Yea Forumsros im pissed the fuck off and dont know where to turn so to you faggots i turn

Those toys are gross. Its obvious she doesnt shower and sweats like a whore in church. OP already said she doesnt want to talk to him.
Again you dont love her m8. You're just used to her being yours you will get used to her not being yours then you will find someone else who also loves you back as this bitch clearly doesnt. If she did she would want to fix this issue just as much as you do. Which she doesnt. She just likes the drama and having something to fight over. You basically have 2 options. Dump her like you should. Or continue to suffer because spoiler, she isnt going to change and her mystery """"issues"""" are only going to get bigger.

she should dump you, not the other way around.

I really understand what your saying i really do

But i really do love her

And i also know her as you put it mystery issues is gonna get bigger but i cant bring myself to leave you dont see how we are when we dont fight

Try to find a girl that is a gamer, not brain washed by midea, likes having 3 ways (with other girls) and loves to be on 4 chan as much as me

You guys can call bullshit on the 3some thing all you want but its fact it happens

>But i really do love her
Why?

Did you not read the rest of the post

Also im not gonna pood my hole heart out to Yea Forums just 3/4 of it

Sounds like she just struggles to express herself. Might be her emotional ability to recognise, or her level of comfort. Gotta find a way to bring it out.

I feel like thats what it is but ive tryed everything from being super nice giving her plenty of space to being the biggest dick and trying to force it out

Its probably about her comfort. Maybe ask her if theres any way you could make her more comfortable expressing.

I'm confused... you're having problems with your mellow girlfriend who has decent tits... because she doesn't complain enough???

You are going to make some woman very happy, OP. Maybe not this one, but I promise you, many women will find your eagerness to hear them talk about their problems at all times very attractive. Good luck

I tryed that and she said "its not the im uncomfortable its something in me" now i was like ok no probleam but its been 4 years and i know her past talked anout it alot with me so i know she is "confortable" with me but maybe now that im.typing this out maybe if she shares it she is afrade of me walking out/changing how i look at her

Thanks user never thought of that

Obviously she doesn't trust you or she would. Looks like you neanderthal'd this relationship. If you couldn't figure that out, you probably have no idea how to fix it. Start fresh and try not to fuck up next time

Hahah you dont know how many peopel have said that to me over the years

Good to know Yea Forums hasent crushed all my humanity yet

neanderthal'd this relationship

Top tier kek

Post more pics

Here you horny faggot

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If she won't talk about her feelings just fuck her tits

Find someone else, OP. If she doesn't share information that is apparently important for her after a relationship of 4 years it's just not worth it. You should confront her again and if she doesn't tell you, you abandon ship. Also, post ass.

Well like ive said befor im in love with her so thats hard to do

But here you go user

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Just gotta find out why she doesn't like expressing.

How is she with affection? Does she like lovey stuff or just sexual?

She is vary offectionish she often tells me how much she loves me

And it isnt the fake love

Its the real love but when she is crying i cant get her to tell me why idk if its cuz she thinks i leave her or is she bothers me with her probleams ill think she is crazy

Thats affection towards you. How is she about receiving it? There is a difference.

I don't really see what the problem is. It sounds like you're bothered by something that isn't even a problem. Some people just don't like to talk about stuff and like to work it out on their own. Unless she does something like take the stress or anger out on you as a result of not talking, I don't even get why this is an issue.

If you really love her and want to stay with her, just let it go. When she turtles up and won't talk, just act like everything is normal. It almost sounds like she might be doing it on purpose bc she likes the attention she gets when you flip out trying to get her to open up.
So, if you just act like nothing is wrong, and she gets pissed, you can call her out on her shit. Or she'll just clam up and be forced to get over it on her own after she sees you're not going to make a big deal out of it. You win either way.

Cont. If someone won't let you help them, there's no point in agonizing over it and feeling guilty. It's her choice to keep things to herself and suffer, so if that's really what she wants, just let her.

She loves it when i tell her i love her and she has also told me im the only one besides family she feels i really mean it

So thats where im confussed i know she isnt lieing to me but why wont she tell me whats bothering her/crying about

Okay so its not an issue with expressing herself. Its something else then.

Maybe ask what she thinks will happen if she tells you? Identify why she isnt.

user you might be right the more i think about it the more i think you might be right

You sound young and dumb. You'll learn with age.

Ive tryed that but the answer will be diffrent every time one time is she is scared of me leaving other times it she is scared of my temper ( i do have a bad temper)but she has know about my temper for a long time and just laughs at me when i get really mad so i know its not that

Also thanks user for taking the time to talk to me about it

It sucks, and I get it; it's horrible seeing someone you love cry and they won't let you help or cheer them up, but you have to consider the possibility that she's fucking damaged and maybe she likes it that way. I hate to say that, but the thing that makes me think that is the fact that she'll cry in front of you. I'm the kind of person who kind of keeps things to myself and won't usually ask for support unless I'm stuck on some problem or really having a rough time. But when I am dealing with a problem on my own, I don't let anyone see me. I don't want my friends to worry or feel bad over something I can handle on my own.

user thats my biggest fear if she trys to handle something to big for her to handle alone i want to be there for her but it feels like some times she is pushing me away and idk how to help i feel so helpless and idk what to do about it

Gotta make her feel safe. She doesn't feel Safe expressing it to you. Control your temper. Show her you are controlling it. Express to her your own 'crazy'. Show her your shit is just as silly as hers. Help her feel human.

If she's pushing you away, I mean, the long and short of it is that either she wants to suffer, or she wants you to suffer. Or both. She can make all the excuses she wants, justifying her behavior with her broken past, but in the end, she's the one holding on to these martyr-like behaviors, at the detriment of her relationship with you, and its potential to grow and move forward.

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Ive done that ive cryed in her arms (idc how gay that sounds) she had something bad happen to her sexually you dont need to be an expert to figer out what happen and she tells me she feels safe

Like its not the safe thing its not the feel human its something elts and idk what it is

Its the safety thing.

Idk man no offencen but you dont seeuse in normal day life if bliss but once something like this comes up she retreats into her shell idk why or what it is and ive been trying to find out for 4 years and i know its not cuz she wants me to suffer

OK OP I'm going to turn off the hate and be a faggot myself for a minute.

Your GF has issues, but that is fine everyone does. The problem is that she doesn't want to make them better or work through them. Now there are a multitude of reasons why this could be, but it all comes down to three things.

1) you can't fix her
2) she doesn't want to get better
3) nothing can change points 1 and 2.

So your choices are to either except this and understand that it is your reality, or just move the fuck on. I had a GF like that. I moved on.

She doesn't feel safe telling you. Its the reason people tell shit to therapists and not other people. Fear of judgement, or impact on the way you see her, or way you will react.

Please explaine what you mean

Thank you

No hate here as well but dis you fully in every bone and fiber of your being love her cuz thats my probleam i know she is "broken" but fuck that i cant just give up on here

Can't help her till she wants to change.

If she's not doing it to torture you, then like I said, it's bc she wants to suffer. Idk why, but she's punishing herself for something. I'm not saying this is the case with her, but people who go through traumatic events often blame themselves afterwards, and have a feeling like they deserved it or that there's no going back to the happy person they were before. Because of this, it's very hard to feel optimistic about the future, or to move forward out of that incident and into a new period of present time.

Start by having a conversation with her about how you can’t have a conversation with her and it bothers you

The sad part is deep down i think your right but i dont want to beive it just the love i have for here is too strong

I just wanted to vent and get it out

Like i said in the origanal post i dont fully suer why im posted in ther first place

Relationships are complicated.

Thanks for the laught user it was perfect

Whats the sex like anyway?

Look OP I understand it is hard giving up on someone. One of the few pieces of advice my dad told me that actually made sense was "If someone you love does something to piss you off you either have to stop loving them or love them a whole lot more."

But you can't let someone make you miserable.

Its great she lets me do anything i want chock,slap,up the ass, and we even have 3 ways and wants to watch me cum on the other bitches face its amamzing like all the emotion probleams asais how can you leave someone like that

Thats the thing i know it sounds like im missarable but im really not just more really pissed off and frustrated

Listen i know its confussing

I'm not saying it's hopeless. But if she is being this stubborn about it, it may come down to you having to issue an ultimatum. You definitely don't want to wait until you're caving in about it and losing your temper from frustration. Keep in mind that, even though she went though something terrible, that doesn't mean that she can just disregard your feelings. A relationship involves commitment and respect from both people. If she wants to stay in the relationship with you, she's going to have to change something. Whether that's to open up and tell you everything about her past so you can move forward together, or let go of her past, take the first real step out of it, and begin her future with you sincerely. Or break up with you, I guess, bc she's too hung up on it to move on...

You either need to find a way for her to express it to you, or you need to react to it differently. If you keep doing the same thing and are unhappy about it, thats just stupid. So either you change you, or she changes her. Something needs to change in the situation.

Your 100% right homstly you are but i cant ever get what your saying across to her. My feelings are real and just cuz im a guy dose not mean you can just say fuck it

Like what she dose affects me maybe i should try telling her that ive never really said it in that way

We do need to find another way because i feel like ive been running around in circles for the past few years

She definitely should know how it makes you feel, at the very least. It's not fair to just expect you to accommodate her forever. That's how people get murdered.

Well im gonna get a little deep on you here

My shit head father didnt give a flying fuck about my mother so i allways said i will care about my gf/wife more then anything so i guess im doing this to my self

Listen i know it feels like your talking to someone who wont take advive but i am but im not gonna listen to someone who flat out tells me to leave the bitch with out hearing part of the full story

P.s im getging lonly drunk so sorry for the sob story

It's good to be committed, but you have to draw a line somewhere. Good luck.

Where would you draw the line?

When her inability to communicate her feelings, starts to genuinely affect your health and wellbeing.

Alright ill give you that.

But answer me this have you ever love somebody so much that you would give anything for them. money,time,love,heath,and sacrifice part of your self to make them happy?

Currently do. Its fucking horrible.

Your a true man

Not really. Shes a fucking mess.

Its not horrible its honerable you fuck
Your gonna die alone but maybe if your lucky you will get some fat bitch to pop your cherry befor you go you fucking scum

Its horrible considering the circumstances you nutter.

Yeah maybe i have some probleams

But im not some fat fuck like you who cant get a gf or pussy for that matter fuck off you fucking scum

So much rage. So little comprehension.

His situation is horrible because of the circumstances you dense shit

Maybe because i kown whats its like to be with someone

Something you will never understand

Being with someone makes you angry?

You would be better off alone.

The world what be better off if your mom just swallowed

She did swallow. Unfortunately she threw up all over herself afterwards.

Maybe your lack of using punctuations is the problem, you neanderthal.

So you ran out of insults so you insult my spelling

Well seems like your runing our of insults you fucking degenerate

Top kek cant be mad after that one

OP suddenly got very hostile out of the blue

OK OP do you know what Aggressive Mimicry is?

Because OP is a faggot. Always the case.

A hostile, angry faggot.

Seems that way.

You two lot seam like the scum this site is known for good job being degeneret fum stains on humanity

I denently did they just pissed me off

Are you on your period?

Nah it was just drunk and lonly anger i know its a faggot move but oh well

Nah, OP's girlfriend is, and she won't tell him anything.

Hence OP is being a hostile faggot.

I mean, i can see why your girlfriend doesn't talk about her feelings with you...

You know your now just making me laugh

Not ideal for self reflection

No its out of how pethedic i was there for a few mins now that i remember its just an online shit thread so idc anymore

Sure hope that temper of yours doesn't turn up with your girl

Ok truce that made me laugh way to hard i cant be mad at you anymore

Second this. Don't wait until she gets bored and dumps you out of apathy. Be the one who chooses to move on first.

? stupid

Dont worry if i even think she is thinking that i will dont worry

Yikes

Yikes? Explaine

Bailing because shes thinking of bailing. That says a whole lot.

I'm just saying I'm not sure how much you've sacrificed of yourself but don't bury your life for her. Seems like you might be holding on for something that isn't meant to happen. Try being friends with her. Like other people have said there may be a reason within herself that she's keeping you out, and no effort on your part will solve that. It's not as complicated as it may seem.

go look up some real self help books instead of consulting Yea Forums for christs-sake

This is a different user btw

Self help is an oxymoron

crucial conversations is an ok book o nthis sort of

Broadening your perspective is rarely a bad thing.

Im not trying to be the angery cunt i was an hr ago but man i love her truly do soi dont look at it as holding on more like not giving up cuz i cant give up on her

Well then that's your cross to bear my man. I had the same spirit you have right now in my first relationship and I got my heart broken. I hope your story turns outfit differently. From one user to another I wish you the best of luck, seriously.

Autocorrect is the worst.