Virgin here. Might lose it soon. What are some specific so it isn’t painfully obvious to the girl that I’m a virgin

Say it to her openly. That way she will lower her expectations.

LOL

That would weird them the fuck out

Wait, so after spraying she isnt allow to suck your dick?

Why? Would it fuck up her mouth?

Can she suck me before the spray?

Everyone keeps saying it’s gonna be obvious but won’t tell me why it will be obvious

if she has had sex before it will be very clear to her if you haven't
not saying you will perform like shit but it's easy to tell

I think it's like bad CGI. It's only obvious if its very bad.

If youre virgin and youre not bad off the bat, they cant tell youre a virgin.

Tbh i watched a lot of amateur porn and i think ill do fine.

Not OP here

Thinking of making a tinder and match with older woman, and ask them to "teach me"

I have a milf/mature fetish anyways. Is this a bad idea, Yea Forums? What are some ways this can go wrong Yea Forums

that's great man but you'll never know until you actually do it. porn is not reality, even amateur porn. my first girlfriend was a prude and we had awful sex but my second girlfriend was a total nympho and I had no problem pleasing her from the first time. either you got it or you dont and theres only one way to find out

Chad Thundercock here, 100s of conquests under my belt.
(1) She likely already knows
(2) If not, be honest - she already likes you, that's why she's doing this with YOU
(3) If she's not, and she knows that you are, maybe she can take the lead
(4) As you become more experienced you'll take the lead

my first time was a nightmare, i didn't bring any lube and she was in pain. it lasted all of 30 seconds and i didn't even get half way inside
btw, every woman if different, so what works with one woman won't work with another. Being great in bed is specific to the woman you are with, how well you know her and how many times you've practiced with her...yes practiced. Good sex takes practice. And it's different for everyone you sleep with.
Good luck

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Fucking kek

What you need to do is own it. Lean into your bfs ear and tell him "my dick can wait. This is my first time, so don't be gentle. This is your one and only chance to destroy my ass. If I can even walk tomorrow I'll consider you a dissappintment"

Oh, I might add, and this may just blow your mind, maybe, just maybe she chooseing you cos she knows you're a V and also knows she can likely convert this into regular sex and then a relationship.
I hate to bust the myth, but there's not such thing as 'free' sex or fwb, it all comes with a price.

>tell her she's your first only IF she asks
>don't pretend you got experience
>if you go floppy, go down on her
>don't jizz in her face without warning
>DON'T say thank you afterwards

>not the writing of a chad
Gave yourself away

huh? that's experience writing.

real shit right fucking here. Only listen to this advice. Also, dont jizz on her face if its the first time, period.

Be honest and let her take the lead (Assuming she's fucked before).

General advice:
-take it slow, don't try to jam your dick in before she's wet
-You've probably heart that "touching clit = good", but don't attack with with reckless abandon. It can be sensitive, bordering on painful for some girls if they're not warmed up.
-wear protection
-try to relax and have fun

Good luck!

what if she wnats it

Then obviously do what she says. I wouldn't count on that happening though.

If you let her take the lead she will still fuck but if she takes the lead, she will dry up a little. a man should take the lead.

Alright mother fucker like I said be more specific what are some things she might notice

you've never been with a real woman huh? nothing like a lady who knows exactly what she wants

yes a woman wants a man to take the lead and dominate her

>she might test you and pretend shes put off and doesnt want to do it, DO NOT push it, play it cool and be chill if shes turning you down, but do not cease to be affective. if she pushes that bullshit, flip it and get dressed and leave (but dont be aggresive about it, do it casually, and she will make sure you stay with her. after that, its game on).
>if she asks for a condom, have it at hand. shit might go sour if you have to stop all the shit completely and look around for it
>dont do anything excessively, and dont get too confident. spanking her ass and doing any of the shit youve seen in porn is most likely not gonna fly
>do not try and continue making out after sex unless shes into it. this one is big (specially the next day if you spend the night)
>do not ask about meeting again after sex

and theres prolly a million more but they will come with experience

The hole is lower than you think.

35 comments and still no specific tip like OP asked.

masturbate 2 or 3 times immediately before trying to have sex with her

Make her watch. Girls like that.

Being awkward for starters. If you don't know what will make the situation awkward then too bad, they might know.

But then I’m not gonna have the motivation to fuck her

How virgin are we talking?
KHV or some experience?

nigga, you gay?

You'll be doing it so you don't cum the moment she touches your dick.

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I've never agreed with this. Unless it's been like, a week since you last came.

It's best to go in rock hard and excited to fuck than with a beat up dick that's only like, 80% excited.

If you get too excited and cum early, just play it cool. Maybe make a joke about it. If she's experienced, she's definitely had a dude come early before. If she's not experienced, it hardly matters then, right?

Do. Not. Put. A. Bunch. Of. Stupid. Expectations. On. Your. First. Time.

idk it's easy to tell from a number of cues though
yeah not all women though dickshit. the best women know exactly what they want

>If you get too excited and cum early, just play it cool. Maybe make a joke about it.
Suggest that it's her fault because she's just too attractive/sexy/good for you to control yourself. Tingles the narcissistic core of the rape fantasy nearly every woman has.

Kissed and hugged before many times lol just never intercourses or blowjob or ate a girl out

This. Some dudes go right for the clit and fucking ouch. Use some spit or something, anything, dont go for the clit dry or too rough oh my god it hurts.

>the best women know exactly what they want

There is a difference between knowing what they want vs being the dominant woman during sex

I agree, woman who knows what tehy want is hot, but OP isnt asking for your opinion on whats the best woman

I feel this same way. Where’s the fun in sex if you don’t wanna do it, and I feel like if I masturbate earlier that day I’m just not gonna feel like having sex

Still haven’t got some very specific advice. Most of the stuff I’m reading I already knew so maybe it won’t be too bad

What’s the least awkward position to start out on ?

Because they are all virgins here,

they got nothing besides "be honest" - which isnt even what youre asking for

Thank you, get the ball rolling on techniques,

lol ok and he isn't asking for your opinion on what you think women want

It won't be "bad". Sex is great.
Giving him to specific a "gameplan" is just gonna fuck him in the head and distract him from the things he should be thinking about, like, "Wow these lips are soft! Wow, those tits are cool!"

Being a virgin isnt a problem, nor is it boring to your partner. Best advice would be to listen, its gonna be awkward, sex always is. Just laugh and have fun.

Its all in your back, idk how your dick is shaped, but move it dude. The g spot is connected to the clit, its a few inches in, on the front inside. Depending on the curve and size move ot accordingly. Dont be fucking weird. Touch her thighs, touch her clit GENTLY with some type of lube whether it be actual lube, spit, or wetness from her vagina. If you wanna eat her out be fucking gentle on the clit, at the top of her vagina area there will be a little bump youll feel it with your tongue. Be gentle, youll tell by her body language if she likes what youre doing her hips will thrust and shit and if it feels like shes trying to get away she doesnt like it. Dont toungue her fucking hole thats just weird. Clit is most importnant with oral. But play around it too. Tease her and i cant emphasize that enough

he isnt, but im telling him itll dry up most woman if you dont take the lead

ram them hard it is an instinct in monkey brain you don't need to think about it that much

Commented to add, most dudes are trash anyways so dont freak out too much. If you suck, its to be expected

The hole is lower than you think it is

sounds like you've been with some boring women. nothing like a dominant woman using a virgin for all her desires

what? if it's that easy then why the discussion? any tecniques?

what if the woman in question is not dominant but is submissive? asking as a virgin, because obviously she cant take the lead here if she is submissive

Most women are submissive

this

well then it's up to you to figure it out. quite a situation for a virgin as you are ill-equipped for the occasion. confidence is key, as it is in anything

thats why im asking, the general advice here is "let her take the lead" but if most woman is submissive, how would she take the lead?

>quite a situation for a virgin as you are ill-equipped for the occasion

This situation isnt unique, most virgins dont have exp (duh), but most woman is submissive, so chances are even as a virgin you have to take the lead even if you have no exp

Sex is like art. Yes, there are some techniques but in the end an artist just relaxes and lets the mind and body flow.

you know nothing about women lol. women worth fucking will handle shit if you tell them you're a virgin

should you always wait until a girl ask you to choke her, then do it. Or just do it and see if she likes it

Lower when she’s lying on her back and higher in doggystyle ?

>women worth fucking will handle shit if you tell them you're a virgin

So if they wont handle shit, you just fucking leave?

never had that problem broski I don't have casual sex

Okay, I had hoped that the honesty and feel goodery would be enough, but it seems like you really really want specifics.

Closeness leads to touching which leads to kissing which leads to making out.

When you're making out, start feeling her body with your hands. I know you want to grab that ass and those titties, but make the hips/shoulders/back of neck your home base. Make your way over to the ass and titties occasionally. She should be touching you as well.

After a few minutes of this, try to take off her shirt. If she swats your hand away or otherwise stops you, just go back to the previous step and keep making out until y'all are done. Don't be pushy. Don't assume she's "playing games". Even if she is, you don't want to fuck around with girls like that.

Anyway, if she lets you, continue to take her clothes off during the process of making out/feeling up. Ideally, she should take yours off too, but if she's not objecting to you undressing her, it's fine for you to get naked too. When you're both naked, do the same making out/feeling up stuff you did earlier. Rub her thighs and gently work your hand over to her pussy to check for wetness. If she's good to go, proceed to the next step. If not, keeping making out for a little bit. Gently rub her pussy a little IF she seems to be responding to that.

Once she's wet, put a condom on. Place it over the head of your dick, pinch the tip, and unroll it over your shaft. If it doesn't unroll, you probably need to flip it around. Lay her down on her back, get in between her legs (missionary style), and stick your cock into her pussy. Start slow, using your body to move in and out. You don't need to pull ALL the way out, maybe just until the tips is in, then move back in. Start slow and work up to a good rhythm. You should try to respond to what she seems to be enjoying, but don't think about that too much. It's your first time, you're not trying to set any records here. Just do what feels right.

just put it in her ass and go "oops".. then go a few thrusts before pulling it out

Try to be close with her, as physical intimacy is the whole point of sex. But don't smother her. And for god's sake, support your own weight. Don't collapse on to her.

If you think you're going to cum too soon, slow down and work at a different pace. That usually helps. But otherwise, keep going until you cum. Follow any directions she gives you.

I'm not going to suggest that you eat her out or do anything special to get her off because every girl is different, and you don't need too many things to think about. This isn't Brazzers. You don't need to eat her out, cycle through five positions, and then cum in her face. Just focus on fucking in missionary for now.

That's a general framework, however, if she does things that don't fit into this framework, just go with the flow. If she pulls your pants down and starts sucking you off, go with it. If she gets on all fours and wants you to fuck her doggstyle, go with it. Otherwise, just fall back on the routine I laid out.

If she cums, great. If not, don't worry. Like I said, every girl is different. And women like sex because it's sexy and it makes them feel close to you. If she likes you, which I sure she does, she'll like being naked with you and feeling your dick inside of her. In fact, that's a good thing to keep in mind. She likes you. Just be you, but naked and lovey dovey. That's enough for a pleasant experience. A pleasant experience will lead to more sex which will lead to you figuring out how to get her off.

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Be honest, OP
I think she would prefer to know the truth as to why you're bad in bed rather than you making up bullshit to covering up why you are bad in bed

say its been a while since you had sex

Player.png huh? Here is the real advice.

Don't stress or worry (causes performance issues).

If it isn't comfortable try doggy style.

If you Wana look like a pro know more than just missionary and doggy (but stick to the basics if at all possible)

Do not jerk it for like 48 hrs before.

Show up with chocolate ice cream for after sex if you wana hit them up again. If not still bring the ice cream and just eat most of it lolol.

And for God sake wear a condom. Last thing you or she needs to worry about are STI's.

Other than that have fun. Bust a fat load. Graduate from /bfag to normie!

Oh. And when she says stop definatly don't stop. Take control for like 10-15 more seconds and then stop. She will brag about getting the best dick ever.

>Dated a bunch of girls in the past, recently got dumped by the girl I was planning on marrying after 4 years together
>Started seeing a new girl
>She tells me about how the last guy she dated lied to her about not being a virgin because he came instantly when they had sex the first time
>Every single time this girl and I have some form of physical contact she touches me in these coy, expert ways that give me the strongest boners I've ever had
>She has an absolutely bangin' body
>Tfw starting to get intimidated she's going to make me cum instantly and think I'm a virgin and have been lying about it

Usually I can last indefinitely with a girl and only cum when I feel like it, usually after she's had a few orgasms and she asks me if I'm close, but this girl, when we get physically close like to hug or kiss, I breathe in her smell and she teases me a little bit with a slight graze against my crotch, I get so horny my dick feels like it's going to explode in a way that no girl has ever made me feel before. I've never felt so intimidated by a woman before bros, usually I'm the one breaking women because of how desensitized my dick is due to beating it 8 times a day to porn, but this girl makes me feel like I'm 13 years old discovering what an erection is for the first time again. She might be a fucking succubus.

tell her you have had a dry spell for the last 5 years.

moar!