun?
what are you afraid you'll lose?
Julian Rogers
I'm trying.
If I could be someone else, I would be. But it is hard to change your personality.
Michael Long
>it is hard to change your personality.
it's not hard to put on an act, though.
do it long enough, it becomes muscle memory and it is your personality, even if the old one is still lurking there too.
Dominic Brooks
>it's not hard to put on an act, though
It Is when you are a terrible actor. Acting requires skills and I do not have these skills.
Think about this: if I could pretend to be a charming, charismatic person, why wouldn't I be a charming, charismatic person all the time?
Jack Richardson
I'm not because I find it disingenuous. and, frankly, I like being a cantankerous bastard. but if I was miserable because I wanted to be someone else, I hope I'd give it a try.
direct yourself in third person. hell, even be frank with what you're doing. for all those that will hate you for trying, there will be many more that don't care, and a few that might even find it interesting, or endearing.
try man. you started the thread with a list of complaints. I hope you can try to resolve them.
Leo Hill
I would say that whenever I go out and talk to people, I try to be more charming than I naturally am. However, I am simply not good at pretending. Being charming is a bout what you say and how to say it. And usually, I don't know what to say.
Kevin Williams
Life is rough and shit happens.
Get your commercial class A permit, or whatever your nation uses for a commercial drivers license. Find a freight company that pays for training (they're all shit and you'll get thrown into a burner school knowing barely anything) and get paid to live on the road a while. Gets you away from family, your only expenses will be phone bill and little shit like that, plus shower and food. Hotel if you dont have a truck with a sleeper. You'll see a lot of shit, meet a ton of people you'll never have to worry about seeing again, and you won't be a useless waste of space.
Practice interacting with people. Dont worry about seeing them again. Just interact and adjust as things go well, or badly. Eventually pick a town you pass through frequently on your routes. Start looking to date and start off with a 4 or 5 out of ten. That relationship will in all likelihood fail, but should get you passed the kissless virgin issue without hiring a prostitute.
Jason Garcia
>And usually, I don't know what to say.
that's a skill you have to develop through usage. put in 10,000 hours like a game trying to max your level and you'll be zinging off witticisms no problemo.