Anyone lost their virginity after 20?? Tell me your stories

>be 24 y/o virgin
>got sick of it at 23 and went to gym for a year
>get pretty fit and muscular
>finally got confidence to go on Tinder
>match with 5/10 chubby college feminist girl
>w/e good enough
>she says yes to hook up
>she comes over and I try not to come off as a total virgin
>fail
>she catches on right away during foreplay that I've never even kissed a girl
>start getting really self-conscious and nervous
>finally stick it in, but prematurely ejaculate after 5 seconds because of nerves
>she tries to get me up again but I'm so embarrassed that I can't
>she gets dressed and gives me the humiliating "it's alright, it happens to every guy" speech while trying her best not to laugh at me under her breath
>she leaves
>I delete my profile and uninstall Tinder

And that was the first and last time I ever had sex. It's been three years and I still haven't lived down the shame or worked up the confidence to try again

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The first time I got pussy was on my 21st birthday to my girlfriend while her friend watched us fuck. But I got hand jobs and blow jobs since 13.

Hired and fucked an escort on christmas eve at 20. Better late than never i suppose.

For what it's worth, i did have a gf a couple years later that was constantly dick hungry.

I'm not entirely hopeless

tl;dr

Dude, that still happens to me and I've had sex with more girls than I can literally remember. Just get good days and bad days, keep going! If I'm help a stoned I usually last longer if not forever.

>be 22
>failed relationships
>The One just dumped me again
>friend comes back from army
> hey user just go to a massage parlor
> friend covers cost and I get a petite chink for my first time

From there I had one long term relationship where she didn't know details about how I lost it and then a friends ex and now an okc fatty. Pretty disappointing sex life tbh.

Lost mine around age 26. Spent most of my spare time playing an online game, then I met a girl playing and we got married in game. I'm socially awkward in real life but in the game I think I was pretty sauve. Anyway, after knowing her solely through the game for over a year she decides one day that she wants to meet me. She makes the four hour drive. I have a really bad feeling about it because I am so socially awkward irl but she is super sexually aggressive and within five minutes of coming through my door we are in bed together. Relationship continued for like four years, seeing each other and fucking like twice a month. Then we broke up for some reason. Haven't had sex since, but I haven't really pursued it.

Anyway, I was socially awkward, overweight, balding, and living paycheck to paycheck in a one room studio with no car, while she was a hot asian nurse who lived in a really nice place in Boston. At least an eight out of ten. So if I could do it, there is hope for the rest of you too.

Basically fucked my brothers best friends girlfriend. Not worth it tbh.

Pound it dude so am i

There is bro just decide to do it don't underbutter yourselft. You can do everything if you want do. Sometimes it helps just to be yourselft, imagine the girls are dudes and act like that.

>carpet burn on my knee
ultrakek, didnt know theres a word for it

I came at the start of a BJ the girl said she was really scared because I was shaking beforehand and she thought I was gonna 50 shades of grey her.

After the premature ejaculation I just toweled off and then went again in 5 minutes and did a proper job.

You're supposed to cum like 5-10 times when you get a hookup. I fucked her all night was crazy.

I was 24 and met a BPD 18yo on discord and we hit it off. What started as a disastrous on and on e-lationship ended as a slightly less disastrous IRL relationship. First time was awkward as hell, I was drunk enough to barely get hard at all and she got on top of me, I didn't feel shit. Took a few months to get to comfortably fucking for more than 30 seconds at a time without feeling like I'm gonna instantly nut at any point.

If you can that's great, but I'm pretty sure cumming one to two times is more the average.

>24 at college (26 now)
>First day in calc 1.
>17 year old cutie 3.14159 that sat behind be in pre calc, sits in a table group next to mine
>"Hey user"
>I instinctively move tables and started talking to her that day
>We start sitting together every day.
>never really expect anything, but it's nice to chat.
>That summer, we talk calc 2 together
>Invites me to a movie with her friend, a classmate, and his gf.
>Nothing happens
>"My friend and I are going to go grab milkshakes at the malt shop next door"
>I didn't catch that as an invitation.
>"Oh ok then, I'll talk to you later" and bounce
>A week later she invites me to grab some ice cream
>I accept, and am then led to a cliff afterwords, and we overlook the city eating ice cream
>Her dad calls in the middle of it, asking where she's at
>I find out it's called makeout point
>Her dad flips his lid a bit
>After he hangs up, the cats out of the bag
>Few day later, she comes over and gives me a blowjob
>Few days after that, we had sex.

I don't even remember the first time we did it, but we dated for a year, until I found out that she cheated, and things turned into a dumpster fire. Worst part, was what an almost surreal experience being with her that year was. It's like everything was just going good. Every day, was like I had everything going for me. I've dated other girls since, and I'm currently in a relationship, but they're all so grey in comparison. It's like I only had enough room to love that one person.

Now she's studying to be a physicist for NASA, and I'm sitting here contemplating suicide every day. She had everything handed to her on a silver platter, and it pisses me off, and makes me just want to rage quit life.

was 29 here, almost made it to wizard.

>got tired of not having qt3.14 gf
>messaged ugly ass bitch on okcupid
>make her my one real life friend, take her out to eat, buy her things, etc.
>eventually introduces me to her friends
>one of them is qt3.14
>talk in facebook with qt3.14, asks me if ugly ass friend and I have weekend plans. Tell her no but we can go out and eat if she is bored
>Go out to eat, olive garden, get call from ugly ass girl, tell her I'm eating with qt3.14
>After call, qt3.14 asks me why I told ugly ass girl what I was doing. She thought we were bf/gf
>Tell her I've been trying but she ignored me, so we are nothing
>Ask her out to movies, we go to movie next day, tells me how her little cousin (4) used to tell her that if she went to sleep at movie theater he would kiss her
>I tell her if she goes to sleep I would kiss her
>Movie ends, tell her I'm dissapointed she didn't sleep
>She tells me I can kiss her regardless
>Spend one hour making out in car, take her back home, can't stop kissing on way back
>We have sex 2 weeks later
>I marry her a year later
>We both have unfriended ugly ass girl by then

>grow up in christian house
>move to the middle of nowhere with fam as a teen
>No friends, find Yea Forums in 2006
>don't really interact with women until first job and 18
>too busy for church, only social awkward interactions with female colleagues at min-wage jobs
>lower standards and lower morals due to no church
>ask some out here and there, only a few dates; never bang though
>land high-paying office job in my early 20s
>meet qt3.14 redhead with massive tits
>she's christian, i have weekends available now due to good job, meh OK i'll come to church with you
>get married a year later to good christian girl
>we both lose our virginity our wedding night

I honestly have solid patience, but another year or so and I probably would have just started getting hookers and using Tinder. Got married at 25, her 23. Been married three years now, got a house last year and doggo this year. Hoping to have a few kids in a couple of years. Life's good.
pic semi-related I guess

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Nice story

Sad story

no ive been in a room for 5 years ill leave when i die

Had sex one time, only time when I was 18 with the dirtiest chick I know. Dick literally smelled awful afterwards

>Be me, 21 years old
>Meet girl online
>8 years older than me
>She drove 800 miles
>Rawdogged her while she was on her period in my parents bathroom floor
>Made one hell of a bloody nut

I'm fucking retarded.

>been improving myself since around age 18 since I've always been an introvert with absolutely shitty genetics and skeletonmode
>concentrating on my job, working out, meeting people and learning to be a normal human
>meet a cute grill at work at age 20, start dating and eventually lose virginity to her
>still dating her 4 years later at 24

I did just before my 21st birthday. Was a bit annoyed I didn't make it to 21, but also obvs not too annoyed.

Girl I met at a festival, the fact it was my first time didn't come up till after. Had done some other stuff before, but my first time fingering/ going down on a girl was only a month or so before

Wow. I think you could just some therapy / confidence

>Be me, 20 years old
>Best friend and I start dating (known her since 14)
>Hold out because she has some religious principles and wants to wait for marriage.
>Love this bitch, so I dont push it..
>Fuck that, passion ensues and we fuck at 21.
>now 28, marrying her next year.

Cannot be happier

Almost

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> tldr
> curryniggerbitch

nah

Friend of mine lost it at 21. He met some cute blonde I had invited at my 20th Birthday, and they got talking together. She was trying to forget her bf and he was nice and handsome. By the end of the evening they were cuddling in the garden.
Problem was she was on her period so they exchanged numbers and they kept in contact. She invited him at her 17th Birthday a few months later, I was here too because somebody had to bring the whisky, and at some point I went to get my charger in a room and walked in on them fucking.
But he ruined it because:
1) he couldn't get it up at first with a condom
2) they only had one condom so they fucked without
3)He came in her even tho she wasn't on the pill
4)He freaked out next morning about her getting pregnant(she took Levonorgestrel)
5) He told me by text the whole story with every detail and asked how efficient morning after pills were
6) He then told her that he told me
7)She got mad

What's wrong with curry ?

to be fair, condoms do suck and this could of been me

half the sensation with my dick being shrink-wrapped way to fucking tight

Not with that shitty attitude.

I have a friend who lost his virginity at 24. I wouldn't give up quite so quickly.

28 and I still have it :(
I don't know how socializing works and I hate myself

Yeah, I was 21 or 22 when I first fucked. Been fucking ever since. Kissed her one night, and a week or so later I was sucking on her tits and fingering her while she stroked my cock. A few days later I went down on her and then she sucked my cock. Fucked her with a condom maybe a week later, then started fucking all over the place. She got on the pill and I fucked her bareback for the first time in a dark motel room full of our friends. Had to stay quiet. Fucked her in the ass maybe a month later, and it was the tightest thing imaginable. Before we started dating, I had never kissed a girl. Things can change quickly. Keep your head up, have a positive attitude, work to improve yourself and don't give in to the toxic woman-hating incel attitude that is so prevalent on this site. That shit will get you nowhere. Nobody is a fucking wizard, and most people in the world are fucking. It's not some impossible hurdle. You can do it, too.

How old are you user?

I'm this guy

At 23-24, I figured I'd make my way to wizardhood. Saw all the other depressed anons and figured it was my fate. From meeting her, falling in love, getting married, it was ~18 months.
Swallowed a few redpills on women in general (there used to be some great thread about it in the past, haven't seen them in years though), and my attitude instantly made women more attracted to me. Roasties than I'd asked out a year prior and turned me down were then asking me out afterward.
Stop putting them on a pedestal, they're horribly insecure and way more nervous about dates than you are. Just be yourself and have a good time. They're attracted to a confidant man even if whatever you like isn't always their interest. She'll have interests you don't care about, so don't get hung up on interests you're worried she might not like. Find them at work, school, college, church. Bars are Tinder is scrapping the bottom of the barrel. Not wife material.

I told my girl that I was interested in dating her and not being her friend. Took her out to dinner and said it was a date, not just "hanging out". She'd had three beta males want to "hangout" with her in the past, but were too afraid to call it a fucking date. It was an instant turn off for her.

You don't have to be Chad McThundercook, but you do need some balls. Hell, fake it til you make it. Loving and losing is better than to have never loved at all.

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Are you autistic?
srs

no I don't think I fit the critera of an autist. I'm just socially retarded idk.

This
youtu.be/bl5TUw7sUBs

kysfag only thing worht reading here

Meh im in thee same boat. 28 still virgin. I had a girl suck my dick for a few seconds. She didnt want to go all the way cause she was "not that kind of girl".
Idk man I had a lot of chances, I'm not even awkward, but at this point I stopped caring or putting any effort into it. It used to be girls asked me out. I still get flirted with, but its mostly borderline retarded older women which may end up being the end of my virginity for me, but I doubt i'll ever find love.

Lost mine at 26

Was tired of overthinking being a virgin, just got a cheap hooker. I feel better about myself now that I don’t have literally zero experience. Currently in the process of getting in shape and building more confidence

same user. I can probably do well if I just went out, but rather drink and stay home alone. I am funny in person and have many good traits. I dont take pictures well and am too serious in chats like on dating sites so fuck that shit.

21.
Friend's girlfriend brought her best friend and it clicked.
After a few meetups we hung out and the rest followed normally.
Had luck I guess. Would not have happened otherwise.

Fuck it, what kind of girl sucks it and does not finish it, argh! At least by hand.

then you already have way more experience than me. I've never experienced girls showing genuine interest in me, not even once. the moment I say a word they lost interest and stop talking to me. every single time. maybe it's because I can't make eye contact cause I've seen uglier people than me who have no problems getting laid. It doesn't help either that I often give single sentence answers cause I never know what to say/ask.

32 virgin in less than couple months...
i dont even know how to talk to a girl

she didnt do it long at all. I'll tell you I had a plan to offer to eat her out tto get her pants off. It worked, but I didnt know what I was doing and she didnt really tell me. I told her I was a virgin already so she let me try for a few seconds and Idk what happened. She wasnt turned on. I didnt have experience.

I did get off a girl once by rubbing her clit, but I was already at a point where I knew we weren't in love and I never even kissed her. I was kind of mad she rejected me but was willing to sleep with me. If I could go back, it wouldnt anger me as much....

good ass

Its alright. I am the same way these days. eye contact is indeed important.

All I can think is that I have to put myself out there. I have to be doing things. I gathered interest from girls from them seeing me in care free action doing daily random shit. I mostly try to stay home anymore. And at work where theres lots of girls, I joke a bit, but usually not trying to push conversation on to them when it is down to me to approach. Dont know what I want anymore. I like being alone. People drain my energy pretty bad.

Exactly 20. Cheated on bitchy GF at the time.

Started making out with a girl while at a friends place at a beach. One thing led to another, and we ended up in the bedroom. She took my pants off and started giving me a nice blowjob. Next thing I know she’s climbing on me.

> “hold on girl I don’t know about this, I’m with someone.”
> her: “ I don’t care.”

She fucked me, I came quick. Told her it was my first time, she laughed and said it was ok. Jerked me for a little bit and then hopped back on. Fucked for a little longer, got her off, came on her tits.

Dumped GF the next day, found out from one of her friends that she wanted to end things anyway. Fucked around with new girl for a few months. Pussy tasted god awful, but she had a slight cum fetish, so I went along with it.

yeah I'm similar I avoid social situations to protect myself from being judged, but at the same time I fucking hate missing out on relationships, sex, etc.

I couldn't care less about being judged because at the end of the day I am happy to be alone. I just am still a virgin so casual sex is intimidating. I think I could go for it easily if I knew how to play along. But anything I try to say that's dirty sounds forced. It isn't something I have experience with.

As for dating, thats just out of my league. I have baggage from missing out on living a life, not just a sexually active one, but in general. I make shit money and live in a shit hole. I just dont know what I want so I tend to not care and just enjoy the days I have to myself.

23yo. never been with a girl a girl before in my life. finally get a girlfriend. we decide to fuck. arrange for everything beforehand. moment of truth arrives. cant get it up. tried to get hard for the next twenty minutes but nothing happened. gave up

decide to give it another go a few weeks later. cant get it up. dont know what the fuck is wrong with me.

decide to try AGAIN. cant get it up AGAIN. gf cries this time.

we go out for a trip. makeout on bed transitions to sex. no planning this time. finally have sex

Yeah, the first time can put a LOT of pressure on you.
And that fucking condom handling...
Also had to try a few times, but after that I never failed once.

condoms still fuck me up. idk if its my fucked up circumcised dick or something. anything mode than an ultra thin and its a struggle staying hard

>be 22
>depressed af and planning suicide
>don't want to die a virgin
>get drunk with a friend and ask her if she wouldn't fuck me
>she says sure
>hj, can't feel anything, bj, can't feel anything, fuck her like crazy and i still don't feel anything while she moans so loud that my entire apartment block heard it and she scratched my entire back
>couldn't cum so i finished myself

I don't know if I could not cum 'cause I was heavily depressed, drunk af or 'cause I don't find her particularly attractive. Probably a mix of these three.

lost it at 25, went to a chinese massage and got lucky by getting a hot asian milf

oh shit I know where there is one near me, but I'd have to put away cash for it. I cant get motivated to go not knowing what to expect. Like Obviously I'm there for some sexy stuff, but do I just ask for a massage?

31 virgin here

>nervious system disease (home 24/7)
>Religious
>Don't want kids

>hand jobs and blow jobs since 13.
story?

If they ask you to pay for cash up front and ask if you tip in cash, that's usually a dead giveaway. Or you can always ask if they do a table shower, if they do you're good. without having to explicitly ask for sex. during the massage just kinda touch up on their legs to see how comfortable they are, after they ask you to flip over they usually ask you how much you wanna tip. in my area around 100 is good for a full service, 40 can get you a HJ and maybe 60 or 80 for a BJ.this is all on top of the standard rate of 60 dollars for the 1hr massage

too bad man it feels good to have a foreskin

Say hi.

26 to my wife on our wedding night.

Sorry bro lost mine at 14 on top off roof of my high school

21

>Spent first year of Uni trying to get with girls in my class
>Got quite close to 2 separate girls (they weren't friends with each other)
>The first one I find out a few weeks after talking to is a lesbian
>Me and 2nd one both admit we have feelings for each other but she had a boyfriend back home
>She strings me along for several months telling me she will leave him
>She never does
>Eventually we go clubbing together with a group from the class
>She makes out with some random guy in front of me and leaves with him
>I then get wasted and message her boyfriend on facebook about everything
>She comes hammering on my door the next day
>Ignore it, block her number, skip the last few weeks of uni only showing up for the exam and end first year as a virgin who has never had a gf
>2nd year decide fuck it
>Make friends with some guys on my course
>Go clubbing with them and constantly just hit on girls
>Get rejected every time the first few weeks of doing this
>Eventually find a girl drunk/desperate enough to sleep with me

After losing my virginity everything became a lot easier and I'm able to act a lot more confident around women. Had several gfs since.

Lost mine at 25 actually. Go for it Yea Forumsro

Joke's on you!
I'm unironically 51 and still virgin and living with parents.

Fuck Yea Forumsro, dont let it discourage you. Find a girl who likes you and then practice a few times. It'll get better eventually. The next time you're with a girl maybe be honest up front that you don't have much experience, if she's already into you before that she might not actually mind that much (my girl didnt, for instance).
You could also start out giving her oral. Really apply yourself, try your best to do a great job at eating her out. If you're not sure, ask her to guide you, make sure you listen to the pointers you get and pay attention to her body-language.
You can give girls great orgasms with your tongue, even better if you combine tongue and fingers. Trust me, if you can make a girl cum hard with your mouth you're good even if you don't last long with the fucking business.

Also, lasting only seconds the 1st time is way more common than you think. I've heard from multiple girls that their bf's 1st times were exactly like what you described.

By he way, my 1st time was like yours and yes that premature shit still haunts me. But I refuse to let it fucking ruin my life and you should refuse to let it ruin yours too. Try, try and try again, never give up.

Not even sure....

>be me 14
>shy ass fuck user
>work up confidence to talk to a girl from an esl class
>become really great friends
>school ended up on lock down because of niggers fighting
>teacher tells me go to class
>ended up walking to library which was closed
>next to library was a door that read roof access
>janitor left it open because of lock down
I see a couple friends from top of roof looking down
>they come up and so does the girl I had met a couple of weeks ago
>we ended up playing spin the bottle
>me and girl had never even tried to kiss each other
>so bottle lands on me a I get dared
>we end up kissing hard nonstop
>by the way forgot to mention she had 38dd in 9th grade
>janitors had a tent table, chairs etc. For lunch time kick backs
>so me and girl(patty) end up in tent and those were the biggest tits I've ever seen
>we fucked like 4 times In a 2 hour span
>when we finished we got out of tent for very one was gone
> it was 4:30pm school was over @ 3:30 pm
>my parents drove her home
>after that was constant school projects and studies groups lol
> after high school her parents moved to Phoenix Arizona
>she got married to some fat turd
>now she's fat, (not thick) really fat
>talked to her about 2 years ago shes really happy
>she was so hot life goes on

turned 34 week ago. dont see myself losing my v card

Lost it at 29... had been with my girl for 12 years at that point. Yep you heard me, 12 fucking years of everything but losing my V card. She wouldn't fuck me tile go married. Years later, still with her, sex life sucks... poor decisions were made.