Hey Yea Forums
>up until mid february was seeing my ex-gf again
>last memory of her is her in my arms telling me to look after her
>find out days after that she fucked with the guy she is with now and she's moving in with him after being together for 3,4 months they've been friends for years, so have we
i honestly feel toyed with, haven't had any form of contact in a month with her now
and i'm mostly over that bad human being, but still hurts to be played with
does she still think you're friends?
yeah she does sorta
You'll get through this Yea Forumsrother, I promise. In the meantime go get yourself another bitch, you know you can.
thanks user, i'm i'd say 95% through it, just rough to see her here and there because we have a lot of mutual friends
also she told me she didn't want to move in with someone that quickly again, which she did with the guy she was living with for 2 years before me so yeah
honestly dude just go get another girl of some sort and just flex her in front of your ex but before you do that.
don't be friends with that cunt if anything send a passive aggressive message like "thanks for being honest but i don't want to know you anymore."
She played games with you from what you're saying so give her the cold shoulder, ignore her every chance possible and toy her back.
That or you can be a good guy and and remain her friend but i personally wouldnt let someone i thought that loved me to hell and back treat me like that if the fact is she cheated after saying some lovey dovey shit like that.
i am pretty passive aggressive when she's around honestly and she always comes back to me of some sort
couple of weeks there was a city festival where she and her guy were selling drinks and i got like 4 drinks without any costs from her she came to me asking if i could "include her guy into the friends group because he felt left out"
needless to say i noped the fuck out of that
She’s a shitty person, so I’d question how great your friends are if they still hang out with her. This was a lesson - women are just shitty as men. Learn to recognize the warning signs you are being lied to/manipulated, and stay away from those people.
>she always comes back to me of some sort
If you enjoy the drama let her keep coming back into your life. But personally I would cut her off. Don't get mad, don't say anything, just stop talking to her because she's shown she doesn't care about hurting you.
she is user she told me she puts other peoples happiness before hers because it's easier
> I’d question how great your friends are if they still hang out with her.
my friends know what really happened, her friends probably got some other story from her
best buddy who dated her 5,6 years ago always talks shit about her when she's around which amuses me
nah fuck that the drama was at an all time high when we were seeing each other again decembre 2018 to february this year
>because she's shown she doesn't care about hurting you
yeah as i've said we haven't had any form of contact in a month, only thing i see is her liking my every single instagram picture
fuck her, it's obvious she either feels guilty asf and trying to reconcile by trying to get on your good side or use you as potential fallback or "rock".
TO be frank with you as well if those mutual friends are still friends to both of you either they're ignorant asf to the circumstances you told us Yea Forumsros, they were told a lie about how shit ended or straight up those friends are shit friends because for some reason they know the truth yet they want to justify your ex's cheating.
if they're really your friends they'll understand your side and will not let that guy into the friend group. So some advice if you want to take it idgaf if you do or not you grow a pair and if she keeps pushing for that guy to be included just be like "sure he can be included but as soon as he does he's replacing me and im not coming back".
Then moving on is best. She’s just bad news. Consider it a bullet dodged. And be vigilant not to date or let your friends date women like this.
>she either feels guilty asf and trying to reconcile by trying to get on your good side
oh she definitely is doing that, she does not like it when people hold some grudge against her
>if they're really your friends they'll understand your side and will not let that guy into the friend group
they didn't, i've told every one the thing about her wanting me, her ex, to include her new guy and all of them agreed that that was a really shit move on her side, the guy sure as hell isn't part of our friends group
in hindsight i should've just pumped and dumped honestly, way too much baggage with this one
fuuuuucken oath dude you seem to already know what you're doing but you're already aware of whats happening yet you havn't completely cut contact with her. You said she doesn't like it when people has grudges against her so abandon her for good, 0 contact don't even recognize or try to keep conversating with her if you two run into each other with your friend group and let her flaws and insecurities eat her because she did it to herself and she low key wants help by using you to do that.
The friend group seems understanding so if you take this approach the only thing that will happen is tension within the group and it sounds like if that tension was straining the entire group they will confront you and your ex about it and shit will solve itself. Block that cunt on insta who gives af if she likes all your stuff she's doing it for the obvious reason we both know is to make herself feel better....not you. This situation isn't about you at all to her being nice because if she was actually genuinely nice she wouldn't have treated you that way.
> yet you havn't completely cut contact with her.
yeah she resides in my archived chats that's where she belongs for me
>and she low key wants help by using you to do that.
she wants help with her insecurities? we talked about them when we were seeing each other again, i thoroughly believe the fact she's moving in with that guy is a reaction on not wanting to be alone
> we both know is to make herself feel better....not you
yeah then again she should see that my life is ten times better without her
>y genuinely nice she wouldn't have treated you that way.
true i'm conflicted if i'm being an ass to her if all i say is hi and just not get into a conversation with her
>she wants help with her insecurities?
exactly my point it's not your job or obligation to do that if she has a new guy let that poor fella deal with that damaged baggage.
>my life is ten times better without her
emphasize and brag about when she's ever around it's obvious she's feeling something retarded and wants in on that happiness because my guess is she can't stand that fact you're thriving without her.
>i'm conflicted if i'm being an ass to her
hey man to me if you treated that damaged baggage like she was the most important thing to you in the world and you took utter care of her and wouldn't think of ever hurting her in anyway. You're not being an ass at all IMO that's called having a large enough sack to be done with utter bullshit and move on with a steel spine from a shit heartfelt situation.
It seems she can't handle you doing that so my guess is she'll try as much as possible to almost be a slight tinge of relevance to your more so happy life. Don't let her and she'll either break herself (not physically) or move on completely from you as well like you are trying to with her.
>exactly my point it's not your job or obligation to do that if she has a new guy let that poor fella deal with that damaged baggage.
ah, yeah i told her that when she asked me to include the guy that that sure as hell isn't my job
says enough about her that she has to babysit that guy who can't include himself honestly
>because my guess is she can't stand that fact you're thriving without her.
a tiny bit probably
>You're not being an ass at all IMO that's called having a large enough sack to be done with utter bullshit and move on with a steel spine from a shit heartfelt situation.
thanks user, means a lot i was always thinking "was i too rough with her" but guess i wasn't
>. Don't let her and she'll either break herself (not physically) or move on completely from you as well like you are trying to with her.
everything aside, we really got along a shame things ended the way they did or rather they have to end like this but yeah, her fault for giving me some form of hope
>i was always thinking "was i too rough with her" but guess i wasn't
the only time you're too rough with a bitch when she breaks your heart in a disloyal and shitty human being manner is if you physically beat her imo. If she wants to play games, just flip,kick or chuck the board and walk off instead of paying attention to her moves. You can't lose if you refuse to play.
>we really got along a shame things ended the way they did or rather they have to end like this
OP i almost never feel for people on here but you're a special case but understand im a cold person because of shit human beings like your ex but i have hope you find another that will actually be genuine to you and herself with her intentions it sounds like you kinda deserve it.
>You can't lose if you refuse to play.
true that
> but i have hope you find another that will actually be genuine to you and herself with her intentions it sounds like you kinda deserve it.
thanks user means a lot to me honestly, it was a shit show from the get go with this girl
thanks for replying too, need to make me something to eat now cheers user have a great day/night and thanks again!
no worries Yea Forumsro you too
dont fucking sweat what she did to you bro. its best if you just leave, honestly; lose all communication with her and move on. she has already proven that she doesnt care about you, but YOU are different, user. live a happy life and make sure nothing gets you down.