My gf has gained weight since recovering from anorexia. Im disgusted and not attracted anymore. Am I the asshole?
When I met my gf, she was thin and beautiful. She was also anorexic, which was bad and i felt sad for her. 6 months ago, she started getting help and has been in recovery and no longer experiences anorexia for the most part. However, she’s gained a lot of weight, 31 lbs to be exact. She’s 5’6 and used to be 97 lbs, but now is 128 lbs. That’s almost 130 lbs! Its kind of gross looking. She’s just not attractive anymore. I prefer when she was thin.
Last night during dinner, I confided with her that I prefer her skinny then the way she is now. She started to cry and immediately left. Her sister and best friend have been texting and calling me calling me an asshole and other terrible things. Am I the asshole though for being honest? I feel as though i have a right to comment on her body.
Pic related: What she used to look like