Is it wrong for men to cry?

Ur father sounds like a reard, weakling and a wife beater

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>reard
retard

He's actually a Vietnam Vet and pretty much a bad ass. Takes great care of his family and grandkids and makes more money in a year than you will see in a lifetime. So yeah, there's that

>Never show weakness in front of others.

>> implying a weak mind that worries too much about what others will think

masking fear with anger is a pretty typical reaction for men but usually not so 'explosive'

Did i scare you somehow user?

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fits with war experience

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And he made you a violent thug with anger management problems. Doesn't sound like that great of a guy.

I think he picked up some of that from the military. I also think it's part of his personality, being the dominant alpha type. It's odd, because I'm more passive and hate confrontation, until I get scared or angry.

yes, duh

Lol, I'm a nice guy.

Yes, please stop

it's wrong to cry like pic related

If you're not a blubbering beta then there's nothing wrong with crying if the situation is severe enough to excuse it.

You sound young. How the world perceives you is very important to your career and interpersonal relationships.

>I've hurt a lot of people
>I'm a nice guy

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>I've hurt a lot of people
>Lol, I'm a nice guy.
Pick one.

SUGGEST YOU TRY 'COOL UNDER FIRE' in life/death situations = better chance of survival

Really? Seems like all that shit started when boys were told it was ok to cry and show their emotions like girls.

No school mass shootings before the late 90's.

yes

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FPBP

Crying is absolutely okay. Don't be afraid of showing who you truly are on the inside.

These fascist CIS scum are assigning gender roles.

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Depends entirely on the reason.

Yeah, like 9/11 or the death of a 1st degree relative. Nothing else.

People are complex user. If he understands that he has a problem and feels guilt then he’s clearly not all bad.

Crying from sadness? Yes. Crying tears of joy after being anally pounded? No, perfectly normal.

and here comes the false-flagging

I guess it really depends on the context.

The obvious answer is no, there's nothing wrong with it. But I, as a man, do not cry in front of others. I just don't. This is not an influence of society either, for the retarded cunts who think it is.

61 yo

The weak ego pretends to be something it is not. People don't like me for who I am then fuck'em. Automatons worried about career and corporate posturing don't get far in life BUT THEN I am only going to open up with real friends.

This. There’s not really anyone on this planet that I could cry in front of and not feel some kind of shame or embarrassment. I’m just not comfortable feeling vulnerable like that.

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Ready correspondence from any war and it turns out that everyone cries. The tone differs, though. In WWI correspondence and memoirs weeping is completely normal and no-one paid it any mind. Vietnam, its being downplayed and somehow shameful. I don't know what caused the cultural shift, but crying didn't use to be as frowned upon as it is today.

if u cry infront of a nigga ur breakfast tho

Wow user, you said something non retarded, well done

Fag.

You are not understanding what the other user is saying...

Go back to bed grandpa

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Only cry because of the fucking sun burning my eyes fuck Daytime

Athletes cry a lot nowadays

You got it backwards because you're mixing up different types of crying. WWI units were still based on region. When you go over the top and you're the only conscripted male under 25 from your entire town left alive, when every single childhood friend is lying dead in a muddy field, it was acceptable to shed a manly tear or two. Now its 6 weeks of tears because the thot you've been crushing on, but never spoke to, is dating someone else.

if you're so insecure about your masculinity that you're to afraid cry in front of people you're probably gay or in denial about it

That's a weird strawman you created. Crying in WWI was just as often related to something else as it was to going over the top and its aftermath. And I don't think anyone would think your imaginary example's type of crying to be normal in any age.

only if you're not drunk.

If you are, go for it. Call up all your exes at 3am and leave incomprehensible sobbing voicemails for them to wake up to. They'll come crawling back in no time.

hasn't worked for me yet but i'm wearing them down.

I haven't cried in forever. I don't try to "not cry", I just don't and have no compunction to do so for whatever reason.

I'm more likely to shed a tear for an excellent music piece than from sadness.

maybe if you learned to not repress your emotions it wouldn't all come out while your drunk. you would probably feel a lot better dealing with your emotions in a healthier way.

dealing with your emotions is for fags, or so i've been told.

Yeah pussy faggot

knuckle dragging idiot

no. everyone saying yes is just an insecure autist

they're the fags. they're just insecure about there masculinity so they project that onto you. deal with your emotions however you want to. just don't let those insecure pieces of shit tell you how to be mentally healthy.

idiot

Men are allowed to cry for 2 reasons.

1. You get a really bad kick in the balls

2. Your dog dies.

That's it.

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Thank you for your sensible input.

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It's fine to cry, and it helps process whatever chemicals need it, just don't be a little bitch. The difference is a man will take care of the problem that makes them cry, while a faggot will pout until someone else does it for them. Crying doesn't solve anything, but it will clear your head so you can make effective decisions.

Generally this too, because it's just asking others to make you feel better. That's fine with certain people/person in their life, but needing to vent to many people is just weak.

Bingo.
Taught millennials to be faggots who grew up into school shooters.
That whole generation needs to be sterilized and purged.

Kinda iffy on the first one.

Nope

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Created? I was just adding to the one you were building. Prior to the 60's the culturally appropriate response to a guy crying in any situation other than death in the immediate family or best friend was to "man-up" Depression, unfortunate circumstance and injury were no excuse.

Manly tears actually mean something, unlike woman tears since they cry all the time and it means fuck all.

Manly tears are reserved only for the most soul crushing moments, like when your dog that you spent your entire childhood with and always loved you with his whole heart no matter what dies.

Or when Terminator says "I know now why you cry" and you try your best to hold them back but not even the Gods can stop those tears from pouring out.

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