Omg what do I say now or do you think she’s just being nice

She is quite obviously not interested since she ignored the meeting up part, she's just being civil.

She said it was “great” working with me

She appreciates you being interested and does seem to like you, but she does not want to date. Or fuck.

This, but you did it user, good on you for not being aspie as fuck

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It sounds like you're on the right path, chief. Good luck to you and I hope everything works out the way you want it to.

motherfucker never use the "if you ever want let me know"

make up your mind about something you would like to do and ask her straight up for a specific activity/date

The message you sent stopped just before being autistic so take the win and don't reply again. She didn't reply to the part about doing something outside of work so that's a no. Her reply was polite and civil without inviting any further comment or implying she'd want to go on a date.
Congratulations on having the courage to message her and for not shitting it totally up. Now don't message her again and bide your time - if you see her again IRL be casual and friendly but nothing unprofessional; you've shown your hand, she'll know you're interested, if you act overly interested she'll smell the desperation and run. Your best bet is to be seen to get on well with others and maybe she'll start to raise her estimations of you. Good luck user

Thanks everyone, I’ll take your considerations under advisement

If this is real, DO NOT FUCKING SAY ANYTHING ELSE! You'll just fuck it up. She didn't mention your suggestion, so she wasn't interested. If she is, she'll contact you again about it.

ok this isnt hard
you go out like normal people not romantic not a couple thing

if things go well than you can see about thati n the future but think of this as a audition to prove your not a fucing weirdo

What a retarded piece of shit logic, why can't she be more direct, I wouldn't mind my feelings hurt if she directly mentioned the suggestion and said "sorry but I'm not interested" instead we usually get this indirect bullshit that actually kinda hurts more, fuck this gay earth.

Ask her to go out for some dinner and maybe some spaghetti spike be nice.

Damn, if you're OP, she really dodged a bullet by not replying to you about going out. Fucking autist.

Dont reply anything. Leave it like this, you put a seed, let it grow. you ask her to go out she didnt tell anything about it. If you dont replay to her now you can be the cool guys who randomly send invitation to go out without it being important invitation.

well, women don't want to be rude and hurt feelings, so they use this hinting stuff. But as the other user said, give it some time and if possible, "bump" into her IRL. If you don't know where to find her, then message her after few weeks and make some proposal to do something together, if she refuses, it's clear she's not interested.

That was not OP

Send her a dick pic at 3am

If you see her outside of work be sure to say “hey, when are going on that date?” Make sure you are very confident about it.

She’s just being overly polite. I’m sure she liked working with you but that’s as far as it goes. If she was interested she would have jumped on the opportunity to hang out. Best case scenario is to wait a couple days and see if she says anything. You could have caught her off guard.

I think I’m going to wait a week and ask her to see a movie, see what she says, I’ll most likely never see her again, I work at multiple locations and only saw her because I was staying late but she was laughing at all my jokes and we got along good but maybe she’s like that with everyone...

I'm not OP. I don't care how autistic I am.

It's still stupid, being direct would hurt less in my opinion.

It's a shame that you expect everyone to cater to you and your need for things to be said literally. Take a hint and move the fuck on.

Aaaaaand We’re losing him. OP, STOP. Leave it alone

sure why not, if she refuses, move on, it's that simple

yeah it's stupid but deal with it, it's life bro.

She didn't mention the "outside of work" thing. She's being nice. There's nothing to read into. She took your compliment and avoided your offer.

dont say anything more, if you just wait she will say something if she likes you, why are people on here so socially inept?

Nothing to gain nothing to lose

Don't ask her out of the blue. If during that week she messages you, then maybe ask her. But the ball is in her court now. Just because you're interested, doesn't automatically make her interested and if you keep pushing, the more uneasy she's going to feel and the more rejected you'll feel

Since when did /b become so socially capable? You have a problem with me being literally autistic? I can't help it you dumb fuck. Don't worry I Don't even hope to experience this kind of shit because this is the reason in never tried in the first place you cunt.

Learn this for the future but for now just back off. Message her in a week inviting her to something cool (preferably, something relevant to her interests, did you manage to catch any of them when you worked with her?)

Stay relevant, add value, dont be a pussy.

You kinda beta'd the fuck out with your first message but theres always a chance to come back stronger.

When was it established that you were "actually autistic"? I beg your fucking pardon, asshole.
My brother is moderately functioning and is starting to properly notice girls but isn't noticing the discomfort some show. So I understand.

This is the most delicate part.

Take the advice people gave you. You could have been smoother but you did well enough. STOP here. She has your nr she will get back to you IF she is interested,dont push it.

Try not to think of this as an option,let it sit and mind your life in the meanwhile.

and one last thing, if someone is trying to give you advice and you literally have no experience, there is barely any wriggle room for you to accuse someone's advice as being retarded.

>Try not to think of this as an option,let it sit and mind your life in the meanwhile.

best advice regarding all girls, don't let them get in your head too much if there isn't something between you guys already

>if you ever wanted to do something outside of work let me know
>let me know
Biggest mistake guys make. Never fucking say that. Ever. Don't put the responsibility on her to ask you out sometime.

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Next.

>When was it established that you were "actually autistic"? I beg your fucking pardon, asshole.
You unironically sound like a cunt.
I notice hints and shit when I see them, it just bothers me so much because I'd prefer the situation to be more direct so everyone can properly move on.

I never accused the advise or advisor of being retarded and that advise was not directed at me anyways so I don't give a fuck. What I consider retarded is the whole process of indirect interactions and how we humans are supposed to interact. You dumb cunt.

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dont give up user give her the old classic
>plz respond

Well done, give it a couple of days.
See if she will work in your department again, or see if you can work in her department and play it off as a coincidence.

Make small talk from there, get a hobby or music taste out of that. And use that as conversation lubricant in Facebook messenger or whatever.

Now rape her lmao

you r fucked shes probably sending your message to hr right now and accusing you of harassment

I am a cunt, yeah. It seems to be the only word you know too.

Lmao I’m going to send her that right now!

please share your results

Roll

"if you ever" is also a culprit.

Sounds like you are willing to prioritize going out with her over almost anything else. Being available at any time does nothing to make you interesting.

Ofc she can very well be interested and simply cannot reciprocate because of reasons. Even so,sometimes insisting does work if you re confident and attractive,but thats not for all of us.

English is not my mother tongue you insufferable bitch.
You see, this kind of comebacks, the way we are supposed to interact, it's all just do retarded, fuck this gay earth.

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your letting her get away you have to tell her exactly this
>if you want to keep having a great time working with me we should do something outside of work let me know

Got an excuse for everything. First you're autistic and now you're non English speaking. Your language is fine. You're just a whiny bitch.

Lol sounds like you are threathening her to have a bad time at work if she dosent want to go out.

Why do people need to complicate themselves. If she got the point she will reply or not. If she wants to hang out/talk/fuck she will reach.

These.

Its not like all hope is lost but the ball is in her court now. Dont press the subject anymore just be casual and dont message her on social media if that isnt a thing you guys have been doing before this. If she likes you shell show a sign or two.

I know I'm a winy bitch, that's why screech in this website instead of in real life, I know how to act in public, all of those were not excuses tho, I'm literally autistic and a non native English speaker.
My point is still the same, human interaction is moronic.

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She's being polite by not responding. She's not interested.

ffs user you blew it
was hoping op was autistic enough to write that

Man, it is shitty and I get what you're saying. In an ideal world we would always understand each other and know where we stand. You learn more with every social interaction you have and sometimes we just have to bite the bullet and feel hurt and get embarrassed.

>if you ever wanted to do something outside of work let me know

As many have pointed out, she didn't straight up embarrass you so could have been much worse but this is poor wording.
First of all you managed to express interest whilst having put 100% of the onus on her to make the first move. Now even if she did think you were kinda cool or whatever, she has to actively be like "ok I'm gonna do it!" and hit you up and think of a message and an idea of something do ect. and have to sack up on your behalf send it to you. Almost no girl is going to be so attracted to you that she'll do that just to get some time with you.
The way that you put it on her to make everything happen communicates to her that you don't like her enough to put in the risk and effort to actually ask her out. It's lukewarm and weak.
You can still recover though. Off the top of my head I'd say your best bet is leaving it for like a week then flicking her a message with some cool event that you and a small group of friends are going to, ideally maybe some mutual acquaintances are also going. Say hey we're going to this thing, if you and a friend or two wanna come with us we are having pre drinks at x location. Then get a bit of booze and good times flowing at the event. From there you still have yknow, play it right in that situation but at least if she comes that's a good sign

>I think I’m going to wait a week and ask her to see a movie
Don't ever go to the fucking cinema with a girl you want to get close to. You're just sitting there, passively. You're not comfortable around each other yet, and you can't do anything about it for the entire length of the movie. Do something that allows you to directly interact with her, that allows you to talk to her.
Movies are for established couples.

u know a lot about ur mothers tongue dont u

boy

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Indirect interactions are humans way to test if new person they are dealing with is perceptive and empathetic. In order to be a good friend or romantic/sexual partner you need to care about peoples feelings and pick up the way that their words and body language and behavior indicates what is going on beyond their base level of sharing.
Humans will never just talk in black and white full disclosure straight up truths with every random person they meet, it would have been evolutionary suicide for most of our history. Interacting with people in a way that indicates your ability to pick up on social cues and demonstrate interpersonal skills in one of the great joys of life. Living like literally Klingons or whatever would be a fucking boring one dimensional nightmare imo

No one likes being embarrassed, that obviously includes me, that is why I avoid this kind of situations, what OP experienced happened to him because he had the balls to go and say it, receive a stupid indirect and maybe even get a chance. I don't like going through that, I just simply don't make the first move and everything is avoided for me.
That ideal world is possible in theory, we just need to be direct, that way we can all understand each other, these stupid situations would be avoided.

Ye I do boi, I have a lick whenever I can.

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He didn't have the balls to go and say it, he sent her a flip floppy weak suggestion that if she wants to do something then she should go the trouble of asking him out.
You talk about being direct and how these stupid situations would then be avoided, but neither you nor OP are able to actually do that and then expect others to take all the risk.

She wants your nuts OP shes just to shy to say itt it, i suggest surprising her with a nice gift.

You are right user, and I hate that we all are supposed to be this way. Even tho it's evolutionarily justified and makes sense in a logical way.

>He didn't have the balls to go and say it, he sent her a flip floppy weak suggestion that if she wants to do something then she should go the trouble of asking him out.
>You talk about being direct and how these stupid situations would then be avoided, but neither you nor OP are able to actually do that and then expect others to take all the risk.

Yeah you are right, he should have being more direct in the first place too, I don't expect the other to take the risk, I simply avoid the situation all together by not messaging the girl in the first place.

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I'm simply sick of playing the 4d social chess.
>Hurrrr durr you made Right choice op, now just wait and bla bla bla.
>Hurrrr durrr you stupid beta why did you give her the burden of having to ask you out, be less of a coward.

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if you want to hang out with her ask her if she wants to do something instead of saying that she should ask you if she wants to do something with you, what you should do is just say something like "hey wanna do something with me? i like hanging out with you and would like to get to know you better" and replace hanging out with something tangible like go for coffee or go for a drink at a bar. but the absolute best thing is to ask her to do something you think she will find fun, minigolf is somehow something a lot of girls really like doing on dates so thats a good one, but there are probably a lot of other fun things you can do. never ask someone to go watch a movie with you as a date that is the absolute worst date you can go on with someone you are not with as a boyfriend and they will find you dull as fuck because you dont really have an opportunity to talk in a movie theatre

Yeah this.

Trying to hit her up daily even for small talk will make you come off as creepy/annoying. Give it a couple of days and treat her like a friend instead of a pussy objective. And if she ends up not being interested then wean off conversations instead of blowing up at her.

You're the type that will accuse her of being a dumb whore for not being interested, aren't you.

Take your time, get to know her more, then start doing some stuff together.

No, I'm the type of person who would avoid the intersection completely by not even trying to message her.

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Women in general value emotions and "feels right". Being direct is hit or miss. Its just how they play the game.

Biologically they are conditioned to trust their "instinct" cuz even in prehistoric ages men had a tendency to fuck and scram when they get bored or see another piece of ass.

They do value the simplicity of men over this topic,all gfs i had always said that they enjoy hanging out with men because of their simplistic outlook on social issues.

Ofc if you catch them on their menstruation and shit lines up your way(handsome,attitude or lucky conjuncture) youll catch their attention.

Also clean tasteful clothing and a good perfume can carry A LOT

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Ignore these other fucking retards. do this OP. Trust me I’ve had sex with a girl

I read about 5 words and I already know this is a load of shit and you’re a tool

Kek'd.

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Women are subhuman. They can't just use words instead they're cryptic and lead you on just to save face and "be nice". Just move on if you can't handle that and learn how to deal with it

> Women are subhuman

Or just not interested in you :D

Nah he has a point. Also tits or GTFO.

5 words is the maximum span before your soy brain starts ejaculating shit.

Good luck figuring shit out,tough road ahead for you.

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obv being nice or would have answered your question...