Do things that bring you joy. Build. Create. And then wear them on your wall and carry them as reminders in your heart. When you know your nature and know what you are excellent at, none one will be able to destroy your will and break your spirit.
Be tested, know what you still stand your ground on, and fight. Then you will know courage and wisdom through experience.
Children want independent and self-determination. And when that time comes, where they find themselves alone, they don't see themselves as a leader.
They wonder why they are alone in their struggle. They wonder why so few others understand. They wonder who is there for them to call when they cannot sleep at 11pm because everyone else is sleeping.
The world insults and belittles such a person no matter their standing or status. Both the rich man and poor person alike fear for what they will lose - the personal thing that matters most to them.
Pride. Vanity. Family. Honor. Justice. Love.
I will tell you that all the accomplishments in the world won't fill an empty hole.
But we are creatures of meaning and it is in our power to recreate our contexts.
Your complaints are hidden answers, if you can flip them into the truths of what you are missing and what you want.
The man complaining of no friends thus knows the answer to his solution: creating and declaring the intention of such relationships and delivering on the actions and perseverance to realize that dream.
The man out of shape desires an image, and so the man of fortitude will put in the time and weather the suck against all odds to pull that possibility into the present.
The honest man who has lost his son is committed to that relationship and will do what he must to restore it.
A person without a hobby goes out to find one.
And a man without listeners will find those whose who will
The man incomplete of the past will find what it takes to put it to rest so that his past isn't living in his future. Then he is free.