How do i stop fantasizing about doing this with my gf? I don't wanna be a cuck/swinger but it turns me on...

not really

>satisfy your girl
only sub cucks want the girl to be satisfied and don't see it as letting some one else use their girl

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yes. but doesn't matter why i want. I just don't want to want it. Is this possible for me?

As long as the better man is me then yes

how old are you

21

That isn't cuck porn, that was incest porn.

then stop being a pussy and just find a slut and see if you actually like it. odds are once you're finally in the position and experiencing it, it'll click "this isn't me". or...it'll click that it is and you can get over your own insecurities for what you like and just enjoy your life.

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Show us your GF's nudes so we can fap to her and tell you what we like about her and it'll get it out of your system without having her get fucked by another man.

Don't do it user. Don't feed into the people telling you to post your gf, it'll def turn you into a cuck

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why shouldn't he be a cuck? He's obviously questioning it and on the fence. Why shouldn't he see if it's him?

I’m with these guys.

Post some of her nudes and a photo of your cock and let us decide things.

this
no fap is the best way to go but the way i stopped was by finding something hotter to fantasize about
For me it when i hooked up with this thick latina, she kinda put me on the course of mommydom and latinas but its better than being a cuck

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Share something and see if you'll like it. If you like it, go with it, life's too short. If you don't, don't go with it. What's the worst thing that could happen, seriously?

OP, telling you now, unless you suddenly realize that pussy has lost all appeal for you & you have no more sex drive, there is nothing "nofap" will do for you except ensure that your first load upon ending "nofap" will be of epic proportions. So, fuck away with "nofap". It's bullshit from head to toe.

Lastly, you're in a real dilemma. I'm personally really into watching girls peeing; my biggest kink. But up until the point where I was brutally honest w/ myself & said "ok, there's no getting around it: watching girls pee REALLY turns me on like nothing else", I did everything I could to delude myself into not accepting it. You know all the misdirection you deploy to distract other people from finding out you masturbate? I was doing that to myself because I at that point I just couldn't reconcile within myself that girls peeing turned me on.

Then I got over myself. I realized the only person who these pointless distractions were aimed at was myself & I couldn't bullshit myself. I accepted what I was into & started pursuing it more frequently, and I found that the enjoyment I got out of sex increased exponentially as soon as the prosepct of peeing was even mentioned, let alone if it happened.

So I think you need to just get over whatever mental hangups you have within yourself about the "shame" that being into watching your girl get railed, accept that it's what works for you, and go from there. It's not hurting anybody (assuming, if it happens, that it's consensual), the only people who are gonna know are the ones in the room participating (unless you're an idiot & tell other people). So there's really only one person whose shame you'd have to contend with.

And that's your own.

doing erotic roleplay with you fags over the internet is no different than looking at porn and jacking off to it. In that sense I like it, this is already known. I don't want this to be me irl though, I don't wanna be the guy whos a cuck. It's bad enough i look at porn of it.

but I am porn addicted. I can't go two weeks without looking at it. That's where I draw my hope from. If I'm so messed up that I can't go two weeks without looking at porn, perhaps my sexual desires are not necessarily in line with the real me either. and when I get over porn addiction by abstaining from it, i will also get over wanting to see my gf fucked by another guy.

Dude show us some nudes

I have cuckold fantasies and my girlfriend liked the idea so we made a fetlife account but we wanted to start with a threesome but somehow we started talking to some couple and when they heard that we are into femdom and chastity they asked if we would like it if they had a threesome while i am in chastity and handcuffed to the bed or a chair. After they are finished my girlfriend and the chick are going to tease me and give me some cbt. After that they will probably give me a handjob.
We have never done anything like this before and i think it is a little too much but i am really excited.
We are going to meet them on wednesday.
I can't wait...

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That's circular logic. If you're addicted to porn, simply going without isn't going to solve anything.

Here's what you ought to do:
>take an inventory of what types of porn work for you best
>talk to your gf
>see what, if any, of these things she's willing to do with/to/for you
>roll with it & see what happens

Of the many alluring things about it, one of the big draws is that it's self-centered. Meaning you don't have to include anyone else. The flip side to that is that the more you focus exclusively on porn, the less ability you have to focus on anyone else being present in your sex life. Thus the only way to surefire get over a porn addiction, whether or not you stop viewing porn, is to start having sex with another person.

Getting in touch with what works for you & refusing to succumb to any societal pressure or expectations for what your newfound interests are would certainly help...

well if im addicted to porn perhaps my neural pathways are messed up and can revert back to normal after abstaining. that's what i'm thinking.

Hey, OP, since when do you have these sick thoughts ?

well been watching porn multiple times a day since age 14. got into women being hurt and dominated, then sissy, then cuck. Cuck started at about 18. so 3 years.

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Same here, when I do drugs then i usually dress up like a whore.
Porn can really fuck you up.

You're missing the point. It's less important that you quit porn and MORE important that you reconnect with another person.

The logic goes that if you reconnect with another person, eventually that will become your main/primary outlet & the porn will slowly recede into the distance. Until, eventually, porn is no longer important enough to occupy space in the picture.

Make sense?

walk in on your gf getting plowed by your neighbor.. worked for me

yes i see what you're saying now. Both are probably important though. Can't imagine being with a girl and then still allowing porn in my life. like this user says
it's damaging. I suppose the question is the chicken or the egg.

Was I always a cuck deep inside and then porn just awakened it?
Or did porn corrupt me into becoming turned on by it?

really not knowing the answer is what has kept me from going through with this weird fetish stuff irl

OP, I just got out of a sex negative relationship and into a sex positive relationship. I’ve told my girlfriend (who is incredibly nurturing) that I want her to fuck other guys (and girls). As great and open as she is, she is not into the idea...

I’m telling you this not to dissuade you but you need to understand that girls are not as into this idea as you may believe.

You’d think a girl would be thrilled to hear they can fuck other guys, but it’s just not the case.

I agree with the anons who said don’t run from your fetishes. But understand that finding someone who is going to engage this with you is an uphill battle. Definitely start with porn. Then ask about a MMF threeway. If you can get the threeway accomplished AND she enjoys it then you’re on the right track.

I dunno about you OP but I really hope one day I'll open my phone and see this.

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well I don't even want to have these feelings myself. I'm hoping nofap gets rid of them. If not I suppose I'll accept them or kill myself. If I do accept them then I will certainly be at a loss on how to face the world and look people in the eyes and be assured of myself and not feel like a weak whimp which I already kinda do but I'm working on but these feelings of wanting another dude to fuck my girl being a turn on don't help. So, we'll see.

One other suggestion if you do try this. Don’t date a chick in your professional, familial, or friendship circles. The chick I’m dating is outside all that, and it makes it so much easier to bring up my kinks. Don’t have to worry about any of my shit becoming a subject of conversation around the wrong people....

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Honestly as a female I don't think cuckold is such a big deal...

yes but also fuck no

that's nice but it's a bigger deal to guys i suppose. As a female you're different and thus can't understand the mindset and why it's damaging.

How many times are you gona post that reddit pic

I'm the piss fan from here here and here . You asked
>Was I always a cuck deep inside and then porn just awakened it?
>Or did porn corrupt me into becoming turned on by it?

Speaking solely for myself about my own experiences, I feel the more accurate assessment would be the first one. Porn doesn't "corrupt" anything. It is what it is; nobody forces you to watch what you watch. You watch what you WANT to watch. That's what "free will" means. If you find you're watching a disproportionate amount of POV trampling porn, guess what? That's a pretty good sign you're into POV trampling.

The big hurdle for you, as has been mentioned by myself and others, is figuring out a way to incorporate what you're indulging in with the porn into a real-life encounter with another person.

I also used to think about this all the time, only thing is that i followed through

Me and my gf got really drunk once at a bar, them i called i uber to go home.

Short story is that i let her blow the uber driver all the way home, and he fucked her brains out in the car while i waited outside

The relationship did not last after that

I'm a guy.
It's not a big deal to me.
I don't understand why it's such a big deal to everyone else.
I fail to see how it's damaging.
I just know
>Trump supporters like to call anyone who doesn't like their messiah "cucks"
>calling Trump supporters "cucks" feels very gratifying

are u still turned on by it?

You are watching too much porn in general. Remember porn is like a drug. When you go down into it, you will continuously fall deeper and deeper from one degeneracy to an even lower one. You want to stop being a cuck? Stop watching porn and have actual sex. It will improve your life altogether.

i suppose the counter to that would be porn addiction means u require bigger and bigger hits as you get further into it. Meaning crazier and crazier stuff. Stuff you would have thought was weird or not a turn on when you weren't a heavy user with fried dopamine receptors. Thus someone who likes cuckold porn after years of using porn may not be a cuckold in truth, in a vaccum. if that's the case, it should be possible to come back from it. I just find it exceedingly hard to take myself seriously as a man or person if my gf is getting fucked by other guys. I am putting myself into a beta position and that bleeds into my real life and view of myself. It's different than pee.

Sauce of that vid?

While I agree with your advice that OP should start having more REAL sex with another person & cutting down on the porn (which, honestly, should happen on its own with more real, actual sex)...

I fucking hate & detest the people who don't watch porn referring to it as "degeneracy". Who the fuck are YOU to call what other people use to get off "degenerate"? Do you have any idea how "holier-than-thou" you cretins come off as when you say shit like that?

You feeling like you have any moral high ground that entitles you to judgments of something you a) know nothing about and b) don't even goddamn USE is nothing short of extraordinary, and I don't mean that in a good way.

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No, actually it's not. It's a fringe fetish. Telling you now, speaking from experience, the wrong people finding out you're into peeing is NOT a pleasant experience. I can't imagine being outed as being into cucking would be worse than that.

The only real way cucking is different than peeing is that cucking requires at least 3 people to function, whereas peeing only requires 2. Or, if you're into your own gender, you can just pee on yourself & get off on it at the same time. I've known women who have done that.

But otherwise, their place in society's hierarchy of what's considered acceptable, what's fringe & what's fuckin' too out there is probably about the same.

Just remember:
>kinky is using a feather
>perverted is using the whole chicken

>anti trump crowd likes to call anyone who doesnt agree with them nazis

so user,tell me.how is this any better then trump supporters calling people cucks