I'm reaching a breaking point

I'm reaching a breaking point.

I'm a swinger. I can see that the swinger, bdsm, fetish, lifestyle world is coming out from the shadows.

We're not able to hide anymore because of the massive growth of cuckold and swinger porn, wife sharing sites, apps, memes etc. And our world is coming into the public light.

I'm doing my best to show us in the best light possible. I'm writing a book to try to cast some light on who we really are and what we do. I'm putting together events that mix lifestyle and vanilla people so that we can all be seen as just people. Not "those" people.

I'm trying to help our community grow and learn so that we don't fall into the horrible stereotypes that are spread about us. I'm also helping hundreds of people through their relationship issues and teaching them how to communicate and helping them build their own relationships better.

But I don't have any real help.

On top of doing all of this work, I have a house that I have to care for. I have kids. I have a full time job. I have my own body and my own projects to take care of. And I'm not even the best person for the job. The BEST person to do what I'm doing killed himself 2 years ago.

And let me tell you, this guy was far better than I am. He was rich. He had loads of people behind him. He had all kinds of support. He was smarter, stronger, and had a more open schedule than I do. It would be like comparing a fully developed superman to "into the spider-verse" Miles Morales.

Well superman is dead. And now Miles has to try to save the airplane falling from the sky.

While I'm maybe "slightly above average", I'm no superman.

I'm starting to see the point. I can't just stop because the social pressure is enormous. Every time I ask for help, a hundred people raise their hands, but when asked, none of them actually DO anything. They just expect me to come through in the end, and they want recognition for even volunteering to help, even though they didn't actually help at all.

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Degenerates get the rope buckaroo.

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So maybe I'll just go find a racist bar, find someone with a different skin tone than I have, and talk trash about them until they beat me to death.

Being it on. I'll welcome it at this point. Nobody is helping put us out there in a positive light anyway. They all just want to party and pretend nothing is ever going to happen.

Trying to put your degeneracy in a positive light is like trying to present eating shit as healthy.

Aaaaand this thread disappears as fast as it appeared.

I wish anyone cared

Or you can just embrace the depravity, it makes the sex better

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Y'all helped bring it into the light. Think I don't remember the literal thousands of cuckold threads over the years? This forum is part of the reason so many damn people are interested in joining the lifestyle and opening their relationships. We were perfectly happy to exist in the shadows of society and never talk about what we do in our private homes and private clubs. We don't need to recruit and we don't need or want new people amongst us who haven't done all the research to at least do it right. It's only coming into the light because now "everyone wants to do it"

So we have to show ourselves as regular people before the general public sees nothing but partying slutty... Whatever that is NOT who we are

You are sick perverts, that's what you are. Idolaters and nothing else. I have to filter 90% of Yea Forums because of all the gay shit you're putting out. Disgusting.

I wish it was that simple

People are opening their relationships without due process. It took us years to get to the point where we were comfortable opening our relationships.

Now people expect to have a single conversation and boom, now they're swingers, or poly, or bdsm.

"hey, I want to fuck other people"

That's a 10 year marriage down the drain in two seconds because someone didn't want to take the time to go through the process with their spouse

How old are you?

Who the fuck cares what people think. Espically in your clubs and houses.

If you like it, fucking do it and stop by worrying about your perception. Fag.

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You're right. We ARE sick perverts. Do you really want us out there in the light of day??? Do you want to hear all the stuff we do to each other and the measures we have to take to stay safe? Or would you rather just pretend we don't exist? You probably know a few lifestylers right now. They're probably your neighbors. Or your brother. Or your parents. Do you really want to know that your mom is into being shared with other men, regardless of how safe they are when they do it?

I can understand that. Take ProJared, his marriage was in the shitter so they decided polyamory would be the solution. Trouble is it has to be that way from day one for it to work.

That's why I don't get into the BDSM/fetish community. Sure I may have the kink mindset but I have a ton of other shit to deal with before I can even think of going there.

Side note, check out the comic Sunstone. Its a great story that really humanizes the kink community

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Sounds like you need to stop worrying about other people. You want them to stop judging and fucking with you? Stay out of their buisness.

You think becuase it took you 10 years and some 'work' to get to that point? There is no one-size fits all advice for relationships. Especially not with sex.


You seem like he type of judgey cunt that sits in the corner telling everyone that will listen they are doing it wrong, and should be watching you. The M A S T E R. But you're content to sit and yell.

We have to care what people think when they start writing new laws to close down our clubs. We have to care when police raid a place that has always been safe and clean, just because there's sex happening inside. We have to care because when those police come, they come with helicopters and news vans and our faces get put out there for the world to see and when that happens, it's too late to try to paint us as "just regular people who like sex".

We're not at that point yet, but it's coming like a freight train and if we don't get our asses off the tracks, we're gonna be smeared across the news like disgusting criminals and violent Sex offenders.

We HAVE to make sure that people see that we're adults. We are consenting. We are NOT recruiting people who aren't interested and we're not involved in any elicit Sex trade or anything underage. Because that's how they will paint us.

I'll check that out

Side note. I love that you called me a fag. I have missed Yea Forums.

Thanks, faggot.

I wonder how many of you sick fucks I'll have to hang myself.

For the most part I think they're just happy to keep it in their kink community. They realize that sharing their perversions can cost them a lot (homes, friends, family, jobs etc.).

But if you really wanna see what these people are like JUST GOTO A MUNCH!!!!!

Sorry, I just have to sneak that one in

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I don't know. But wouldn't it be easier if you could just pretend it was damn close to zero? Instead of imagining that your next door neighbor probably has a sex dungeon and invites friends over to flog them on a weekly basis.

Thank you! We don't WANT to be out in the light

I like you OP. I may never have the balls to goto a munch myself, but it is good to know their are realists in the kink community. Keep it safe sane and consensual.

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Dude it’s fucking sex, get over yourself
If you wanna go bang a bunch of wahmin of other cucks and all is done in consent, who gives a rat ass?

It kinda becomes a big deal when he gets fired for being a bad representation of the company and the HOA kicks him out for violating one of their codes

I'm not a yank, we aren't over our heads in hedonism and degeneracy unlike you. Sodomites and idolaters get the rope.

Then how about being more slick or just don’t get yourself where shit might happen
Why do you have to start a thread just because you can’t watch your ass for shit you nigger? Go fuck someone’s wife

>cuckold

Cucks will be put in internment camps.

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Now this is good bait
Take note kids

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>growth of cuckold
Artificially inflated. Smart phones have caused the rise in amateur porn and is killing the professional porn scene. These guys are using bots to make it seem more popular for shareholders as they prepare to liquidate. The porn market is going to crash in 5-10 years and it'll take the cuck and interracial porn with it.

>going to crash and take the cuck and interracial porn with it

I seriously can't wait for this. People are ruining otherwise good relationships just trying to keep up with some dumb ass fake porn

>ruining otherwise good relationships
Doesn't happen. If you see someone on Yea Forums posting that it's most likely a lie. Companies post that stuff here to show shareholders. Other people thought it was a meme and now they do it for free. Always look up the most popular amateur videos if you want to know what's "in" at the moment.

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It's still creampies and bjs. Some rise in gf suff too I think.

Of course this was bait, its not like Yea Forums is one of the last places you can vent stuff without it being easily traced.

>giving this much of a shit about a fetish
You are a retard

now I'm just shit posting. Wish there was more porn of dominatrixes playing with couples

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