Hey guys

Hey guys.

So I'm in a odd situation, my ex broke up with me 10 months ago and just recently in the last few months I feel like I've moved on. But recently out of the blue she wants to meet up and after talking to a mutual friend all signs seem to point to her wanting to get back together.

When we were together (which was just over a year) things were perfect, she was and still is the most beautiful woman I've ever been with and we got on amazingly well with us having a ton in common.

But after the breakup she went full sociopath, outright telling me she got enjoyment from my suffering and even threatening to kill herself, not out of a emotional outburst but purely to fuck with me. I mean I was super needy which I really regret looking back on but it didn't warrant that sort of reaction. but that all happened right after the breakup and I haven't had any contact whatsoever for around 5 months until now.

She also went out with someone else for around 2 months but I don't know if they did anything, we lost our virginity to eachother after around 5 or 6 months of being together and even then she did often say how she'd prefer to wait even longer or until marriage, although I think I'm just being naive here and just hoping that's the case anyway.

Anyway I know the best option is to not pursue anything with her after the way she treated me but we've already set a date within the next 2 weeks and more curious as to what you guys would do in my situation, keep in mind she's a 9/10 isreali/eastern European girl with a 10/10 ass. I'd post pictures of what she looks like but I know some of her orbiters use Yea Forums and might come across this thread even though it's very unlikely but I attached a picture of mila kunis as that's her closest celebrity lookalike

TL;DR Should I get back together with my ex after she treated me like trash?

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Which one of you broke up?
Anyways, if someone treated me like that I would lose all trust I have in them. And that's one of the most important things in a relationship.

Fuck her one last time and then tell her you aren't going to date her again. She's going to do the same things if you do.

Trips of truth.

Yeah trust is one thing that I've been thinking about a lot if we got back together, I know for a fact I wouldn't be able to get back to where we were before anytime soon if ever.

Also she was the one that broke up with me, I got depressed over family stuff and gained a ton of weight over the course of two months and she lost interest, I lost all the weight and am no longer depressed now though

Expect a pattern of behavior, if she went full sociopath, that will happen again, bet on it. She will break up with you after a honeymoon period, then try to get back with you again.

My advice would be to get with her again, but have a hard line that she knows if she crosses again, break up with her no questions asked. That way you not only get your dick wet, but also have a good reason to break up with her.

Hit and quit

She weren't there when you needed her, doubt she'll be stay the next time you go through hard times. I would stay away from her. Especially since she was the one breaking up with you. Show her that you're independent.

If she cared about you and not about the idea of you she would have talked to you about your weight gain and depression and been there for you before it reached any tipping point. Becoming unattracted to someone that's going out of shape and depressing to be around isn't a crime, but if she cared about you as a person she would have noticed and tried to intervene and help you before that point. If she didn't do that, she does not truly care.

i say fuck that hoe and move on but im hypocritical coz i know if i waws in your situation id try to wwork it out. i say just speak to her about it and if shes regrets what she did then maybe try and work it out

Tough one user. Its just a wet hole to stick your dick in. Remember that. Ive been married 12yrs have 2 kids, and I realize now its all for a wet hole to stick my dick in.

Sure go ahead and fuck her, but know on your heart how she is. If i were you id keep it very casual though she will likely press you hard to make it serious.

Its probably worth a shot but like I said you already know what your getting yourself into. Now picture her 10 yrs older, fat and with 2 kids, acting that way. Sound like fun?

Well in her defense I did neglect the relationship a lot during that time. Mainly playing a ton of video games as since I was a kid that was my way to cope with things like that. Like it got so bad to the point where I completed all 4 uncharted's in less than a week.

Also when it started she did try to help but I just wasn't taking anything in and continuing on that self destructive path, also I was unemployed at the time and the fact that I was playing video games rather than looking for one really upset her. The most painful part was when I realized how bad things had gotten in the last two weeks of our relationship I tried to fix things as I knew she had lost interest but it was too late.

Anyway I know I won't let myself get to that stage again as what happened to me is never going to happen again and if it does I feel like I'm better equipped to handle it now.