What the fuck is wrong with my gf?

You don't understand shit at women bro.

As you get older, priorities change, how old are you two?

I wanted Kids myself, got 2 today, hard work but unconditional love and forever trust is worth it.

My gf did not want to get married, now 12 years into this thing and with 2 Kids, she does want to marry. Will I? Despite initial promises othervise, maybe, in time when its right for me.

A good relationship is not about travelling, Kids or having fun. It comes down to sex and compromises. If neither of you are good at those 2 things, find a new gf.

Kids are hard work, you Will love your own, it might take 2-3 years before you do, dont scare easily :)

Hugs from dad/b/ro

Yeah people change you know. Now she wants kids, that's how it is. If you don't you'll to accept to loose her. That's one of the reason I ended my last relationship. Good luck bro.

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I am 24 now but from my teenage years I just don't like kids, I can't stand them being little retards, changing their diapers etc.
When we started to date she even told how happy she is that she finally found someone like me.

I am 28, she is 26. Our relationship is about doing stuff together, cycling, running, cooking, travelling....not about being at home taking care of a baby.

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>>forever trust
No, don't fall for that

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She matured. She wants more than selfish hedonism and wants to be part of the chain of life and not a dead end. In asia she probably saw kids and grandparents and realized that a family requires more than two people. If you really, truly don't want kids end it so she still has time to find someone else. If you stay together and she sincerely wants a kid your future is bitter resentment and divorce.

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kill her and fuck her death body.

>. In asia she probably saw kids and grandparents and realized that a family requires more than two people

on the flight to bangkok we were tired as fuck but we couldn't sleep because two seats behind us a baby was throwing a tantrum for 2 hours at least. I hope this wasn't the moment

Leave her, you Will not be happy with Kids then, seen too many couples break up in the first 1-2 years with baby, its hard. No sleep, no you, no selfish, always baby first. No sex, no travelling,.

I said No, which is compared to before baby. There is some, but little the first years.

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Its over bro, 2 weeks ago my relationship of 7 years ended. She always told me its ok that i dont want kids, that she accepts that and loves me no matter what. And what now? She wants a baby, told me she thought i will change, what a pity and a fuckin waste of time, women lie, dont trust them ever

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Babies are uncontrolable when it comes to tantrums, dont blame the parents. The little fucked is just shortcircuited in the head over how hard life is.

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>I am 24
>I am 28
Assuming you mean 24 when you started dating and are now 28
Time to bail out user if you have no interest in kids

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Not liars. Why do you require that nothing can change over time? Are you that retarded? You do not know a single thing about women and their biological clock?

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wanted to write 28, I am so fucking depressed and nervous that I am writing shit

Also what the fuck is up with this spammer mods do your fucking job

Dump her and you’ll have hookers and blow for the rest of your time..

but I don't want hookers, I want her
jesus

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Not the same guy but
>she accepts that and loves me no matter what
>told me she thought i will change
How is that not a lie

She WANTED kids but told him otherwise, hoping that he would change his mind. That's lying. Fuck off whiteknight.

Or she changed her mind, then hoped that he would do the same, because she doesn't want to lose him, you socially retarded incel.

To be honest bro, you'll probably want kids someday. Just wait. Someone close to you will have a kid, and it'll trigger something in you. Happens to everyone eventually. I saw so many babies born in my family, never wanted kids, and then one day my friend had one, and now I'd love to be a dad someday.

Either way, tell her that you don't want kids now. If she's willing to take a chance that you'll change your mind one day, then great. If not, then she needs to move on and find a family oriented guy now.

Thats false, most people do, but there are ppl who want to go childless the whole life and you just spreading the idea thats not possible when it is

>muh inability to further myself and enjoy life without breedin'
>REEEEEEEEEE INCEL

>It's completely natural to want children.
Found the pedo.

shes going to get pregnant whether you like it or not and shes going to collect child support from you for 18 years you will never see your child either

I said probably, dingus. Never heard of hyperbole?

>being this much of a cuck

Life progression moron. She wants to breed like most adult people and animals

[spoiler]She cheated on you and got knocked up[/spoiler]

Before I leave this thread, one last thing OP:
If you stay with her (or even if you don't, depending upon the timeframe), when she inevitably winds up pregnant, demand a DNA test for that shit. Even if you have to spend money on legal fees.

oh that would be fucking epic

OP, test this.

Maybe she is scared that soon having a child will no longer be an option, for her body will stop being suitable for it, so maybe she changed her mind fearing that if she doesnt have a child she will regret it later. Maybe that. Either way, break up with her because if she already made her mind of having a child nothing is gonna stop her and she will break with you eventually, when she someone like her

user ones that bitch turns 30 it’s extremely hard to have kids

Get married have have kids as soon and possible

Maybe she fucked Tyrone or some chink and she is now trying to trick you into being father when you actualy try to breed her.

Pathetic incel, with your understanding of women no doubt I fuck more girls than you do.

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Yep, that’s why I’m married with 2 kids and still get laid regularly. I call her out on her bullshit and have a relatively obedient stay at home PTA wife who cooks, cleans, sucks me off, sends me nudes, and doesn’t ask for much because I’m the breadwinner. I’m still smart enough to surprise her with special things like vacations and jewelry when applicable.
A couple years back her sex drive fell off because she became lazy and I warned her that if she wasn’t going to give me what I want I’d find it somewhere else. She didn’t, and I did. She found out and apologized after a big fight. She now understands the importance of her duties.

Is this an insult or are you agreeing with me?

I'm just respecting your quads. Nothing more, nothing less.

>no doubt I fuck more girls than you do
Pic related, no doubt.

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Thanks
I feel like that isn’t that hard of a conception grasp but again people are fucking retarded and can’t manage to see what’s best for them

fem user here.
hormones can do shit to you. I've thought about it but logic says both of us are autistic and it might come out retarded, so I can put the urge of breeding behind me.

Get her to consider adoption. You can adopt an older child without dealing with the stupid shit that babies and toddlers do. Make a difference for someone without a family. Adopting from foster care in the US costs little to nothing.

It’s different for women man. Motherly instinct and all that good shit. Even the ones who think they don’t want kids want kids on some subconscious level.

so delighted that sane people exist here on this thread, giving good information

If you really love her you need to sit down and talk with her. Are you in the postion to have kids? What I find weird is the first thing she would bug you about is marriage not kids. There is something up with this, maybe she is pregnant what sort of birth control do you use?

Being this new

Possibly the worst decision ever

OP if your happy with you girlfriend put a ring on it and have 3 kids no more no less your life will undoubtedly be much happier

And if you feel the need just divorce that bitch after you send all your kids to college

she wants kids because she loves you and want to give you a child because its natural and in our genes

She grew older and her body is telling her it’s what she needs to be doing. I’m 38, wife 37 so having kids just isn’t in the cards for us. I would want one if we could. 10 years ago I’d punch myself for even thinking that. People change.

Boomer

Are you aware that this is a woman?
I mean how retarded and unworldly can you be?

And you travel too? I bet you're the type of guy telling others to go out and see the world, allthewhile you don't even know how your gf works.
I'm baffled.

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Have you ever adopted a kid?

Deep down you know she's fucking your neighbor(s).

That’s what I’m trying to tell OP

The biggest regret you’ve probably ever had was not having kids and I don’t want OP to go through the same thing

Nope

this is a stupid thing to end a relationship over.

Had the same thing happen to me, OP. Met my ex when I was 25 attending community college to get a secondary degree in marketing, she was an 18 y.o. freshman. She told me she didn't want to have kids & life was pretty damn good for a long stretch.We traveled a lot, went to concerts, ski trips, hit the clubs - had plenty of time & money to enjoy ourselves. Then 3 years in when she hit 21, she started talking aobut wanting to get married, have kids, etc. hen I kept insisting I didn't want to be a Dad, wasn't ready to settle down, she suddenly came out of no where claiming her birth control pills were making her sick, so she stopped using them. Then we switched to condoms & the magically started busting or leaking cause she was the one who kept them & insisted on putting them on my dick. Got tired of it, moved out of our month to month apartment when she went to visit her Mom for a weekend & left enough money in our joint bills account to cover 2 months ahead on all our utilities, changed my phone number & accepted a job across state.

She found me on Facebook a few months ago after not having spoken to her for over a year & went off, calling me everything under the sun, then sent me a video IM saying she loved me & wanted to work things out. Blocked her & closed my Facebook. Thankfully she never met my family & we only have like 1 remaining mutual friend whos stayed neutral & refuses to tell her my current phone, where i live.

TL;DR - your girlfriend will go batshit insane on you shortly. make contingency plans now!

>Get married have have kids as soon and possible
>people are fucking retarded and can’t manage to see what’s best for them
Oh the lulz

Oh and OP while your at it stop masturbating and quit porn

I love that my girl is on an IUD. I can bust nuts in that all day long without consequences.

I’m saying if you want your girl to dump you don’t get married and don’t have kids
It’s called reality

The 300LB 70year old or the 300LB 50 year old? I live in what is essentially a retirement community.
So no, she doesn’t have the time or inclination for that.

Kids are a stupid thing to end one's free life over, you mean.

THIS. When girls pivot and do a 180, your life's getting ready to go down hill QUICK unless you bail out now. Get the fuck outta there before you're stuck with a screaming, shit-covered needy grub worm that you're financially responsible for the next 18 years!!

OP please marry her and have kids

No, it's called being a cuck and too retarded to do anything else with the rest of your life other than breeding for no reason.

OP this could possibly be your fault, what if let's just you got her pregnant by accident. Shes scared that you will leave her, and she tries to tell you shes pregnant indirectly. Talk to her OP befor you listen to the mass of mgtow advice on b.

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Get out of the situation ASAP, OP. This is God / Allah / the magic sky daddy's way of waving the red flag in front of you warning this bitch is getting ready to wreck your life!

"Muh Genes," the Thread.

>breed for no reason
You breed so the love of your life does not leave your ass

>Adopting from foster care
Shopping on The Island Of Misfit Toys is just as demanding as making your own baby from scratch, since you end up repairing all the damage that shitty parents, foster homes, and state institutions have done to your juvenile precioussss

I’m not OP fucktard

Based.

Oh sorry salty cunt

>gf
user just turn her into your cumslut until she becomes pregnant. Stay with her as long as you can fuck and when she says she can't or 6 months have pass move away and let the bitch deal with the kids
She's not your wife

I agree with user. OP should pack all his shit, find a new apartment under the radar & leave as soon as his bitch goes to visit family or take a trip. Get some money saved back & leave enough to pay your share of bills for a couple months. Bail before it's too late.

Yeah user, just convince her, and make sure that you are happy first. But she probably still loves you, just make sure to get her opinion on children out.

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Secretly get a vasectomy

There are things they dont tell you about pregnancy. It's really hard on your body. fun fact: morning sickness can last the entire pregnancy. Your vagina might start to smell different. She might become insatiably horny or not want sex at all. You can become severely depressed during the pregnancy. Your horomones can make your stink and you wont be able to wipe your own ass int he final month.

The way I see it, They're just kids though. they didn't do anything to do deserve this shit. I understand not everyone has the resources, maturity or desire to help others but I feel how people treat children is a really big indicator of their character.

stop larping bro

>does she wanna break up
Fucking tard
Impregnate that bitch and continue your dna faggot. Sounds like you have the perfect opportunity for life long fulfilment and you are going to throw it and your woman away for meaningless posessions and wasted time.

Her biological clock is ticking faster than yours bud. Put your seed in her now

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>taking the bait
The real question is, what the fuck is wrong with you? How is it you don’t know that if a woman is under 30 and says she doesn’t want kids, that only means as long as her life doesn’t support doing so until she meets a man who fulfills the role necessary to change her outlook on having them? You fuckin dudes today are fuckin retards. Seriously. A good woman only wants kids with the man who will lead her and your family to prosperity. And she just found out you’re just another retarded dipshit with no clue how to be a man. Good job there, brotatochip. You sure told her. Fuck those little bastards.

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A doctor will often do this no questions asked. Then you can pretend like you're trying to get pregnant. She might find out eventually if you aren't careful to hide your deception though and it'll rip you a new one.

Just fuck cute boys, cant get em pregnant

My wife doesnt want kids, but she said one time kids wouldn't be soo bad. Being a man that has my shit together I tell her no it wouldn't. Now we are still not having kids but if we did we'd make it work. You're the fucking man in the relationship, you need to support your woman 100% or you will never make it to marriage.

That's practically what being a woman is. You hate kids till one day you dont

>Getting married

Kek. Enjoy being financially raped in divorce court & losing the house, almost all your assets & half your income til the day you or she dies - whichever comes first.

So many incels in this thread it’s ridiculous.

She wants to be family. What do you mean "whud the fug is wronb withe her"

this, tbh. almost 70% of marriages now end in divorce, and the legal system is rigged so heavily in the woman's favor, she ultimately ends up with the house, all but 1 car / vehicle, most of the joint accumulated assets from date of marriage, and roughly half of your income til the day you retire or die. If you actually make it to retirement age, she's entitled to a large portion of any pension / retirement pay you receive.

It's a natural thing for humans to want kids. Being mortal beings the only way to live forever is to procreate and keep your bloodline going. If you and your girlfriend are white I strongly suggest you knock her up. Otherwise stay strong and don't do it.

of course it comes down to "is she white?"

The things I have is because of her. Before I meet her I was just a loser drinking myself to death. Now I have a good job and life because she made me get off my ass and work. Not that she was with me for money she was fine being with me when I made little money and could only give her the basics. If she took half my stuff she deserves it cause I wouldn't have this stuff if it wasnt for her.

Biological clock must be ticking

and whether OP is as well. of course.

>Guys who've been crushed in divorce court & lost their wealth, barely get to see their kids are warning OP to be careful
>durr, lulz incels...hurrr

It's obvious you're an incel who's never got a sniff of taint - let alone actually touched a cunt.

OP, listen to those of us who've been on the losing end of the divorce process - don't do it. Don't marry her, don't start a family if she's already backtracking on basic agreements like not having kids.

are you and her of european decent?
This is essential.

OP, whatever you do, don't compromise yourself and have a kid just to appease her. I don't get the sense that you would, but just reiterating this.

I agree. Unless you're both white.

>you need to support your woman 100% or you will never make it to marriage
>you need to do 100% of what the woman wants
Sounds cuck to me......................

We don't need more niggers.

user
Don't have kids
This is how life works
Anything you do is somehow indicative of you being a homosexual or an incel but don't pay attention to that man
No kids means no kids
Just cause she does, doesn't mean you do and you aren't a bad person for not wanting kids
I don't and fuxk yeah, being able to be selfish with my cash and things, including freedom? Priceless

Don't get married, don't have kids, don't give up your freedom like that
Self improve, make more money, win at life and stay woke

These anons know what's up. Just finalized and signed my divorce papers last Friday. I was lucky since we barely had anything to our name & we both made roughly the same amount of money, no kids - so the judge just split what was in our joint checking / savings accounts & we each kept our personal vehicles. So I was spared the financial ass raping a lot of dudes go thru. But after watching my brother lose everything he worked for & only gets to see his kids 2 weekends out of the month, lives in a shitty studio apartment while his wife got their 2 story town home, the almost new car they bought with a bonus he worked his ass off to earn...yeah, don't fall into her trap.

If you get married, get a prenup before. It'll save your finances big time.

Fucking mad props to your mutual friend who is protecting your contact info. I'd buy that person a drink on your behalf.

Wrong, faggot. Your mgtow mentality is why you’re an incel. Enjoy your post divorce drought there, skidoo

I have a kid. He is 4. He is great, really, I would die for him, but still, I think to those times when we didn't have him, and we were able to do anything we wanted. Good old times.
Sometimes I think if I would have a time machine I would go back before I knocked up my wife. But then I always shake it out of my head and realize how horrible parent I am.

What dude in all honesty, that isn't going through some fag tendencies or is a fag, actually wants marriage?
Dude, children and marriage are for women, not men
I highly doubt a man is really going to say
"One woman, same complaints, for more than 40 years+, I get my money taken away if divorced, get everything taken away, kids are used as pawns, no trust, no sex, no freedom, no peace and a shitty wife and it's all great because we "love" each other"
Nah

Dude she's so incredibly in love with you and believes what you have is amazing, she didn't want kids because she probably thought kids ruin relationships but believes your connection is strong enough to support having kids, she didn't want them because she saw what it did to her parents relationship, and you didn't want them because they're fucking assholes.

When the womans biological clock starts ticking the fun is over

It's okay. We can provide her with a kid. Share coordinates.

you're actually fucking retarded and don't deserve a girlfriend, girls start thinking about kids when they feel comfortable enough with a dude to want them, unless they want welfare babies. grow up and apologize or get cheated on, loser

Well man she want to make a family if she want to do it its because she love you so much dude

Bullshit. Females like this know that with a child the man will have to take care them forever.

What the fuck is this spam shit? Is Yea Forums raided right now?

Look man, I don't know either you or your woman so I'm going to refrain myself from saying anything.

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