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thanks for the advice. you're right i should focus on myself before i focus on a relationship

yeah dawg, meet a chick with no legs on a fb group or something

This is bad advice. Someone in the relationship needs legs. It might make you feel good for a while to be with another legless person but only for a while.

That sounds like a bad idea. Don't do this op

doesn't have to be legless. he could meet a nice girl missing an arm or something. just saying, a fellow amputee levels the playing field and removes that specific reason for feeling self-conscious.

op here. that might not be a bad idea. just have no clue where I'd meet another amputee

Honestly just neck yourself. Useless cripples are just a leech

I would hang out with you user, have a couple beers and talk about life. I'm sure youre a great guy despite being on Yea Forums.
Just try to be yourself, your lack of legs dont define you, its what it is inside what matters.

>>meet another amputee
Google.
Who knew??

Just own it. Honestly yeah people are going to feel weird about it at first because they assume you feel weird about it (which you do).

I had a friend in HS who was in a wheel chair. New people were clearly uncomfortable at first. He'd crack a joke about it and people basically instantly treated him like everyone else. Then talk normally, and don't bring it up again. It can be just a canned quick one liner to break the ice. It says "yeah I know I have no legs, I don't want you to feel weird about it, we don't have to pretend like I do but also we don't have to focus on it either let's talk about other stuff and be chill"

If you're non-chalant about it I promise the only people who would actually be bothered by it are not people worth talking to anyway. They're called douchebags and should be avoided.

Really man don't sweat it.