My gf has gained weight since recovering from anorexia. Im disgusted and not attracted anymore. Am I the asshole?
When I met my gf, she was thin and beautiful. She was also anorexic, which was bad and i felt sad for her. 6 months ago, she started getting help and has been in recovery and no longer experiences anorexia for the most part. However, she’s gained a lot of weight, 31 lbs to be exact. She’s 5’6 and used to be 97 lbs, but now is 128 lbs. That’s almost 130 lbs! Its kind of gross looking. She’s just not attractive anymore. I prefer when she was thin.
Last night during dinner, I confided with her that I prefer her skinny then the way she is now. She started to cry and immediately left. Her sister and best friend have been texting and calling me calling me an asshole and other terrible things. Am I the asshole though for being honest? I feel as though i have a right to comment on her body.
I agree with you, Cenk. You're not the bad guy here.
Ian Roberts
5'6 128 isn't heavy or fat tbqh.
I like skinny girls, but not anorexic skinny, that's a problem.
Cooper Butler
Thx man, I appreciate your support Yea Forumsro
Charles Morales
Idk man, she's got stretch marks too
Oliver Carter
the stretch marks are there bc she used to have no extra skin bc she was so skinny but now that she’s a healthy weight her skin needs to stretch out more. fuck you’re retarded.
Carter King
it still looks gross
Chase Powell
I dont understand whats wrong with her. I see girls all the time without stretch marks.
Isaac Ramirez
it still looks gross
John Wright
how much do you weigh op? and what’s your height? probably 5’4” and 300lbs
Im sorry ive done my girl/wife wrong in the past about her body, but use logical man you're talking about a 5'6" girl at 13p being to fat? Do you want that bitch to look like a toothpick? Why not provide her a healthier lifestyle, not a diet, and take walks with her so she can stay in shape, put on some curve, and not bend the moment your hips slam onto the flatboard of a girl you just shamed your girl over
There was no point in being honest like that because she obviously isn't going back to that weight for health reasons. Dumbass. 130 lbs is a good weight anyways, weirdo.
Christian Gray
This is way more attractive and feminine. Just admit you want to bang little kids.
Carson Diaz
No its not. It's too much. She should be closer to 105
Zachary Russell
Also I felt like she deserved to know my opinion
Robert Moore
Fuck off. Both are still feminine, I just prefer skinny.
Lucas Ortiz
You are garbage and she and every other woman on earth wil be better off without you.
Landon Wood
I hope she doesn't;t leave me. I've done so much for her.