Is it normal to still be in love with someone years after they quit being a part of your life? I dated the same girl through most of high school. We were together for 3 years. Not a particularly long time in retrospect, but I'm 25 now and I still haven't gotten over her. I don't talk about her to anyone and we're not friends on any social media so she doesn't even pop up in my life anywhere now, but for some reason I still think about her nearly every single day. Anytime I try to motivate myself to do something all I can think about is what would she think of me now. I remember when we broke up I read somewhere that it took on average something like 17 months to get over a breakup, but I'm going on 6 years now and she's still right there in my head as much as ever. I've even been with plenty of other girls since then, but none of them have made me feel the same way. It just doesn't seem natural.
Is it normal to still be in love with someone years after they quit being a part of your life...
Was she your first?
No. I slept with two other girls before her and had three or four relationships before her. I was the first guy she had ever slept with but I wasn't her first boyfriend.
no! god, wtf! you're literally the only person on the planet! freak!
I know the feeling OP
Same way I feel about my first girl. She wasn't the hottest or best girl I dated, but I always think I about her.
There were such strong feelings she made me feel that dont quite happen anymore as an adult.
Regardless, there's nothing you can do. Delete her nudes and cut her out. You're only torturing yourself. She probably doesn't think about you the same way.
Its ok bro dont listen to the assholes on here. Maybe try to contact her? Closure can be nice
Damn dude, i literally went through the same shit.
Tried some other girls but nothing worked, until i met another girl i was not even asking for and fell for her and ahe seriously made me forget about all the damn past meaningless years i spent missing her.
It wasn't the best breakup. I didn't take it very well. Suffice to say she probably doesn't want to talk to me now.
This is what I'm hoping will happen someday but at the same time I have all these inadequacy issues now that convince me that I'm not going to be good enough for anyone until I meet the standards that my ex had for me.
On that note though, I have been talking to another girl for awhile now and I'm going to spend some time with her soon so we'll see if anything happens there. I'm not sure though because this new chick has a lot of plans for "us" that don't really interest me, i.e. she wants me to give up on my passions and take a miserable labor job so I can "support our family one day". Maybe I'm being selfish by not wanting to do that though. At least I would have a family and I'd be able to provide for them. I'm doing alright for myself now but I definitely couldn't take care of a family in my current financial situation.
You may not like what you find.
> my 12 year old sweetheart blonde blue eyes 10/10 QT
> I moved 600 miles away
> 21 and my mom says her and family are coming to visit
> the couldn't come because of snow (Canadian (
> mom tells me her parents were bringing her here I. Hope's she would want to stay because of me
> she is a stripper addicted to heroin and prostitut.
I know bro, it's even worse for me now, i mean now i have worse anxiety about losing my girl (which is affecting the way i'm dealing with her) just because of all the past years i spent missing that girl caused some sort of emotional trauma i guess?
But you don't have to be extra worried, it would feel like you had the soul for life and now it's gone and you have nothing left.
Just live your life the best way you can and ask for nothing, if there is something you deserve then it will mostly come by itself. Just don't put any high hopes.
I've been with such "enthusiastic girl", i don't know it did not work for me.
I mean it's good and all and they can be loyal but you wouldn't be sparked towards her i guess.
Maybe you would grow more feels for her down the road but nothing is certain, depends on how you want to go with your life.
CM in AZ is getting dicked as you read this bro
I know your feel user,
It took me almost 10 years to forget my highschool girlfriend.
I only got over it when we both sat down to talk through our break up and almost got back together.
In the end it just didn't felt right and I decided not to go with it.
She still part of my past, but I got over her and we are social midia friends and all, and everything is okay.
It took 10 years to me, but I hope you doesnt have to get that long to get things workout.
I have no idea where I want to go in life. I know that's how people typically feel in their mid twenties but at the same time I also thought I'd be over my ex by now. I grew up in a small town and my biggest fear is turning out like all of those useless middle aged guys I saw growing up who never did anything with their lives and right now it feels as if I'm actively making that fear come true a little bit at a time. I know I can do better but for some reason I just don't. Nothing in particular interests me for any extended period of time anymore. I get the feeling that it's like gravity. I can temporarily jump out of my normal ineffectual routine but the old habits quickly pull me back, and I need a big change to act as the rocket fuel to propel me completely out of my usual ways. I don't know what that thing is though.
Wrong guy user. I don't know those initials. I'm sure my ex is getting dicked somewhere though.
LMAO
literally the same story then bud
that user met her in 10th grade, they dated all throughout HS, same shit she dated before but slept with him first
He went away to college, I came back from service after she started college (she was two years behind him) and cucked him and took her for myself
He was a suicidal little bitch boy who would call her saying he was going to do it and never did
You will never get over her, OP. You've been imprinted or something. Take it from someone who knows. Just get what pussy you can and try not to drink too much. You'll never be happy.
Where can I see her dance?
How many roses for two pops?
That's pretty badass user. You're like the coolest guy on Yea Forums.
This. You have to understand that that little teen cutey that lives in your memory doesn't exist anymore. She was murdered by her older self. My first girlfriend tracked me down online, professing her undying love. When I met her, she had an assortment of kids from different fathers and a uterus hanging down to her knees. The past is done, bruh, move on.
I kind of accepted awhile ago that I'm not in love with her but rather the memory of her. That's the worst part though. It means I can never get that back no matter what because it doesn't even exist anymore. On the upside she hasn't made any attempt to contact me so she's clearly not desperate. So she's probably still hot for the time being.
I got divorced at 30 in 2010.
Then I started dating a 20 year old in 2012.
I haven't seen her since 2016, but I still think about her most days.
There's nothing particularly remarkable about her that would make you be able to pick her out of a line-up with the other girls I've dated before or since.
We've been apart longer than we together, but she still sticks with me. No idea why. Some people just infect your mind.