Guys I have a question. 2 years ago my boyfriend gave me herpes. He told me herpes wasn't permanent so I wasn't worried. Cue to today I visit my gynecologist. She confirms my herpes and tells me it IS permanent. I don't know who to believe. Is my doctor some quack? I trust my boyfriend and I can't find any real answers online. What do y'all think? Do you think my herpes will clear up eventually?
Pic related, not my vagina, but what it looks like with herpes.
It is permanent but treatable, it will flare back sometimes.
Best bet is to find a Nazi_Girl.jpg -- you can guarantee she won't be as stupid or degenerate as you are!
More people have herpes then those that don't.
Youre going to believe the one tgat gave herps in the first place instead of a doctor???
Are you retarded?
You know the answer to this.
>believing some faggot over a trained medical professional
shit bait
Oh god does this mean I can never date again. Honestly thinking about breaking up because bf lied but idk if I could even find anyone else
Interesting
Well I love my boyfriend and know he would want the best for me.
My boyfriend is straight not gay
That's only true of HSV1. HSV2 or genital herpes is rarer, but a lot of people have that too.
Post tits plz
it's genital herpes :(
Would you want me even if I had herpes?
It's permanent, but manageable. Keep your vitamin C levels high enough and it won't ever bother you. So eat some citrus fruits every now and then, and delicious broccoli. Or take some vitamin C supplements.
More people have herpes than those who haven't btw. If you see three people, two of them have it.
ignore the bait
google it you retarded thot
I am but nothing is coming up
you can date but no decent guy will want you once they learn you have herpes
you are now limited to other std ridden men, sleezy mexicans, and niggers
I mean it's possible he's dumb enough to think intermittent symptoms is the same as 'not permanent'
Im so depressed now :(
Wasn’t permanent...
idk he was adamant his dad told him they weren't permanent
lol retard
And white men.
Show us your diseased pussy
>I don't know who to believe. Is my doctor some quack? I trust my boyfriend
Could anyone actually be this dumb???
OBVIOUS BAIT
Damn looks like she needs to find niggers now
You're baiting. There's no way someone would think a doctor is lying to you.
I am a female with herpes. It is forever but you wont always have sores. Honestly, it didnt affect my dating at all. I told plenty of guys before hand and they hit it raw every time.
Worst u can do is not tell the guy. And when he finds out pretend you are just finding out.
I have done that one too.
Spread the wealth.
You're right, the doctor can't be lying. How could I be so stupid
hopefully I won't have to date if me and my boyfriend stay together
speaking as someone who also got herpes in a similar manner. You can go the sneaky route and not disclose it - play ignorant. most people with herpes are very unaware they have it anyway. You have 3 options,
2: you can join std dating sites.
3: get over yourself. It will rule out some people but look at it as a positive, they clearly don't care that much about you if they wont take a mostly benign std for you.
Its honestly not the end of the world. I was nearly suicidal when I found out I had it, obsessed over it thought I'd be alone forever. Then I met my boyfriend and told him straight up (right before we had sex) I guess he was unlikely to be like no. But he didnt care at all and hes never even had symptoms.
NO, it's commonly known that herpes is permanent. Hope I don't get burned. Maybe the moral of the story is to not fuck fuckwits with big cocks/that look good.
his cock isn't even big :(
this is some of the dumbest shit anyone has ever spewed...
you only numbered 2 of the three options...moron.
also, it is extremely understandable (and should be expected) that someone who is clean would not want to date someone who has an std...it's not that they don't care that much about you (what a selfish way for you to look at the situation), it's that their motivation for self-preservation kicks in. If you are dating someone who does not care about their own health, then you can't expect them to give a shit about your well being either.
The author of that post is a delusional fucking retard
I got HPV when I was 20 like 3 months after losing my virginity having protected sex with a girl I met off the app Whisper and my life pretty much ended that day in the docs office. Haven't touched or hung out with women for 7 years almost now and I'm starting to experience slight ego-death. I don't care about anything else anymore, only that it will go away and I can resume my life again like a normal person. I dont even make friends or travel because there is no logical point to doing anything productive anymore because I can never have kids or experience a relationship.
I can only play singleplayer and my only actual real hope for salvation in this acursed world is that they develop a cure, or the women I talk to are vaccinated for HPV because ironically since I was wearing a condom the skin at the base of my cock got infected, so condoms wont help me at all. Alternatively I can just pay women thousands of dollars to go get vaccinated and then pay them to stick around for like 6-7 months until their body acclimates to the vaccine, THEN I can have regular sex.
Don't fuck random people off the internet though they just lie about who they are pretty much 90% of the time. Also condoms are the weakest form of contraceptive/protection
>tl;dr Stds are gg in this era because people literally wont accept anything less than perfect
Yes it is 2am, im phoneposting. I am very tired and forgot to number the first point but im sure your brain can work it out.
I never even denied what you are saying now. I am merely speaking from experience that plenty of people will not care. If I hadn't been burdened with this I would accept it from someone I genuinely cared for anyway. There are seriously worse things that can be wrong with people. That is literally all I said. calm down.
also self preservation? its fucking herpes. Like most people actually already have anyway. its not fucking aids
So I think I might break up with my boyfriend. And I've decided I'm still going to date, I'm just not going to tell anyone I have herpes. If they discover they have herpes I will just act surprised
>Literally the reason people have STDS
You're a bad person then
>most people actually already have anyway
again, you are spewing nonsense.
most people DO NOT have herpes.
You may be thinking of HPV, which is very common, but that is not the herps.
You, my friend, are unintelligent and spewing nonsense. I know it's herpes and it's fucking disgusting. Again, why would any clean person want to voluntarily subject themselves to a DISEASE?! You are acting like it's just some dirt that you can wash off...it's not. People who have issues with their immune system could die from herpes. You need to learn a thing or two.
You are also a bit of a piece of shit for waiting until right before you and your bf were going to have sex for the first time to tell him...that's some lowdown slimy shit right there. Couldn't be up front with him on the first date, huh? If he really liked you, then he would have stayed...that's how your logic works, RIGHT???
Can't wait to see what gem you reply with. You are a scheming shit-woman who has a dirty vagina. Good job trapping a guy.
Why is that? People on this thread said most people have herpes anyways so I'll most likely hook up with people who have herpes
but most people have herpes anyway sooooo
>
yea, that's the worst option you could choose.
I'd say just go do some heroine and end it all if you are going to choose to lie about it.
>most people have herpes
THIS IS COMPLETELY UNTRUE.
What the fuck is wrong with you?
Holy shit you're a fucking faggot
Im not trashy. I don't do drugs
I don't have herpes and I'd be pretty fucking pissed if some bitch failed to warn me before I slept with her. It's happened to me before. Luckily her friend warned me before I porked her
lol, this guy doesn't like the truth....and he's also not so secretly in love with dudes (as is everyone who calls people faggot)
>Im not trashy
ummm, you have herpes. might want to rethink that.
You can keep saying this as many times as you want, but it wont make it true. It is commonly thought that most the population carries the HSV1 but the majority do not present symptoms ever. No one fucking calls HSV1 herpes, they call it fever blisters or cold sores. People call HSV2 herpes which is called genital herpes and the VAST majority of the population does not carry the virus. So for fuck' sake, shut up
No but I want to see your boobs still
That's funny that your bf gave you herpes and you still trust him more than a doctor.
Nah your def trash your gonna lie about herpes
Drugs are just drugs
Why would you assume any of that is true?
>insecure fag detected
Herpes is the worse version of HPV but is treatable, youre mistaking them for eachother
Stop huffing glue.
This is an incorrect sentence. It would make more sense to say "there are more people in the world with herpes than there are people without herpes". Your statement is like you having herpes, walking up to someone without herpes, and saying "I have more herpes than you".
This is known as and Escher Sentence. This is your educational lesson for the day.
Thanks for understanding man hope you get cancer and die painfully over the course of 5 years
srsly, FU.
Go kill yourself.
>And when he finds out pretend you are just finding out.
My ex did that to me, but with genetal warts. I wound up going to the clinic to have my dick dry-iced by a fucking incompetant. the lump he was icing never went away.
Years later, at a real doctor I find out...those are circumsision scars, not warts.
Dude wtf I have herpes and hpv I got married 3 summers ago didn't even tell my wife I had them. She doesnt even care and the symptoms appear like once every 5 years wtfare you on
I'm not saying any of that shit. I am saying not everyone will fucking care. and yes most of the population do have herpes in one of its forms, but oddly its only the genital kind that gets this sort of stigma.
scheming how? and you know what at least I told him. I didnt tell him on the first "date" because we never had a date. we hung out as friends and am I really going to see "oh btw I have herpes" as far as I was concerned I never knew we were going to even have sex or date but things escalate, shit happens and I told him when I realised things were going that way. I fail to see the issue and neither did he.
I mean do you really have autism or what? its not my fault I got this and I'm done feeling shit over it. I'm not sure what you're going for here tbh. You can say i'm "spewing nonsense" but again. Im speaking from experience.
have herpes, shit sucks. Not everyone will define you by it or care. Everyone has the right to turn down someone for it of course they do, but as I said. It isn't everyone.
and these people with troubled immune systems? presumably they are aware of it. Thats such a specific scenario as to be a non issue. Really not the one one talking shit here. You are giving your opinion and personal standards as if its everyones and that isn't the case.
Most people have the oral type, doesnt mean you shouldn't be open with partners about getting it on their dicks.
wow what a shitty friend
I've had them surgically removed and cryod and they just come back in like 4 months. They say it lasts 2 years at most and Ive had them for 7 years
actually most people do have oral herpes. pretty much the same shit in a different body part.
Majority of people with genital herpes don't present symptoms either you realise. The two types are pretty much interchangeable. You can get either on either part of the body. you can even spread it to yourself.
herpes isnt HPV you retard.
was he a negro?
Why does that matter?
I got oral herpes. I'm a kissles Virgin so it's not the end of the world, most people have herpes already, it will never to away. The symptoms will come out every now and then, unless you stay under External medication (aciclovir) Wich I'm doing, for the rest of your life.
yes, it is estimated that 90% of the world has either HSV-1 or HSV-2. It's a big bucket. HSV-2 is the genital one, and its closer to 15-20% depending age group, demographic, socioeconomics, etc.
The thing is, no matter how you paint, herpes is very common. For perspective, 15% of Americans are smokers - it's a ton of people.
This is all from the CDC's website. Not hard to find. Where's your source? You can't die from herpes.
You're either full of shit or your wife was already a diseased skank. Symptomology with Herpes can vary greatly from person to person but no normal person is going to go "Oh you never mentioned you had an incurable disease, I have it now and will need to take medication for the rest of my life, that's cool"
negroes carry venereal disease
we ought to exterminate them
it's called having morals, you piece of dogshit
why do you think your opinion is everyones. Most people don't need to ever take medication, especially not beyond an initial outbreak. unless your body is really fucked you will fight it off pretty fucking fast. I havent had an outbreak since 2013 and even then it was just tingly red spots. My first and worst outbreak was nothing more than one large sore on my thigh. You said it yourself. it varies greatly, but the worst case scenarios and pictures on google are not the majority and a couple of blisters when your immune system is a bit run down during illness is a very small thing in the scheme of a happy relationship.
granted he is a piece of shit for not disclosing
no, we don't call cold sores herpes. the two viruses are related, but they are two different things. herpes is referring to genital herpes. Nice try though, dumbass. Go learn something before trying to pretend like you know anything.
You sound like a hypochondriac keto alcalized water tranny
Not everyone gives a fuck about 2-3 red bumps once in a blue moon. It does nor impact quality of life and medication is not necessary. And no, I'm not full of shit, that's genuinely what happened
If you're sexually active, sooner or later you're bound to catch some nasty shit...
Dont call my boyfriend a negro you racist
>pretty much the same shit
if by the same shit you mean a completely different, yet related, virus, then yes....totally completely the same thing.
Wow, how can you be so dumb
Your name start with a K?
Post tits
Herpits
>either HSV-1 or HSV-2
how can everyone be this dumb?!?!?!
ONLY genital herpes is referred to as herpes (HSV2).
Cold sores are not referred to as herpes...they are referred to as cold sores (HSV1).
Stop trying to spread bullshit nonsense.
You're unintelligent if you cannot tell the difference. Fuck, you're dumb as shit.
Really pushing the willful ignorance. Yes you can get genital herpes on your mouth and oral herpes on your genitals but as has correctly pointed out these are different viruses that differ greatly in terms of degree of symptoms
They arent. Herpes is the family name for the virus. Pretty much the only difference is location in which it presents. and even that can be interchangeable. The only reason we refer to one as coldsores probably comes down to the fact its way more visible and way more common so not as stigmatised, talked about, given a more palatable name.
feel free to tell how its "completely different" I'll wait.
>Most people don't need to ever take medication
you are saying things that you cannot possibly know are true and are almost verifiably incorrect. If most people don't have to take medication, then why is there so much herpes meds prescribed???????????????????
you're stupid, bud!
>I can't find any real answers online
Please don't procreate you stupid cunt.
Why do you think your personal symptomology is the norm? It isn't
>google herpes
>first hit is mayo clinic
>Treatment can help, but this condition can't be cured
You are one stupid walking vagina.
theres so much herpes meds described because america is fucking retarded and will prescribe anything to draw in cash. Doctors in europe however don't even see it as a serious thing because it isn't. in fact they don't even offer the tests as part of std screening because its assumed the majority of people have the virus.
Yeh?
lies that people with herpes tell each other. Your only guilt free way to date now is meet up dating groups that have other people with the herp. Or you could be an asshole like your current boyfriend and just infect other people. That's coo
I understand what you are saying and you are wrong. 100% wrong.
The two are not interchangeable and you CANNOT get HSV2 from someone who only has HSV1. I know this for a fact.
The information you are trying to pass along as common knowledge is completely untrue.
Learn some science. I learned what I know from my gf who went through medical school and I helped her study...
Where did you learn your info??
Random user here. U get a pimple around the pubic area. It looks just like a random pimple you get on your face. I dont shave but i do trim. Scared to go to the doc. Ive convinced my self thst i have it but dont want it confirmed.
neither are the extreme disgusting images on google that people throw around. severe outbreaks arent the norm either. But its widely accepted that symptoms will lessen in time, if not completely disappear except in times your immune system is compromised like when ill. hence "cold sores"
if you are this dumb, i cannot help you. it's not my job to pass along my medical knowledge to you. If you dont undertstand, then fuck off.
google it if you are confused. Go to wikipedia.
dont worry, i'll wait while you educate yourself.
wow, i smell a conspiracy theorist....let me guess, you believe the earth is flat too...
When you get a flare up, put rubbing alcohol on the affected area. It will burn. After it stops burning, apply more alcohol. Keep doing this until it stops stinging. The herpes will be gone the next day
What a fucking idiot
>CANNOT get HSV2 from someone who only has HSV1
yep you are retarded that isn't what I said. I said the symptoms of either strain can present on either body part, even nostrils, eyeballs. Because they can. Not that a different strain can appear out of nowhere.
>>If you're sexually active, sooner or later
>> you're bound to catch some nasty shit
That part I agree with. But I'm still calling you a liar on your wife. You can't admit that was a really shit thing to do so you're downplaying herpes. That or she already suspected or knew that she had herpes already. Either way when you get divorced I guarantee the fact that you knowingly infected her with herpes without her knowledge is the first thing that's going to be brought up.
Absolutely disgusting. You fuck the kind of dudes that hit it raw knowing you have herpes. And wonder why u have herpes?
there is literally nothing on the wikipedia telling of any difference other than location. Given its considered the main one there can't really be as huge a difference as you say
you didn't realize that you and him were possibly going to have sexual relations until RIGHT BEFORE you had sex??? That could be one of the most retarded things I have ever read. You are a real piece of work. wow....female logic is really working hard with this one
This is my favorite kind of thread on Yea Forums. I was lucky I never caught anything back in the days when I was fucking around. Been married 20 years now, never cheated on my wife, we’re both as pure as the driven snow. On those rare occasions where I wonder what life would be like if I was still out there chasing new pussy, I think about threads like this ... where all you dirty motherfuckers come out of the shadows and commiserate over your foul diseases.
I especially like the ones who - freshly plagued - decide they’re just not going to tell anyone because “everybody’s already got something anyway.” Thank god I’m out!
Rejoice in thine aids, niggers. You’ve made my night.
>there can't really be as huge a difference as you say
Keep telling yourself that. I couldn't care less.
Have fun with your herps
maybe it is a conspiracy But america has definitely overhyped the need for treatment compared to the rest of the world. and profit seems the obvious reason why
Almost every woman under 30 is vaccinated for hpv.
>Not that a different strain can appear out of nowhere.
ahhh, back peddling now.
you said the only difference....
that sounds to me like you were saying one is the same as the other, but maybe youre right and I'M the retarded one. lol
ok you can't tell me because you don't even know. Thats fair. and I have plenty of fun with my herps. It isn't affecting me in any way.
amen
I'm assuming you live in Europe given your comments. Yet, you presume to know how things work here in America?
I thought the rest of the world acts like Americans are supposed to be the presumptuous assholes of the world...looks like you are trying to take the title.
no, i'm just done trying to reason with an idiot such as yourself. I hope your next outbreak is fun. ewwwww
On your side completely. But several decades ago HSV-1 was sometimes refereed to as oral herpes. The medical profession has tended to step away from publically calling it this for the reason you are seeing. People incorrectly equating the two. Things were further complicated when genital herpes (HSV2) started showing up on people faces.
>Pretty much the only difference is location in which it presents. and even that can be interchangeable
just you read that again. although I should have used different wording than "Pretty much" but it is the only noteworthy distance unless other user cares to explain what he thinks he knows.
nigger shut the fuck up, you literally have no reason to be coming out of the gate talking out your ass and spewing vitriol like a goddamn porchy
and you, what the fuck are you talking about
>most people have herpes
are you thinking of a fuckin canker sore? those aren't fucking herpes retardo
wow, you're still missing the point.
They are two different things! pretty much! there, are you convinced now that i used your lingo??
if you insist. but I was genuinely wanting to be corrected if I'm wrong. and I dont get outbreaks. already said. I think I've only had 5 in my life and that was years ago.
lol we got a racist one all trigger lol
I love it...what a loser
yea, i was almost going to bring that up, but then i realized that would really confuse the shit out of the people who already think they are the same thing.
At least it's good to know that some people on here can reason things out and everyone isn't completely making up retarded shit.
Herpes is permanent, dumbass. I've heard something about a clean diet containing no heavy metals and consuming oregano oil to cure it but wouldn't know since I don't have it. You can look into it and ignore what anyone says about it because they're just a bunch of tards anyway. Just try it for yourself and see what results you might get.
Post pics of your blistered vag! Timestamp
>I dont get outbreaks. already said. I think I've only had 5 in my life and that was years ago
soooooo, then you DO get outbreaks....you just haven't gotten one in a while.
Do you see why I'm done dealing with your retardation? You contradicted yourself in the next sentence. Just begging to be accepted with your herpes.
I think OP left the thread
give me another way in which they are different other than most common location then.
Sorry, do you prefer i call him a nigger?
Herpes is for life, dumbass
I prefer you call him black or African American
never mind I guess op is still here
I don't need to be accepted with my herpes. I'd rather I never got it but all obviously, ultimately all I'm saying is its not a fucking life sentence. Not sure where the vitriol is coming from.
have sex
You obviously have no moral, or sense of humanity. You are very likely a sociopath and probably have borderline personality disorder, with a healthy dose of bi-polar thrown in for fun.
You are the type of woman that makes men hate women for being selfish narcissists.
I hope you get HIV.
you keep crying for me to teach you...i already told you that I am not her to teach you medical science. You wouldn't understand it and I would have to explain the actual viruses themselves. I paid for my education in time and money. You can do some research on your own, i think. or dont, i dont care at all
Based
it literally IS a life sentence. you keep saying things that are obviously untrue.
If it isn't a life sentence, then tell me when your herpes are getting out and you will be herp-free???
lol, not a life sentence...nice choice of words
Go back to plebbit nigger faggot
I've always fucking hated this mentality.
>some rando/family member/friend/literally anyone who isn't a doctor told me this
>but my doctor who is a trained professional and has spent years in education learning this stuff told me this
>who do I trust
TRUST YOUR FUCKING DOCTOR YOU DUMB FUCK.
Literally 90% of my family does this too. They avoid hospitals like the plague, except they wouldn't avoid the plague because whiskey and maple syrup fixes basically everything.
lol what are you some kind of moron? like your bf tells you you have herpes and you wait 2 years to go to a doctor. then a doctor tells you some shit and you're like "lol dummy my bf said otherwise." jesus you're as dumb as you are stupid and you should honestly kill yourself.
dude we all have hpv
Hes a filthy, herpes infested NIGGER.
ahhhh hahaha
wahhhh wahh wahhhh
cry about it, bitch.
btw, I'm super white, but you can keep calling me a nigger if you want. Doesn't bother me in the slightest as it only shows how unintelligent you are lol
>I can't find any real answers online.
i know this is bait, but you still fucking retarded
this this fucking Yea Forums. for the general public the only difference that is noteworthy is location. That is how people differentiate between the two. Any autistic breakdown of the virus itself is actually pretty beside the point. They are both herpes. Same as every strain of HPV is still called HPV
t.beta male provider.
I'd rather be getting new pussy every month then to be with the same old cunt for 20 years. Enjoy your misery marriagefag.
And yeah your wife is fucking me on the side.
Sorry, nigger loving faggot. Youll pay the toll soon enough. Keep relaxing dumb fuck.
Ah... well then, anyone else with the herps can take the advice.
don't go and give them evidence that goes against what they are saying! these types of brains don't know how to deal with it. They might explode.
but, wait, isn't 1/5 the majority??? lol
its neither stopping me having sex nor causing me any bother. Whats stopping you having sex if not an annoying at worst STD.
like i already said, you are wrong. Just because you keep saying the same thing over and over isn't going to make it any more correct.
Dum dum
Not going to link to the poster whose futility trying to impart some knowledge about this. By using the term "cold sores" you're trying to pass HPV2 as being as innocuous as HPV1 which it isn't. I will grant that the extreme genital herpes images that are pointed to are often the extremes and that symptomology can, but is not guaranteed, to decrease over time. But you are never free from the disease and always have the potential to pass it on.
But people are being disingenuous when they want to claim herpes is no big deal but at the same time don't inform people that they have herpes. When you don't tell people, you are stripping them of their right to decide for themselves whether or not it is a big deal.
do you need some tissues, soyboy?
he also likely has some strain of HPV anyway if he fucked around anyway whatever he may thing
He is statistically much more likely to be happy than you. But keep chasing the dragon for that squirt of serotonin, filthy degenerate. Its not impressive to fuck random thots. Its literally never been easier to fuck whores, idiot.
Go on, tell us all about your herpes.
ok, cool. but it's still for life. aka a life sentence.
and nothing is stopping me from having sex. I have a clean and sexy girlfriend who I have sex with whenever I would like...
and yet you can't tell me how im wrong.
I'm not saying its as innocuous. I'm saying theres just not that huge of a difference between them. you're also just telling me shit I already know here. I'm really ultimately just saying I don't personally find it to be the end of the world, and most people don't either.
and I didnt refer to it as "cold sores" in regards to genitals. I was talking about people referring to it as that when presenting orally.
>squirt of serotonin
he means oxytocin
yes its very easy to claim that anonymously online but I'll take your word for it. life sentence implies it would hold me back in some way. it doesn't and that's really all I wanted OP to know. Shit is way over hyped. it isn't worthy of hate either.
Fun Fact: this year herpes has been found to cause oldtimers disease
1) under 20 likely not for sure. 20-30 vaccination was first coming out so many were not vaccinated because new vaccinations are slow to become common in general population
2) more importantly, vaccination is for more common types of HPV that resulted in cervical cancer. It is not a vaccination for all types.
If youre not over 35 or retarded, and if youre under 220lbs you can come be my second wife.
>20 years
>married
>closed relationship
if you have kids on top of that, i applaud your endurance and not having killed yourself
either that or you were raised as a godfearing christian because nobody can hate life this much
anything you do in life will come with risks, having slept with whomever you did was a risk you took and if you feel you need a thread of retards to validify your fear of regret over the choices - or lack thereof - you made in your life, then you truly belong here
Stop going to a pajeet Dr. you can treat your Herpes with Dog Licks.
Don’t worry,
Herpes, while it is a permanent disease and may flare back up once and a while when stressed, can be treated and will eventually go away.
The only way Herpes can be transmitted is through contact with skin that is experiencing an outbreak.
Around 3/4ths of the world has a strain of Herpes, 1/5th of the planet has Genital herpes, and a majority of those people will never know!
Herpes is such a common virus, that unless you have an outbreak, they won’t check for them in STD screenings.
i hope to god when im married with kids Im not still posting on fucking Yea Forums. It just shouldn't feel right at all
stop baiting faggot
About 3/4 of this wrong.
Nice plan trying to get the dog to spread it to other people.
no. life sentence means for life. you need to learn the definition of words before using them
Keep telling yourself that XD
>yet you can't tell me how im wrong.
i CAN tell you how, but i said i dont want to. learn something on your own, genius
I honestly trusted what he said because his dad told him herpes wasn't permanent
awww we have a gay hater.
are you aware that most guys who call other people faggots are actually interested in having gay relations??
come out of the closet, bud. it will be ok. we will still tell you youre a retard
nobody uses the term to imply anything positive. should be obvious in this context. Learn nuances of the English language before trying to explain them.
>Thousands of dollars
Nigga mine was free what kinda health insurance do you have
FUCK OFF
>Trust untrained, uneducated people who care about you.
>Trust trained, educated people who care about making money off of you.
While trusting a medical professional is always advised by default, it's not with 100% unquestioned certainty that you should trust them at all times. They are known to invent problems to provide solutions to; it's capitalism afterall and if say, you're in the US, you'll see full well the effects of that abuse.
Being out in the US scared me into being far healthier than I used to be, just so I can avoid going to any of these greedy bastards in the first place.
you keep saying this but all the obvious online resources just confirm they are similar viruses with the major difference being in location.
You wouldn't care if I had herpes?
Also I'm 353 lbs
exactly why americans are so afraid of herpes. Doctors here tell it how it is because they arent just out to profit.
as a eurofag i can confirm this
cease this autistic rage
As someone who has cold sores every few years at worst, the rule of thumb is simple:
1. Dont kiss/share utensils when theres an outbreak
2. Don't use the same towel on your genitals as on your face.
Litteraly everyone i know has had a cold sore at some point in their life.
HSV1 is transmitable to genitals if u stick ur dick where ur mouth is. It looks identical to HSV2
>tldr
Dont fck ppl or wipe you ass with your face during an outbreak
obvious bait
Herpes isn’t as bad as everyone says it is. 80% of the population had it and 90% of them don’t know they do. Besides, it’s basically just pimples on your dick and/or pussy
Nope idgaf whatever nigga i just wont fuck you when you have blisters.
Im not sure youll fit in the house
More like low key poison ivy on your crotch but whatever helps you sleep
your age is showing
What this user said
no hsv1 and 2 are herpes simplex virus, hpv is human paploma virus. they are two totally fucking different unrelated things. how do people get to be this stupid.
lots of people have hsv1, aka cold sores.
lots (most) people have hpv
not lots of people have hsv2, aka genital herpes
People like you are literally why the world sucks right now FUCKING RETARDED THOT WIPE YOURSELF OFF
triple confirming. I was reading a lot of sensationalised shit about herpes online when i suspected I had it, but on going to my GP to ask for the test they just looked at me somewhat blankly and explained how the test is expensive and unreliable because most people do have a form of the virus and its hard and pointless to tell which one it is without even more extensive and pointless testing. And just told me to come back of the symptoms were ever really bad, and to stop smoking. Shits mildly annoying not life threatening. No need to pump out drugs when most peoples immune systems can adapt.
Also that fucking retarded dude needs to wipe himself off Jesus H Christ
Tell me you're not that dumb of a fucking woman and you're just larping.
If you didn't know herpes was permanent than I have no sympathy for you. Everyone knows fuckin herpes is fuckin permanent.
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Lets put it simply. Go up to any normal person and ask them, "I have a disease. As far as medical science knows this disease has no long term effects, but it is incurable and will always have the potential to be passed on to other people. Can I give it to you?" What do you think the answer is going to be?
While people need to keep perspective on anyone with a disease, be it herpes or aids it is not beneficial to act as if its nothing. You may have learned to live with your mild symptomology but not everybody's symptomology is mild. When you downplay the disease you downplay the need to inform people you have the disease.
sounds like you have an abusive boyfriend thus your low self-esteem which is obvious
from my personal experience? If you are suitably matched in every other way its more often a non-issue. Its a fairly small factor in a relationship in the grand scheme of things. People are entitled to walk away or not want it, people are entitled to the truth. But the idea that you somehow become untouchable scum with this is so far removed from reality.
Already said this. Its not what was being argued.
Gotta give it to him, he's not afraid to ask
Wrong. You can be shedding the virus without showing any outward symptomology. Outbreak just means you're definitely shedding virus.
Porn studios don't screen for herpes because its just assumed you have and will get genital herpes. If you go into a hospital to have an STD screen they most definitely will look for herpes.
lol, no. you are just wrong. realize that and adapt. nice try though
yes, they are related, yet two different things. I'm not sure why you are not understanding that...
>Litteraly everyone i know has had a cold sore at some point in their life
i've never had one. All this means is that you hang around dirty people. Fucking moron
your lack of intelligence is showing
thats offered as standard screening in america?
lol soyboy really got you worked up, huh?
hahahaha thanks for the laugh
Well yeah I get that and often you can question your doctor and they will discuss things with you.
The mentality I hate is the idea that the word of literally anyone else can immediately call in to question a doctor's advice.
A few years ago I had a cold sore for the first time and did a little reading. This is what I learned, and I have no idea how much of it is true:
There are two variants of the virus, HSV1 and HSV2. While it used to be thought that one caused cold sores and the other caused genital herpes, it's now known that you can have either variant in either place, it's just more common to have HSV1 on your mouth than HSV2 and more common to have HSV2 on your genitals than HSV1. The virus infects the nerves in the affected region and resides there permanently. Your immune system learns to keep it dormant, causing flare ups to decrease in frequency over time and to coincide with immune system suppression. The virus is only contagious in the days or weeks before, during, and after breakouts. Since you don't always know that you're going to have a breakout soon, you can never know whether or not you're currently contagious, but you're not always contagious.
Almost everyone has HSV1 on their mouth, i.e. cold sores, but genital herpes is much rarer. Most people do not have genital herpes, and anyone who suggests otherwise is considering genital and oral herpes together.
>I trust my boyfriend
I'm not wrong. I didnt mean life sentence as literally a life sentence like you seem to. your autism is showing. in this context it clearly means "something holding you back as though imprisoned" not a literal fucking life sentence.
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but seriously
bruh
the trigger for an outbreak is different for each person. Most ppl go their whole lives not knowing they've had it.
Also your reaction clearl indicates ur american.
U probably have HSV1 and just havent encountered a trigger. U'll probably be one of those ppl who'll never have an outbreak
>The mentality I hate is the idea that the word of literally anyone else can immediately call in to question a doctor's advice.
it's because people are too dumb to work out how a thing works. So they also think that there is no way a doctor could be any smarter than they are...which obviously is a huge problem.
It's a common fallacy that people think whatever they don't understand couldn't possibly be correct.
That is why we have flat earthers, space deniers, moon skeptics, etc...people are fucking dumb
uhhuh...if you keep back peddling so much, you're going to fall off soon...
though yes, you are correct, the american system seems to be kinda messed up in that regard. Refer to
>Also your reaction clearl indicates ur american.
>U probably have HSV1 and just havent encountered a trigger.
mmmk, but we were talking about having an outbreak and I have never had an outbreak, so....not sure where you're going with this, but what i said is still 100% correct, m9
It can be cleaned off easily with oven cleaner and a steel scrubbie.
>american system seems to be kinda messed up in that regard
can't argue with you on that
no?
Outbreaks occur every few years at worst, sooner or later ur gonna see it on those around you. Its not about dirty.
>>Already said this. Its not what was being >>argued.
And yet you keep arguing that herpes is no big deal. It is a big deal when you don't tell someone which is what this thread is about
>>If you are suitably matched in every other >>way its more often a non-issue. Its a fairly >>small factor in a relationship in the grand >>scheme of things
So are they entitled to the truth upfront or after the kiss or after the date or after sex or after you've been seeing each other for 2 months or after you've been married for 3 years?
What is being argued is regardless of the disease it is a disease. You do not have the right to decide for other people as to whether or not it is a big deal. But by repeatedly advocating that its no big deal you are advocating, even if inadvertently, that it is no big deal to lie about it.
For saving me from a life with an STD?
lol, no...i dont have it.
You can keep trying to tell me that i do, but....i dont. I'm clean
>Outbreaks occur every few years at worst
this is not the case for everyone. keep on spreading your unintelligence
If you go ask to be checked for any STDs yes they will check to see if you have genital herpes because that's still considered an STD. Where do you life that herpes isn't considered an STD?
no one fucking cares and his sentence was more concise and readable then ur gay ass shit
You sound like you've been ran through a thousand times
Im saying in regard to op it isnt going to hugely impact their life. This is based on my own experience. Nothing more. Youre reaching. Ive said from the start honesty is important.
You tell them when you feel the realtionship might have a future obviously. Not 15 minutes into your first meeting.
Biggest cope, faggots are a dying breed. In 20 years, your fucking gonna be exterminated 100%
Pretty sure its one you request in most of the world for a number of reasons rather than them dropping it on everyone.
oh pls the majority of ppl who have cold sores really do get it over multiple years. It goes without saying there are extreme cases at either end
ok so go get a test to be sure.
U have nothing to lose.
And if ur right, ull be certain, so all the better.
And make sure to test for both HSV1 and 2
Bet you anti vaxx as well you fucktard
your lack of clarrity indicates you're a newfag.
If ur responding to op click on that number that start with No. and we'll know ur referring to her. Otherwise you could be responding to any of the retards in this thread
Mostly. Percentage of HSV1 is not as high as usually claimed and is location/demographic dependent like most sexually communicable diseases. A lot is dependent on where you grew up and amount and casualness of sexual activity (including kissing) Spent most you childhood in city daycare you probably have HSV1, grow up rural with parent, less likely. Only kissed your high school and college sweethearts, less likely. Make out with the everybody's girl at a frat party, almost guaranteed.
Yes you can get HSV1 and HSV2 in both locations. The difference is oral HSV1 often doesn't present or will be a cold sore. This is how herpes is often downplayed. However, if you get oral HSV2 you might only get cold sores or you might get the nightmare shit you see in sex ed class.
Most importantly. Like you said the disease is permanent and yes, you are not always contagious, but you can never guarantee 100% that at any particular time you are not contagious.
You're fucking stupid. Don't breed and rip out your uterus with fishing hooks.
You're a dumb cunt
op is b8 and fake but the conversations that have come out of it are more interesting
full blown herpes is what's best for you i guess
See I think that's bullshit. So basically you're saying a person has to commit what, days, weeks, months into a relationship before you drop that bombshell on them?
>>You tell them when you feel the relationship >>might have a future obviously
You might be old school, but unfortunately in today's society some form of sex usually happens long before people start thinking of becoming an us.
So you're either putting them at risk without their knowledge while you try to decide how serious things are or you are assuming on their behalf that they are going to be cool with your confession now that they have time and emotional investment in the relationship.
If its an arranged date your health status should be known before you meet. If its something that evolves a chance meeting this should be disclosed before the two of you head for the door or when you arrange to make another meeting. Anything else is underhanded and belays the casualness you claim to have about the your disease.
Honestly, you're f*cking stupid for believing what your BF told you. Didn't you pay attention in health class? Herpes is a lifelong STD. You deserve what you get, idiot.
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dude no one gives a shit, just kill yourself
his dad is fucking dumb
Herpes is permanent, but it only flares up sometimes. Usually when you get sick and your immune system gets busy elsewhere. Tough luck, nigger.
just fucking kys aready, fucking retard
Nigger.
Jesus, just come out of the closet already
Don't 100% of women have some form of HPV by 30? Don't get me wrong though having warts around my cock is suifuel to the max. I hate my life.
No. A woman who is sexually active (eg a frequent tinder user) is likely to have HPV. A woman whose sexual activity is limited to a few actual relationships is likely clean if the boyfriends were of similar mind in terms of sex.
A big reason for the spread of HPV and herpes was the false mantra of condom = safe sex. A condom is almost worthless against HPV and herpes because the virus can travel along routes of sweat during sex.
His first of three points was above #2, he just didn't number it. Way to reading comprehension bruh
This is definetely a bait thread, por you are actually 14 yo
>Nazi_Girl
>degenerate stupid
He either cheated on you. Which is a lie. Or he lied to you(deception) by not telling you he had perma STD. You will have to disclose you have herpes to anyone you date, otherwise they can sue you. You can also give this to your child depending on the type. You were given a permanent curse by someone you "loved" (trusted) . Only. Chance is if he didn't know and it was from previous encounter.
No, herpies is not a curable desease, it is permanenet. What it does do is lay dormant for long peioreds of time and then flair up. It is treatable, drugs can be taken to lesten flair ups and help treat simptoms
>idk if I could even find anyone else
there exists no human on this planet that is that special. your bf is 1 in 20. go find someone else
I see your in the club
And just like herpies, you have strains that don't effect your genitals, strains that do, and strains that show no warts (the one you gotta worry about because it's Yea Forums. err cancerous.)
also, most warts can be removed by soaking it with apple cider vinegar over the course of about a week.
hope your peckers and pussies and assholes don't get too raw KEK
That looks painful. You should get a cream for it or something.
Fuck you, Bait Muthafukka! How do you not know...go to bed now.
Its supposed to get better with time but genetics plays a part. Your ancestors probably werent promisuous. Also your health and stress level probably play a part.
How can you tell that?
I mean I knew it but I want to know...
is he from Africa?
TL;DR
>Rekt
Post tits and well let u know
this is why I'm glad my gf is a borderline NEET virgin
can't trust these lying whores
I would do this tbh. But I am a bit of a sociopath.
Friend could have been cock blocking. One of my friends gave me that warning about a couple girls then turned around and fucked them himself.
When I go for checkups (in the US) they don't even bother with herpes tests. Unless you have symptoms it doesn't matter. I'm 30 and have probably had too much unprotected sex so realistically I have some asymptomatic variant and it's irrelevant.
It was a girl that warned me. Maybe she was lying, I wasn't about to try it and find out
Herpes is permanent but the symptoms will come and go with treatment, although yeah now that you've got it you're stuck with it
op isnt real. they teach about herpes in highschool everywhere. no one is this stupid
Schools conflate STDs arbitrarily and drugs arbitrarily. Not a great source of education.
you do realize he/she could have lied, right?
stupid bitch
Yes, she could have, but I'm not gonna roll the dice and risk it. There's more poon in the sea. I started a relationship shortly after with my current gf
Can confirm. My cousin has it, as does an ex friend of my dad's who got it from fucking his other friends wives. Dad cut contact with him asap
You should seriously fucking kill yourself. I've only been with one guy but I'd still be upfront with that much less a disease even though it's been years since I slept with anyone. I make sure they know what they're getting and I expect the same from them.
All herpes does is give blisters every two years or so. Won't shorten your life or anything. Tons of people have it, it's a pretty ancient disease. The stigma only started during the AIDS crisis
Your doctor is right, as for your boyfriend he's a quack and an arse
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Damn OP here, can't believe this thread is still going strong. Just got off the phone with my no ex boyfriend. We are done.
A disease that is treatable should not be a factor in whether or not someone would want to be with you if they want to be with you knowing you have it won't be a factor at all
I mean I've been with more than 1 guy. Ive been with like 37 guys. But I'm still not going to kill myself. Its not the first time I've had an STD
yeh he's pretty abusive I'm just realizing it. which is why I just broke up with him
It didn't realize I could get it for some reason
I mean he's not a genius, but he is father so I thought he would have general knowledge on the subject
Im not 13 im 28
I dont think he cheated on me. He was always so concerned that I would cheat (I never did) I dont think he could do it
You right, I just broke up with him over the phone
no but his ancestors are
If you're enough of a stupid whore to get a disease, then you could at least have the decency to let people know. If you don't, then you deserve to be hit by a truck.
Its not like I can pass it if I'm not breaking out. It only because passable during flair ups
You are fucking retarded
I think I read somewhere that you can treat it within the first three hours of getting it, as far as further treatments go I wouldn't really know
Treat doesn't equal cure. OP is a dumb cunt
Getting really drunk right now. Think I'm gonna try to fuck my ex's best friend. That'll really show my ex
OP here, Getting really drunk right now. Think I'm gonna try to fuck my ex's best friend. That'll really show my ex
No, no they don't buddy. HSV2 is not present in 80% of the population. HS1 is not even present in 80% of the population, and that is the cause of cold sores.
All of fayette and greene county pennsylvainia Including myself has the herpies its not a big deal half never get a outbreak 1/4 gets one out break the first time then never again and the last 1/4 is on antivirals because its a chronic thing, keep yourself healty and active and your outbreaks will become less and less, Im single if you need a man
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