I'm a 25 year old virgin...

you even had a gf and u give up. pathetic.

This guy is right, OP. One week isn't enough to see results. Take a zinc supplement with breakfast maybe every second day (and iron with dinner on the other days, depending on your diet), hit the gym, and give yourself at LEAST two weeks, probably closer to six, before you're seeing some of the results you're looking for. You'll get there, just stick with it.

This happens commonly with over exposure to porn. Your body and mind start to rely purely on what the porn can give you. You need to go cold turkey away from it and that way of getting yourself aroused and it does take a long time.

You will get there. It just won’t be overnight. Patience is key.

its all in your head

seriously, that skinny nerd on that TEDx Talk about porn addiction is fucking retarded.

combined with it all being in your head, its nervousness, uncertainty, maybe your brain is thinking too much

just let your partner know you havent done this in a while, they'll understand. everyone is looking for that NUT bro. dont be scared.

just get it however you can, but if its your think, make sure she gets hers too.

thats all you both have to do. communicate and just let each other get that fuckin NUT

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WOMEN TYPICALLY CANT REACH ORGASM EITHER WITHOUT FINISHING THEMSELVES OFF, RUBBING THEMSELVES WHILE YOU FUCK THEM

OR WHAT HAVE YOU

WOMEN HAVE THIS "PROBLEM" TOO

ITS NOT ADDICTION

Keep up the no fap, except stop looking at porn all together. Stop doing anything stimulating for a while. Try taking some L-Arginine, Ginkgo, red Ginseng, and horny goat weed supplements. Make sure you work out or at least get some fucking sunlight. Go for a walk every day and eat healthy.
When you're in the moment, go down on the girl and eat her out before trying to fuck her. Let her know that you need a little extra foreplay to get it up. Don't make it sound like you have ED. Make it sound like you need a lot of foreplay. You're saying the same thing, but it sounds different. If you still can't get it up after eating her out and getting sucked off, you're probably gay.

This. Just talk to her.

Ice watched porn 5+ times a day since I was 14. It's been 13 years and i can still get a boner from girls easily. If girls dont give you boners you dont like girls. Simple as.

Imagine being this bad at sex

Everybody is different. Some people can do that. Some people get worn the fuck out. I'm not gay, but I get worn out. If I watch too much porn, my dick stops working.

This is fucking solid advice.

I have never made a woman cum with penetration. Only with my tongue.

Same. I just don't care anymore.

Nigger, just stop looking at porn.

Yikes my dude. I've never had a woman not cum by penetration

10/10

What's your secret?

You think you got problems? My dick went limp for two months because of the panic/anxiety and stress in my life. I haven't worked in months, my dad is very sick and I have bipolar disorder. Try feeling partially broken because your dick won't work so you can't fuck a bitch. I am better now and I fap daily again. So please try to rejoin the real world and seek real women.

Yikes at you my dude. A study has revealed like over 60% of women dont cum from just penetration.

focus on giving your partner cunnilingus, she will love it and stick around if you're good at it, and then you can use your dick when you find yourself hard going down on her

it's also possible you're gay, but please try the former before coming to conclusions.

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>I'm too far gone
kek

I had performance anxiety for years. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 24 or 25. It wasn't from lack of chances. I'd be hard while kissing and fooling around, then when it came time to put it in, it would just turn into a wet noodle.

Just find a girl that's been watching too much porn too... either way I promise as soon as her slutty mouth wraps around your cock you'll get rock hard as you force her head all the way down your shaft until she starts making choking noises. You'll probably let go thinking you messed up, but then when she pulls back with a big smile on her face you know she's the one.

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But you eventually did lose your virginity?

When it comes to an actual girl you'll be fine.

Same thing happened to me. Go longer without porn. Your brain will go back to normal.

>I'm a 25 year old virgin.
>Normal women in real life don't do anything for me anymore.

>never had a woman
>women don't do it for me anymore.

WUT

This is me. Do I really need fucking pills for the first time? Should I go try again and risk performance anxiety again? If I keep at it it's bound to work sometime, no?
Kinda don't wanna go get viagra as a 22 year old lol

Yep. Eventually it worked long enough to get in there, and once it was in, all was good.

Just had to break the cycle and all is fine.

>No porn
>Masturbate every 3 days
>Exercise, get some sun
>Eat healthy, only drink water
>Smoke meff and an hero on cam

Seriously though, there's always a way to fix these things, don't be a lazy cunt and don't stop trying until you figure it out.

looks like there is some decent advise here - mostly around avoiding porn altogether for longer (at least a month, but go for 2 if you can) .... but then I would suggest that you get a hooker. Not a dirty street whore, but an escort that will set you back a few more dollars. Let them know it is your first time, and they will look after you, without being judgmental. It is not an uncommon way for guys to lose their v-card.

Find some horny goat weed pills online with at least 60% icariin, and you'll be good to go. It's natural viagra. You don't need a prescription.

>Things virgins say

That was literally me. I'm gonna get back to trying, thanks user. If I get soft again, well shit, too bad I'll keep trying

I feel you user, that *kind of* happened to me. What worked was quitting porn, no fap as long as you can (doesnt have to be super long few days to a week) and when you jerk off imagine someone you know, like a girl you just met at the bar, a friend, a friends mom, a coworker. Just imagine having normal sex with them, none of your hardcore shit. If you cant get hard or cant cum then hold it and try again later until you do. Rinse and repeat

>watched porn like an addict for ten years
>stop for a week
>WHY ISN'T IT WORKING!

Stop being dumb. Give it time.

This. Give it time.

It'll take about a year to get the dopamine in your brain working right again. Fuck porn, watch a documentary on it.

if it's become a pattern that's literally wired into your brain you could need at LEAST 3 to 6 months to allow things re-wire themselves.

You forgot to mention you've been beating your meat too.

>3-6 months
Jesus retard is your brain made out of cement?

I really appreciate the advice guys. I'm really going to follow it. I'm fucking determined to lose my virginity.

Not that user, but you definitely sound like a major faggot

didn't happen/10

Anxiety causes it for me. I am fucking terrified of sex. I grew up in an extremely religious borderline abusive home and was told that I would go to hell for having sex before marriage, and I didn't denounce religion until I was 18 and by that time, I had already missed out on vital sexual experiences in high school. I feel like there's a massive experience gap between me and women my age.

Dude, it only took me two weeks to get rock hard again. What kind of extreme shit are you watching?

I don't believe you.

I think it's a mindset problem. i have always watched porn, for good 17 years now, and i had never a problem with real sex. And yes, i watch extreme stuff too.

Look, I'm talking actual long term cognitive behavioral therapy here. The process of replacing one behavioral pattern with another.

Any time you teach your brain a new pattern, new connections are made. At first those connections are pretty weak. You need to re-enforce them many times for the to settle into something more or less permanent.

Imagine it like walking from a field of grass and weeds. The first time you tread there, you'll get some trampled grass and weeds, not much of a road at all. Now, walk the same route through the field often enough and eventually a path begins to form, and slowly you build up a dirt road.

If you have a pattern that's used over and over and over for years on end that dirt road is more like a highway, lets call it the German autobahn. Signals race through it effortlessly at maximum speed.

If you consciously choose to *not* make use of that highway, the opposite happens. Your highway will eventually wither away.

If there's two paths for your brain to take and you're not consciously choosing a particular one, it's way more likely to take the one that requires the least effort. So if you don't make a conscious choice, it'll take the autobahn rather than the dirt road.

If you want that new pattern to flourish, you need to enforce those new connections. Making new connections and bootstrapping new patterns doesn't take much work. With the right stimulus you can get started in hours or days.

However, if you *really* want to make a big change, if you want that autobahn to not be your automatic go-to anymore and you'll want to make a new highway outta that brand new little dirt road, that'll take a lot longer. Fundamental, lasting changes like that take time.

You might be happy with a little 2 week old dirt road, but if you want to actually replace your old destructive pattern with a new productive one 3 to 6 months is pretty much the minimum.

You'd be surprised how many women are out there who are virgins until a later age. Also, there are plenty who would actually think it exciting to take your v-card!

Best way to close the experience gap is to get out there.

this is kinda retarded, but i love that plush, i was about to buy the same but was way too expensive

Thanks for the supporting words, man. I just wish I had disobeyed my parents more as a teenager. I was brainwashed into believing that God was always watching and I would suffer in eternity for my sin. That kind of thing scares the shit out of a kid. It scared me into compliance.

Scaring people into compliance is pretty much the entire reason religion stuck around for so long as the main source of authority in our societies. Good on you for finally breaking free.

People make such a big deal out of sex, but it's just sex. It's the most basic human function. It's literally the reason everybody exists. Stop stressing over it.

i started watching porn around 12 and didnt stop jerking off until i was 23. I dated for a year and still prefered masturbation over sex, and i barely came few times during the 3 years we had sex
still you should try it, i too used to think my dick wasnt going to work since my gf wasnt as hot as porn girls i used to watch, but its the whole moment experience that makes it different

>literally the reason why we exist
>stop stressing over it
Maybe stop being a retard who acts like it isn't a big deal just because it came naturally to you. It's completely understandable to stress about it, to feel bad when you get rejected, because it's literally been how our species has stayed alive for billions of years, when you fail at it, it's like Nature itself is telliing you "You're a fucking failure and you don't deserve to spread your genes"

Fucking this. It's the worst kind of fear. Not being able to lose your virginity isn't even about the sex. It's about the existential horror of growing old alone and never passing on your genes or having a family.

It's quite telling how none of you degenerate neck-bears want to put in real effort.

i couldnt care less about passing genes
Im glad i lose my virginity

I'm going to follow your advice. I would do anything at this point.

Stop lying on the internet, virgin.

Good luck user! By the way, quitting porn for 3-6 months doesn't mean you can't get any *real* pussy during that time. After all, getting it up for a real life woman is what you're aiming for right?

As soon as your dick is back in working order you're good to go IRL. The longer-term trajectory is aimed at actually getting rid of the instinctive tendency to reach for porn instead of something more real.

P.S: If you're worried about how well you're able to please your girl with your dick, put some effort into going down on her. If you're not sure how to get good at it, ask her to help you get good at it. Women really do appreciate a guy who's genuinely invested in giving them pleasure.
Added bonus: If you give a woman a proper good oral orgasm she's likely to throw herself with genuine vigor, intent on really returning the favor.

likely to throw herself at your dick*

Watch porn while having sex

win-win

Give us sextape

Truth

This guy gets it.

>It's only been a week since I've quit porn
So you spent 520 weeks training your sexual response, and one week removing the triggers you're accustomed to. Do the math...ask again in 2-1/2 years when you've dropped back to human normal instead of your hyper fucked up state.

You might be gay. Just a thought. A woman on their own should be enough to get you hard. I would say download Grindr and get your gay ass off of Yea Forums

I had a girl who told me she DIDN'T like to have her head pushed down on cock, but then I tried it one time and she changed her mind, then I did it every time. She'd soak through her panties.

idk what nofap is but stop watching porn. Just stop watching porn. the answer is to stop watching porn and jerk off when you feel like it. Youll find that you're jerking off less, and have more energy. save your jizz strength my friend.

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This

Where is this taken?
I would like to drink coffee there.

>60% of men cant fuck
Seems legit
Hit the goddamn spot and trigger her mind

tl;dr

Dont be a fag i jerked off for 10 months 3 times a day to porn when my wife was pregnant. ( cant fuck for 2 months after also) i was still ready to rock. Try men you faggot

this but im a female

ive been watching porn since i was a preteen now that im in my early 20s i find it hard to cum during sex

dont get me wrong ive only had one partner so i know a lot more about making myself cum than he does

but still, alone with porn i can cum in under 5 minutes but my partner could be going down on me for 30 mins and i still wouldnt be able to cum

No fap works, but it might take like 3 months or more depending on how bad your porn problem is.

>don’t don anything for me anymore

Anymore? You are a virgin. They have never don’t anything for you anyways.

>I find it hard to cum with the one guy I fucked
He sucked at sex tits or gtfo

Sucks to be a girl. Always self conscious. Giant mental block

You gotta wait two weeks before anything really changes, you're still addicted rn

This post, though long, is exactly and precisely correct.

>precisely

>requires effort

we havent fucked fucked, we've done most things aside from penetration of the spaghetti in the roast beef

If you can't get hard around girls, you're a faggot. I started watching porn and beating my dick at 13 y/o. I wake up in the morning, fap, go to work, fap once in the bathroom there on my break, beat my dick more when I get home. I can still fuck my girlfriend once or twice when she gets home (we have set schedules at our jobs, she's home 2 hrs after me) and beat of another time before bed. Desensitization to sex is a myth, you're just fucking gay as shit. I'm 24 now and I've never not been rock hard around a girl who wants to fuck. Start hopping on dick, retard, because if you can't fuck girls, you gay as shit nigga

Who's Ice?

I'm a virgin who watches porn a lot that rarely gets a boner in public too. I've actually told myself it's not appropriate to get a boner in public though. I still get boners from time to time but for the most part I just try to avoid them. One time at work a girl next to me was cleaning a door knob going up and down with it. That's the one time I couldn't control my dick because it looked like she was giving the door handle a hand job. Think she may have noticed it she just winked at me and walked away

You are so fucking stupid you may as well kill yourself.

Leave it to a cock hole (woman) to be unable to stay on fucking topic and talk about stupid shit.

shouldve fucked her