Girlfriend gets super offended by stupid bullshit then later texts me "sorry for my meltdown" wtf...

Girlfriend gets super offended by stupid bullshit then later texts me "sorry for my meltdown" wtf...why doesn't she realize how stupid and emotional she being in the moment? she says if i walk out of the house our relationship is over

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Because she's a female, and probably has underlying psychological issues that you'll either have to face and deal with, or suffer at the hands of.

great....

when she has these “meltdowns” as she calls it, what does she do?

I try to logically talk to her, cause that's all I know, and she just gets mad. She tells me to go away. I go to "go away" and she says if I walk out, that we're over. Just feels very controlling. Idk. I just wanna cry but I never do (unless really drunk).

sounds a lot like gaslighting man...what usually triggers the fights?

like today...when she's getting ready for work she gets super mad. if i even try to talk to her, she flips out, and talks about how I'm distracting her. I thought I was in her way, cause she was walking fast towards me, so I go to move out of the way, and she thinks I'm trying to ignore or run away from her. i explain I was just trying to be considerate of her, and she starts crying about how i'm running away from her. just very absurd of her and makes me wanna just walk out

does she give you the time of day to explain your emotions? if you were to tell her that you feel you weren’t communicating in a healthy manner, would she be offended by that?

yeah, the more I try to plain english explain to her what's going on, she just tells me not to talk to her. feels like i'm not even talking to a human being at the at point. i get the inkling she's just mad at herself, and not me...maybe something i her past and it's surfacing

if she doesn’t give you the time of day to explain how you’re feeling, and won’t explain herself in a healthy manner either, it really sounds like she needs a wake up call. if you can afford it, try couples therapy. if that doesn’t work, one of these times, if she does the whole “if you walk out it’s over!” routine, just straight up walk out. make sure you have pepper spray or something to defend yourself with in the case that she tries to get physical. if she’s unaffected by your absence, well, then, you know your answer. some people are just too caught up in their own world to care about the damage they’ve caused to relationships. just know you don’t have to put up with that shit man, and that there are billions of other people out there for you. sending you lots of love. i’m sorry you’re going through this.

all she’s doing is making you feel terrible and then guilt tripping you if you have thought of escaping that cycle...get out of there.

Then leave u idiot

not only is it probably best for you to get out while you can, you should probably take note of her behavior so you know to look for it in future relationships.

as if looking out for it, i mean, stay away.

Unironically this, just fucking dip outta there my dude.

Hit that bitch in the face.

Best advice you can get. She sounds incredibly manipulative and yes gaslighting to the max. It IS best you leave you before you get stuck with her (pregnant) she seems the type to poke a hole in a condom to make you stay with her

Because bitches are stupid. And they always try and use that emotional pass to get out of acting like assholes.

>girl hates op
>but wants to be the angel in this situation
>so makes op hate and doubt himself
>so whatever happens it's his fault only

record her one of these times just so she can hear how much she’s embarrassing herself.

yeah man bitches be trippin

>texts me "sorry for my meltdown"
This is a gem of a partner.
Most people will not admit that they've had a break down. Even less people will then apologize for it.

Does she self harm, spend too much or head cheated on you?

you can acknowledge and apologize, but actually changing that volatile, irrationally emotional part of yourself because you know it’s destroying your relationship is a sign of a real gem

Dude.

>BPD

>she's somewhat self-aware of it which makes it seem more promising that it will work out eventually
>be determined sort doesn't like to give up and throw in the towel
>occasional but routine screaming and violence, cheating on me twice
>spend one month shy of nine years with her before she breaks up with me for good
>she finally started to get it and did me a favour
>leaving me is the very best thing she ever did for me

Let it be a lesson to you dumbasses who go for pretty girls, or base a relationship off of sex alone. You forget that after the honeymoon phase ends, you still have to deal with her personality. Which more likely is not compatible with yours.

This.
Sorry doesn’t mean shit until the actions have improved/changed. Acting like a toddler is unacceptable

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Agree. And it won't get better with time, regardless of how much you wish for it. You deserve better.

I assumed your relationship was still developing, sorry about that. If she has a history of apologizing and not changing, then that's a telltale sign of a manipulator.
Alternatively, if she's just super emotional and you're not, then you're probably just not compatible

>I hate this thing about my girlfriend
You're asking about this on Yea Forums, which means you either need to break up or get couple's therapy

Post her pussy on Yea Forums. that'll learn her

5 years
Avoid women with BPD. Watch for red flags and run like hell when you see one

powerbomb the bitch through a table or something

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