I'm a 25 year old virgin. How do I lose my virginity? Do I just hit up a random Tinder slut? Any advice is appreciated

i'm a different user but it's gonna be awkward, you can't avoid it. sex is awkward more often than you think, just laugh it off and continue

Yeah, but I'm working on it.

>tfw banned from Tinder
How do I fix this bros?

Your tactic is kinda fucking retarded tough

Porn is fine, don't worry about it. Skip the cheap shit and just pirate proper content. Eat healthy, work out about 30 minutes a week and find a style, in terms of how you do your hair and clothes that makes you feel good about yourself.

Looking healthy and like you take care of yourself is attractive enough.

And stop discriminating between girls based on how sexually attractive you find them. Just go for whomever you happen to talk with easily. Feelings may or may not develop as you spend time together.

Sex really isn't some sort of magic bullet.

Hahaha

Fucking loser

All I did was say no coalburners or people who listen to shitty ghetto thug music

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I don't think you can fix literal autism like that. Sorry, user.

Tinder is fine, but the bigger problem is probably your mental unless you're an obese ugly fuck.

You gotta get out there and socialize, talk to people. Tinder can be a good way to land dates and practice. Just learn to relax and gain the ability to shoot the shit with a girl and have a good time. The sex will come.

Oh and be honest with the fact that you're a virgin cause you won't be fooling anyone. At least show honesty. Plus, some girls will get a kick out of it and you might even get laid because of it.

And you believe yourself? Suck it up and go on some other dating site faggot.

25 damn, I’m about to be 21 and out of my friend group I’m the only virgin still

Not its not, it is normal if you're okay with yourself

Let's trade some Tinder pics
SAbEwZ

The girl I'm into has way more experience than me. Way more partners. I need to build myself up so I can handle her.

If you're that desperate for pussy, save some cash and visit the legal brothels in Nevada. It's legal, the girls are required by law to be tested for STD's & you don't have to worry about some whores nigger pimp beating the shit out of you / stealing your cash.

Why are you incels this retarded?

What the fuck? She's got more experience. You don't need to build yourself up at all, where the heck did you get that idea?

She's experienced, so she knows how to handle herself and you a lot better than any inexperienced girl would. You've got an opportunity to learn from her, fucking take it you idiot.

It's always awkward the first time because you don't know what you're doing... It's like anything else you practice. You always suck ass at first and then get better with practice...

I'm a virgin. I'm afraid that my mediocre sex will disappoint her. I just want to please her and keep her around. I don't want her to leave me for somebody who fucks better than me.

It’s more of you seeing each other naked for the 1st time also you have no clue what shes is into. You kinda over look it an just go for it.

Then tell her. Be honest so she knows what to expect.
That way you won't disappoint her and you can work on your fucking skills with her.

Ok..... ummm yeah it is for ur 1st time

I'm afraid she won't want to be with me if she knows that I'm a virgin. She'll think bad of me.

All you gotta do is say it’s ur 1st time. Most chicks will understand shit after u pop, if ur still hard an not sensitive go for round 2.

This is entirely too much work to get laid.

Don't be a moron like this guy. They have escorts in every state and unless you're a paranoid basement virgin who thinks Law and Order is how the real world works, you literally never have to worry about some "scary pimp" coming and killing/robbing you.

We have all been in ur shoes b4.
Not the same user

Don't do this. Just lie.

Watch 40 year old virgin .

Why would she think bad of you? Because of social stigma's from the 1980's about how virginity is a bad thing?

Grow up you shithead. Stop trying to fuck because of social pressure. If you're really worried about it, ask her for her opinion on virginity?

Stop thinking with your gut dude.

just eat her pussy then lol

Either way she gonna find out if the night pop in 2mins.

Even then it's definitely better to just lie.

This lmao

Tinder/dating advice

>Have a profile
Try to have at least a decent looking photo of yourself. Write something in there. Something witty gives you extra points. Showing abs or your car gives you some points for some girls, others don't like it. Eventually you'll get some matches.

>Write them
Some will not respond. Ever. Some will remove you after writing them, or even before that. Some will talk with you but stop after some time, because they probably got a more interesting match. Girls, especially good looking ones, are showered by messages. It's a competition.

>Ask her out
Don't wait to long for it, she'll get bored with just messages. Don't do it too soon. Don't ask for sex straight away and don't expect it on a first date. Some girls may do it, they usually won't. Take her for a coffee or a beer or a dinner, nothing too fancy or expensive, or even take her for a walk. Avoid watching movies on the first date.

>Don't be too beta
Don't ask her all the time what she want to do and where she want to go. Choose it yourself. Show her a place when they serve a good coffee or something tasty or show her your favourite place in a park or something. Improvise when necessary, she might be allergic to something or vegan or something.

>Don't be obnoxious
Have a shower, wear neat clean clothes, use deodorant, shave yourself or keep your beard neat. Don't talk only about sex. Don't look at her breasts too much. Most girls are not into farting, belching, slurping, messy eating, etc. Talking about a poo you had this morning or a diarrhea you had last week after eating chipotle is usually a really bad idea.

>Proceed
If she had fun with you around you might get a second date. Sex will happen eventually. Maybe at one point you decided to watch a movie on Netflix at yours place or you'll walk her home and she'll invite you in. Sometimes you'll have 3 dates to have sex, sometimes to just kissing or cuddling.

>Repeat
You're more experienced, do it again but better.

This look reasonable

Yes, fuck someone lol

I’ve never been on a date but who the fuck would ever talk about shit or farting during a date

You're a fucking fag, fuck off. First of all, porn is bad for your brain and is a huge waste of time. Cut it out of your life all together if you can. Second, go for cute girls. They don't all have to be home runs, maybe some are borderline but just put yourself out there

>most girls are not into farting, belching, slurping, messy eating, etc.
>keyword: most
i burped and blew it in a chicks face at a wedding and she fucked me. play it by ear, OP.

Take it from me user, I used to date a girl who we hooked up the first time and she took my vcard. I was pretty good at sex (dick wise meh) but my foreplay was really good. If you work hard, you'll be fine. Watch some instructional videos on eating a girl out and fingering. Massage her, suck her tits. Just have fun with it and feel what she's in to. Be confident. If you're not confident then you will fail. Its your first time, you're supposed to be bad. My first time I couldn't get my dick hard, but you know what? My ex gave me a booty call the very next day even tho the sex was meh. Don't over think it

Wow, you turned around quickly

Good thing you realised building up towards more attractive girls is a dumb thing to do.

If porn really was bad for you literally every teen would be dead by now. Scientists tried to study the effects of porn but literally couldn't find a single teenager who didn't watch porn. You can say all you want but the effects simply aren't known.

Don't be a fucking retard and stop listening to your peers and pastor you fucking brainlet

7X4zp9 This is a good place to start OP

Probably people that are socially retarded basement dwellers. I don't know much about OP or whoever reads it.
Repeating basic stuff about what's socially (un)acceptable is never a bad thing.

I'm a different user. I think its more keep your standards open. Not too low but also look for those home runs not just singles (looks wise). Are you retarded? If everyone smoked would that mean its not bad for you tard? Go watch a tedtalk on this shit you dumb idiot, it'll be easier for you to understand. Its very logical on how its bad for your brain unless you're a nigger who can't think himself out of a box. Seriously kys if you're too dense to understand.

I didn't read a single thing in this thread but here:
1. Lower your standards you shitlord
2. Don't give a shit about what she thinks of the dick you're giving her
My first time I wasn't even expecting the girl to want sex and I couldn't focus on me. All I was thinking was "Oh god is this good? Am I doing it right?"
In the end a nut is a nut, who gives a shit. Have some confidence in yourself.

Ted talks aren't science. If everyone smoked and there wasn't a single record of someone who doesn't smoke, we'd have no way of telling if it were really bad. That's same thing with donuts or violent video games.

Now you're focusing on looks huh? Okay.

Chill Fam, just be honest and give it your best. Confidence is always gonna be your best bet. Thin about shit you dont like so you dont blow your load, regulate your speed and dont jackhammer like a retard this isnt a fucking porno. My wife usually likes to go slow and deep movements. Always, ALWAYS foreplay, a dry tunnel will get you both sad AF, play with the nipples (draw a circle with yo tongue son), lick that pussy then go in halfway, stick it in a bit then get it back out (so it goes it and out but not completely) after that just regulate that speed. Good luck Op, you got this

Lost my virginity at 13 to my 14 yr old gf.
Fell in love at 17. Sike doesnt work out
Fucked 15 more girls since then cause fuck it im depressed

Bro its actually disgustingly easy to get pussy. What in the ACTUAL fuck is wrong with you? Thats the question.

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Wdym by you won’t fool anyone. What are some obvious things to girls that point out your a virgin

Hit up tinder sluts, grinder sluts, all sluts

Heeeey brother. I was 25 when I lost mine. Horror story. Met this decent looking Asian girl standing on the side of the street and approaching her (was approaching as many girls as possible back then to learn some pickup) First date, went out to some park. Have lunch. Bring her back. Second date, I say I bring her to a bar, she wears this short skirt. The bar was shit, leave, bring her home. We're on my bed, start kissing, everything going great.

And then she takes off her underwear. Oh the stench. Suddenly I smell the rancid scent of her ass, and immediately lose my erection. Wanted to take a deep breath, but instead wanted to hold my breath instead. It was horrendous. And since I was a virgin at the time, I was extra nervous. Ended up not saying anything...

Proceeded, a couple of pumps, didn't even finish. The condom kept coming off. Eventually we both just lay there naked and stare and the ceiling...

Drive her back. Was nice on the way but slams my car door lol. Answered my text the next day but refused to meet up again. Thank God. Was genuinely traumatized of having sex because of how bad a pussy can smell.

Just saying, your first experience might just stink.

I'm a different user, retard. It was always about looks autismo. What kind of gay fag doesn't care about looks? Some ted talks are trash, others aren't. There are many other articles to back it up. Keep your head in the sand like the dumb nigger you are. Basically your brain gets used to the abundance of women (porn) and variety effecting their dopamine receptors, and brain wiring. Might not be as bad if you say watched Kimmy granger only but still not the same experience as being there and fucking a woman.

You sure it wasn’t just your hand, buddy?

Asians are the worst tbh. The one I boned was so gross like that, didn't want to bang for awhile. Maybe its better if youre a subhuman but I'm white so white girls are best for me

you're going to have to put in at least twice the amount of effort that you think you can put in

Make yourself fucking presentable. Be fit. Be healthy. Have a job. Have a car. Preferably live by yourself and not with your parents. Give her a reason to want you. Be confident. Don't be a fucking beta.