>be me
>22 years old, peak time of my life
>get married young at 18
>have the best wife a man could ask for
>both agree to not have kids and if it happens then get an abortion
>everything is going wonderful
>wake up one morning to the news that she’s pregnant
>doesn’t want an abortion, decides to keep the baby
What the fuck do I do anons? It was all going so well and this shit happens. I want to be 13 again
Kek, that's the oldest trick in the book.
Happened to me at 17. Long story made short, you will have a crazy baby momma.
Make sure you have your own secret bank account, kiddo.
Or just have a kid and be normal.
yeah
Just have the kid. Anything you want to do in the prime of your life, you have eight months. Do it now. You won't have time later. If you convince her to abort, your relationship will crumble. You'll be free, but that will be on your mind whenever you're sober forever afterwards.
wow you make having a kid sound fucking horrible
You raise that kid, like a fucking man.
where? he made aborting sound horrible
This. you'll find yourself loving the kid the moment you see em and notice you did that
The whole point of marriage is to have kids, so aborting it or getting a divorce for having a baby with your own wife is beyond retarded. Be a man, raise the child, get ready for more.
Isn't it? Fuck that unnecessary financial drain, and noise for that matter.
You should support your wife and your child in any situations...
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You have been visited by the Laura of mediocre threads.
This thread is about to die with only 11 replies. OP, hopefully you got what you desired out of it and that it wasn't a total loss.
Going to support her and raise the kid, I’m sure I’ll fall in love with it but I don’t want to. Just wanna be free again now that’s it all real but that’s long gone. First ultrasound tomorrow so wish me luck
Tbh. I think this will change fast. You will eventually learn that your life isn't over at all. It may just start. Sure you must Compromise. But this won't be that hard. Just do something with your child you like. If you need to read something for him, read something you like. Build him the way you want him. I bet you will have a lot of fun. If you got enough money find a good and trustworthy babysitter so you and your wife can spend time alone, be romantic again. And don't wait month after the birth to start. If you are once trapped in a boring life it's hart to change it again. I think if you and your wife recognize that you are still the same, free and unique persons you will grow stronger, have enough sex and free time. Dont be afraid. If you are you will defenetly feel the way you are afraid of. Be happy.
yes you are the first 22yo who ist afraid of being a father. Stop the press...
Will she be the primary caregiver / stay home with the child?
Mentha pulegium tea.
You were retarded to not slip her a morning after pill in her food or drink. You're further retarded for not asserting your desires in a relationship. Enjoy the shit covered kid, enjoy being broke and tired for the next 18 years, and enjoy being tied to this bitch who A) isn't going to lose the weight after the birth and B) won't take care of her body in any other ways or contribute anything to your relationship anymore. It will all be about the kid. All her (meaning your) interests, pursuits, everything will be about the kid.
>Or just have a kid and be cucked.
ftfy
Thank me later user
Oh look, a future animal torturer. I'm sure his cucked father who didn't want him in the first place gradually told himself enough times that he was a "blessing," though.
>The whole point of marriage is to have kids
Yeah, nevermind love, romance, spending the rest of your life with someone who compliments/completes you, growing your interests and pursuits together.
White trash detected.
Too late. OP has already swallowed the "muh purpose in LAIF" propaganda.
Yeah i can see, damn shame really
Well if OP wants to be a faggot, then he can't complain later when his wife leaves him and hes getting cucked by child support
Nah. I'm a dog trainer and animal lover.
>Fucking hate children and the lack of structure they have today.
I love being a narcissistic, self centered individual however. Hence me saying "fuck that financial drain/noise"
>Pic related
I'm pretty sure hes was talking about the gif.
50/50% Covering my bases either way.
One kid is fine any more is to much it's nice to have one kid to rase. Any more than that and your fucked everyone I konw that was a the olny kid. Had a good up bring with the things thay needed to grow and love ware other families with more than one kid ended up with a life of poverty and one of the kids ware hafe retarded and it was all ways the second kid to no matter what. Don't have more than one kid
I have been in a very similar situation. My gf was going through an infertility period due to a surgery, so I came inside her every single time. The doctor was wrong, it was a wrong diagnosis. She was pregnant.
She didn't want to have an abortion, I freaked out and abandoned her. 5 months later, I contacted her again and she told me she aborted because she just couldn't afford the baby on her own. Her life is literally destroyed now. And I feel like shit.
I really don't know what to say user, just don't hurt her
Ever think maybe you are the abortion? Grow the fuck up and have the damn kid.
If you guys both mutually agree not to want kids then why would you even risk her getting pregnant? Why not you get a vasectomy or her get her tubes tied .. wtf OP
You be a man about it jackass. Stop being a whiny little faggot
I mean it kind of is.
There are plenty of substances that can force an abortion. If she's going to be a cunt about it she has it coming. This is absolutely effortless if it's normal for you to cook once in a while. Do it before your life is ruined.
>>both agree to not have kids and if it happens then get an abortion
This thread is everything that is wrong with the west.
Meanwhile Mohammed is overseas making babies by the dozen and you're being a little bitch at 22 about 1 child that isnt even bored yet because you wont beavle to have fun anymore.
Grow the fuck up you little manchild. Be a man and raise a family, hopefully a few boys and raise them to be better men than their fruitcake pantywaist father is
anything worth doing is hard, there is no sugar coating it. Having a kid can suck there is no denying that but there also aren't that many things on this planet that are as worth doing as being a parent. I know your scared and angry but honestly OP this isn't that bad a situation. By the time your kid is 18 you'll be 40 and you'll have plenty of time to do all of the cool wine aunt stuff you thought would be better than being a father
If you're both white keep it if not kill her and yourself
This guy gets it
[spoiler]good dog[/spoiler]
Abortion is fucking degenerate. If you don't want kids, don't have sex or make sure you have protected sex.
No I doubt that
She's a fox, you dork!
Your first mistake user is that you got married.
The benefits of getting married if u are not having children. Marriage is only there to have children so neither party can run away. Now u are fucked.
If you have a job that can support the kid, then keep it and don't be like any nigger dad. Do everything so your son is a chad so you can be proud at him and so he will leave at 18-20 to live his own life.. you will be 42 by then and you will have plenty of time to have a chill life.
Or you shouldn't be a fucking retard and should have used condom.