hey, Yea Forums,femanon here. Please don't ask for pictures, this is a serious question since I have no one to ask for... really.
Sorry for the bad redaction, I'm not a native english speaker but here it goes:
What could I do to forget definitely about some dude I dated a couple times? Well... I guess that's the reasonable question to ask since I could also ask if it'd be okay to reach for him (I have his number and etc) but the truth is I'd feel like a loser doing it.
It's a long story but I'll try to tell just the most important stuff: this is a guy I met last year (at that time of the year i think). I had followed him since much before though in a social media site, but last year I finally found an "excuse" to talk to him and invited him to meet irl
...I already was a bit interested in him before meeting, just based on the stuff he posted, but when we meet I think I definitely fell in love with him /: He might not have been the most handsome man ever but for some reason I really liked him. (continued)
So we meet a couple more times and ended up having sex. After we had sex I had some incident happen on my life that made me unable to reach to him for some weeks and during that time he got back with his ex. I was really heartbroken when that happened and thought I’d never talk to him again …BUT. Not so long after that they broke up again lol and we started meeting again. I dated him for like 2 months, he told me this time he was finally over his ex and stuff but… he seemed to not care at all about me, tbh. I suspected he was only using me for sex and after I saw some posts on his blog that were obviously about “missing his ex” I decided to def. cut him out of my life It was probably the right decision I think but sadly I haven’t been able to forget him since then. I’ve dated with other guys but I keep thinking about him. I’ve thought about contacting him again, in fact I’ve been about to do it but it’s probably better not to, right? Or should I give him a second chance? You guys should know since you’re male lol males don’t change their behavior like that right? I think if I contact him there would be 2 options: a) he blatantly rejects me for having cut him in first place or b) we start dating again but again I realice he doesn’t care as much as I do about me and maybe is still into his ex Or is there any option? Help pls.
If you truly help me I might post tits... lol jk maybe
Hunter Hall
bump
Aaron Turner
>Tl;Dr >Learn to greentext >Tits or gtfo Fucking whore I hope he never talks to you again and you end up single and alone forever
Grayson Flores
Sage
Lincoln Thomas
u're a funny incel
Jonathan Ward
though you're right, i'll use that next time i post some shit
in fact i had trouble redacting it bc not an english speaker, greentext would have been easier
+1
Bentley Powell
Hostility towards completely innocuous posts isn't a substitute for a personality.
Jonathan Young
ur just a loser dude wow not even op but just hadda let u know homie
Liam Parker
as someone who has a little bit of experience with something similar, you only really have two choices:
muster up some courage and be upfront about it with the guy
or keep going forward in life. in my experience, that kind of feeling fades over time.
Nathan Carter
tits or gtfo
Austin Rodriguez
thank bros (i'm op)
yeah what's up with the aggressivity i was just asking for some input for males bc you should know more about the male mind than me ofc lol
>femanon here You're probably a disgusting MtF tranny, (i.e. not a female), but whatever >what can I do to forget about some dude Time. It just takes time. That's not a cliched answer either, it's really the only sure thing. >I fell in love with him Probably not. It sounds like you were infatuated with him, which is normal, but don't get it twisted. >he got back with his ex He definitely didn't love you >we started meeting again >he seemed to not care about me he started using you again** he probably didn't care about you >I cut him out of my life You did the right thing. Again: it takes time. ..or another dude? Might not be the best idea considering things though. So, time.
Matthew Sullivan
yeah I had decided on the "keep going forward" thing and thought it'd work but... it's been months and I haven't been able to get over it. Even though I've tried dating other guys + Sometimes I even touch myself thinking about when I was with him (wow)
So I'm starting to think the feeling will not ever fade that easily.
So maybe I should swallow my pride and talk to him? Or do you think I just need longer for the feeling to fade. (It's been like 6 months)
Jordan Hall
This
Camden Sanchez
Oh and good luck
Cooper Jenkins
I was exactly the same way about 6 months ago. But, once I started doing productive things with my life, I realized that that nagging feeling was beginning to fade.
Adrian Rivera
Have you tried Dmt?
Xavier Jones
DICK. Miles and miles of DICK. The more cock miles you take in your twat vagina the less you'll think of that guy.
you're welcome
Levi Robinson
I know its difficult but it is best to avoid a relationship like that, if he truly is only using you as a replacement for his ex and a sexual object things will only get worse with time. I understand it will be hard but I suggest moving on and potentially trying to avoid relationships for a while until you are truly over him.
Isaiah Cox
i'm not a tranny lol
thanks for the answer though, you're kinda right on the infatuation thing,. In fact I put "I fell in love" bc I didn't know how to put it better but yeah... I think it's more like infatuation
a powerful one though lol
you're probably right on that he didn't love me though i could say we meet like 2-3 times before that. It was not much so he couldn't have been "in love" with me either way (we talked about that once and he told me that in fact he wasn't so interested in me during that time but he was starting to be)
i found he never really demostrated it though and the post about his ex was the thing that def. made me decide to cut him out
but i keep thinking about him. damn.
Aaron Cooper
Man Yea Forums is one sad fuckin place these days. There's no way anyone here would engage without tits and timestamp.
if you were a dude I'd say jerk your dick off and see how you feel about them without your massive cum load blocking your brain
you're a fucking grill tho, you have the fucking ezpass to life. stop fucking moaning and post your bewbs already
Gabriel King
>ITT: butthurt white knights and ass-blasted cunts
If you don't show tits, OP, you won't get sympathy from most hardcore Yea Forums users. Literally all it takes is tits and timestamp. You don't even need to show your face, or have good-lookin' knockers. But you should understand the culture, and don't lash-out when you don't get your way like the whipped tots I quoted.
Robert Brooks
>What could I do to forget definitely about some dude I dated a couple times? Well... I guess that's the reasonable question to ask since I could also ask if it'd be okay to reach for him (I have his number and etc) but the truth is I'd feel like a loser doing it.
ffs just ask him out. you have nothing to lose.
Blake Peterson
give us tits
Dominic Gutierrez
idk who you are but thank you haha
nah that's not true i go to uni and actually do stuff but that doesn't fill the love void
loll thank you I've tried 2 since then but it hasn't worked so far
nope why? I was going to try it once but finally didn't... idk what it has to do with my post though.
thanks for the advice, that's probably the right thing tbh /:
in fact i'm a pretty proud person so it's kinda unlikely i'll reach to him again but... i still felt like i had to ask
i might do it when drunk though sometimes i get so dumb when i drink
Joseph Adams
You'll never really forget him you just have to accept that you don't have any longevity in a relationship. Most real advice you'll get, show tits pls.
Owen Hernandez
Agreed
>not bumping >summerfagottry
Mason Roberts
Ex's are like dead pets as soon as you get a new one you forget about the old one. As soon as you find a guy you really like and you start dating him. You will forget about this one.
Tyler Jackson
you mean get over him? you will never forget him. its impossible to do that. you have few options chose any you like. 1. see a relationship therapist to get over him. 2. consult a psychotherapist. 3. use self help books on coping with shitty relationship. 4.do four tabs of lsd 5. do 8 grams of magic mushrooms and spend six hours getting over all the shit in life.
Luke Cook
TITS OR GTFO
Liam Peterson
You were in love with a perfect ideal you created of him, He doesn't care about you. Find someone who does.
Nicholas Foster
wtf is an ezpass?
i know you dudes don't get it but being a girl doesn't mean you can have basically anything you want
i mean most dudes will definitely be willing to fuck you or w/e but not all will be in love or want to have a relationship with you haha
Landon Ward
If he was using you for sex I doubt you'll ever get him to fall for you. Find a guy who cares and don't have sex until you're sure about him.
Brandon Anderson
it's so tempting... i'd have to swallow my pride though
last time i told him that i didn't want anything to have to do with him again and basically told him to fuck off
i'd feel kinda pathetic sending the first message.
Ian Long
well to be fair i led him with sex, he wasn't the one who pressed me to do it
i'm not sure he was using me for sex, he might have taken it because i gave it to him but the thing that makes me think he was is that outside of it he didn't show much affection.
and why wait for sex? i like having sex tbh, why should i "not have sex" with a dude if i want in order to be gf material... it's so dumb how you guys work, you want sex but if a girl leads with sex she's seen as a whore??
Blake King
Every faggot in this thread whose response is not "tits or gtfo" needs to end themselves. You are everything that is wrong with Yea Forums
Camden Hall
k
i bet you have a small dick
Landon Barnes
Smol peepee.
Luke Parker
>i'm not a tranny lol Cool >thanks for the answer though You're welcome Don't spend too much time rationalizing it all. It was smart to cut him off. It's smart going forward to keep your mind occupied with other things. Be thankful you're not a psychopath or a BPD monster that's incapable of pair bonding and just give it time. You'll be fine. Eventually you'll find a man that makes your pussy wet -and- treats you with dignity. Time. >idk who you are but thank you haha This is me
Sebastian Edwards
>reeeeee these men need to be horny incels like me and abuse OP for nudes Nah. I give fellow Anons advice when it's asked for often, I do the same for Femanons too. You're a faget.
Eli Reyes
Play with your bean for awhile, it’ll sort itself out.
Lincoln Gutierrez
If you want to get over the guy pick up a hobby that you can put your whole self into. Like for me, I started model making try something artsy or complex to take your mind off that person.
Wyatt Rivera
dUDES there's some NEWS.
This guy (who had unfollowed me on the social site we met lol) started following me 2 days ago again. LOL. I just saw it and i'm like wtf
do you think he could be interested in me? it might seem dumb but ...maybe not
Julian Reed
i'm kinda impressed tbh
Parker Young
bump
Jacob Sanders
bump
Brayden Bennett
Dont get back with him he still has feelinga for his ex
Logan James
sorry if I offtopic but, which is your native language? sorry, just curiosity
Thomas Watson
thanks fr the opinion
spanish
Brayden Brooks
i think i'm gonna ask him why he started following me and see what happens
gonna wait a bit more tho so he doesn't think i'm too interested in him like i am
Josiah Hernandez
Bueno, más fácil para mi (imagino que para ti también) ya que a esta hora no proceso mucho. Mira, esa relación que narras se lee bastante tóxica estimada, se lee a que tu tienes algún tipo de dependencia emocional en ese sujeto pero sin una real conexión o correspondencia, quizá pasas por un proceso de baja autoestima o quizá simplemente te involucraste más de lo debido, en cualquier caso debes salir de ahí y te aconsejo la terapia, suena cliché pero realmente suele ser necesaria.
Hunter Stewart
Sep, a todos los que les he contado me han dicho que es tóxica. Con respecto a lo de la terapia, sinceramente tengo algunos problemas psicológicos que nada tienen que ver con él, voy a terapia desde los 15 asi que supongo sería un problema más simplemente xD
También por eso creo que tengo problemas con los hombres ya que sin presumir me considero algo atractiva e inteligente pero siempre me tildan de "loca"
Yo creo que desarrollé un apego por él porque lo seguía desde hace bastante tiempo en esta red social x en realidad, asi que aunque lo conocí en persona el año pasado siento una cercanía de mucho mas tiempo
Gracias por tu consejo, de qué país eres?
Benjamin Russell
I think personally that you should take him back...even if he's still into her you're still into him and eventually he may love you more than her
Jaxon Walker
I wouldn't go back with someone who lied about something as important as loving me no matter what would happen and especially if it was to use me so keeping him away is a good call
Joseph Williams
thanks for the opinion
Nathaniel Cook
Chile, la tasa de deprimidos hace q mi comentario tenga principio de causa xd
John Garcia
Igual lo que me dices no suena bien, me refiero, las redes sociales no siempre nos muestran "como somos". Muestran lo que queremos mostrar, me pasó también que he conocido personas por esos medios y en la vida real me doy cuenta que los conozco desde 0 (por qué sucede? porque la red social suele ser fantasía o apariencia, relamente nunca debemos basarno en eso para conocer a alguien xd)
Juan Mitchell
he never lied to me though, when we first met he never said it was serious or smth
tbh there are a lot of bad things about him but lying is not one...
Logan Murphy
Wow, yo también.
Cuático que chilenos estén viendo esta weá ahora, ojalá no lo vea nadie que conozca haha
nah, igual eso es bien improbable
te pediría el contacto pero no creo que quieras dejar algún medio para contactarte en este sitio infecto
Camden Allen
soy la creadora del tema por si acaso
igual algo dicen sobre las personas, en particular esta red social (no es fb ni ig)
Como que la gente la usa, creo, para publicar cosas que no se atreverían a decir irl asi que eso igual dice algo
pero entiendo tu punto
Jose Diaz
ammm te daría uno q es más falso que dios, lo uso para estas cosas michaelsmithj es cuenta de "yimmeil", así que manda al cartero virtual ahí pa seguir hablando (ojalá no te hayas desconectado xd). La vdd me dio curiosidad q seas del mismo país
Robert Taylor
era michaelsmithj25, en todo caso si, sitio infecto..
Leo Garcia
farty poop peee
Charles Martin
te voy a contactar
a mi tambien me llamo la atencion xd
William Bell
Bitch we are more than willing to help and give advice but follow protocol. Tits. And date that shit.
No sean putos, lo único que necesitas hacer es tener mejor autoestima. Vale madre los demás. Especialmente los mexicanos.
Ian Wilson
at least use a timestamp of your hand or something, it's nothing personal but i'm not gonna do something nice for a dude, that's gay
Gavin Walker
You need to go back
Kayden Cruz
Te imaginas latinoamérica entera tuviera mejor autoestima? de donde sacan recursos naturales los otros países?
Thomas Bell
Latinoamerica nesecita autoestima? solo los paises negros e indigenas
Hudson Cox
SEETHING INCEL
Joseph Wood
nice trips
Brayden Walker
You sound like you played yourself I've played myself before to Do what people do Shut the fuck up Move on And post tits cause nobody wants to hear that
Adrian Stewart
No se si lo dice el típico gordo gringo (de ser así, te felicito por aprender otro idioma, debe ser muy difícil) porque si es un español, dude, no tienes nada que decirnos, españa solo fue buen país mientras la gobernaban países externos
Adrian Clark
que español papa? Argentino a corazón y 100% ario
Charles Gutierrez
Honestamente eres un pendejo Acaso no puedes ver de que las países más mejores del mundo son de los blancos y asiáticos y no de los negros o hispanos?
William Sullivan
Argentina es blanca papa, volve a la jungla
Ryder Hughes
>femanon here >don't ask for pictures lol tits or gtfo
Aiden Brown
La gente se parecen blancos Aún así no son Los blancos son la mejor raza del mundo Sin ellos, no estuviéramos vivos Los hispanos y los negros son al contrario ¿Porque los hispanos y negros huyen de sus países a venir a países blancos?
Cameron Morales
flaco, no compares con mexico donde cualquier hijo de indigenas se cree blanco teniendo pelo negro, la unica forma de ser blanco es tener 4 abuelos europeos
Logan Stewart
A... ese país, te pago en dólares para que dejes de escribir? Se que harían lo que fuera por dólares xd
Jaxson Sanders
ahí esta la cosa, la economía puede morirse, pero no vas a ver al Argentino promedio cagando en las calles o teniendo problemas para formular una oración como cualquier shithole latinoamericano, con la cantidad de Europeos que vinieron al pais, la cultura no es la misma, ya no se puede cambiar, por eso aunque pasen 100 años de decadencia sigue siendo mejor que cualquier shithole latinoamericano
Sebastian Collins
Me parezco indigena pero es transparente, la realidad de que el orgullo de mi gente no es con razón No hay porque debemos de ser tan orgullosos cuando ni podemos evitar el sufrimiento a causa de nuestras decisiones ajenas
Landon Lewis
cada país latinoamericano que veo siempre es lo mismo, u odian a USA por ser mejores que ellos, o los aman por la misma razón, doy gracias que la clase media y alta argentina los odian por ser ignorantes y repugnantes, no por tener envidia de un país invadido por Mexicanos
Isaac Allen
you're an incel who's unhappy with people having a relationship, kill yourself faggot.
Aaron Long
El rencor no va cambiar lo real: los hispanos están una grada debajo de la raza blanca
David Bennett
son una raza inferior que toma orgullo de las cosas mas pequeñas, como un hondureño insultando a un haitiano por ser mas negro y pobre que el
Gabriel Wood
"la cultura no es la misma", claro, tienen una cultura como la italiana donde el único sistema político que funciona es el populismo, ningún modelo político serio funciona ahí. Mucho de que sentirse orgulloso no? Un vertedero ideológico es lo que me parece
Jaxon Price
la cultura no es solo la economia, aca no toman orgullo de que un español analfabeta violo a su tataraabuela indigena, toman orgullo de como un pais en la mierda paso al top 10 de paises en PIB per capita gracias a europeos viniendo a arreglar un pais desolado, y despues de 100 años de incompetencia, la clase media sigue siendo mas grande y educada que en otros shitholes
Sebastian Lopez
Mamame la verga Joto desgraciado Prefiero cogerte
Parker Lee
Time stamped sharpie in pooper
Jace Collins
putos todos
Jaxon Ward
Seria puto por ti ;) Pero joto no soy
Christian Sullivan
Contestame... Puta desgraciao
Luis Hill
spics are getting angry
Kevin White
Either you Google translated, understand Spanish, or are op (fem)