My girlfriend just broke up with me Yea Forumsros...

translation from thot to english
>She told me she lost her feelings for me
i dont find you attractive in any way any more
>but that she still wanted me in her life as her friend
i want to keep you around as a backup plan
>and maybe in time we could be together again
in case after i start fucking other guys and dont find anyone else that makes me hot, actually willing to settle down with me

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Walk away entirely bro, find what you enjoy and better yourself. You will find someone else but do not be her "friend" if it hurts you. Trust me from experience, nothing hurts more than feeling like a dog left outside in the rain. No point in being loyal if they are not.

That goes for friends too man, best of luck to ya

FUCK THAT OP you deserve better and women r shit

This dude is right

I recently came out of a 7 yewr long relationship. She took my heart and soul with her. Idk what advice to give or even what to do with myself now. She also wanted to stay friends. Idk though everything reminds me of her and everything hurts.

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These are all correct. Leave and never look back. Win by living well with someone more attractive than her.

This is correct, except maybe that
>She told me she lost her feelings for me
is not really:
> i dont find you attractive in any way any more
but just "I think I can get better"

true, true

Fuck you and your wanna be gf

Cut her off. Speaking from my expierence, that shit happened to me, just wasn't said she lost feelings(just yet,) we just were struggling due to college life and her parents constantly trying to break us up. Which put her in a constant depression. She said she wanted to work on herself and then maybe we could get back together, but she wanted to remain friends in the mean time. Be being a dumbass agreed to it. Hardly talked or anything, then a few months down the road says things don't feel the same, feels like there's tension and said it would be best to go our separate ways. 5 months later out of fucking no where, she says she was worried about me, wanted to check up on me and asked if we could be friends again and see where it went, possibly back together again, and once again me being a dumbass, I agreed. Again, hardly talked, things were actually very tense between us and then she randomly cut communication with me and haven't heard from her since, been a year already. Long story short, through that whole tugging me along emotionally last few years, I became an alcoholic who refuses to get help behind it.

I made 2 mistakes for trying to keep a relationship that was clearly dying, simply because that was someone I grew up with since the age of 11 and didn't want to lose them in general and I did more damage to myself behind than was reasonable -- save yourself from that fuckery and just cut her off and don't let yourself get manipulated.

no, she's just stringing you along because she feels too guilty to cut you off. literally your best option is to cut her off/no contact whatsoever since that what what she will eventually do to you over the next 2 to 3 weeks. the best bet is that you do it to her first, not to be a dick, but to save yourself emotional stress/prolonged depression.
TLDR: shut failing relationships down immediately like ripping off a bandaid. don't waste time.

You are not done yet, keep fighting. Other Mothers have better girls.

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Lots of wisdom in this thread. However, sometimes i really don't know what some girls consider better for themselves. Mine have left me same way as the op's, saying same shit ... and she moved to the divorced guy with a kid and former alcoholic. Because he has changed. She's 24 btw, so it seems to me to be a stupidest thing ever to do

Went through the same situation a little over a year ago. Told me she still loved me, just wasn’t in love with me anymore. Wanted to remain friends since I “ was always there for her and made her who she is today.”

Straight up told her if it’s over, then I’m over having any contact with her. Not about to be the one she comes to when she talks about her dates or eventually bitches about her new bf.

Blocked her on everything. She emails me. FUCKING EMAILS ME, 4 months after the break up: “ I haven’t heard from you in awhile blah blah let’s catch up sometime”

Nah. Blocked her email address too.

Story time. user, ive been exactly where you stand now and she told me exactly what she told you. She led me on for a year of maybe we will back together while she fucked other men. I was fucking devastated. Thought i would marry her.
Fast forward a year later and im over her. She comes to visit me at college for my birthday. Wants to get back together. Turns out she got herpes and she knew i would always love her. Told her ive been waiting dor for her to come crawling back for a year now but she came back too late. I was over her.
12 years later I am married to 10/10 homeschooled, valedictorian at college, conservative woman who makes a lot more money than me. We go to the same church as my ex and she stares at me in disbelief every sunday when she sees my wife who works out 2 hours a day and my ex is fat. Dont lead yourself on, user. Things get better.

Hoes love a bad boy alco who can't keep his dick in his pants or hold down a marriage

>she still wanted me in her life as her friend and maybe in time we could be together again
that's mean she want make dick rodeo when she will be ready to settle down, you will show up in her live again. Cut her out of your live

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Maybe they do. But how come that after 2 months they are together she wants to marry him is beyond me.

People here are right cut that off, or you will sink. I struggle now to pull myself together, but it seems to slowly work out.

It's really the best to go out with people, find some interesting classes, whatever and concentrate on yourself for a while.

... and let it all go.

> Maybe they do. But how come that after 2 months they are together she wants to marry him is beyond me.

Well isn't she a moron. She did you a favour by leaving.

underrated post

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It seems to be like you said user. That's what i'm thinking now. Just needed time to understand this

Something similar happened to me recently. GF started acting cold and distant. Asked if she was falling out of love, she replyed with 'I dont know.'
Next day I found out threw facebook she had actually been dating someone else behind my back, I had been strung along for about a year.
I still love her but she doesn't love me back. Thanks for all of the advice in this thread Yea Forumsros

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>Next day I found out threw facebook she had actually been dating someone else behind my back
this is just fucked up in some women that they are looking for a replacement when they are in a relationship

Tell her to fuck off, your life will be much better without her

If you decide to look for somebody I think you should stay away from tinder, unless you're really, like really, good looking

2 hours a day damn

Yo, same thing happened to me minus the facebook thing. My gf started acting really distant around 2 months before we broke up, the sex stopped, the texts and calls stopped, the hangouts stopped. I knew what was happening but was too pussy to pull the trigger first so she eventually forced a fight and said she had lost interest and that i was not important to her anymore. Blocked her on every social media platform and havent spoken to her since. This all happened 1 month from our 3 year anniversary.

>her sister hit me up telling me she's having weekly meltdowns
>tell her to fuck herself

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Show wife

This. It's like an NFL player being cut, and then the team wants to resign him to the practice squad. Take your talents where they'll be appreciated.

Hour of cardio when she gets up and then an hour of weight lifting on her lunch break.

fuck her sister as revenge

This is essentially correct: You need to cut off all communication with her and start healing. The longer you put it off, the longer it will take you to heal. My goal is for you to minimize your pain and have you back in functioning shape as a man ASAP. The only approach that will serve those ends is for you to cut off communication.

Maybe, just maybe you can talk to her again much later, after you have really and truly moved on. Be careful though, if there are still old feelings in there you will just trap yourself back into the heartbreak.

Sorry you are going through this Yea Forumsro, sending you a no-homo hug.

This too shall pass user.

Sorry user, she doesnt want to be posted on Yea Forums. I Dont blame her

You need to go have vivid, life changing experiences. Climb a fucking mountain. Learn how to fly a plane. Do some crazy shit. You'll forget her, but you've got to remember who you are without her.

This. The only reason she wants you around is for her. This will not help so cut it off

Fuck that hoe and leave her now. If you stay you will be a cuck forever. Go to the gym and start lifting, eat well and sleep well. Bitches will be attracted to you soon enough and that hoe will be begging for you to be back

You go out and bang other bitches

post nudes

Women never end something without having something else lined up

ex gf said the same, cut her off

Gas that thot

Same. Made the mistake of not moving on for over a her, she came back, she went away again. On the positive side, I've learned a lesson for life.

This is too fucking true. Learnt it the hard way

no thanks, her sister is a fat fucking unhygienic pig

Eh... some women are legit enough to break things off without having something else lined up. Many are not. The ones who ALWAYS have something else lined up have a personality disorder... e.g. borderline

>taking relationship advice from incels

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if you keep her in your life you have to demote her to acquaintance status as friend status reaps too many benefits, but knowing what a faggot you are you probably should just not be friends with her as you'll like turn into a beta orbiter

>incels
>when most of the advice is coming from people in relationships that moved on from their ex's

t.incel

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I’m sorry, OP. I know how it feels. I would suggest spending some time apart. Spending time with her soon after a breakup will only hurt, as you’ll know she’s likely fucking other guys, etc. and it will no longer be your business. I’d say once you find another girl to fuck, or that you actually like, it might be ok to hang out with her again as friends, but I’d never get back with her. If she loses feelings once, it’s probably just not meant to be. Don’t waste time on her romantically.

idk man,i'd say stay friends,and if she barely talks to you,or comes back to you after she's been in an super short relationship,cut her off.