Is your life going as planned? I got the wife, I got the house, 2 cars both less than 4 years old and fully paid, I got a decent job (for now), 2 incomes so lots of money, zero kids so no parental responsibility. Still feel bored with my life though. Don't have much passion anymore. Working too much in a draining job. If I want something I get it cause the money is there, but then I have nothing to look forward to. How did I get everything I was trying for and still feel this way?
Having kids is one of the big purposes of life, you'll always feel unfulfilled untill you get your head out of your neo-boomer ass
Ian Powell
Only 23 and living with my parents while studying at college. But I've been studying drawing for a year now to become the artist people always thought I was and I'm kinda happy, I can see my life going in the right direction with this skill. 30,40 or 50 yrs old. No matter what happens, I own this skill now and my life will always have a dash of art and maybe I even get money out of it. I feel fulfillment.
Don’t listen to this guyKids are a joyless burden that will make your money disappear. Get into more hobbies. Get a project car.
Owen Morgan
>26 >married with two kids >been with her for over ten years now >make a bunch of money while she stays home >own a home >vacations every month >live around only white people >own 2 brand new vehicles
Anthony Wood
20 serving in the military Just got married during leave Putting 70% of all my income into shares and crypto Life is good but I want to be a civilian again
Grayson Rivera
And that’s why we have a population problem. People marrying young and popping kids out right away before actually having their life in check. This guy maybe it would make sense due to his monetary value, but kids are not where fulfilling for every human.
Brody Bailey
Have fun designing billboards. Just “drawing” doesn’t mean shit unless it’s digital design in this day and age. Art is dying, enjoy the struggle.
Brandon Butler
Turned 45 in June all sorts of aches and pains. Horrible summer health wise.
Parker Morales
never had a girlfriend, or a house, shitty car, no job, no money, obviously 0 kids. Still dont feel sad with my life though. All i do is play video games and age. Only free time. I dont want anything so dont need money. How did i get nothing i wanted and still feel this way?
Jack Stewart
Having served in the Army for 10 years really satisfied me. I was tested to the maximum and know what I'm made of. I've served in combat twice and earned my Combat Infantryman's Badge. I was Infantry, Airborne then Ranger. I look back fondly of those times. I recommend everyone sign up for the most difficult route in the service. It will test you and you will learn your limitations.
Pretty good. Wife of almost 12 years, fuck all the time, 4 awesome kids, 3 cars, gonna buy a new house in the 500-600k range in the next month or so in So Cal (McMansion in a nice area, but fuck). Both make good money (wife ~150k, me ~90k but will go up in the next few months once I hit 1 year in my field), just dumped a shit ton of credit card debt and our credit scores went from ~640 to ~720. I gotta say, things are going pretty fucking swell right now. Of course shit could be better in some ways, but life is good. Pic related, it's my wife's sexy ass.
My fiance died 43 days ago. My life is certainly not going as planned. But hey, I'm glad things are working out for you.
Alexander Clark
Well, it's still something that gives me purpose and I wake up everyday knowing I can level up at that and see real gains, it's not something abstract. I went from stickmen to that and I'm excited to see what kind of stuff I do in a year or two. But you're wrong, the right jobs can pay up to hundreds of dollars per commission and I'm even looking into learning animation or coding to make some cheap online game or visual novel and even learn to compose digital music to put into said games.
It's.. Yeah it might be trivial but I like the feeling of becoming multi disciplinary and leveling up my different stats. But everyone has a hobby right? It's not like lifting or sports or tuning cars would give me any money either.
William Johnson
Btw I'm 25, he was 36. Would be 37 August 9th.
Joshua Sullivan
>crypto
Smart. I'd recommend sticking with BTC and LTC. ETH is too dangerous.
Charles Brooks
Sorry to hear that Yea Forumsro.
Easton Torres
Thank you. It's been really hard.
Adrian Russell
This got dark too quickly. Sorry to read that, I don't think there's any sensible way to deal with it
Grayson Taylor
He? Are you gay or female?
Luke Hill
Can't have kids and don't really want one of them. Raised my nephew for 4 years. That was the end of that.
I know it's a bit to ask. But could you whip up a quick sketch of a sour patch kid riding a unicorn. Doesn't even have to be super detailed. It's for my wife. Inside joke but I can't draw worth shit.
I love the idea of a project cars but I'm horrible at mechanics. I guess it'd be a good way to change that though.
Total opposite from me but same age. What do you do for work? Meanwhile, im planning a suicide for october
Xavier Perry
Sorry for your loss, user.
Elijah Diaz
Grief counseling helps a lot. I held his hand while he died and promised him that I was going to be ok and that I would get help if I struggled. I feel like I don't know who I am or what I'm doing anymore. He was in the ICU for 15 days and I was his medical power of attorney and had to make the call. I was lucky that we had months prior randomly discussed DNR and our wishes for if we were on life support. I'm thankful that I don't have any kind of regrets for how our relationship was or how I treated him. We were incredibly happy. I'm also lucky I didn't get pregnant, I guess. I don't know what I would do if a baby was involved.
Nicholas Martinez
Only for selfish immature twits. Parenting can be the most rewarding thing you ever do, but only if you're committed. DO NOT have kids because you think it's something to do.
Easton Butler
And never have kids to save a relationship. Have kids because you genuinely want to and you have an open, trusting relationship with your other.
Easton Lopez
You sound like me. But I'm 28 and my wife works too.
Never had the balls to serve. Thank you for what you do. And may it all end with your service.
A doctor my friend. Don't let pride stop you. I did. Now my shoulder is eternally fucked.
You do you man, sounds awesome to me. Keep growing wherever you can
Jackson Hall
This. Im out for a year now and life is blah. Army life sucked too but at least I felt fulfilled in some way. Also life doesnt suck sobad when you have 20-60 other sioldiers going through the same thing.
Isaiah Wilson
Post tits or GTFO
Thomas Cox
Do you like your job? Are you a cog in a corporate machine?
James Edwards
About to enlist in the army, I'm 19.
Brayden James
Hey, because it's not what you really want. You should try to seek your real Will.
Gavin Taylor
This is for the female user Tits or GTFO
Dominic Clark
Very respectable. Thank you.
Ethan Robinson
Same except I'm 18 Not trying to one up and be an asshole just saying Ayyyyyyyyyy What branch?
Benjamin Cox
I envy you. Except I could never leave my wife. She keeps me going.
Good job user. Hope it continues.
I'm deeply sorry for the pain you have and will still endure. I've been through death all my life. It never gets easier so don't let anyone fool you with that. You just learn to cope with the pain. Best wishes.
Question. Do you have family? A wife? Kids? Anyone at all that cares for you? If so, don't do it. It's selfish. It hurts those more than you think it ever will. Live for them, make that your drive. And if you don't have anyone, fuck it. You don't have anyone to disappoint. Live life differently. Throw a dart at life and run towards it. It's not like anyone will judge you. Just live user.
This is why I don't want kids even though I can't have any. Just cause you can doesn't mean you should.
Dont be a dumbass, stay out of trouble and dont drink and drive. The military can be an awesome time unless you fuck it up, then it can be hell.
Daniel Reyes
Can't complain. 22 years young, traveling around earning money by doing what I love. Spend 11 out of 12 months on holiday locations so lots of one night stands with girls who aren't afraid to be judged because they are alone on holidays
Kevin Ortiz
Don't kill yourself. It's what weak people do.
I'm a radiation protection supervisor.
Aaron Ross
Currently waiting on a waiver from MEPS, but since it's taking forever I might smoke some of the shit my roommates have. Considering getting back into dating because it's been a hot minute since I've talked to the opposite sex in order to start a relationship, maybe getting tinder but I dunno.
Aaron Lee
I don't mind brother, I wish you luck in your service.
The infantry
Gavin Bailey
What do you mean?
Andrew Sullivan
>Still feel bored with my life Then kill yourself. It's easy.
1) find a loaded handgun 2) stick the barrel in your mouth 3) point up at your brain 4) pull trigger
Don't wait. Do it. Do it now. Shut your fucking mouth and kill yourself. Now fuck off and die.
Jayden Miller
Not really, but I've never had much of a plan. I have my own place, and am in pretty good health. Never married, no kids. Feels good not being tied down. Cannot imagine dealing with all the shit that goes into having a family, a house, a yard, all that bullshit. Not for me at all. /blog
Easton Powell
Ive witnessed alot of stupid soldiers in my time. Alot of drunk driving, drugs and just random stupid shit like running from the mp's on a motor bike. If you keep your nose clean the military can set you up very nice for the rest of your life.
Asher Wilson
LETS GOOOOOO INFANTRY AS WELL!!!!! 'MERICA I'm shipping out to Georgia soon I forgot the name of the place
Thank you man
Landon Thomas
I'm level headed, squeaky clean substance-wise. I just hope my mental health stays intact, comradery is a definite curb to the potential damage but still I am wary.
Michael Fisher
It's rare to see such excitement haha. I'll keep you in my prayers brother.
Christopher Reyes
Fort Benning, Sand Hill. Back in my time, we called it Fort Beggining since you do Infantry, Airborne and Ranger all in the same place. BTDT.
Alot of help in the military if you need it. Just ask
Aaron Lopez
Was Kelley hill around in your time? Thats where I was
William Russell
Thank you. He's a pain in the ass but even when I'm mad at him he makes me smile.
Didn't use to be but my company got bought out years ago and they turned me into one. Gonna be going back to college next year. Hate the idea but it's my only way out.
You know you can tag a post right? Don't gotta call out who you're posting to anymore.
Live it up user. Plenty of time to be old and regretful later in life.
Tinder never worked for me. Honestly parks with a dog was my best winner. Girls like dogs.
Gotta live for my wife. I feel like you're projecting user. Is this a secret wish for yourself. If so please don't do it.
I'm not ashamed to see a shrink if need be, thank you for the advice.
After I've given it all I got, I plan on becoming a cop or perhaps working in the private sector with my skills. Who knows, the world is in my grasp.
It isn't often you see goodness appreciated and reciprocated.
Ryan Long
>20 >systems engineer student >not that good of a student, but Im at 2nd/3th year clases >last summer found out about arduinos >got one and started tinkering around >eventually escalates and there am I studying electronics on my free time >bought a tin welder and started working on real circuits >feel really passioned, the only thing that fullfils me as much is coding >realize what I'm studying is more administration oriented (hate that part of the career) >start thinking about changing to electronic engenieering >make plans for it >I had decided to go for the system analist middle career title and then try switching, so if I regret I have it, sort of as a checkpoint >talk to friends and people about it >got great support from all of them besides my mother and my grandma who are the ones I owe being able to move and study, since my mom helps me financially and I live in an appartment my grandma owns >told my mom that I would get a job as a developer and pay for my own existance, I know companies that would take me for sure, most of them are desesperated for people and they hire people who basicly have 0 coding experience and talk a bit of english at least, I have good experiences with both of them >she refuses to the idea of me working to the point that she is yelling me throw the phone saying that she will take me back to the town and make me work there in the lumberyard I used to help when I was in school >told her that what she is saying made no sense, that I rather stay here and work my ass off in something I like doing than something I dont >she reallizes that what she is saying makes no sense and ends up with a "either way you aint working untill you finish your career because it will take you for ever if so" (I go to a public college in Argentina, so if it takes me 5 years or 12 I never would have to pay nothing besides my existence, and if I work I can do it, so, again, no fucking sense
Jaxson Wilson
To the female user who didn't post tits....... Tits?
Jayden Foster
See, this is a nice feeling, all is good in the world now.
Blake Martinez
underrated post
Ian Fisher
Make life what you want user. I'm rooting for you.
Not the normal on Yea Forums huh. I remember when there could be heart to heart threads right with gore/rekt threads. Times have changed. But you deserve some sleep user. Just know you made me and my wife very happy. I wish you well and a good life with your art. Don't give it up, you've got talent.
I have to be 21 to adopt an animal in my state. I'm only 20. Fucking retarded law.
Aiden Gutierrez
>18 months ago, was the typical overweight, shut-in NEET, virgin at 26 >learned to code, attended a bootcamp (all online, but still stressful as fuck because you're on webcam 11 hours a day) >moved to san francisco in search of a job >miserable job search, staying in ratty short-term places while my parents pay my rent, looking back, i'm surprised that with my depression and suicidality i managed not to kill myself >eventually got a contract, thinking it will turn into a hire - it doesn't for a reason that wasn't my fault (company was going under) >only lasted 3 months, looked for second job >another hard job search, given that the previous 3 months as a software engineer contractor was the only professional experience i had ever had in any capacity >somehow, through some absolute miracle, i get a job interview at a pretty attractive company >one thing I can honestly say is that i studied hard, so i nail the interview >get a rejection later, have to start job search all over again, things looking bleak as fuck >suddenly, get a call from the company - they actually DO want to hire me (i was probably the second choice after a more senior candidate) >i negotiate an offer, eventually settle on 130k base salary, which is pretty crazy considering the contracting gig was equivalent to 75k salary, and that the average salary for a very junior software engineer is 100k >started 6 weeks ago, actually got my own apartment >some part of me is certain that something will go HORRIBLY wrong because nothing has ever really 'worked out' in my life >i moved in, got settled, it's a nice apartment, nice neighborhood, nice neighbors, nice city, got nice furniture, everything's setup, fancy new 75' TV, got some room to exercise, eating healthy again, exercising again, already lost 10 pounds in a couple of weeks >think that i actually have a shot at not being miserable for the rest of my life
pretty crazy that things might work out
Easton Rodriguez
Lmao. What's it like to be brainwashed into being "normal"?
Charles Green
Be smart, save as much of that money as possible. Diversify; cash money in savings accounts, money in bonds, money in stocks, money in crypto. Build up your credit by opening a few credit cards (1 at a time, don't open a shitload), set bills to pay on them and auto-pay 80-100% of the balance every month to build rewards points and credit. Always plan to be out of a job within the next month for at least six months before you start spending. You're in a great field that you can always find a job, but at the same time, there are a lot of people trying to get your job. Good luck, good job, and keep up the good work.
Christopher Roberts
That's a weird law but it does stop a lot of younger kids from "rescuing" animals only to let them slowly die from abuse or neglect. Next year is your year user.
So here I am, I dont really know what to do, because if I get a job and try out electronic engineer I would have to start another career from scratch almost, and it might upset my grandma who is the one who owns the place I live and tell me to get the fuck out, again, dont know what the future will deliver me, but in all honesty I'm just fucking tired of my family but I dont know how to confrot them, even my gf tells me that I dont say anything to them even tho they are constantly passive agressive with me and I'm constantly complaining about that, again I'm just tired of them, I never noticed how much of a bitch my mom really is untill I moved out and had a greater look, but I still love her and apreciate everything she does for me, but again×3 she is hella spoiled and kinda smugy and its just a fucking obnoxiously annoying behavior (and yeah, I had told her that she is fucking annoying, and everytime is a lame ass apology and 50 minutes later, all the same bs again)
Nathan Gomez
advice like this is where the scared NEET in me comes out. my first check as the contractor earlier this year was literally the first paycheck i had ever received. in terms of money, i feel like i don't know what the hell i'm doing, this is the first time i've ever had my own bank account and pay for 100% of what i do.
right now i'm just putting my checks towards either rent, bills, groceries, or savings. i still haven't figured how to diversify anything, i've honestly never even thought about money before this year.
some parts of me still aren't ready for the adult world, but i am trying to learn
Dominic Torres
That's perfectly fine! Keep paying your monthly bills and that's your number one start! In terms of diversifying and all that shit, start safe, start slow. Don't start reading blogs that tell you to dump everything into penny stocks, crypto, etc, because that's a good way to lose a lot of money if you don't have the time, knowledge, and/or energy to micromanage your money.
Whoever you bank with should have some sort of money market account or fund or something you can deposit a set amount of money into every month. If you've got 600 extra bucks lying around every month, put 200-300 in it, and keep the 200-300 for shits and giggles cash. Just try to be the one in control of your habits instead of constantly spending yourself to the bare minimum. Don't beat yourself up if you want to buy a new TV or video game, but also don't bury yourself in useless items that cost money and collect dust.
Dylan Martin
Im 14 and too depresed to get friends
Jackson Williams
Your job probably has a 401k; bump that shit up to the maximum deduction, even if it's more than they match. Get used to living without that money. One of the biggest problems my wife and I had was that every time we made more money, we spent more money. We quickly found out that it's a better idea for us to "hide money" from ourselves, per se, than to try and "save it". You can always rationalize to yourself why you should spend your money.
Samuel Baker
i don't know your story, but i'll just say - moving away from my abusive brother and my enabling family was the best thing i ever did
Kevin Miller
>14 why the fuck are you on Yea Forums
Ayden Harris
no
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Alexander Foster
Goodnight anons. I feel like this was a good thread. We need more like them. See you next time.
Damn sounds like a nice gig after a boot camp of coding
Benjamin Price
Shameful redditfag, saw greentexts about 2 yrs ago and now im on this shit
Grayson Gonzalez
Welcome to the shit show. Don't listen to the fucking lunatics like . Also, GTFO before FBIman.exe runs.
Daniel Perez
it is, man. i feel lucky as hell
Zachary Rivera
What kinda boot camp was it because i like to code but am not very good at it, and that kinda moneys sounds tasty
Sebastian Perez
Gotit mate
Cooper Cruz
it was called Hack Reactor. it's a full-stack bootcamp that focuses on JavaScript
that being said, you have to realize that it's designed to respond to how much work you put into it. i can honestly say i worked hard and put a lot of hours into learning it. if you don't do that, then your first job will be either standard or sub-standard.
also, you have to note, i did get pretty lucky. the craziest story i've heard was someone getting 140k straight out of a bootcamp at instacart, and when the management at instacart heard that a new junior developer was making that much, he flipped his lid, but ultimately couldn't do anything about it