Parents never stop treating me like a 12 years old

>parents never stop treating me like a 12 years old
>reach my 20's
>"but user why aren't you behaving like an adult and start being independant?"

Fuck modern parenting.

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Grow the fuck up faggot.

> you aren't behaving like an adult and aren't independent
>dependent on parents
Sounds like you're a kid living in mom and dad's house. You deserve to be treated like one!

At some point you have to take responsibility for your action and stop blaming your own consequences on your upbringing.

That's what I've been trying to do for the past 10 years.

I agree with you but education have a huge impact on your development. I've made mistakes but some of them could have been avoided with proper education. Modern parents just don't give a shit.

Sadly, making mistakes is part of living. Sometimes parents let you make mistakes, it's part of parenting. Most parents are placed on a pedestal by their children, but once you see their deficiencies, means you're growing up. You might have to forgive their mistakes and hope your kids forgive yours. Just fulfill your duty as a son. Cheers Yea Forumsro.

Thanks for the kind words man. I wish you the best.

Get out of your parents basement neckbeard.

You're still blaming other people. That's why you get treated like a child. Because you are one.

shut the fuck up boomer

Your parents will always treat you like their kid. It used to annoy me when my dad would tell me how to do simple things while working on my car or house or whatever, but I realized thats just what he's used to doing while I was growing up. Same with my mom. You'll always be their little boy in their mind no matter your age.

My mom still calls me her little baby and I'm 26. Just don't let it get to your head.

He is right though.

I also blame myself. I'm only saying my parents have a part in it.

nah dudes right

>it always must be your fault, not other people's
>it is you that are childish, not they that are negligent and/or apprehensive
Fucking boomers are a cancer

Not that other user, but that seems fair. Though my parents did the same and I matured very young, because I hated being treated like a 12 year old.

>I matured very young, because I hated being treated like a 12 year old
Well you did good that was one of my mistakes. I was being too nice, I never knew how to said no to my parents and I didn't want to hurt their feelings.

Fucking checked.

I felt the same way about my mom.

Same dude
>parents want me to start living my life and do stuff I enjoy
>Call 5 times everyday
>Come break down my door if I don't answer
How the fuck am I supposed to do anything like this.

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I'm almost 30
it doesn't stop

>we need you to do your own thing, user.
>help us with this and that, user.

Whit nigga, I'm thirty one and I'm still "baby boy" to her

Niggas, I'm 40 and my mom still refers to me as child and boy

Exactly. Everytime I go out with my friends she needs to know where I am, who I am seeing and so on. I'm in my 20's. And then she'll ask me why I can't be independant.

Agreed. I'm 51. Got education, job, family. Still get treated like I'm 15 when I visit there, which is why I limit visits as much as I can and dscourage visits here and only call when necessary. It truly never ends.

Actually it will end. WIth myself. I can treat my own grown up kids as adults and leave them alone to their own lives. They will not be required to tell me anything and will not expect me to call without reason. Nor will I expect them to call either. Blood is not a fucking phone line.

just dont answer

>are the big bad boomers picking on the ickle wickle baby?

To all you faggots here who are getting treated like shit by your parents, here is the solution;

1. Get a job. Doesn't matter if it's McDonald's or as a janitor.
2. Move out. You can find cheaper apartments outside the main city.

>people who work can't be mad when they get ripped off
that's how retarded your claim sounds. People can recognize their own faults and build on them, but can also recognize when they get gyped by pants-on-head retarded decisions of others they have no control over.

I love how you blame your parents for your lack of maturity. You've had enough time to start making good choices, so start making them.

Oh look. It's another thread filled with retards from Yea Forums trying to give life advice

I feel you. my parents also treated me like a child. whenever I tried to act on my own they would crack down and berate me for even trying and tell me I shouldn't do things by myself and should let it to them. Imagine your entire life up until your early 20s of this. After high school I actually got accepted into a college far away from home, but they said they wouldn't pay my tuition or anything else if I dared go to college somewhere other than my hometown. I accepted it. 3 years into my degree, which I absolutely hated, I had enough. I made some inquiries and I decided my best shot would be military. Finished college and the second I was out I went straight into a recruiter's office and applied. Best decision I've ever made. My parents are literally the worst people I've ever met

Fuck boomers, they fuck up everything they touch

In the Age of Information, only you are to blame for your ignorance and sloth

>tfw adults with Disney tattoos who listen to baby shark tell you grow up