I can't make my girlfriend cum due to a traumatic relationship she had before me. We both feel pretty bad about it...

I can't make my girlfriend cum due to a traumatic relationship she had before me. We both feel pretty bad about it. The only way she can cum is if she plays with herself while I'm inside but I want to make her cum without her having to do that. What can I do?? Both 20.

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bump I wanna know how to make girls cum

Stop obsessing over getting her to cum and just fuck her for a good 1,5 hours like this: every time you're about to cum just stop, pull out, arch your butt out so you don't cum, eat her out for a while and go back in. Your cock should be harder and bigger each time you do this and it gets more difficult for you to cum too. Make sure you keep the pace, not her. She has no say in that. Eventually you get so hard she will start to forcibly empty her bladder which lets her emotions go psychologically and that will make her cum her brains out.

Retarded

No, just experienced. :)

found the virgin hahahah

Yeah, I know, right? Most men have no idea how to fuck a girl, so when they see someone describing how to do it, they go into ridicule mode to save face.

spend the day with her, bring her to do her favorite things, make sure to make light physical contact all day. Bring her to dinner, play footsie, rub her thigh a bit, have a couple drinks. Get home and give her a massage, all over. Start up at her neck (gentle and right up by ears) make your way down and do her bum (never touch her vagina during all this) then down to her feet and back up again.

finish on her neck and then and only then, flip her over and get to it. I recommend kissing her lips then slowly kissing your way down to each nipple, then back up, then back down to belly button and back up again and then back to vagina.

When you finally get there kiss her thighs, take your time, by this point she will be practically pushing her vagina into your face. Then it's time to get to it, start like you're licking a butterfly and finish like a bulldog eating oatmeal.

Girls that have intimacy issues like that need to feel cared for and safe before their mind will let them cum. Make a day of it, have some fun and make sure to let her know she's in control.

good luck

jesus christ hahahah so you're the guy women are always complaining about. Who the fuck taught you this? So out of touch, i'm hoping it's bait for your sake.

>nice guy tactics
You need to make her feel safe in a way that is submissive. Just making her feel safe is going to friendzone you.

Sounds like a nice way of saying you're a fag, and the sex sucks so much she can't even remember it. Some nigga traumatized her with some real fuckmeat, and now she can't cum from you. let that sink it

I kind of learned it naturally growing up with a girlfriend. No teaching needed. I understand this is not the case for you :)

that same girlfriend is off with a guy who can actually make her cum right now. Not a guy who retard pumps her for 1h30 like a dog to the point that she has to fake an orgasm to get it to stop.

they are already banging, keep your beta mindblocks to yourself

Did you even read the fucking text?

Replicate the trauma

real men don't give a shit if women have orgasms.

That's what the physical contact is for.

kek

unfortunately

This guy gets it

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Nah abusive relationships will fuck you up, this ain't even funny dawg. Her last boyfriend never even made her cum

>Real men don't care about the emotions and wellbeing of their females as long as they are submissive and willing to make them sammiches.

No. Just no.

Source: I’m a grill.

Get a new GF. Don’t waste your time on a broken woman. Sex will always feel like a burden. Its not healthy

My GF cums 10+ times with no clitoral stimulation needed.

When you are fucking her let her call you the last boyfriend’s name.

>What can I do??

you should leave. aint nothing worse than a woman with baggage like that.

Says the virgin

Sure she does...

Yeah, no one wants to fuck for an hour and a half. the only people who say they do are virgins. If you know how to fuck and make a girl cum, they (as well as you) will get tired and sore after a couple orgasms. If they aren't having any orgasms, guarantee she's getting bored, getting sore, going dry etc. Pretty much only virgins think sex should last longer than 45 mins max. Ideally it should last around 20 unless you're doing some serious sweet love making. Sex is just not fun anymore if youre doing it too long.

I love girls like that
Thinking of leaving my gf cause she gets 2 orgasms max (clit) and dries the fuck out

Not that user but I guess he knows how to work the posterior fornix
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