What exactly about my face is so ugly? is it fixable?

Your nose is fine.

Weight, hair, beard.

You can’t outrun a shitty diet.

You will lose fat if you eat a proper diet, no exercise required.

The converse does not work. If your diet is shit, it will be very unlikely that your exercise routine will make up for it.

i just barely got my hair cut today

Hey bro at least you can grow a sweet beard. I can't grow shit.

You look depressed and listless. You also look like you lack confidence and social skills.

That's literally 99% of your problem

i just barely got my hair cut today

being too hard on yourself bro you look fine don't get red pilled and turn into a cuck

Here we go again, I hope you die already dude. Can we ban these fucking shit tier posts please

I think I know you

i mean i weighed 100 lbs less. a lot of that was fat. my diet was fine at the time

Well, best I can say is that it is... indeed a haircut. Keep the sides shorter than the top. You don’t need to go full undercut to give the impression that your face isn’t so round. You need a better haircut is what I’m saying.

everyone else is shitting on my beard, saying it's scraggly

probably because i was diagnosed with clinical depression when i was 10

i doubt it's "99%" of the problem, there's plenty of depressed people who have sex

If you’re fat, your diet is not fine. Full stop.

Are their weird endocrine diseases that can make you fat in spite of a good diet? Yes. You probably don’t have one and they’re usually essentially curable if you do.

from where?

the sides are shorter than the top

at the time, when i weighed 100 lbs less, it was fine. yeah my diet is absolute shit now, but it was fine then.

i am pretty sure i have hypothyroidism (my mom has it and they thought i had it when i was like 12) but that only counts for like 10 lbs

It is scraggly. Just because you can grow it doesn’t mean you should. At the very least, use beard oil and trim all those scraggly hairs that are sticking out.

Really though, the biggest thing is the haircut and losing fat. The beard (if properly groomed - NOT like in that picture) might actually work well on a slimmer face with a better haircut.

What you're suffering from is being average. You need to supplement the average with a personality that will put you above average and into the attractive category. Have you tried having a personality that isn't "le fedora tipper"?

the problem with the haircut is my head is asymmetrical. the shorter you go, the more evident the lopsidedness is

i guess i will trim the beard back a bunch. i like it longer than this so the hairs have some weight and lay down so it doesn't look as bad but it's stuck in the middle rn for sure.

More differential then. Better yet, consult a barber who knows his shit.

Go to doc, get your TSH and T4 checked, and if its abnormal then get on synthroid. If you have hypothyroidism, it’s very manageable.

Dieting should be your number #1 priority. Exercising will help your mood but to lose fat you should be very, very vigilant about how and what you eat.

Yeah, plenty of depressed people have sex. They’re usually either in a relationship already or, let’s be real, are much better looking than you. You don’t need to be that good looking to get laid regularly. I know lots of dudes much uglier than you who are killing it - but you can’t also be depressing to be around.

>Yeah, plenty of depressed people have sex. They’re usually either in a relationship already or, let’s be real, are much better looking than you
that's what i'm saying. the problem is not that i'm depressed, the problem is that i'm ugly

Just learn to trim it. I had too. Once you do Ladies love that shit.

You're not ugly. You appear to be poorly groomed, a bit overweight. These are the easy fixes. Focus on a clean, healthy diet and the weight will drop off, maybe jog a little to speed things along. Go to a good barber, not a stylist, and ask for advice for what type of haircut & facial hair to fit your face and build. Avoid female hairdressers like plague, all they want do do is practice the latest trendy undercut hard part whatever bullshit that looks great on GQ models and like hammered ass on the rest of us. Ideally, your barber should be a straight guy at least old enough to be your dad. These are the ones who will give you a masculine, attractive cut that actually looks good in the real world. Now the hard part: you look sad as fuck. I'm guessing you deal with depression a lot. Get a therapist. Depression is about impossible to beat on your own. I'm not saying go to some shrink and get a ton of pills and try to chemically fix emotional damage. You might need some sort of meds, that is a real possibility. But the main thing is find someone to talk to that has the training to help you. I tried for years to just deal with things, tried at least a dozen different doctors, some wanted to give meds, some didn't. I really struggled, have up on professional help. Things got really bad, I got really deep into depression, suicidal, all that shit. Decided to give life one last chance, got lucky and found a therapist I really clicked with. Keep trying. Eventually you will find a path. It may be a dark one for a while longer, but know that there is a light at the end, even if you cannot see it now. Find a purpose, even if it is something as simple as learning a new cocktail recipe every week or adding an extra block to your daily jog every month. If you have a why, you can endure any how.

All you gotta do is put the shortest guard on a beard trimmer and run it all over the beard then give it hard lines with a razor then you'll look infinitely better

You're definitely not that ugly OP