Serious discussion: Is the only reason you're ever nice to a girl because you want to fuck her?
Whenever a guy is being "nice", he's trying to get in with her.
Women are either A) too stupid to realise this or B) are in on it and are playing along.
What do you think? Of course, there is the rule and the exception but it seems pretty concrete
This one fucks with me because really I have done this countless times. I feel that it's both in my opinion. Some girls really are oblivious to it but the thing is, is that not every girl I've been nice to I've wanted to fuck. It's a hard situation to read but idk. I feel as if, yes, just wanna fuck
This only applies to women men find attractive. I've been friends with plenty of women who weren't my type without ever having sexual thoughts about them.
But if you think a girl is hot you literally cannot be just friends with her without secretly hoping she'll fuck you.
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Yep. A and B.
My bias tells me always B but I may be wrong.
If I'm nice to anybody, it's either because I have to be (family, customer, etc.), or because I think they're hot.
That goes for men and women.
Yes of course. In the instance you work with them all the time and are not attracted, you'd definitely want to be friendly and nothing more.
I'm wondering the majority split though
Very good point there. I find there is also a fine line that men walk. Its so easy for us to get sexually aroused and turned on. You'd be lying if you said you didn't fantasize about having sex with the majority of your female friends. This I think makes it hard to have strictly platonic relationships as guys. As I've gotten older I've just come to accept that I will be turned on by my female friends at some point, but that doesn't out weight the benefits of having them as friends.
A quick and basic example: Go on Facebook, and to any girls photo. 9/10 of those guys want to give her a dicking. And then ask them about this, and I bet you they'd say "nar we just friends"
I used to believe this but have changed over the years. I straight up don't want female friends any more, either we're fucking, we're gonna fuck, or fuck off.
I'd rather have less friends and less issues, but hey that's just how I need my life to be
So would you lay it on the table or just let her be friends with you without doing anything and getting frustrated?
Maybe it's just because I get along better with girls and have better friendships with them, but everyone is different! A lot of it stemmed from the fact that the majority of them were already in relationships so I knew that it would never really happen.
I get where you're coming from but I can't deal with that because it really frustrates me. I'd rather not be friends or be distant. Do you ever want to give them a good dicking, regardless of other factors?
How old are you? Obviously theres some times were I fantasize about just fucking the shit out of them, but they are just fantasies. Obviously they're are some friends that you will naturally have better chemistry with and maybe flirt a little, but flirting is harmless
Maybe I'm the exception because I have an older sister and a single mom. I have more, and make easier, friends with women than men. About half of the women I'm friends with I find attractive. I'm very nice to basically all of them. And honestly, the ones I'm the "least nice" to are more attractive than girlfriend.
Sidenote:
That's a real nice butthole.
yep pretty much if you find a woman attractive you're gonna be nice to her. women know, and if they say that's not the case, they're just playing along because they love the attention
B/fags say the darnedest things. No, being nice doesn't always mean you want sex. Nice should be your default, it's just common decency. It's useful to befriend females too, it good for experience on talking with women, you learn the dos and don'ts in talking to them so that you know how to talk to the ones you actually want to fuck.
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Being nice is a waste of time.
Be kind. Sure. But don't waste your energy being nice. Girls aren't attracted to nice - they'll walk all over it. Nice makes for great friends who will do your bidding.
found the woman
Found the dumbass teenager.
Nah cunt, is it your view that all men are sexually frustrated niggers?
I'm nice to women and men because I'm lonely and want friends
Nope, i just return however you act towards me.
Would I fuck my female friends if presented with the opportunity? Yeah I would but I wouldn't actively pursue it.
I'm generally nice to everyone I meet
Why should being nice be your default? So you can have friends who aren't worth shit? I'll show respect to someone worth a damn, being nice all the time = being a doormat
this
Or be indifferent to everyone
Being closed off and abrasive is a damn fine way to die alone
No see thats where you are wrong.
I would rather have 2-4 friends who are respectable and are worth a damn than 100 faggot retards who shouldn't even get a second thought. I'm closed off to shit tier people and have a higher standard than you it seems
Are you someone who needs approval and acceptance from others?
I'm nice to women in general whether they're attractive or not. Mostly because the positive reinforcement of being compatible with women is mentally reassuring. I interact with attractive women on a daily basis without any desire or intention of having them. I'm married and believe monogamy provides a much more postitive mental health for me personally.
no.. I am nice to most women if they bring me joy.
Joy however will eventually bring me sex down the road somewhere.
The thing is girls are not really attracted to nice.
they are attracted to real.
Also.. the thing when you get good at getting sex. You would want the connection.
Yea Forums creepers will never understand this until because the are scared.
Face your fears. Go tell a girl that she she is hot as fuck and that you want to jerk off with her panties or whatever.
Your fear will set you free.
When you own your fear.
You will become congruent.
Now girls will want to fuck you unless you act like a jackass.
Girls are not hard when you just want to fuck em.
I wish you guys where brave enough to see the truth.
Then agein.. more for me and none for you
I can resonate with this
Do you have a manbun?
I find it hard to talk to women, because I think they think I'm trying to fuck. I've been told on numerous occasions that I seem like a player. I find this unfair, because I'm not a douche and I think these bitches are too quick to snap judge.
You are friends with more girls? Bruh, I got some news for you, you might want to sit down for this...
Yeah but you're ugly, so that will never happen.
I'm pretty average, about a 6/10. My biggest flaw is being a manlet, I'm 5'8"
>Thinking ugliness is the major reason
Manlet, if you act like you've got a pair and have a lot of self respect, women will pile on top of you.
Unfortunately, its something you will never understand until you've actually got it
Bruh I ain't gay!! It was one time!!
"But our balls didn't touch!"
>Polite to all women or at least try to be with no agenda.
>But only ever nice to women because I'm try to fuck? Yes
I didnt even know she had a dick!!