What did she mean by this?

You are putting her on a pedestal

Dude she has feelings for another guy I got the same speech.

She’s dumping you for someone better. /thread

Let’s be real though, getting dumped feels terrible, especially if it’s for someone else, but it’s far better than a girl who cheats on you and stays with you as she gets less attracted to you day to day.

At least dumping you is the honest thing to do.

This.

She’s dumping you, so be out. Close that door before she has the chance to keep it open to make herself feel better for fucking your over.

Don’t respond, don’t calm her a bitch. Block her number right now and be done.

This possibly. Or she's cheating. OP should've given context

Means she wants you to beat her next time you see her

you got cucked lol stupid beta male.

Lmao I got this same speech but in person before. Yeah you're dumped for someone else basically.

Honestly this. Took me a year+ to get over my ex / first love because I kept her on social media. I still have thoughts because I have her on. Don't be stupid, don't be me, don't suffer needlessly.

Literally get tinder.

she's just not that into you bro. you scared her off

she's feeling guilty cause she's slurping another dick. Ghost her and move on. Don't drag this more than you should

Lol do this. Ignore her. This will eat at her. She'll be like why is he ignoring me, why am I being ignored. She'll be texting you a sappy sob story.

That’s her saying that she found a big, black cock.

agreed.

OP here, was with her for five years, she was super affectionate the nights before, then I argued about how she's trying to convert me to Islam (to please her parents) then all of a sudden she says this shit.

this

That's a wall of text about how she can't take responsibility for her emotions and how you've failed to beat some sense into her.
My guess is you guys are no day older than 25, if you're even 20.
Time to get a new hobby.

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Is it normal to chat with a SO via Kik?

Ask. So who's the other guys.

Block her number
Delete he contact
Go fuck random whores and plaster it over social media that you know she will see
Never talk to her again

Lmao convert to islam allahu akbar

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you have been too involved and she feels suffocated

>being a little bitch 101

this exactly about two - three weeks ago. OP , it doesn't get easier but you get used to it. Like the other user said literally get tinder and talk to other women , don't idolize them, don't make yourself too available , it feels nice to talk to other people that aren't her and it's nice to know there's other women out there one can interact with and feel wanted by. do it fgt

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And by a stinky Muslim nonetheless lmao. What a loser op is.

You cannot be friends with someone you have a sexual interest in. There is nothing left here for you; Cut ties and move on as quickly as you can.

>i wonbt break up with you but ill still talk to you and seek that emotional attention that you give me but ill never admit to my self that i am capable of being loved from you because i want to sleep around and not be faithful to you, not that i could possible do that in the first place. So an we just be freinds and i will only messge you after a break up or when my current bf isnt giving me attention or he actually beats me up cause i want that but he cant emotionally support me like at all and he constantly ignores me and so i come to you cause you like understand and know me so well
>i wish we could be together but its just like not in the stars for us to be more then besties

>being a cuck
You have to cut vampires like this women out of your life

see know your value and remove the pedestal you put her on, first mistake. you can value a woman in your life romantically but never place them above yourself, at absolute best you can be first amongst equals but never, ever above you

Faster than texts, read reciepts, camera verification, etc etc. Its nice me and my gf used it when i was cheating on my old gf and still use it after i dumped her after we fucked once and made it official.

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All that shit you wrote, you sound like you've got some shit to sort out for yourself.

yeah i cut those type of women out of my life and never look back or let them leech off of me only when they need attention

Femanon and I even think that she’s cunty

Does the thought of them make you angry?

you gender isnt important you're still a cunt

>/Thread

This is 100% accurate.

nah.
doing things with the intention of the ex seeing it just prolongs the pain. rather do things that only you care about and do not care whatsoever whether she knows it or not because shes no longer a part of that.

She’s dumping you, and through text. Pretty shitty honestly. Least she could do is do it to your face. Clearly get ride of her, she’s not worth it if she isn’t even willing to give you some dignity.

The only way you're banging her again is if you drop all contact and wait for her to text.

Nah, don’t make it about her. Just ghost OP. As in right now. Mute her on social media, stop responding to her messages.

Don’t bother blocking unless you need to. Shows you have willpower to straight up ignore her.

A lot of people are gonna say she never really loved you and she was just using you. It does sound like maybe she was doing that but maybe she just hadn't emotionally invested herself into the relationship as much as you have. Maybe she wasn't ready to cross that line yet.

He was just a satellite and you know it.

Dis also dis and I mean what the fuck, why tell her shit like "I'd sacrifice everything for you" thats not even what women want to hear

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Because he was in orbit?

>expecting women to be honorable
Whew lad

And there you have it..you'll do anything, you love her more than anything in the world but she can't say the same, why? Because Muhammad will come first before you. Run kid life is doing you a solid she ain't the one and will lead you to the wrong path.

Kek, yea that’s easy for us to say. OP is obviously a fucking cuck and would never be able to do it. It’s best he just rips the bandaid and sees the reality of life.

Good thread let's keep it going. I got something similar the day after Christmas. She wanted to stay friends and keep hanging out and I said I would be willing to but never talked again. Been 8 months and still think about her.

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Your yesterdays news OP time to move on and fast
Get all the shit she has given you like birthday presents etc and make a bonfire and burn everything, this will feel like you cleansed yourself of her
Tell her your finished and remove all forms of communication with her
Don’t talk to her again

She's been looking for a way to dump you without feeling guilty, and you gave her a loophole.

>Because he was in orbit?
Correct. One of many guys pulled in orbit in case plan A doesn't pan out.

>Been 8 months and still think about her
Yes, men get attached to women. It almost never is the other way round.

R I P
But dont worry, hopefully you'll find someone better than her.

That you're her beta bitch

you're a clingy, insecure soyboy and she got tired of your shit

/Thread

She love you, but she no in love wit you. Unnerstan?

Ruin her credit

Zoinks. There's such a thing as coming on too strong. Women unironically like the strong silent type who show they love them with actions rather than words. That's a bit of general advise to all you numpties.

Next stop - Read "the Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi.

You were never in control of the frame

+1

+1

Christ loves you, user.

+1

OP for the love of god either dont reply or just reply “k”. It will eat at her for YEARS trust me.

Btw, if you play this correctly, she will be begging for late night dickings if you are interested.

She found a new penis

Christ protecting his people against the heathen Saracens.

Never date a Muslim.

She's fucking someone else and feels guilty about it

Through Christ alone will you find salvation. Do not fall victim to the temptations of a woman. It is a great offense to God if you abandon His religion to please a woman.

based

Seriously, just ghost her, it's the only way

The fact that OP isnt posting anything means he didnt follow our advise and sent hundreds of messages begging her to take him back.

Pathetic.

it is a very lengthy "its not you, its me" break up.

Well she probably just doesn't love you anymore/wants to let you down "lightly" even though such a thing is impossible.
She also might have found somebody she likes more so she's ending things because, again, she doesn't love you anymore.

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she means you freaked her out by saying that. don't tell other people shit like that. it's too much pressure on them to live up to the pedestal you've obviously placed them on. you shouldn't be "sacrificing absolutely everything you have" just to be with someone in the first place. another person doesn't complete you. it's not their job to. you should be a complete person on your own, loving someone for who they are as a person. not what they can do to make you feel whole. then its not loving someone. it's loving what they do FOR you. which makes you a selfish cunt.

It's over, just move on. She may or may not have already been fucking another guy or wants to find something better than you.

It's life, people aren't always gonna work out together.

Damn, this skank never felt love in her life, I pity you. Have fun being a cat lady at 30

OP ghost her right now. Delete her number and forget her. She will come back to you. Just ignore her and focus on yourself.

Well that was a surprise. Don't date outside your faith.

I'm fucking married. But I don't tell my husband that I'd sacrifice everything in my life to be with him because he's not asking me to do that for him. Love doesn't ask you to do shit like that, and if it does it isn't love. And you shouldn't walk into a prepubescent relationship telling her that you'd give up everything in your life to be with her. Because that means...

That you see her as your entire life. And that's not love. That's fucking paranoid obsession. And every text she sends telling you that you're throwing out red flags gets interpreted as "oh, you're fucking someone else". That's insecurity on your part, because she just fucking told you whats upsetting her. And you made it all about how inadequate YOU are as a lover. This is all about you, isn't it? You you you. You're not enough, You're sacrificing more than she is, you're not good enough so she has to fuck someone else to fulfill some role you can't. You you you. Its a pity party starring you, and everyone in your life plays a supporting role to you. Rather than an individual with thoughts and feelings, its just all about what they can do for you.

Be gone, woman. Your input isn't appreciated.

No introspection needed, right?
No asking yourself, "why do I feel the need to sacrifice everything in my life just to get laid?"
No asking why she feels this way.
Nothing is wrong with you.
It's all her fault.

No wonder she's fucking leaving. You've basically constructed an entire fantasy around her being the perfect one to fix all your fucking problems in life, instead of seeing her as a person with her own fucking problems to fix.

Like I said, have fun being a cat lady at 30

Yeah well keep on with this attitude, and see how that works out for you. The entire world is happening to you, rather than you being an active participant in your own fucking life. What a victim complex you have.

>she doesn't love you anymore
Calling that tingling sensation that randomly occurs and happens completely by itself Love is probably the greatest injustice one can ever do to oneself and ones relationship with Love.

Like I said, baby bitch, I am married. And have been for 20 fucking years. I'm good. Worry about yourself. Don't get defensive just because you clearly want to feel sorry for yourself. You create a thread asking her what she meant, I tell you, and then you start hurling insults because its hurting your feely feels.

Then why the fuck did you start this thread? To get a bunch of fucking incel virgins to confirm that she's fucking another dude because that'd be easier than admitting that you might, JUST MIGHT, have personal flaws that YOU need to fucking work on?

These anons are right. You’re getting dumped OP.

The reason she’s being so nice about it like this is because she couldn’t find a viable reason to dump you. You were a good friend and I would guarantee that the slightest fuck up on your behalf would have been an inch that she took well over a mile to get your happy arse rid of.

Get a fetlife or tinder. Fuck bitches and forget this slurry

OK greg

>victim complex
says the woman
kys and hope God forgives you thot bitch

It’s funny that /b rarely, if ever, agrees on anything. Yet all responders in this thread are giving the same, very good counsel. 1) 100% she is already fucking someone 2) She wants to keep you for attention and emotional support 3) The Only proper response for your own sanity and self esteem is to 100% ghost her. All points of contact eliminated.

Thank god a shred of sanity.
What a barren wasteland of projection and angst.

How man men have you cheated on your cuck of a husband with?
Unfortunately, they have written songs for hundreds of years that dispute your version of love . True love is an obsession, your cuck husband is just another fashion accessory to you. You cheat on him quiet a bit and it shows

You don't have to lie to kick it

>>"I would sacrifice absolutely everything to be with you."
I'd say you came on too hard. That's a very "we've been together so long that mutual friends are waiting for their wedding invite" kind of thing to say. Even if you feel a certain way, you need to temper the performance around those feelings carefully. If someone is your whole world too soon, they might worry that if they hadn't put in enough to deserve that then maybe anyone could just as easily take that spot in the future.

For example, I've never once told my boyfriend that I love him, I keep that back, there's a point in time when it will be appropriate, get me more, but it's not ripe yet. I primarily wait for moments of mutual comfort and say things like "This is nice." "I'm glad we did this." "Thanks for coming." That sort of thing. Don't spill your guts, just let them see the color of your blood on occasion.

Best post. Added note, go for her sister or bff. Odds are one of them knows your a great guy and wanted you the entire time you were with thot.

Says the woman that admits when she fucks up. What's the matter kid? Don't have the balls that a woman has? That's fucking pathetic, and it says way more about you a literal 12 year old autist.

I don't fucking cheat. This isn't about me kid. This is about you. And I know you're struggling to cope with that realization, that none of this has anything to do with my life or my personal shit. But it's true. She's bailing because you're freaking her out with bullshit like this
>True love is an obsession.

I'm here to tell you, faggot, that it fucking isn't. And YOUR definition of love is what she's running from right now. So you can see clearly, that my definition leads to a successful 20 year marriage whereas yours...

leads women to fucking leave you. You're creeping them out with this bullshit, because it's wrong. But you think just because a woman is saying it, that it's inaccurate. There is no need to ask us what she fucking meant. She just told you.

You're just not listening because you'd rather get defensive and feel sorry for yourself. Now how the fuck is that MY problem?

That seems rather cold.
If you play people like a game, you shall be played yourself; you reap the seeds you sow, and it appears as if you've sewn seeds of deceit.

Why do women cheat? Like all those times you cheated on your current boyfriend, what brings you to that?

>Projecting this hard

Amen Yea Forumsrother! If one kills the emotion of love; it is such a relief to never have that clawing feeling you actually need someone in your life.

Nope you're just a fucking idiot. It happens.
>this defensive of the concept that nothing could possibly be wrong with you, apparently a living god among men that women fawn over as soon as they hear the words "ill fucking kill people for you"

that's not how any of this shit works kiddo.

OP, is any of this is resonating with you?
I hope you get yourself on the right path, get a gym membership, read a book on dating, rise up to the challenge and be the best man you can be to your friends and your SO.
We believe in you OP

Why are you crying so hard and acting like your feelings are hurt, if I'm not correct?
If I didn't hit a sore spot, then why would you have such an outburst and start playing the blame game?

No, none of it.
He's gone full defense mode.
None of this is his fault. It's all her fault, because all women are cheating whores and nothing he said could've possibly led her to feel this way.

This thread is a fucking bust. He just wants people to hold his hand while he bitches.

You keep calling me a kid, that's leads me to believe you are a kid.
I never called you a kid, and you are flipping your shit about me being a alleged kid

Your entire life is a fuck-up because you've married a cuck husband and haven't experienced love. What you're wrong about is that you claim to be a good wife and are happy.

Married for 17 years and I’m just as obsessed with my wife as she is with me. Who the fuck are you to put any parameters on what is healthy and what isn’t? You’re no one. Being married for 20 years doesn’t give you exclusive rights to say what the fuck is normal for someone or acceptable, or the opposite.

Fuck off your high horse, cunt. Before you keep talking - you know the rules. Tits or gtfo you pseudo-feminism spouting degenerate.

Its because your definition of the concept of love is childish, like people think of it in fucking middle school. If you want to sit at the big boys table, you've got to stop pouting like a child and start acting like a fucking adult. If you can't do that, she's right to leave you. You're not ready to be in a relationship with anybody except yourself.

Damn, you tripped down on the projection.
Look sweet cheeks, you cheat on your husband and I hit a soft spot. I just want to know why women like you cheat, what's the motivation?

>Married for 17 years
dOnT hAvE tO LiE tO kIcK iT tHoUgH

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I can post a million songs just as intens as this, get rickrolled bitch

If you’re referring to the dude who posted the same comment earlier - I’m a different guy. Jesus, you must be a monkey ass nigger too, huh?

Literally this. Women don't like to be put up on pedestals. They want a strong man to partner with and lead them, not a weak man to worship them.

This is about you. Not about me.
I'm good, and my marriage is fine.
What you've done here is illustrate over and over again that you define love as something incredibly fucking unhealthy for two people to participate in. And if you ARE in a 17 year marriage, I feel sorry for your fucking wife. Because you both suffer from enmeshment so bad that you've forgotten that you're two separate individuals with your own goals and desires in life. Now, she's become an object that you use to prove to yourself that you have worth in life. Not a person to love, a thing to use for your own selfish ends.

What a fucking marriage it must be. 17 years, of your toxic bullshit.

No clue, I'm not one. And I don't cheat.

No, not like a game. My relationship is important to me and I would "sacrifice absolutely everything" to stay with him. It's simply keeping a handle on how you present yourself. If you floor a car out of your driveway, you're going to have a hard time making the turn correctly.

Damn, you are playing some mental gymnastics here.

Oh my fucking God, I'm not even the only one saying this shit. You've even got faggots linking back to one another saying "this" over and over again. SAME MESSAGE, different posters.

What a fucking pathetic waste of time you are. Rather whine about how I cheat on my husband than actually consider that all 4 of us might, just might, have a fucking point.

You retarded fuck. You’re literally addressing two different people.

The dude that you originally got into it with, and me, the one with the 17 year marriage.

Jesus, there’s no point to this. You’re clearly not much more than a half step above a single cell organism. Please tell me your Rosie O’Donnell has never procreated with that cuck you’re apparently married to.

>And I don't cheat.
That's what they all say, just like they all say, they aren't other women

Do not believe the roastie's lies
When she comes around to proselytize
She'll screech and protest all day long
Denying she's taken miles of schlong
"Genetics!" she will cry in fear
Praying there's a white knight near
But no hope comes, there's no salvation
From the Omega uprising sweeping the nation
Innies are alright with me
With their virtue and their purity
They know what womanhood's about
And with one voice cry, "ROASTIES OUT"
But beware the roastie's tempting calls
Luring Betas to her cavernous halls
She'll suck you up and you will be
A slave to her vile cuckoldry
We see now with our open eyes
The plainness of the roastie's lies
We'll stick with innies and nevermore
Will we lie with an Arby's sandwich whore

She wants sum fuck not love.

Don't amen me, that's not what I have said. Love is not an emotion. There is nothing to be killed except your illusion of possessing anything substantial.

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keep attacking me as a person. its so much easier than admitting that you're a fucking flawed human being. this is you, running from the problem like you always fucking do. you asked, i answered, my fucking job here is done.

this is your final fucking (You). and you know what im going to get in response to it? "kek CHEATING WHORE LOL". that's all you're fucking good for.

It's more likely you are heartless bitches that don't understand what love it, and treat your "Husbands" like fashion accessories

I have yet to attack your person

if its not you, then stop fucking talking to me. but you just can't help yourself can you?

its because im the one hitting a fucking nerve here.

and what exactly makes her worthless, you socially autistic cunt? Because she was decent enough to explain OP why she dumped him?

why can't you autists be friends with some female?

Seriously, you are projection hard core, and acting like your feelings are super hurt. I hit a soft spot, and your attempts at degrading me prove that

No, its more likely that the woman just fucking told you, in plain terms, that your definition of love is freaking her the fuck out.

It's not OUR definitions that are fucked. It's YOURS.

Underrated post

I'm not attempting shit. I've already done it. Now literally shut your fucking mouth, or you're the butthurt one continuing a useless conversation. Pick one, sWeEtChEeKs.

The night before she said the breakup shit

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>getting on Yea Forums and telling people what is healthy vs unhealthy because of her own relationship dynamic.
>being this self righteous

You’re probably one of those obese fat rascal riding Walmart cunts that justifies stuffing their face with 17000 calories a day with “I can be healthy AND fat, you aren’t a doctor!” kind of argument, if we take a look at how you have thus far explained your marriage.

You disgust me and represent women poorly.

OP this isn't the time to be arguing. As fun as dispersing built up negativity to the entire thread that's providing the help you requested (to the best of it's ability). Give some respect and say something constructive. Everyone here has a different story and life experiences. It might just be worth it for you to hear out. It could be life changing.

You don't befriend someone who's dumped you. You just go your separate ways, there are plenty of females to befriend out there if that's what you want.

See, you are trying to find a chink in my armor, so to speak . Throwing shit against the wall and trying to see if it sticks ,the fact you are attempting to hurt me prove I hurt you .
It's sad that you haven't even come close to hurting me, please keep trying though

So?

OP here, only posted the screenshots and the thing about Islam lol I'm not involved in whatever that other argument is.

Ghost her, she's either mentally unstable or cheating. (Emotionally, or physically)
Don't just sit in the friendzone and let her use you like weak men do.

My god, you're both literally incapable of shutting the fuck up. This is just a remarkable level of faggotry.

Means she doesn't want to be with you anymore. Move on

Hurr durr, public forum BUT DONT TALK TO ME.

You silly fat cunt.

>I know you are but what am I
Now are going to use the Peewee Herman line of defense?
Seriously, who's acting like the child now?

You're proactive with the texts and she's just responding as best she can without hurting you.
She was already cringing at your clinginess.

OP this isn't the time to be arguing. As fun as dispersing built up negativity to the entire thread that's providing the help you requested (to the best of it's ability). Give some respect and say something constructive. Everyone here has a different story and life experiences. It might just be worth it for you to hear out. With an open mind you could learn something that's simply important to have in mind down the road.

OP, how old are you? No bully.

I don't have to "Shut up" [sic] , I am making points, and they are obviously sticking

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Agreed. Two of the most insecure people on Yea Forums have decided to compete for the title of most pathetic.

You came on too strong and you scared her off. No fixing this - she's clearly indicating she no longer wants to be with you.

Suck it up, move on.

It is easy OP : she acts like a woman.

When a woman gets what she wants from a man she lost interest in him. That's all. You were too nice with her.

I know it sounds unlogical : women should crave for good and caring guys right? But the truth is that a woman always wants what she can not get.

You are already conquered. Job is done for her goodbye next.

Don't worry. You will find another one.

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>This

>women should crave for good and caring guys right
Not when the guy is only "caring and good" to get laid. Then that makes him the asshole. Something you faggots take for granted on a regular basis. Women leave once they find out that you were full of shit the whole time.

Cuck/dike feminist detected.

When men don’t agree with some convoluted, retarded ass woman theory, they must be insecure.

Righttttttttttttt-o mate.

this man is coming apart at the seems

>paranoid schitzo coming soon

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i jUsT dOnT gEt wHy wOmEn wOnT fUcK mE, tHe rEtArDeD aSs cHeAtInG wHoReS rEeEeEeEe

More, I demand more wild personal attacks, please hit me with the best you have

Your emotions were overwhelming for her, as yours were stronger than hers.
i.e; You came on way too strong way too quickly buddy.

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Loooooool. Plenty of women have fucked me. I just don’t prescribe to the bullshit being espoused by that 20 year marriage cunt on here.

They are all cheating whores though, getting a woman in the sack in this day and age is easy mode, especially if they are in a relationship .
In all honesty, single chicks are harder to get in the sack than married chicks

She means that she likes you, but you're not her "one" so let her go and move on quickly. Be nice to her and keep her as a friend. She clearly cares about you as a person, and her honesty is commendable.

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Bullshit. Women stay with men who they need to consistently prove their value to. Once they stop doing that the man loses his appeal. You don't even sound like a woman, you sound like some weird impossible hybrid of a cuck-trans-incel.

ITT people that have never had a girlfriend call you a cuck.

Loving and caring about a girl doesn't give her the tingles. She wants to go fuck guys that give her the danger tingles, and then come back to you after she's had 4 kids by 4 different fathers. They only want nice guys with steady jobs after they've gotten the brood they want from the guys they want, and the nice guy is strictly for bankrolling their family of bastards and their own poor financial choices.

>Having to defend your sex life on a Taiwanese noodle forum

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naw. she's being honest and considerate. If you don't see that you're a spoiled cunt of a person.

No guy is a woman's "one", that's what it's called settling down , you have to settle
Fucking whore

She's lying, you're delusional if you think the real reason is "I love you... but you are too nice and you are just too good for me."
Ghost that bitch and gl

Listen OP, I have a girl I love with all my heart but I still have to treat her coldly and give her only as much attention as I need to keep her attached without her being sated. It's fucking shitty that you have to do this shit but unfortunately it's the sort of thing you gotta do. You may want to spend everyday, every waking second with them but if you do that, they will leave because they lose interest in you - you no longer are the mystery for them to solve or the coldhearted man they long for, you're instead the slave to the whip who is only useful to feel secure, and when she looks for something beyond security *poof*: she's gone looking for more interesting avenues.

Like a few anons have mentioned above, you really have to play the game if you want to be happy, and look at is this way, if you really do love them this much then you're gonna be better for them than most people so keeping them attached is in a fucked up way better for them.

You've fucked up this one user, leave her and suffer for a bit. You can't fix this, the damage is obviously long set in and not fixable. One day it'll be better though and when that day comes, heed this advice.

>Once they stop doing that the man loses his appeal
This logic falls apart when you realize that OP is here, STILL doing that for her. Yet she STILL left.

But I forgot. You're fucking Dr. Phil when it comes to healthy, long term relationships.
>asking for advice from Yea Forums

This is unfortunately true in this day and age , it's why so man fat bearded comicbook faggots get somewhat hot roasties in their 30's

THIS.

>you no longer are the mystery for them to solve or the coldhearted man they long for, you're instead the slave to the whip who is only useful to feel secure, and when she looks for something beyond security *poof*: she's gone looking for more interesting avenues.
No, you're just the aloof asshole who won't commit or open up to her, and who constantly proves day after day that he'd rather be off doing whatever the fuck you do, than spending time with her. So she leaves because she feels neglected, because you're brilliant advice is..
>neglect your girlfriends and they'll love it

Clearly, all evidence points to the contrary but that's why you're still fucking single. Guess you never got around to piecing the shit together, huh?

Not OP here, but I got a girl I like and shes into me, however I lose frame when I go too long without hearing some manly advice like this. so thank you

Holy shit. What triggered you so hard in this thread. Seriously, what?

To drop the larp for a min, I wasn't trying to attack you. I think you need to take a break from Yea Forums for a day or two, because it's obviously not helping you.

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this

20 and been with this girl for 5 years

>I was only trolling
Not a valid defense

Have you guys hit this road bump before? 5 years is a long time to be together. I'm surprised you guys can't communicate more effectively at this point.

it means you got played

This thread is proof we need IDs back, so that the Quality Female Posters™ don't get too confused about how 4channel works..

20 is so young to be looking for your forever person.

I am friends with a woman but she's already married and neither of us want to fuck each other and it's only online and I hang out with her bf too
Anything else is doomed to fail

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You're conflating terms here user. I never suggested neglecting them, I said to only give her as much attention as is needed to keep her interested. You shouldn't shower them with attention, it really is bad in the long term. It means that they get desensitised to attention.

Fuck females , they don't need training wheels, why should we have to adjust for them ?

I rest easy knowing that the ones I love know I love them and that if they died tomorrow they haven't any question as to my feelings about them. Can you say the same?

She'll fuck you, or she wouldn't be friends with you

We are here for wins not frens

No, it means they stop giving a fuck about someone who shows them every single day that they don't give a fuck about you. That's all it does.

>(any user giving you advice to "be an asshole," or be "mysterious," are emotionally illiterate; learning to be a master of your emotions will make you a master at getting people to fall for you - I recommend anything written by Marcus Aurelius)

Fucking blue pillers always trynna give a reason to all the bullshit a woman say

Dont reply these bitchs only want reactions. Dont let this cunt win show no emotion show her it doesnt bother you the slightest . Be a nigga

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What's it like being a slut?
You know you'll never feel what love actually is ?

well it's kinda interesting to see how easily the incel logic gets dismantled, sadly the woman in this thread didn't "get" she wasn't talking to OP but 93 other anonymous posters

the only people that could be incels are women , statistically

>woman
>honest
You have a lot of growing up to do if you see anything remotely honest in those messages. It's all completely illogical bullshit. She is trying to break out of the situation without making herself look like the bad guy. Whether it's for her own guilt, or reputation, it doesn't matter. It's still complete bullshit. She wanted to dump him but didn't have the balls to do it correctly.

He is right, but also, that way you gonna lose her.

user it's almost as if you're deliberately ignoring what I'm saying. I'm saying that there's giving them 0/10 attention, which is completely blanking them and there's 10/10 attention, where you're never out of their life. I'm saying that you should give them 4-5/10 on average. If your partner is your life then why the fuck would your partner be interested in you - they're looking for someone other than themselves otherwise they'd be a fucking loner (I know I've played a bit of a language game here but I think it illustrates my point.) No, a girl wants someone who cares about them but is interesting, who has a life outside of her which she sees small glimpses of, and you have to only let her in over a long period of time, and still keep it quite separate from her until she's looking to settle down.

This is boring now that I scared off the butthurt women

He's already fucking lost her. No point in being her friend, at best it's neutral and at worst it's going to be constant suifuel as he sees her getting blacked constantly and complaining about not having a guy who cares for her like he did.

Sure. not my point before but you are right. I was assuming OP was honest.

You are welcome man. It is not manly, just experienced. I was OP once.