>Be me >Huge crush on girl who lives near me >We talk a lot but she rarely wants to hang out >Asks me to help her find a decent DSLR camera >Ihaveanidea.jpg >"Hey I have a spare DSLR you can have" >"Really user?! Thank you so much!" >Give her camera for free >Girl is super grateful and gives me a kiss >feelsgoodman.png >Later asks to meet up to show her how to use it >Asks if I can torrent Lightroom for her >We hang out twice after that to show her the camera and get her Lightroom >Really nice spending time with her >Think we're hitting it off
Fast Forward a couple days
>"Hey wanna hang out again?" >"No thanks user" >Continues to give blunt answers >Eventually stops talking unless she has a question about Lightroom or the camera
What have I dont to deserve this? I was doing a nice thing, the least she could do is show a little attention. I'm not asking to date her just not to take my shit and cut me out especially after I thought we were hitting it off
I wouldn't know how to ask for it back, I willingly gave it to her I'd look like an asshole to go back on that, even though she kind of fucked me over first
Jackson Carter
if this is true you're a fucking retard, don't give people shit for free, especially women. if there is any conflict of interest you don't do that dumb shit, and romantic attraction opens up a huge conflict of interest. hope you learned your lesson.
>I bought her a DSLR and torrented program so she owes me sex >Open bobs and vagana bitch >I pretended to be your friend so let me fuck you You are a 40 year old virgin in the making Don't try to understand women, you don't stand a chance with the way you think, try first to understand yourself Good luck
Aiden Russell
ya done got taught, sperm for brains. don't let it happen again.
Jose Reed
>Eventually stops talking unless she has a question about Lightroom or the camera Ahahaha this happened to me too and I ended up a 38 year old virgin
Nathan Collins
I didn't buy her it for a start but I was planning on selling it, I'm not expecting anything of it I just don't appreciate the leading on and suddenly cutting off bullshit after she gets what she wants from me
Camden Sullivan
>I'm not asking to date her You sound like a fag. Why don't you ask her out? She probably thinks you are gay. And she senses your lack of confidence. No wonder she doesn't want to hang out. Women despise indecisiveness and insecurity.
Landon Cruz
My lesson is well and truly learned, last time I try to a fucking nice thing for women, by the sounds of it they fuck everyone over
Alexander Collins
>be me >be a nice guy >some random thot doesn't want to fuck me >"i don't understand women Yea Forums"
Ryan Parker
>I'm not expecting anything of it Bullshit. Clearly you were expecting something. You are lying to us and yourself. She was also expecting for you not to be a gay faggot virgin. But you were.
You just got your first taste of man/woman courtship ritual. Learn from it. This happens in bars where a girl will take your drinks and blow you off. They'll take your help moving and blow you off. They'll take your money and blow you off. They'll take your advice and/or labor on car troubles and blow you off. You can mow their lawn when they have no lawn mower and expect it every week, and you'll become their personal yard nigger. Eventually you'll marry one and get no sex for bringing home paychecks while they quit their jobs at the Sunglass Hut and the hundred other bullshit jobs anyone can get. Then when you get older and lose your looks before she does, she'll leave you for a younger guy and take half your shit. Good luck.
Grayson Rivera
>there's no way you're this autistic OP is roleplaying but this kind of "autism" is very common.
Sebastian Hill
Try asking nicely and if that doesn't work then just steal it from her
Bentley Cook
>be me >hang out with some beta faggot who lives near me >he does know a shit ton about cameras so I ask him to find a DSLR >he gives me one for free >kiss him despite the fact he's a massive faggot >he offers to show me how to get lightroom >we hang out a few times, I keep dropping signals waiting for this dude to stop being such a massive pussy and make a move >he never does >couple days later I meet a bro named chad and we hit it off >decide to leave behind the beta faggot who is too much of a giant pussy to do anything and expects everyone to do everything for him >he gets butthurt and cries to Yea Forums
Jace Miller
A lot of people seem to be calling this guy a faggot and a virgin acting like this hasn't happened in some way to all of us unless you're the type to not leave your Moms basement. Girls can be evil man, I don't blame OP for this, sounds like that thot lead him on
Brody Robinson
lol just rape her then
Robert Ross
I'm a virgin faggot as well as are many on Yea Forums
Brandon Diaz
/thread
Kevin Johnson
No, they don't. Dudes so this to you all the time. You don't notice or care because you don't have crushes on them.
Julian Hill
>girls are evil because they don't suck my dick for giving them pirated shit
John Ward
>ending up in jail for a woman lol nope
Logan Phillips
women aren't vending machines user, you don't put in niceness and get sex in return
Carter Walker
Jesus since when did Yea Forums stop being a bunch of thot bashing legends and start with this weak ass white knight feminazi defending hoes that use innocent guys bullshit?
Matthew Butler
What part of this thread is defending these cunts, retard?
Ryder Perry
I think the major influx was the fappening which brought all the newfags and heavily cross seminated /b with reddit.
consider it the cost of learning a lesson. Never give shit to women/whores. ever, anything.
John Sullivan
Lol no I can honestly say this hasn't happened to me, I'm not dense.
Hudson Clark
>>Asks me to help her find a decent DSLR camera >>Ihaveanidea.jpg >>"Hey I have a spare DSLR you can have" >>"Really user?! Thank you so much!" >>Give her camera for free And there's your problem. You put the pussy on a pedestal. You didn't assert yourself as a human equal to her, you bent over backwards for her in hopes that she might give you attention. The problem isn't in her, it's in you. Stop being a pathetic people pleaser
Owen Garcia
You are undermining yourself. It’s implying in a social sense that your presence isn’t valuable enough, that you’d have to bribe her to be around you. It sets a shitty precedent going forward and it’s something you must stop asap. Learn to be a social magnet read the 48 laws of power and how to win friends and influence people, it’s basic stuff don’t take it to heart but at least be aware of the concepts. Make your presence valuable user it’s a skill like any other.
>sounds like that thot lead him on Yeah she did. But now he needs to readjust his world view and not let other people take advantage of him anymore. He doesn't need an echo chamber of guys coddling him, he needs to be given the harsh truth. And the truth is, he needs to respect himself more, and worry about pleasing other people (especially women) less.
Isaiah Foster
Wow...literally everyone in this room is fucking retarded except for one guy. I'm not gunna tag him cuz I'm on a phone and dont feel like scrolling...tho I'm typing...whatever. anyway you're all idiots. You fuck up socially then get all butt hurt and say shit like dont trust women, or dont give gift unless yada yada. Its fucking simple retards! Relationships, no matter their form are not something you can purchase. Time + money + effort does not equal pussy....unless YOURE CLEAR ABOUT YOUR INTENTIONS. You behaved as a friend would. Hey, you need something? I've got it and you can have it for free! That's a total friend thing to do. You may have done this stuff with the intention if it leading to a possible romance or something but that wasnt where she was! If your friendship level was a 2 or 3 out of 10 which it sounds like it is, then you gave a level 8 gift. Sure, super friendly, but a bit strong. From your perspective it's not much because your looking for a mate, which means you wanna provide. She was looking to share a cookie and you bought her a house. I had a point I wanted to get to but I sorta derailed, high as fuck, but i know what I'm talking about. I've had 4 serious girlfriends, and fucked around a lot. Women aren't hard to u understand. You just gotta make sure you're on the same page. Shoulda told her how you felt. Make sure she knows that's the type of relationship you wanna pursue. And if shes not interested, you shrug, and move on with your life. She may have not seen your worth, but someone might. Keep it pushing. She thought you were friends and acted accordingly. You wanted to be more and acted accordingly. You think you can be her friend to, but a friend and a boyfriend behave differently. So while shes being a friend, to you shes being a shitty girlfriend. you have to earn that perspective. Sometimes it's as easy as being really handsome or rich or well hung. But for Joe shmoes like us, you gotta earn that, and it's different for EVERY girl.
Anthony King
Ask yourself, if it was a dude would you have given him the camera? And if you gave him the camera would you expect him to want to come over to your house every day? If some big fat nigger gives you something you need, are you going to suck his dick for it? Grow the fuck up. This female did nothing to you.
Michael Edwards
For a lot a girls a camera as a gift wouldve earnes you a dick sucking, others a relationship. For her, she felt like you over reached. Obviously shell accept the gift but now she feels obligated to let you know shes appreciative of it. She talks to you and asks about it yada yada. In the mean time you're all pissed off because you put a really shiny quarter in the pussy vendor and got nothing out. You fucked up socially and now your in a weird place. Shes looking for a camera? Offer to maybe keep an ear open about one. If shes your friend, treat her like a friend and dont expect it to become anything else. If you want to persue romantically let her know ahead of time and if shes not interested, let it the fuk go. And dont secretly pine and try to do overly nice stuff or give her more attention than she deserved in an effort to win her back. Just keep being you. Keep your cool and carry on. Mature a bit. Just cuz you like her and put in time and money, doesnt mean she has to like you. Of course, shes being a shitty friend by ghosting you and keeping your shit, but what would you do if that was a dude? You want the camera back? Easy. Tell her that when shes done with it, you need it back. But it was a gift! Well, tell her it was given with romantic intent and that you see that you were trying to force it. If shes a good person shell understand and give it back. If shes not a good person, you lucked out on her not liking you. Consider it an expensive but necessary lesson, and move in with your life. Let that shit go. The problem with you incels is that you refuse to learn or grow from your social mistakes. Of course you're right about whatever it is that your mad about. Good for you. Worth it? Look its simple. You want women? I can give you a guaranteed guide. How do I know? Because I've used it myself dozens of times. If you guys wanna hear it, lemme know and I'll type it out. Also, I'm not gunna proof read any of this., so if I fucked up somewhere, use your big
Leo Myers
big boy brain and figure it out. Ferda
Lincoln Bailey
No but if I gave a camera to a guy or if a big fat nigger gave a camera to me I'd still talk to them and not completely blow them off like a fucking asshole
Joshua Edwards
This poster has the clarity of buddha
Juan Rivera
Thinking giving expensive things to girls for free is an effective method to make they want to hang out with you when they never did before, and you're surprised she fucked off after you have nothing else she wants. The girl is probably somewhat cute which is the basis of your crush, and she's probably used to getting free stuff from beta guys and then ignoring them while using the free stuff with random chads. She's probably using that camera to send nudes or make porn with some chad she met last week
Liam Carter
not OP but why are men always expected to make a move?
Cooper Martin
you are awkward and shy, shy bcause u are awkawar
Brayden Mitchell
There are many problems here but the main one is your misconception that you can buy affection. It also doesn't matter that you show her that you like her, this doesn't make her like you mutually. She has taken from you what she can because you were useful, you can't blame her. But giving her all these things and your time for free weakens your position because you show her that you value her progress a lot more than your interest and yourself. You get treated like you act - it's called law of attraction and was scientifically proven over and over again. You probably act so obliging because you wanted to have her affection a lot. Instead of depending on the affection of someone else, learn to love yourself. If you love yourself and improve yourself they will come to you instead. If you still want to gift her something, make it seem effortless, like forgeting it at her place or anything. You can do good things for her but don't make it look like you put a ton of effort into it. Also stop texting her. This is ultra loser tier. This is probably over anyway you can now either lie and get the camera back but I suggest you learn from your mistakes and just ignore her.
