What the hell is up with seeing hot dudes with frumpy ass looking girlfriends recently? The gym is about the only real place I go that's "social". I have been seeing absolute hunks (I'm a straight guy but I can objectively tell if a dude is a 5 or a 9) come there with their girlfriend who are honestly 5's on a good day. Overweight, not even in a good way, faces that range from plain to unattractive when the guy they are kissing could probably by a model for Bearded Hunks Monthly.
My only guess is that swipe apps have screwed the dating landscape so badly in the favor of women that there's no way for men to realistically expect to have a shot at a girl that's about his equal and if they want anyone, they have to actually shoot lower than what they would normally deserve.
Probably the use of apps for dating to begin with. I'm a bartender and volunteer fireman, so that shit is useless to me. I get to see females without snap chat filters and air brushing frequently. Yeah, the fat and gross ones still hit on me, but it's easy to blow them off. I think in general men's standards have lowered across the board. I see fit dudes with fat chicks all the time. Maybe it's a self esteem thing. Or a security thing. If your girlfriend looks like the Staypuff Marshmallow Man, she's not likely to cheat on you. If she does, you're not really any worse off bouncing her to the curb.
Austin Kelly
I call this phenomenon 'dickbrain'. Men who date down screw the rest of us because they're desperate.
Evan Young
Like the one dude specifically has this GF who I can only assume he is with because she has a fat ass. Problem is , it's literally fat. It's large not because she is fit and has a squatter's ass, it's fat because she's fat. You can see the cellulite dimples through her tights. Her fucking legs bow inwards and her calves have almost no shape and are almost just straight squares. Like dude, you can do fucking loads better and get a chick with a fat ass who actually works out as hard as you do.
Nathaniel Nelson
The apps may have some part, but I think a lot of it may have to do with perceived perception, hard to get is replaced with I"m wasting my time; a no is accepted without rebutle, people aren't knowledgeable or willing to try and overcome odds.
The end result is taking the easier path, finding someone "frumpy" to fill the void.
Also, there's infidelity and the sense of security that comes from dating a "frump"
Just a thought, but have you thought of approaching him? Or someone of similar stature who is single? It may just be that the guy you want views you as the unavailable one.
Isaiah Gray
lol dude I am a straight guy, i stated that in the OP
Brayden Edwards
Also, I recall a Springer episode where there was this gym guy who serial dated overweight women, helped them lose weight and become healthy, and then lost interest their newfound beauty / health and dumped them for another cow project.
I could be dating a 3-4/10 chick who makes $75k a year but the lack of sexual attraction just overcomes the money. I get people don't want to be alone but God damn
Cooper Morris
I mean you gotta be 10 yrs old or autistic to not recognize if a guy is attractive without being gay.
Ethan Morris
That's literally what op is complaining about. This is unsustainable, almost all women are totally without value now. Lazy, unskilled, fat, mental children walking around with at or over 50% of the vote with NO incentive to improve ANYTHING cause some loser will still fuck a worthless whale.
Aiden Torres
>Claims to be straight >Rates dudes on their looks >Is concerned by who these men are fucking
Yeah, you sound like a fucking faggot to me bud
Nolan Miller
sure, but then again, if "hot" guys being with sub par women is something that bothers you then I would have to make the presumption that your fixation is on the male. you're wondering why he isn't doing better, and here you are looking for a solution for your hot user male. now, this doesn't necessarily make you a fag, but every once in awhile it's OK to just call the kettle black.
Levi Parker
>NO incentive to improve
This covers most of the worlds problems.
Brody Clark
Again, if you can't recognize traits on a male that make them attractive and can give them a general 1-10 rating, you're in denial about your own faggotry or you're a child or autistic, take your pick, bud.
Isaac Hughes
That isn't a desirable state of affairs. We need the free market to straighten out the economic and dating worlds. Unfortunately, many men are as hopeless at regulating their emotions as women are these days due to a lack of challenge.
Xavier Morgan
It bothers me in the sense of I don't give a shit what or who he personally decides to fuck, I give a shit in the sense of the bigger picture of what this means for even average dudes who deserve average but current dating climate demands they are only able to attain low level frump.
Jaxon White
This is the way it's always been, as far as I can tell. Men need sex more than women do, so women can be more patient in their search and more demanding. In at least 2/3 relationships, the man is more attractive--at the very least, he's more fit.
Anthony Lewis
or..... or..... just say.... maybe your obsession with men has lead you to Yea Forums where you are hoping all the other fags will justify your fag like behavior, but instead you got caught red handed checking out dudes butts and now getting called out for it instead.
David Green
I heard OP was a raging gay faggot but I never believed it until this thread
Leo Sullivan
Noted, it is a shit system, but up until now man has yet to come up with a "system" that keeps us all "happy and encouraged", as any attempts are quickly chocked out by regulations, laws, other red tape b.s. designed to keep people in their place rather then promote.
Kayden Martin
No, I don't rate men because I don't find them attractive, unlike you. Dude, it's okay, it's 2019. Nobody cares if you're gay anymore except christfags. Just come out of the closet. It'll make life for you much easier.
Mason Young
itt, OP's never seen a dependapotomus happens to all sorts some get fat after getting together, some people just like partners with cushion for pushin some look good because they're terrified of the judgement of others due to low self esteem, and this lets fatass narcacists tell them they're worthless men and women do this shit, though women are likely to do it for safety/money as well
Nolan Smith
Basically this. I see this at the gym too. Those guys are mostly dudes who are plowing easy pussy for a while.
I'm good looking in the face but I'm skinny AF, crohns disease... I go from like 120 @ 5'10" to 150 up and down constantly because of flares. But I have a 9/10 asian gf and it sucks trying to keep the guys off her. Every fucking place we go she's gotta bat them off with a stick. Some guys don't like that and just wanna plow easy puss.
Zachary Ross
Actually we did. It's called the free market. The problem is that we gave women massively more social status with ZERO work or accomplishments to warrant it. Incentivising laziness and entitlement begets more.
Aiden Harris
I mean, if you weren't gay, I think this would beneficial, like, you and the guy you like are both 7's and a 7 girl comes around, he's not going to try because he thinks he can only get a 4, so she would be open to you, but your too preoccupied checking out your dude friend.
Robert Fisher
yo. mind if I plow your hot asian qt 3.14?
Ethan Moore
this guy isn't winning no matter what system is in place
Jackson Smith
good point, they do blow up sometimes, especially long term.
Alexander Adams
They are probably wives/mothers to their children.
Once you get married, looks are far less important than love and support
Jonathan Richardson
You sound like a victim, cuck
Ethan Hall
Imagine the grease runoff when they cremate this land whale.
Jackson Gutierrez
"look how edge I am guise pay attention to me PLEASE"
Caleb Russell
No. There is no "Free Market"
You are "Free" to be taxed You are "Free" to be told when you can and cannot sell You are "Free" to abide by numerous alter motivated gov agencies, FDA, OSHA, ect... You are "Free" user, to obey the rules laid out in front of you, which I can assure are not in your favor.
Ryder Watson
This sounds like as if you were mistaken in thinking getting healthy and losing weight would make everyone fall for you. Unfortunately, user you also need a personality. I mean yeah weight is unhealthy can be unattractive, but so can Tobacco use, drinking, types of sexual behavior. I mean there is not one perfect person out there.
TL;DR
Stop worrying about other people because you can’t comprehend happiness
Tyler Torres
I agree, the free market is gone and has been gone for a matter of century/ies. This is also partially the result of the female vote. Statistically, women do not vote based on improved quality of life, they vote based on what appeals to their emotion at that moment.
Samuel Watson
Mom told me to tell you that your ramen’s ready and come eat at the table. And she said to tell you, when you start to cry and argue, that yes, she knows it’s an online only game. But you have to get yourself to a save point THIS INSTANT or she’ll throw your ramen away and then you’re grounded. Hey, don’t yell at me - I’m just telling you what she said.
Jaxson Wright
>Ur a victim >no reasons, argumentation, points or information >cool story bro >please notice me
Eli Bailey
How is being a non-faggot make me edgy?
Levi Cox
I've seen the statistics, but keep in mind those numbers came from a time when women were highly influenced by there husbands. This of course leading up to the explosion of feminism we see today. So what do we do? What does the perfect Utopian Society look like? How is everyone getting along? It seems far fetched from minds as warped as ours.
Xavier Brown
Once you reach a certain level of confidence, you stop caring about how "hot" your partner is and are more concerned with things like values and personality traits.
Jose Williams
No need to chimp out faggot
Go eat a banana and calm down
Jeremiah Rodriguez
GUYS I GOT DUBS
Adrian Long
Now you’ve done it josh. Mom says you’re grounded for 2 weeks and she’s hidden the Switch and changed your Fortnite password.
Don’t blame me, I tried to warn you
Jordan Jackson
Savage
Bentley Jackson
I would argue that while a utopian society is probably totally unrealistic in our lifetimes, we can definitely start to improve the situation. Things like abolishing mandatory taxation, abolishing all Social Services, and abolishing all market regulation would definitely help to resolve the institutional imbalance.
Jeremiah Baker
>please pay attention to me my mum says I'm cool
Easton Edwards
Confidence and Asexuality are not the same thing
William Foster
samefag
Cooper Nelson
Yes, I know.
Adrian Bell
Triggered
Please. Stay mad
Jonathan Peterson
Afraid not Josh
Brayden White
Now it’s 3weeks
Matthew Young
Usually money issues. The 6-7 range from the 80's and 90's is now 4-5 due to mass sugar consumption. 8's find each other. 9's and 10's find their way into city centres and end up with rich dudes you never see. Handsome dude in an ordinary gym is usually at best a lawyer, more than likely in trades, and just doesn't have the options he once did. Schopenhauer didn't mince words about most women being gross. Part of growing up is realising what you must endure if you want a legacy.
Honestly, the system is broke at the core, and the powers are be heads are spinning far faster then ours. What was once a simple thing is now a formless composition of band aids. There's fixing the maze because there are too many rats who refuse to leave, it is the only thing they know.
We need a clean slate.
Lucas Fisher
Absolutely. Read Hoppe and join your local anarcho capitalist movement.
idk. I have crazy physique and my wife is 7 years older and a big titty milf with ass for days and a kid in college. she also loves me more than anyone else on this planet.
I'm more interested in growing old with someone i love while gravity does it's damage with someone I actually love and get along with vs fucking more remedial plastic whores with shit personalities and a lousy tatse in music just because they look good naked.
I was a coke dealer and a musician. i slayed a lot of pussy and none of my past relationships inspired anything more than anger and misery. i was dating plastic bitches with terrible personalities and i hated myself.
those hot thots don't last. enjoy them but they aren't worth much else but a cum dumpster. gravity will make anything sag if you live long enough.
find someone who actually loves you for who you are. it's fucking amazing.
Robert Cox
>find someone who actually loves you for who you are. it's fucking amazing
fucking incel
Mason Parker
Totally gay.
Like the most homosexual think posted on /b, trap threads included
Luke Gray
OP there are men who are into chubby chicks. Heck some are even into real fatties. I am a fit man who likes women who are slightly above chubby. And I hope we are not going to the same gym. If I ever catch you checking out my body or giving me the faggot stare, I'll beat the shit out of your faggot ass.
Matthew Diaz
I just like fat chicks, dude. Fat chicks with cute faces and big tits.
Dominic Butler
>be OP >be in Gym >”those hot dudes are so yummy, and those bitches are ugly. Why can’t the hot dudes be with me?!”
Life’s really unfair, huh
Andrew Collins
I'm an average looking guy and I wouldn't settle for anything less than a pretty, skinny girl
Gabriel Gray
Pretty girls have guys chase them constantly and are just like, whatever, when a guy is into them.
Fat girls aren't. They have personalities and if you are into them they magnify it back to you like 1000percent.
