How often do married guys masturbate?

what do I do if I don't get spontanious boners

did I ruin my brain fapping on adderall and pot?

Sex a couple times a week. I jack it about 10-12 times a week

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Some married couples have sex like 2-3 times a month

Been married 12 years. Get laid once a month or so, jerk it once a day usually.

I’m 41 with a wife & 3 kids. Only get laid 2-3 times a month

I jerk off 1-2 times a week. I would a lot more but the family is always around....

jerk off every day sometimes more than once. sex 2-3 times a week.

I only have sex about 2-3 times a month. Hardly have the time.

I have sex about once or twice a month, and jerk off about 3-4 times a week.
Used to have sex way more often but cancer's a bitch. Then once we got out of the routine we never got back into it.

I've been married for 10 years now, sex didn't slow down until recently, and it comes and goes depending on her mood and hormones which is fucked. We will have sex for like 2 weeks once a day, then non for two weeks. I'm not into pitty fucking and feel like I dont matter half the month. Its fucking with my head. But I get the look when I am not home which leads me to believe it's not me. But maybe it is? Either way i am faithful so it doesn't matter. I just hate the inconsistency. I wouldn't mind jerking it, but I am always afraid it will be the night she decides to break the chain.

Been married 15 yrs sex 7 times a week beat it 3-4 times a week

Married for 7 years. I think we had sex once this year so far. I'm honestly not sure, but you get the point. Rarely to never. We had sex more often our first couple years together.

3-5 times a day

dude, I'm 21 and my fiancé only fucks once a month. Consider yourself lucky.

fuck other chicks then

pretty sure this is common... and the reason people cheat, boys or girls

We used to fuck almost every day. Good times.

Getting old sucks

my wife of 25 years barely gives it up and only when i ask. that's why i have arrangements with 20 year olds.

the problem is that even if wives don't want to have sex, it should make them happy to give me sex. but, most are really selfish and don't think that way.

here's an example, wife's friend gets lingerie as a funny gift for her 40th. she says, "i'm throwing it away so her husband doesn't get ideas about having sex". the wives thought it was funny.

i was pissed and told my wife that all those wives (all stay at home in $1M homes) should be sucking our dicks every night for what we've given them.

Anyway, i beat off 1/2 times per week. Fuck hot 20yos once every 1-2 weeks, and fuck my wife 1-2/month.

That’s terrible

I’m married also. I regret it......

Been with my girlfriend for 4 years we live together and I jerk of several times a day between 4 and 5, we have sex about once every couple of months... Talk about it plenty but never anything more... Rekt I guess

This is fucking blowing my mind. Seriously. I'm about to lose my shit.

Married my best friend. Fantastic girl, never fight, great relationship, balanced personality, virgin when we started going out. Sex was frequent and a 10/10 every day, basically. She is a squirter, so that made it even sweeter for me.

Then marriage came along.

For fucks sake, I still love her, and I never considered cheating on her, but having sex 3-4 times a month is killing me. We have no kids and been married for just 3 years.

Fuck man. Don't know what to do. I don't live in Murica, so it's easy to go after paid sex or even to get a girl on the side, but I don't want to do that.

I feel like I'm going to my limit. I've talked to her, she says it's the hormone in the birth control pills. I don't know if it's the complete truth though... She will switch the pills after this cycle to see if this will affect her mood a little better.

tbh, if it ever comes to that I'm going to have a talk about fucking other girls, and if it's an issue, might aswell break it up, that shit is sad. Our time here is limited, shouldn't be like that

Best I had it was in my mid 20s. Had my own place & my gf lived with her parents. Gf would stay with me on weekends & we would fuck like crazy (only time we’d see each other)

During the week I’d work, get home & drink & jack off non stop.

Those were the days

switch to an IUD. or an ultimatim ("fuck me daily or i leave")

Marriage ruins everything.

If she was just my gf & only fucking me 1-2 times a month it would be over

Now married, kids, mortgage, etc.... too much to lose...

I think of all the shit my wife does more often than fucking me & it makes me furious

Less than once per month. Have actual sex at least twice a day, every day. Marriage is good.

That or you got older.

If its exccesive masturbation or drug masturbation you just need reset time. Nofap is for real.

Twice a day and usually sex 1-3 times per week

Slowly getting there too bro.
I feel locked.
I have a larger obligation to my kid than my libido but god it's really annoying to have that
fiery passion die.
Don't know if my sex life will ever recuperate after this (recently got first child, pregnancy was basically 9 month dry spell. Had sex maybe 10 times in 9 months.)

i fuck my wife a minimum 4 times a week. cum balls deep in her every time. theres still some days i beat my dick 3 times in one day. sometimes not at all.

If you ejacualte every time you gotta be 15 yers old. I can hardly remember having that much desire.

It's not easy I mean I'm 27, she's 25 we both have decent jobs etc work out together and there is attraction there just she is totally unable to move past just dirty talk over text, frankly it's ruined all self confidence I have and any desire to make that first move, Ive also come to the realisation that this is what she wants in a relationship and that if I break up with her no matter which way I do it, I'd be leaving her because we don't have sex

She's seen more than one case of children being born out of iuds. We still don't want kids, so it's that or wearing a condom, which is even worse.

I didn't give her an ultimatum, but we did have a serious talk. Thsts when she went to the doctor and got her pill replaced, just recently. Time will tell what will happen.

What pisses me off is that she's 23. Fuck man... Twenty fucking three. She should have the libido of a rabbit.

talk to her instead of a peruvian rope-making board?

if you're not happy, isn't that legit reason?
if you don't want to sound/be like a douchebag, then talk to her first, if she doesn't care, why should you?

The confusing part is that everything else is going perfectly. There's no reason not to have sex. It just doesn't happen. I love her to my bone, she's a great part of my life, but I'm actually considering going after paid sex (no headaches later) so I can sustain my needs

Holy fuck, are you me? Wife is awesome and always goes to please (BJs whenever I ask), but actual sex is down to 2-3 a week since we're in our 30s now. I usually split 50/50 blowj to jerkin myself since the latter is easier and quicker.

Might as well enjoy it as much as I can until I breed her properly and offspring appear.

We have spoken several times, it results in a planned sex then nothing until the next conversation... I know you're right on the unhappy side of things but making that move is very hard

You fucked up and chose poorly. Any woman who doesn't satisfy her man's sexual needs is not marriage material.

Maybe once or twice per week, my libido is nearly dead.

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I smiled on the "Peruvian board" though. Thanks

No, you don't get my point. A single serious talk won't do shit, it has no impact on your life. Just ask her if you can do anything for her. There is obviously a reason for why things have gotten stale. Find out if any of you have any fantasies that you share, have a real date instead of sitting in your sweats watching netflix. Living with someone takes the romance part out real fast, you have to work to keep it in.

Ill start off saying im literally 9 years older than my wife, she gives me pretty much any type of sex i want(blowjobs, vaginal, anal, armpit, whatever), ALMOST any time i want, we have been married for 2 years.

that said, i have a super high sex drive, i still beat my dick at least every other day.

>married for 2 years
>fuck a few time during the week, 3+ on a weekend
>jack it maybe once a week
>recently trying to get pregnant
>11 creampies last week

I don't see this slowing down. I have a lactation/preg fetish and she finds it hot. Most people turn into lazy and complacent fools after time and take her for granted. Act like your still dating, keep it fresh and alive. She isn't a wall decoration that will suck your dick on command, some yes are but most no. Keep her interested.

This also happens to me.

28, married.

I'm almost exactly the same as you OP

I've already done the part of asking if she had any fantasies and if there was anything she liked to do. Answer was no, and she herself says she doesnt know why she has no more sex drive.

Right when we got married, she got sick and spent the next two years having severe migraines every other day. Of course, that is a great reason not to have sex, and I totally understand it. But for the past year, she's been "cured" (reduced the frequency to once every two months). So things should have bounced back up, but they didn't. I tried. Bought some new toys to use in bed, tried to start things off... But feels like it's always a protocol... Part of a bureaucracy.

Reminder this ass did shitted porn. No not the blacked shitted meme. Actually shitting shitted porn.

Wtf bro

I need those pantiles

I know it's hard but you have to think long term. you never know the day after tomorrow.

If your wife doesn't suck your cock you deserve to have young hot 20 yo bitches sucking your cock. You earned it so enjoy it.

listen, people, are lazy, for a lot of women, sex is a chore, it just is, most women don't get off on penetration alone.

Yeah then you can play with your offspring when they get start having boobs

most people who have time consuming jobs are like that. That's pretty average.

Jesus fucking christ user. If my wife don't fuck me at least 4 to 5 times a week I'm fucking someone else. You guys must be neckbeards.

have sex incel

You jerk off more and more as your wife gets fatter and fatter and more of an intolerable bitch. Eventually you pretty much stop jerking it when life with a fat, lazy cow who used to be a hot little nymph gets too depressing.

Dude too many commas I cant even read that.

listen people are lazy for a lot of women sex is a chore it just is most women don't get off on penetration alone

better?

You should never fap more than once. Week or you beco.r a vile disgusting slave. You domesticate yourself and loose passion. Stol bring addicted to porn.

Sounds like a them problem

This. I damn near stopped tugging and fucking

Again sounds like a them problem

Yeah you let that happen you dumb fuck. The second you put anything, not work shit, dumb little stupid shit, before your sex life is the start of a snowball of no sex. I bet at the start you wanted sex but couldn't either initiate or were afraid for some reason. And that started a viscous cycle of putting it off, making excuses, whatever. Then once you hit that point, emotionally distant or fat, it's set in stone and sex will become a rarity.

Eat her out, stay in shape, work on that dick and she'll want it. Unless your legit micropeen.

she's fucking bbc on side bro

well, either you stop caring and keep going or you actually do something and change it.

>meme
it's an old one

i have sex once or twice a day. i still masturbate daily. i probably have issues.

Bust a nut every day, either wifey or handy

Damn any advice?