is it strange that I want to see this girl get blacked?
I've been trying to fight this side of me (I think brought on by porn addiction) for so long now but I'm getting tired of it. It's tiring to fight what is always a losing battle. I've never really made it far in nofap, I don't know guys. All I know is it turns me on and at this point I'm just tired.
bump
nother bump, pls help thi shits really kinda ruining my life the cognitive dissonance is at an all time high
Try semen retention instead of nofap, its a little different. You can still masturbate, but you just dont cum. And you can stop blueballs with basically what are kegel exercises, redistributes the blood or the “energy” that you feel if you wanna call it that. Works really well for me, and if you practice you can get full body orgasms without losing your semen and feeling low after your nut. Look up sexual kung fu on youtube and theres other channels with different ways of explaining semen retention and how it works. Good luck friend!
why don't you just start a habit for a while of jerking off without porn?
just try to go a whole month with no porn, not even no fap, yes fap but no porn, every time you get horny, just close your eyes and use your imagination and jerk it as much as you want, you can even think of porn or what ever you want, just don't watch any
after about a month it will be a new habit for you (general psychological consensus is that it takes around 28 days of repetitious behavior to form a new habit)
after doing it for a few months your likes/dislikes will change as well as your focus, typically you'll shift from porn fetishism towards fantasy involving real women you know since your memory of certain porn starts to fade
the reason I suggest this is it helps create a healthier sex life and idea towards sex for yourself and prevents porn induced ED where you re-wire your brain to function on porn rather then actual sex, desiring actual women is normal and healthy, desiring porn over women is not natural or healthy and shows that you are developing a dependency that could be a problem for you later down the line
masturbation is healthy however sex addiction and porn addiction are not, if it is causing problems in your life and impeding actual functionality within your life you need to be able to self identify this as a problem and try to address a solution in order to better your life
good luck
maybe I'll try that. Middle ground between nofap and porn use, then maybe ease into nofap down the line. Idk, these urges are just strong. I always give in and I Sware to God, I really beleive this, my IQ has decreased in the past year or so as my porn addiction has worsened I'm not even joking i'm slower with words than I used to be and not as good at critical thinking.
it's strange that you want to see a nigger having sex, yes.
It's not strange at all. Every white boy that isn't an incel wants to see JJ get fucked by BBC.
that's the thing, I've had sex before....yet I still...like this stuff. It's really sad honestly and I don't know how to get out.
You secretly crave black cock
jerking off doesn't do that, it also doesn't lower testosterone
this has been studied in depth, the only thing chronic masturbation really does to any noticeable degree is demotivate people because every time you masturbate you are releasing endorphins and dopamine and your cortisol levels drop, this tells your body everything is ok and creates a false sense of calm, this is a short term solution that creates a long term problem with your masturbation is repetitive and chronic
that cortisol however serves a purpose in your body to wind you up into getting things done, when you don't do this or that, or need to do something but it isn't done you'll start to feel stress or uneasy, that's your bodys way of telling you not to just slack off, jerking off lifts that stress to a degree and gives you a sense of not needing to do anything as if it's already done
hence why there is an old expression of someone is just ''jerking off'' means they aren't getting anything done or they're wasting their time
on the plus side though chronic masturbation is linked to lower rates of prostate cancer, you also will not lower your IQ by chronically masturbating, same thing with testosterone levels, there is no link between testosterone production and masturbation
eh, maybe. but sadly its deeper than that i think.
but just how wrong or unnatural is it for me to want to see this girl get fucked by a big black guy
>fantasy is some nigger fucking her
vs
>fantasy is you fucking her
bad news, OP
prognosis, doc?
>inb4 faggot, u can do better. give real thought into answer please. i wanna figure this out
Except your brain still gets the dopamine surge from the orgasm which prevents the brain from reverting back to its non-addiction state via neuroplasticity.
It also doesn't prevent the increase in estrogen levels that accompany it and accumulates delta phos - B which prevents testoerone production.
There ain't no easy way out.
I've done 90 days only once, but I foolishly got cocky and reverted back to my old habits.
how did u feel after those 90 days? could you feel your brain had changed, was your sexuality more healthy and your worldview better because of that? That's what I want.
stop coming on b/ stop watching porn but dont go nofap
y not go nofap?
Nofap makes you a slave to ugly bitches. It also fucks up your hormones.
Absolutely, I've never been happier in my life during that period.
My confidence was at an all time high and I was in the middle of starting a business.
I woke up with a ton of energy and I was easily able to brush aside negative things that would of otherwise put me down during my fap addiction.
No fap really is the answer you're looking for.
But just remember that 90 days is only a formality number.
The real amount of time it takes varies on your addiction.
But you will most definitely start seeing results within the first 30 days.
Best of luck bro, if you wanna change your life for the better than that's the way to go.
thats a bad counter argument to nofap imo
>t. Roastie jew
in my case, as you can tell, it's gotten pretty fucking bad. I'm hoping that Nofap can reduce some of the fog in my vision, right now in the midst of this porn addiction it's hard to tell up from down and my worldview gets cuaght up and effected by porn, I just want things to seem normal again lol.
Is there like an AA for porn addcits? I'd go to it. I'm in a decently large city.
>jimmie BBC rustles
solid point, call me a jewish female, you destroyed me with facts and logic
you said it doesnt work for you
big part of this is the shame you feel for having this fetish, and it makes the actual shame and humiliation a trigger for arousal
stop beating yourself up for jerking off if you do give in, and just try to divert yourself for a few minutes when you do have the urge, find something else that arouses you
Yes you should KYS, the Rarity of an actual normal girl doesn't need a poacher like you to destroy the last of them
They like weak men.
mmmmmmmm OP here I want to suck that.. I mean.. I want to see her suck that
Join reddits No fap community, there's tons of people on there who are on the same boat.
I really do wish there was a AA for fapping, masturbation is by far the most destructive addiction that has plaqued men.
It's the reason why we have all of this bullshit exotic porn and why perversion as far as the eye can see.
The brain gets tired of getting stimulated by "nornal" porn and gets stimulated by things that you wouldn't even think of (cuckholding, BBC, animals, gay porn, etc, etc..)
Delete all the porn you have and focus on improving yourself.
But first join the reddit community so you know what's in store.
The first few days are complete hell.
I got cold sweats and massive amounts of anxiety. Couldn't even sleep as well.
Hope that helps Yea Forumsro
ur actually not OP faggot, I am. imagine larping as OP in this type of a thread lol
this girl is hot. Any nudes?
Yea Forums user telling someone to use Reddit
Sage
lol umad faggot
Samefag
Cool. More of the hot girl?
Jordyn Jones, its all on her ig
>still hasn't realized that Yea Forums has been reddit tier cancer since 2011
>still sages
>wants me to google shit myself with one hand
Nice try jew
moar?
This shit is destroying when i get ultra horny i theorize about bringing blacks to overtake whites with IQ and be superior to whites on every level
Also black women that have good faces look like literal goddesses because of the skin and bodies
which looks tastier?
That's messed up. You brainwashed man? LOL. Yes, go have a half black, half white child. Fuckin' degenerate. You literally get off and cum to the idea of replacing the white race, just what the jews want you to do you goy.
Neither. Both ugly, look like they stink bad.
porn is a cancer
Yeah at the moment Im fucked only ever in social situations I go redpill mode but i need to change this shit by quitting porn as long as Im not in schizo mode reversing my whole worldview this is how hell feels like I guess