it's that one user who talked at like 4 am about being depressed and shit again.
welp, i had hope but it went down the drain again.
I found this cute guy but it turns out he was desperate for affection and rushed to sex just for the affection. And a few hours after that, he admits this to me after we chatted casually before anything happened on relationship stuff.
He used me, and I'm just more depressed that this shit even happened. I thought this might go somewhere but it just fell flat. ;-;
what should I do Yea Forums? This was one hell of a gut punch and I just want someone I can talk to that has no better reason than because they are user on here.
Don't feed your flesh, feed your soul. No one will look for your feelings unless they are in love with your heart, its better that being in love with a chunk of meat
Brayden Jackson
Dont rush, rushing will only ruin yourself, happines and the solution of all your problems wont happen just becouse some user love you, you worth beyond someone's will, and only you can work for yourself.
Christopher Reyes
I've been trying to. I'm sick of hookups, I want something real. I saw hope in that guy. He seemed like a real possibility. But I guess not. ;-;
Noah Moore
That's the theme of all of what he said, so I'm not surprised to see it here. I've been trying to find someone for months and the first guy with hope turns around and uses me. I should set my expectations lower I guess.
Jeremiah Young
I know the feeling, this world is filled with corrupted souls only looking to please themselves, just be gentle with yourself nand with the people, im sure somene will love your caring soul.
Asher Foster
I know, I've seen a few first hand. I want to stop doing hookups with random guys and go for something that's actually true and real. He was my type too, and I was his type. It's a huge shame and just frustrating to have it go so well to shit so quick. I had hope, I really did.
I've tried dating sites, I've tried meeting through friends, etc. Nothing lead to anything even close to promising. ;-;
Lincoln Russell
Can't blame a guy for wanting sex. If you want something real, talk to your work/church friends. Don't look for something new. Use the people you already have. Grow bonds before growing boners. Make a pledge of chastity if you have to. Earn a personality beyond a cock-sleeve. Make people want you for you.
He didn't use you. You just had a different goal than him. Sex is perfectly alright, as long as you're not expecting much else. Sex should be a goal. Something to earn and share with someone you love and trust.
I get that. I had a girl a few weeks ago that looked promising but it overall fell flat for mutual reasons. I'm trying to socialize where possible but I've been an outcast for a long time. I realize that I'm not a popular person, and that a lot of people just avoid me outright. Harsh, but fair honestly.
He did use me, though. A lot of mutual feelings and stuff were shared and it lead to what it did, but only after did he come forward and tell me the truth. That is being used.
How do I make people want me for me when most people don't even give me the time of day? There's a reason this shit happens, but I am yet to grasp the full story.
Eli Brown
Kik is dead, get a new platform dude.
Sebastian Long
Classic Yea Forums humor I see. Lol
Carter Bailey
any suggestions?
Nolan Thomas
Discord or Telegram. Either of these are good modern programs
Adam Carter
Bold of you to come here to say that, but it’s your choice, Imma ask for your Kik if you tryna talk more
Matthew Rivera
I literally don't have Kik dude. What more of "dead platform" did you not catch?
Jonathan Rogers
I know that feeling. I didn't have a single friend for the first 20 years of my life. Best advice I can give in to make yourself needed. People swarm around people with purpose and goals. I gain most of my friends because I'm naturally supportive, or at least try to be.
Some people gain their friends with fame, money, invention, etc. It's up to you to find what you're great at, if you choose this path. Just give it time and consistency, just as all things in life.
If you need someone to talk to, my Discord is Cas#6397. I can't guarantee I can help much, but someone to talk to is good for the soul.
I try to, but I can only get so far when building computers is the main of what I do. I try to be supportive of people, but when I need help, nobody is to be found. So I come to Yea Forums to vent.
Technology is my passion and I'm mediocre at it, I know. But people see me like a tech god because I understand this stuff. I'm not.
Michael Cruz
You are trying, you are bold and your soul is noble, nothing its more valuable than that
