How does one find love? I live in a small town in the middle of nowhere. And if you think you live in the middle of nowhere, you're in a metropolis compared to me.
I can't do internet dating because everyone is so far away. I can't date anyone here because I share no interests or hobbies, so far as I'm aware of. I found love once, online, but I lost it and now I just want to die rather than grow old alone.
marry your sister or cousin
I'd rather not.
Sweet thread idiot
Thanks. I'd rather cry out into the void than say nothing at all.
1. Move
2. Mail order bride
3. Go to a foreign country where the women are desperate for a better life, Thailand for an example
1. I've tried and things have failed every time.
2. I don't want to buy someone. I want someone I truly love and respect, and feels the same way for me.
3. Yeah, like some flip? I'm not that old yet where I go to the Philippines for a few weeks and come back with a wife.
i guess whores are always the answer - explains why there are so many of them
If I did I would be paying for everything but love.
I'm 32. I've never had a gf. Neither will you. Get used to it.
I had one once.
This seems to be the new trend. Most girls 6+ and over are happy to fuck the same top 5% of guys off dating apps just to have a chance at those genetics.
>I found love once, online
why dont you just do that again? also move somewhere else.. duh
That's an entirely made up statistic. Normal human beings still meet via social contacts in the real world and fuck. But if you're on Yea Forums asking what you're doing wrong in the realm of love, then you've already lost your chances.
First of all, I've tried. The last year I haven't found anyone. My conundrum is that I can either work here where I make a lot of money and be alone, or I take my chances somewhere else where I will likely be broke AND alone like every other time I've tried.
Do whatever you want dude, but you're going to be old sooner than you think. No point wasting what little youth you have left in a shitty middle of nowhere dumpster of a town.
>or I take my chances somewhere else where I will likely be broke AND alone
how about instead of "taking your chances" you search for and secure a new (maybe even better) job in a better area before moving to that area? like get the same job you have now elsewhere or get the next level job above the one you have now. it's not brain rocketry, user. advance your career and localize toward the hoes in one move. it sounds like you have plenty of time on your hands to wait for jobs to become available and to search etc.
That's the thing. I have a good job here, but it's fuck-all anywhere else. The difference in pay is nearly half of what I earn without any benefits. And since rent has not decreased around Canada for a while, I'd make a pittance while I could never be sure about finding love anyway. And I've tried this several times. I've been broke and single.
>I have a good job here, but it's fuck-all anywhere else
what job is it, exactly? i find that hard to believe. also if you make so much money why don't you just drive to an airport and fly somewhere during the next long weekend?
It's a government job, which is all I'd like to say. I could fly somewhere, but the prices are so high I'd basically end up spending a cheque going somewhere. Not that it would end in anything even if I did. I don't want to be as introverted as I am but I have to live with it.
you're just full of excuses, user. you are screwing yourself over by doing nothing
I've moved out of here three times. Each time has ended in failure.
you cant just move and cross your fingers. secure the job and the gf then move. or at least save a lot of money, secure gf (via internet) then move. and get yourself some portable skillset if you're so convinced you cant get another job that pays any money
>go to thailand and bang hookers
>go to a very poor country and marry a desperate woman who wants to immigrate
That's why I try to look online. I'm not so proud that I could say my girlfriend is only online. My only real relationship was online. But I can't seem to find anyone. My ex was one of a kind, it seems. I loved her more than she loved me and I can't get over her.
I'd rather be poor and in love than rich and alone. Unfortunately that choice isn't mine to make.
you rly need to go somewhere with bars and such and talk to hoes until you can pick up women, user. it sounds like maybe you are a sperg and you cant even hook a girl online. you need to get over that. getting fit makes it a lot easier so do that too. dont give up my dude
I probably am a sperg, at least in the online way, though I have been exercising lately. But I can't talk to a woman at the bar, and I really don't want to. 99% she isn't the kind of woman I want to meet and I'm not her type anyway. I learned a long time ago that meeting girls at the bar aren't ones you really want to be with.
It's actually been studied by universities by students who were obviously also curious. Most women find the vast majority of men completely undatable.
How many men in history do you think spread their genes?
okay you are a retard full of excuses i hope you die alone i'm going to delete all of my former advice posts if i still can
sage
If you call life experiences excuses, whatever. One girl I met at the bar was abusive, and another I met at a party was using me for reasons I'd rather not explain.
The only time I felt loved and valued was online, but I've yet to recapture that feeling.