I waited over TWO years for her to break up with her boyfriend.
>thousands of hours talking about her on the phone
>100+ text messages a day
>sacrificed all of my other friendships to be with her
>fixed her car 3 times
>got her brother a job
>never forgot her birthday
She broke up with her boyfriend only a week ago. I just found out that she fucked a guy last night who she met only 4 days ago and that now she's "madly in love".
WHAT THE FUCK!!!
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You are one dumb nigger
you could have fucked so many bitches in that time.
Have you learned your lesson yet? Don't chase women, is never worth.
If it was as easy as fixing a girl's car to get laid nobody would browse Yea Forums
You are the definition of a beta cuck
Welcome to reality user. Take the red pill
I wish you were trolling but I know you aren't
its never worth that much effort, just fuck someone else and make sure she knows lmao
Look at him! Look at him and laugh!
He would have to get a girlfriend first in order to be cuck.
Read the OP again and try and say that again with confidence.
Simple solution. You're not going to want to hear it but it's the truth. She knew you liked her, she liked the attention and kept you around because of it. She was never interested in you.
You need to move on man. It's clear you were only by her side because you liked her. Literally don't even message her anymore and don't even see her. Fade out of her life and she'll know she fucked up.
A bitch did this to me for 8 months and I dropped out of her life immediately. Am now in a happy relationship with someone who cares about my time and she is depressed. Who do you think won?
pathetic
Holy fuck. You are fucking stupid.
You must be wicked ugly my dude.
LOL. Sorry user. Lesson learned. Bitches are hoes. Get out of the Friend Zone.
You’re ugly bro
y didnt u kill (pwn) him u dumb idi0t
r u retrd?
you're a moron
She’s prolly getting railed right now OP.
You must be ugly AF!
There is only one way to get out of the friendzone
I hope this is the first time this has happened to you. Make damn sure it's the last. Don't be a cuckboy. Now go out and find another girl and cut ties with this chick.
Listen to the advice here and profit.
While trying to win the girl always first try to improve yourself,cus if she leaves you will still have yourself to work on, trust me this works
tl;dr - You have to date a girl hotter than her. Not just one or two dates, but you have to date the hotter girl for months.
protip the friendzone does not exist and is just something made up to make faggots like you feel better about yourselves
the fact is you can't stand that a woman doesn't reciprocate your feelings and actually does want to just be friends. that or you just let yourselves get used like ops dumb ass
The friendzone is the exploitation of unrequited love. It's when a girl knows a boy beneath her league is attracted to her and she leads him on in order to get attention.
If you're in the "reliant friend" zone, you will NEVER be in the "fuckable" zone. Either make a move or move on.
>I just found out that she fucked a guy last night who she met only 4 days ago and that now she's "madly in love"
She's on the rebound
She is currently emotionally unstable
Stay away at all costs
no lol that's called using somebody on her part and being a fucking chump on his part
the friendzone is not a thing you guys are just desperate and socially retarded
Nope. You're wrong. The friendzone is the exploitation of unrequited love. It's when a girl knows a boy beneath her league is attracted to her and she leads him on in order to get attention.
What kind of asshole makes a move on a girl when he knows she has a boyfriend?
If I did that, she would break off contact with me and I'd never get the opportunity to demonstrate that I'm a better man than her boyfriend. Are you stupid or something?
well I guess you're the expert in this field champ
lol are you living in the real world
guys do this constantly
Fpbp
You're the dude she was hoping she could keep on backburner for 10-15 years.
You're the dude she was hoping would get rich while she stayed "friends".
You're the one she hoped was too beta to care about all the dick she got.
You're the one she hoped was stupid enough to fall for this game that's as old as our species.
Gz for waking up. Don't go back to sleep.
>I'd never get the opportunity
looks that way already.
>stay friends if you want but move on.
Yeah this is the right way to do it.
Also after you don't feel anything for her, text her about how happy and succesfull you are, and it's all because you kicked her out of your life, just so you could rub it in
>friendzoned
it defines what you just said with out having to go into full depth of explaining the situation.
fucking incel
why tf didn't you shoot your shot after she brokeup, did you expect her to hop on ur dick because u were nice to her? fucking soyboy
have fun never getting laid
If you didn’t feel anything, you wouldn’t feel the need to rub it in. That isn’t truly moving on.
Dude. You waited around showing her you have no value!
Oh... I'll do everything and wait for you cuz movies have a better chance of being true than THE FUCKING SCIENCE OF MATING AND DATING!, PLUS EVERY DROP OF ADVICE FROM ANY GUY OLDER THAN YOU WHO DOESNT APPEAR FULL OF SHIT.
you know what new guy has?
Worth. He acts cool like its no big thing. He's into her sure. But he's not being a FRIEND LIKE YOU, ACTING LIKE A SISTER OR COUSIN OR HER DAD
the telephone is for making plans and in few cases with girls that are into you noodz. Everything about your post is backwards.
>>Talk on the phone like a friend not a love interest
>>convey no value in yourself and a willingness to wait forever cause muh romantic comedy, muh Cosmo article... Muh young female friend re: romance!
You deserve this.
This will make you strong.
You clearly need to work on yourself cause you are textbook low self worth.
Even if you delude yourself that you have it you wear a sign that says... Well her MA'am. If you're not too busy I'd love to talk to you. Oh you're probably too good for me, maybe I'll just pay your bills from afar and treat you like my little sister till the money makes you consider loving me.
Cause rational choices, right.
You made her feel like you are always a plan b. More likely you've been friendzone since day 1.
God.
Don't blame women.
This one was all you.
You don't understand basic evolutionary psychology.
amen
He hath spoken
Heheh, dumbass.
But that's a way to make the other person sad, the same way they did to you.
no ones fault but your bro.
go rub one out.
You were getting played in her bitch drama and that bitch is a piece of shit.
Here's the solution to your problems and it's called don't have onitis.
If somebody else is fucking her you've already lost. There is absolutely no love there and no relationship if it is not even founded in respect.
He could have tapped her pussy if she gave a fuck he was tapping other people.
I did this once. Dude, your obsessed. Let her go no matter how much it hurts, move on and just get on with your life.
IF YOU STOPPED SPENDING SO MUCH TIME TRYING TO NOT BE SINGLE, YOU MIGHT ACTUALLY ENJOY IT.
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>What kind of asshole makes a move on a girl when he knows she has a boyfriend?
A confident one.
>If I did that, she would break off contact with me
Are you 12?
and I'd never get the opportunity to demonstrate that I'm a better man
You think hanging around for years as her chat pal demonstrates anything besides you're a chick with a dick?
>>Are you stupid or something?
No hate, but you can't be older than 23, 25 tops. And probably still a teen.
Dude, you demonstrated ZERO WORTH. i will treat you like a great friend on the phone and a bf minus any affection in person. Wut?
Why would she turn around and be in love with some new guy? I put in the time?!
Attraction isn't a rational choice, and its not a favor or based on pity. You don't deserve anything. A woman likes you or doesn't.
This guy has novelty, she sees your dumb and all the time. And you sold yourself as LACKING INTERNAL WORTH. you can't fake it so you better do well, dress well, and create a meaningful and attractive life, FOR YOURSELF.
ITS NOT. GOOD LIFE ONLY SI GIRL WILL LIKE ME. good girl or life sucks.... It's CREATE A GREAT LIFE AND PICK AND CHOOSE FROM TBE BEST YOU, YOURSELF.. NOT SOMEONE ELSE, CAN GET.
never ask to speak to a woman.
Never well shucks I hate to bother you. Never use the phone line a woman. You make plans over the phone. Never text her all the time. Never come on too strong. Never act like you're lucky to talk to her. Its normal... You do this all the time. We're all just people. Don't act better or worship her. Play it cool.
Finishing up my ramble......
I went thru the end of an 8 year relationship and addiction. I walk up and get numbers from girls I've never dreamed I'd get to even talk to.. Years ago.
I got 2 numbers in 7 minutes. Asked one about her pizza, said green(insert emo colour of your choice )hair is the best hair to the other.
I was cuddling her and looking in her eyes for 5 mins. About 7 mins after introduction. Drifted apart after one bad text. If I can't talk to her again soon.. Oh well. I did that. I had a super romantic moment with a super cute girl and u didn't spam tinder or some shit. I saw her and thought. Bingo. Her. And acted natural.
You can't fake natural ease. You get used to it. Reading evolutionary psychology was key for me.
But I mentioned most of what you need above. If reading the background of studies and knowing about body language and how women assess men will help you, learn it.
it's not her fault you're stupid enough to destroy your life over some girl who probably' doesn't even realize you want to date her. never prioritize a girl over everything else in your life, even if she is fucking you.
I waited over TWO years for them to fire an employee.
>thousands of hours doing research about them on the internet
>100+ emails a day
>quit my job in the hope they would hire me
>sent in pizza 3 times
>provided free tech support
>always a loyal customer
They fired an employee only a week ago. I just found out that they hired a new guy who applied only 4 days ago and that now he's "been offered a permanent position".
WHAT THE FUCK!!!
user just man up and tell her you can't handle being in a platonic relationship with her and quit being her emotional support. get /fit/ and start talking to more chicks, shit isn't that complicated
Dont EVER try to friendship your way into some pussy
Just find doferent girl retard
This one is special. There is no other girl more compatible with me than her.
lmao
You dont know me, nor what Ive experienced but I know the situation you're in. Luckily it was only months of waiting and once she went out with another dude I was finally done. Talk about fucking bullshit, it was literally THE NEXT FUCKING DAY. That was the last straw. Never again will I let that happen to me. Now that it has happened to you, take that pain and remember it for the rest of your life. Get smart, know the signs. Know the patterns. Should you find yourself in those circumstances again tell yourself - never again - then move on. Take what those past two years have taught you. Dont fall into that trap. Never again user, never again.
Why yall roasting OP, this shit can happen to anyone. Condolences fam
That last little bit. I'll remember that. Seems like a solid bit of advice.
only happens if you let it
Trips of wisdom. True dat man. You learn from it and move on. Dont let it happen again. Running in fucking circles never accomplishes anything
underrated post
I'm trying to learn before what happens to OP happens to me. I am in the red zone where they're literally telling me frequently they'll leave me and cheat on me. In fact thats how I was woken up this morning from a barrage of slaps asking why I downloaded kik last night (I told him that it was to reconnect with an old friend since I'm a loner) but he didn't believe me, ruined my whole day. Didn't get out of bed once except now. Sorry for the tangent but really I don't wanna lose the only thing keeping me from killing myself
Que pendejo
Learn to be happy by yourself before being happy with others. I heard that said somewhere and I thought it was a nice piece of advice. Fuck them. Learn to live for your own sake.
100% this. women are ultra-opportunistic scumbags. you should never compete for a woman. ever.
Does the guy have a big dick you think? Stretching her out real good like the tight little slut she is?
>thousands of hours talking about her on the phone
>100+ text messages a day
>sacrificed all of my other friendships to be with her
>fixed her car 3 times
>got her brother a job
>never forgot her birthday
kek
>YOU FUCKED UP BETA FAG
never do that ever
Chadest move is to just stop talking to her and move away. Telling her how successful you are only shows how desesperated you are for attention and her approve
This. Don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
>ITT: how to bait newfags
not really, I was in the reliant friend zone for a while (didn't really cared after a while tho) and I moved into the "We have sex when we are drunk and pretend nothing happened zone" I don't know how it happened but it happened.
The truth is, OP. That you would've fucked up a relationship with her. that's how women are. Just learn from it and try to move one from your oneitis on her. I was in a similar situation and at a point I just started to not give a fuck. Made some new friends started to focus more on myself and what I wanted to do, ignored her once in a while, and here I am, railing her nearly on a weekly basis while her boyfriend is sound asleep in his apartment. Not that I'm that proud of cucking him but hey, silver lining
Awww little lost puppy syndrome. You hate to see it but it so cute!
You have to do it, why do you think girls gain a new fuckbuddy when they are fresh out of a relationship. It's how the world woks.
If it hasn’t happened now , it’s not going to happen.
Stop being a soft brained hormonal emotional retard. You’re giving “men” a bad name with this retarded shit.
Leave this poor girl alone, she obviously only views you as a friend, and if you want to remain friends with her, then you’ll have to accept that she’s not into you.
Get the fuck over it, loser.
She doesn’t owe you anything. She can fuck whomever she likes, it’s none of your business.
>THEY AIM TOO HIGH
you are the living embodiment of the "nice guy" meme
I hope you wil survive this the most people end up miserable and alone
helllooooo idiot
Hey, man, you probably didn't know this, but I browse /g/ too. Please stop fucking my girlfriend. I know she's better than this, and is in actuality the most compatible person for me. I can forgive her if she stops now. Thanks. You can fuck my sister in return, she likes you...
***I browse Yea Forums too.
Don't listen to everyone OP, she probably never even thought of you in a romantic capacity to even attempt to manipulate you intentionally or string you along. You were never more than just a giving friend and she never entertained the idea of anything more.
/THREAD!!!!
Women aren't worth your time, dude. Forget about that girl and go do what really makes you happy. Play some video games, maybe go camping or hiking, spend more time with your friends that aren't women, get drunk/high, pick up a new hobby, or revisit an old one, whatever. Everyone has something that they really, truly enjoy, even if you haven't found it yet. Go chase after that instead of chasing girls
What does it feel like to be a Beta in 2019? I really want to know, because I was a Beta back in 2002 before I grew some balls and found a girlfriend who eventually became my wife.
Genuinely not trying to insult you, but I'm really curious as to what has led you to wait 2 years for such a dead end considering all your other opportunities in this social media connected world of 2019.
Aaaand this is why you don't circle for a girl that's taken.
If she wanted to be with you, she would've broken up with him to do so. Next time, just find someone who's not already getting dick, you fucking pussy.
Call the specialist, his oneitis is becoming more dangerous by the minute!
I imagine it must suck to give everyone around you cancer.
Is really everybody on here such a newfag?
This must be the oldest copypasta ever.
thats proof why you cant be friends with a girl you wanna kiss/fuck
only after youve alrealy kissed/fucked
cool story user would like to hear again
Or maybe she thought you where this great friend but then you ghost her as soon as it becomes apparent you can’t fuck her? You would like a shallow jerk so I think she dodged a bullet there.
All these retard Incel fuckboys saying to “move on” are emotionally stunted hormonal retards who cannot behave like adults.
She’s a friend, she’s still your friend, from her perspective she has done nothing wrong, or even anything that should put you in a bad mood...so you flouncing out of the friendship like a hormonal emotionally unstable cupcake is a tragedy for you both.
Remain friends, learn to cope with your own emotions, and how to be friends with a female...it is a skill you will appreciate in years to come.
>cant be friends with a girl
If you are an immature, emotionally led, hormonal little bitch incapable of behaving like an adult, then sure — YOu can’t be friends with a girl.
Some of my best friends are girls I initially wanted to bang.
Quit blaming the women, YOU are the problem here
(You)
Yeah but no one asked you to do all that tho lmao
No (you)
Different user retard
>cuckboy
good ae for wite bois