Hey Yea Forumsros. So I got drunk with my ex the other night. The past few times weve hung out weve had a great time...

Hey Yea Forumsros. So I got drunk with my ex the other night. The past few times weve hung out weve had a great time. Weve gotten drunk together before. We always seem to be able to talk till its like 4am. Im so in love with her and i dont know if i accidentally slipped up and told her because i got super drunk with her and i cant remember what happened. What are yalls thoughts? Pic unrelated.

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I'm still involved with my ex and my best advice is to remember why she's your ex and don't forget it

But not all situations are the same man, people change, people grow. I havent seen her in years and its like were two completely different people. And thats the thing, the person she is now sparked all these new emotions i havent felt in a long time. Idk it doesnt feel the same like when we were kids.

But whats your situation like? How long have yall been talking?

if you still have feelings for an ex, it's best to cut all contact with them. odds are you wont get back together and the emotional pain will just continue to drag on. cut your losses user

Are you 12
Literally avoid any emotional bonding with any woman and only work to make yourself more wealthy, and physically and mentally stronger, maybe look after your parents and siblings, you're a man and can only rely on yourself

But why though? A failed hs relationship means i need to avoid this person at all cost, and i shouldnt even attempt any possibility of mutual love despite being now mature adults?

Im sorry im a sappy mushy romantic who loves people and wants to share my love with a partner.

of course not and I know the exact feeling you have right now. only you know what you should do in your situation though. I see the change in my ex and she's made right on everything but it's just not the same as it used to be
well we dated over 3 years, lived together for 2 of them and we were honestly too compatible. very codependent and enabling. but we didn't talk for about a year and I reached out to her in a time of need and we've got really close again, and it's clear her feelings are stronger than mine which I attribute to me never fucking up and hurting her which she did to me
I regret reaching out to her, I love her as a person deeply but I don't want a relationship. I feel obligated to her now

I just wanna like express my love, man

It sounds like were having a similar issue on opposite ends of the spectrum. Seems our roles are a bit reversed. Idk why dont you want a relationship? She hurt you too bad?

hypergamy in women is a real thing and is easier for them than ever before due to the internet, i'm not a mgtow faggot (i think that's the acronym idgaf) but the one thing they have correct is that bonding to a woman is retarded and against your best interest, as they will abandon you and spit on your feelings at the drop of a hat
if you increase your money, strength, and mental fortitude, you will have the capability of banging hot bitches at a higher frequency than you're doing right now, and that sounds like a better deal than the bullshit you're dealing with right now

yes

But see, i know this. But i dont want that. I actually want a relationship....and this person out of nowhere shows up and it turns out we get each other more than we ever did when we were dating, weve been bonding and relating so hard, and i feel like maybe shes scared to admit she has the same feelings as me because shes scared to face those emotions....and i feel like i got too drunk and we both spilled our hearts out but i cant remember. I just remember she sparkle in her eyes and all sorts of emotions in the air...

yeah I can see parallels. it's definitely a complex situation no matter how one or both parties feel
main reason I don't want a relationship is I just need to focus on my shit, I've really hit rock bottom in the past year or so following me breaking up with her
but yes she also hurt me in a lot of ways, and granted she was drunk (and/or on coke) every time but after so much shit it's impossible to feel the same as I used to
I basically see her as a best friend who I happen to find hot as fuck and who is down for anything sexually and that also kinda sucks because she is madly in love with me and I don't want to use her, or hurt her in any way

I can get any girl i want, i dont have a problem with women. Im looking for love though, im tired of bedding skags and uninteresting hot women. Literally every other cute or hot girl ibve talked to has the fuckin personality of a rock.

I get that, i had an ex just like that. She ended up taking advantage of me more often then not though after we broke up and i had to drop her.

>I can get any girl i want
wrong, otherwise you'd be fucking 10/10s every week on schedule and never know what this godforsaken website is
You want love and that's fair, but you've already listed the problem that the vast majority of women have no personality and the ones that do will quickly get old as the years go on
I've said this before, we are men, you need to fall in love with what you do, whether that's a business, investing in real estate, learning a trade, etc, you need to reach the mental maturity and fortitude of being able to make it if every last woman was eradicated from the earth, i probably sound like a dick but you can envision it as tough love from user for your own good in the long run of your life

Same boat here.
My ex & I (last time we dated was about 10 years ago) have been talking for the past 5 years now and we have this extreme mutual bond between each other.. But we're both dating other people right now.
We kind of just consider each other more than best friends but not relationship wise.
Her hugs are amazingly tight when she sees me though and she even lets me pick her up. For me thats kind of enough.. Wouldn't lie when i say I'd love to eat her out but I don't push anything. Just happy with how much we bond.
Though i feel perhaps one day it might explode on either of us.
I think what just keeps both of us at bay is the fact that we're both in relationships.
And perhaps we're both aware that since we're "friends" we both keep this sort of "challenge" between us that makes us want to communicate with each other in deep ways.

Its like, i want her but i dont want to be with her.. Possibly a FWB situation is what I'd be happy with.

You're young as shit and this girl won't be in your life in 10 years but that's okay because it happens to all of us. The important part is that you get over the concept of finding a fairy tale "one girl" that will give you meaning in your miserable life, and you find love in the actions you take with your life, the positive impact you can make with your community, and basically I covered other parts of this in my post here:

yeah it's very tentative for me at this point. she went on a fucking downward spiral after a pretty unfortunate turn of events and ended up getting a dui so I feel really fucking bad for her in the situation she is in right now
but there have been some questionable incidences as she used to constantly get blackout drunk and even though I trust her now I don't necessarily trust her about what happened in the past, whether she remembers or not
she also used to threaten suicide a lot too lol. also can't forget the time we were on acid and she told me she was a demon straight up