Am getting all kinds of subtle green light signals from this bitch that she's ready to eat my dick, but I can't get myself to make any sort of decisive move.
Went on dates and met up at my house several times already. Even called an Uber for her so she could get home one late night after we had gotten shit faced, and despite her explicitly asking me not to.
What am I afraid of b?
Wut mate?
Being a closet faggot, which you clearly are, since you can't make a move
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rejection. Your self esteem is so low even a sure thing is too much of a risk.
You probably subconsciously are afraid of vaginas
If you aren't into her then stop hanging around with her. Move on physically and stop ego boosting yourself while doing nothing.
>Several dates at OPs house
>Still hasn't berried dick into King Arthur
not op, but fuck, this one hit home. how can i fix myself of this insecurity?
Fucc..
Been trying so hard not to resort to that explanation but it cuts so deep user..
Hate myself wtf
You might be gay. You shouldn’t be this indecisive and anxious.
>user, I don’t wanna an Uber. I just wanna stay here and ride your cock.
>yea I’m gonna call you a cab
Small, incremental pushes.
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Why are you kids so fucking retarded?
You've already got it in the bag. Idk, maybe you're just nervous or impotent?
>Even called an Uber for her so she could get home one late night after we had gotten shit faced, and despite her explicitly asking me not to.
You blew it. You're now her gay friend, user.
Been there as well OP. Eventually the girl lost interest in me and moved on. Still hurts, but its a lesson you dont forget. If you're still seeing her, try your hardest.
Sometimes you can feel the vibes and kiss her it without asking but sometimes it's hard to tell if she's ready for a kiss, but the thing that always works for me is if she is in my house or I'm in hers or we're sitting in the car and it's silent I always just say in the smoothest tone possible, "can I kiss u?"
She's going to either say nothing, nod and go in for the kiss, or say "I was waiting for u to kiss me" or something like that. If she says no for whatever reason, cool, that's why you asked dumb bitch.
Nah honestly.. No
I did suffer with porn induced ed early on with the ex but that issue's been fixed and sublimated over for years now
Bottom line is I know I can dick her down so she never forgets me
Yeah that's the most fucked up thing abt this whole sitch
I am massively into her. I want this bitch in my life, badly
Just don't know why I feel the need to be so "good-guyish" and pure about this thing
Just ask yourself "Why?" to anything you're having doubts and until your answer is "Ir really doesnt matter at all" you'll be a beta fag.
What helped the porn induced erectile disfunction? I have that too. I have a gorgeous pussy infront of me that I can't get hard around with a condom on. Once I take the condom off I am hard again but fucking raw is retarded.
She's still not asking for it if you ask me. Youre going to be convicted of rape and taken into custody in the courthouse like the disgusting male pig that you are.
It doesnt matter. None of this matters.
Seeing it that way.. Really puts things into perspective
Can guarantee I'm not gay, but I can see why she (or anyone) would think that
I need some serious help guys, how are we so frail even when what we want is right there being handed to us
Invite her to do something again and when yall are alone just straight ask "can I kiss u" after a good as conversation or a good ass night. She'll pull away when she feels like it and if the kissing turns to making out and goes on for quite a while put ur hand on that ass and squeeze and tug on that shit. She'll push ur hand away if thats too fast and if so slow the fuck down and be happy with that for tonight.
I feel you user. Been there trust me
My honest (and short) answer is stop watching porn for a while.
In the ed help community they call it "rebooting", look it up. That's what I did when I was dating my ex at the time, went cold turkey and just gradually got better and better through her patient love and supportiveness.
Some nights we would just lay in bed and enjoy each other's presence, just cuddle, and would try intercourse when I felt like it
Otherwise just rebooting and plenty of patience from my female at the time bless her heart
Good luck user!
If you are single you will still notice very quick results
Female user?
I know about the not asking for it movement and I respect it.
Don't worry, but I assure you in this case this lady wants to lay with me, and that's a perfectly ok thing for a lady to want too.
There's a long history being this post that I'm not going to go into for time but, just trust that I am being considerate and attentive with this particular woman ;T
She's a friend from work
I'm single. I get hole like once every two weeks but I still jack off every night as routine before bed with a tight tug with a lubeless hand for about an hour and browsing because that feels best to me.
I gotta drop the porn...shits awesome though
Ok man
She's proposed a ton of follow up date ideas at this point so, I don't think it's entirely lost yet
We're doing a movie at her house after work during late hours. She's already suggested I should stay in the guest room since I live far away
Not gonna fuck this one up
Fuck dude...
Youre right
Gotta try my hardest in this situation it's the least one owes himself
I don't know pops
We have anxiety and it's just.. help we need
Trips of truth. Drop the porn.
"Risk is the price of progress" - Gene Krantz, Apollo missions flight director
One day im going to give someone advice and it's going to work against me, but bro you've got to give her an excuse to escalate.
Women need an excuse to sleep with you. They don't want to be responsible for a bad decision, and they make fuck tons.
"The old and the weak are doomed." - Captain William B. J. Blazkowicz
You're right brother.. This is no way to live
Thinking about it now I feel there's a deep seated contradiction somewhere. Gotta look inside and find
Ok that's new..
Ok..
I think I sort of get the gist of what you're saying it's just a part of me doesn't like playing catch with a girl like that
It's like, do you want this or not. I don't want to guess
But then I guess what you're saying is they don't want to say either