/b I need some advice. Recently got out of a serious relationship (we lived together)...

/b I need some advice. Recently got out of a serious relationship (we lived together). After we broke up I got in touch with a girl I really liked some years ago, but nothing ever happened. I always saw her as perfect - we had same sence of humour, had common interest, she is hot, smart, funny etc.. One thing leads to another and we had sex. I couldnt believe it, I never thought it would happen. Now here is the problem. After we slept a few times, I lost all interest in her. I still find her funny and a nice person, but I have 0 interest, but she starts talking how she enjoys here time with me etc. making hints about relatioship and so on. WTF is wrong with me?

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sorry for the shitty grammar and mistakes.

bumping, come on guys dont leave me hanging on this one

What do you expect us to do about it?

bumpin

well OP, looks like you have a serious case of Chad going on

Exactly, why don't you have lost all interests with her, do you enjoy spending time with her?

Share an opinion. This is the first time it has ever happened to me.

I too am a gamer and have this problem.

asking b for advice lol

seems like you did not take time for yourself after ending your long term relationship, and you kinda threw yourself on the first girl to come by. I'd say, speak to your friend, explain her everything, tell her you cam out of a long term relationship and you need some time to figure everything out, if she is slightly into you, she should be understanding

She is a great person, very nice and all of that but I dont see her as woman next to me. I see her only as a friend. The problem is I used to go crazy for her, there was I time where all I wanted was to be with her.

But in all seriousness I do know what you’re talking about and my advice is if she has feelings for you. Maybe try seeing her a little more and attempt to maybe get the feeling you once had for her back again. If it doesn’t work cut her off but don’t be a dick OP. Have been in this situation myself for a good 3-4 years now on and off

Eh why not. People of /b are decent. I always enjoyed the community here, was never a guy to call out that /b is going to shit.

I will really hate myself if I hurt her, and I still like her as a person. Its just that I dont feel that spark, that need to be around that person, to spend time with them etc.

I tried that but I get more blank to her by every single day,

Are you talking to anybody else?

be honest with her, you need some time for yourself, you're in a special situation, and nothing but time and reflexetion can fix this

>but I dont see her as woman next to me. I see her only as a friend.
Take some advice from an oldfag.
firstly, because you are clearly new to the world, you are equating desire for love.
So you probably still have desires for the last girl, desires for the next girl desires for a specific girl with specific qualities that YOU want.
Now love is not like that. You might find this girl you see being with you, ypur 10/10 but find out after the initial honeymoon period, she pisses ypu off or she is a cunt.
Real love is when chilling with a woman is just natural. After you fucked her you still want to be around her. You don't have to pretend to be someone else or do things to fit them.
If you can hang around with this girl, talk, fuck, no awkwardness or nervousness then this is probably the girl for you, despite you not thinking so, wanting someone better and you should take it as faras you can go with this girl.
These type of girls only come less than a handful of times in our lives.

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If I could answer myself I wouldnt be here

he knows

Good advice! But I broke up with my last GF because the spark just went away (honeymoon period). I dont want her back. But how can I be with her, if I really dont want to be with her in a relationship?

I've been there.
Not really with someone that I used to be crazy about but with another wonderful girl.

What I figured out is that I was tired inside. The relationship I had was going through a lot of things and the end was complicated. That sucked my energy. I felt sad. And very emotionally tired.

Don't get me wrong, but maybe you are just as tired as I was and can't just be with someone else right now. This tiredness leads you to a blank state of mind.

Now, as I picture it from my days, you are en empty canvas. But nothing has the power to stroke it and draw something meaningful. You will need to rest and to desire be with someone again for it to happen.

Maybe you are correct. I never thought I could feel this I mean as long as I can remember I always wanted a nice relationship. Now seeing an amazing girl that wants to be with me and all I feel is nothing.. I feel like an asshole.

Fantasy is better than reality. I was in the same position a few years back. Broke up with a long term gf and a few months later I started talking with this girl I worked with in my teens, but had pretty much lost contact with.

Catching up was fun and easy. The first few sexual encounters were great. Then it was just like...ok, now what? I had fulfilled something I had wondered about for 6 years. She kept inviting me over or asking to do things and I kept finding excuses. It ended with her calling me an asshole for using her and that was about it. Haven't talked to her since and it feels like no great loss.

Same thing bro same thing.. Happy to see im not alone.

thanks to all the people replying. you are amazing guys

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welcome m8, glad to see it's not all BBC or trap posts once in a while

I dont shit on people that post BBC or traps. Whatever they like I just ignore these threads. Everyone has the freedom to post whatever they want.

>tfw i see the love in my first loves face drain rapidly
>tfw she gives me one handed hugs now when she once would run to me to give a hug
>tfw feelsbadman

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There is a roman proverb that says something like: Life walks with the willing and drags the unwilling. We all have to move on man. We are here with you.

Yeah man, happy to share my experience with you for whatever it's worth. If you're interested in sharing some sex stories with either chick, please do. I'm glad to share a couple of my experiences.

Tbh I respect my personal and sex life bro, no hard feelings :) im sure your ex was great at the time.

OP here we can turn this thread into support/share thread. I had awesome advices but its not all about me lol

Last OP post here. Thread is gonna die probably so again thank you all people of /b. Hope you all make it throught :)