>me and mr. bitch have been together almost 4 years >bitch is away in her home-town for 2 months after exams >before going decides to insta-text some faggot she had a thing for before knowing me >says she won't bother me while away because things are difficult between us and she doesn't want to upset me >I get pissed off at this shit as she is usually nagging my ass but when she goes hometown she ghosts me unless I say something >days go by we still fight over the phone >one day she wants to break up with me because a friend I lost contact who is going through a rough time invites me to go drinking and catching up >she doesn't believe, thinks I'm with other woman, throws a fit >next day talk with said friend who just broke up - he suggests I think about she being the woman I want for my life >tell that I do want our relationship to survive and grow, I'm saving money so one day we can both own a house and have kids - I want to start thinking about our future in a 5-10 year span >she doesn't understand but she is happy >one or two days after calls me to ask for the 1299$ I own her for breaking up her Sony Vaio and if I do so she will get out of my life >wtf? >don't say nothing for days >she sends me nearly 300 WhatApps messages apologizing and that I misunderstood and show me her insta-conversations >that's when I find the insta-text >what's worse was that she also asked his number and asked his day off so they could meet >she actually shows this shit to me and probably doesn't even realize the can of worms she opens up >because I know she was infuriated with this faggot - this faggot was also an associate of her ex-boyfriend who had his faggot friends jump me when I was in her hometown >I tell her we'll talk when she gets back (face-to-face) and I'm keeping conversation to a minimal >she just keeps telling me she loves and she doesn't want to lose me
Dude this sounds like a bunch of volatile shit. I don't even know what half of it's really about.
If half your interactions with a person get this emotionally charged then you need to probably call it quits. You need to be level headed and find a woman who is as well.
Take this time in between relationships to better yourself as well as figuring out the type of woman you want to be with.
>You did better than me, I have no fucking idea what OP is trying to say.
Just post all the nudes, that's why we're all here.
Cooper Perry
Why do I need to convince you not to? You already seem like you want to.
Jason Fisher
this then this Think to your self user, will this really get any better if the problems you see are eliminated? Do you really want this type of story to tell to your children? Are there not better people to spend your time and effort with?
Asher White
He's right you know. Just fuckin post that shit
Christian Scott
Sorry, the whole thing is very complicated and I tried my best to condense it. I'm not a native english-speaker either, hence the somewhat confusing and retarded grammar.
There's also a lot of details in-between and A LOT of backstory that put us in this situation but I feel it's unnecessary as this is the first time I actually lost my confidence in her. Despite her wacky shit she always tried her best to show me how much she loved and she did a pretty good job at that.
I'm trying to switch my emotions off and writing this actually helps me to see a clear picture - I'm good advising other people but bad at following because my judgement is not the same.
Thanks fren, you've given me some food for thought for whatever I come across in the future.
I'm pretty sure you can image search it to find the set. It's old and fairly popular.
But to continue on with the thread, OP doesn't end up with a shit relationship like this because the woman is volatile. He likely has some blame as well.
Use the time off to figure out what went wrong and learn how to be a better in relationships. Also learn how to avoid shrieking bitches.
Seriously bro, we don't give a flying fuck about the backstory. I got my dick in my hand, let's see the pics
Jose Ward
one on the left, no questions
James Nelson
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Right before breaking up with her, you need to sit down and talk to her and figure out why everything is a fight. There's no guarantee that you'll have all the answers. It's critical that you find out as much as you can so you can avoid it with the next relationship. You need to know whether it's you, her, or a combination that is the problem.
Advice: if there's yelling then communication has broken down and nothing will be gained from the conversation. Be as calm as you can and try to listen more than speaking.
seems like she doesnt respect you, you are the casualty of your relationship. Shes playing with you, and is only with you because of the stability and in love with the idea of being in love. She likes you but doesnt love you deep.. This will drag on until one of you get the balls to stop the torture of you, since shes the one in control of the relationship she isnt hurt until you leave her.
Christopher Martinez
>Do bitches have no self-awareness? No they don't, they swing from one emotional state to the other without any logic tying them together.
Ethan Turner
Normally I wouldn't even notice, but wtf is wrong with its feet?
Jaxson Martinez
this girl was posted yearssss ago. these pics have all on here on before. reverse search them.
Jose Barnes
Super cereal advice: this shit doesn't just magically get better because you keep going.
The fact you mention exams, and the fact you're bickering about each other having friends makes me think you're doing kid shit. This is childish stuff all over. Thinking about marriage and children while not even trusting each other to text old friends is fucking retarded and you should drop her, grow up, and get a girlfriend you actually trust.
Justin Parker
not everyone is a foot fag
Julian Mitchell
I'm not into feet at all, it's just that's the biggest big toe I've ever seen.
Cameron Garcia
That was the issue before. I was trying to eliminate the problems she claimed (and thought) were dragging our relationship into the ground. I wanted to see her happy like she used to be for the 2 years after we met. We always had our fights but the good things overcame the bad. It was when we started to live together that the problems REALLY started. Mostly because of the issues with my mother (some which she was right but the way of dealing was not).
That being said, I don't even know if I care enough for that now. I don't trust her because she showed me the instagram messages of a guy I KNOW she used by in love with (whatever that means to her). She was engaging in conversation - not him.
I know I got some blame on that shit. I broke up with her before because I felt that I was guilty of leaving her in a crazy wacky emotional state (that nearly got her to suicide twice) and figured that if I got out of her life she would recover and finish university.
I tried that many times and we just ended up yelling at each other. Even after talking and resolving temporary the issue it goes back to square zero a few days after and despite my warning to her that this issue should have been buried she still wants to speak about it because it's bothering her and she sometimes has nightmares with it. It's very cyclical and tiresome.
Also fuck my english. I messed up by choice of words in the first post. She wasn't infuriated but infatuated with the faggot she was texting.
I don't know how to deal with that kind of shit.
I don't mind her old-friends - I do mind that she is talking with some guy she used to "love" (or was passionate about or whatever is that she once told she had for him).
I may be old, but none of this sounds too bad. She's a bit emotional and you both can't make up your mind to go or stay or if you trust each other. Pay her off her money and try trusting each other, see what happens. You can always leave.
Anthony Lee
If she's suicidal after you break up, then it's not your fault as long as you don't make it the most earth-shattering thing in the world. She clearly has a lot of problems under the surface beyond you.
You'll have to try your hardest to not yell even when she does. For some people yelling is all they know when it comes to arguing. That's how they were raised and it'll take a lot of effort to change them.
The previous 2 things lead me to believe you have a psychotic woman on your hands. She cannot be reasoned with regardless of what you do. Whatever problems she has, she isn't able to conquer them or get your help (not your fault). People need to be able to overcome their problems without their spouse. They won't overcome their problems and just expect the spouse to carry them. It's unfair.
Break up with her. Whatever happens to her happens. Be polite, fair, and respectful. Wish her the best in her life and cut communication. It's better for her in the long run as she won't feel like she can always come running back to you.
Even if I put aside my own M.O. regarding women and relationships, you're still left with the fact that you're already half-way out the door. If you need anons to convince you to stay with her, you've already dragged out the relationship as far as you can and then some more. Without going in deeper with my explanation because I can already smell the sweaty neckbeards heavily breathing to jump in and call me an incel, just gonna leave you with this: >"she was never yours, it was just your turn" End it.
>I don't mind her old-friends - I do mind that she is talking with some guy she used to "love" (or was passionate about or whatever is that she once told she had for him)
Yeah...why? I mean, it's one of two options. Either you should trust her and can't, or she shouldn't be trusted. Neither options makes for a great relationship. And this is the type of thing that should be solved by an adult conversation.
I had an ex who'd been in a previous relationship and her ex-bf was incredibly close with her family still. Like her Dad made a bit of money on the side doing simple work on people's cars (small town) and he helped him with that. They'd had an amicable break up and were still friends when I met her. It was a bit awkward being the new boyfriend at first, but it never bothered me that they were still friends. It would have bothered me if she hadn't told me all about it, I guess, but then she didn't hide shit like that because we were in a mature relationship. We broke up mostly because distance and neither of us wanted to leave our lives, and partly because she turned out to be a bitch in other ways, but basically if I hadn't trusted her and she hadn't trusted me then I'd have ended it a hell of a lot sooner.
Don't get caught in the trap of "Oh we've been together for 4 years and I want to make it work". Make it work with someone else that you don't have all this childish shit going on with.
Benjamin Wood
Agreed on the last part. Bullshit double standard. No gf would be cool with a guy staying in contact with an ex-gf. All ex's are ex's for a reason and should not be involved in anyone's lives. Shit is retarded and borderline cuckery
Jackson Barnes
She is horrible. Get away from her. You’re out of your fucking mind if you marry her.
She’s not the one. Get away while you still can.
It’s irrelevant that you may not be great in relationships yet. The fact is, she’s a nightmare.
Get away!
Zachary Thompson
Her nudes were dumped years ago. Just do an image search.
Connor Miller
She’s an idiot. Honestly, you’re probably an idiot too. Y’all are meant for each other.
Liam Barnes
Huge feet with weird, boney toes. Absolutely do not want.
Jacob Evans
correct. They're like fucking kids. They try to push as far as they can. All you have to do is be firm and stand behind your words. If you say you'll take a break for a week. Take a week off and cut ties completely. If you say you're going to do X, do X. Don't go back on your word. Once you do that, bitch knows she has no room to play her shitty games, if she flirts with the other guy and you get to know that, and you've warned her that you don't like that; Then it's an easy clear cut, you tell her you're dissapointed at her and you move on. Clear cut, strong moves. Don't waver at fucking pussy, there's so much pussy out there, she clearly doesn't want to stay and build that house with you. Move on, be firm!
>before going decides to insta-text some faggot she had a thing for before knowing me >says she won't bother me while away because things are difficult between us and she doesn't want to upset me
You guys are done.
Just move on.
Christian Young
I wanted to have kids with her. I know she is a very difficult person - she has no friends in her hometown and no friends in university - but I really loved this girl like she was my sunshine. I know that despite being anti-social she is sweet and tender and a pretty loving soul and she deeply cares for me - probably like she never did for anyone else. It's just that crossed that line - trust - because I know that even if didn't cheat on me or went to see that guy she thought the idea up. I guess I'd rather end this before it gets too ugly because I do care for her and hope for the best in her life.
Next one won’t be better.. just different.. Like the versions of office; not better, merely different
Xavier Johnson
She’s got nasty man feet, drop this hoe like white rice
Jace Walker
Mate, people get stuck on this idea of "I love them" and "I know they're a good person". Nobody's disputing that deep down she's probably a good person. But all I'm reading is that the two of you yell at each other, argue about petty shit, don't seem to agree on where the relationship is going, and can't trust each other.
Just because deep down she's a nice girl doesn't mean this is a good relationship. Aside from some really generic stuff, and aside from the fact you've been together a long time, what do you actually love about her? What does she actually give you in this relationship that no one else could? And if you can't immediately think of some really good answers to those questions, that should tell you all you need to know.
Landon Campbell
Who has the decent book collection, you or her?
Honestly it mainly depends on how good she is at sucking dick. Take it from an oldfag, this is the most important skill a gril has. Not many are talented at it, and a talented blow job artist is worth keeping around.
David Murphy
OP stop inviting this miserable drama from miserable cunts into your life. Not all girls are like this, I promise. Rip off the bandaid and dump her and work on enjoying your own life and improving your life so you're in a better position when someone better comes along to really capitalize on it.
Liam Gray
Hold on OP, I’m suddenly unsure about dropping this hoe like white rice. Maybe she could have some work done on her feet?
>she's likely fucking "just a friend" >fucking a dude who was associates with her ex >who jumped you >she automatically assumes you're fucking around >even though she planned to see some dude behind your back Bitches and hoes will turn tricks for blow, but marriage is eternal. Just think about that. You really want to wait until she's cucked you into oblivion before getting rid of her?
Eli Lopez
Yea, all that tanning gave her a busted face. I’ll use them anyway cause that ass is right
Eli Phillips
God said not to fap so I got addicted to opiates instead
James Fisher
moar of this set pls
Parker Evans
Damn based on looks I would wife it
Hudson Ramirez
>Do bitches have no self-awareness? Absolutely none.
Nathaniel Russell
Look at those tracks on her feet, fucking junkie whore
Nolan Morgan
Bullshit. Where?
Ryan Thompson
Not, typically shooters go between the toes...
Gabriel Flores
she is so hot, except for her absolutely busted feet
Jack Baker
Do not stay with cheaters, they will keep cheating, and if I read right that she had people kick your ass in her home town then fuck her, people you trust should not be out to hurt you.
