So my son has mild autism, basically normal but has difficulty listening and messes with his hands

That's not how abuse works. But ok.

Talk with the woman and show her its not appropriate to hit children.

But then again i was hit as a child, corporal punishment is not that bad

If he can prove abuse he won't lose shit.
Just get it on video. She won't be able to take shit

12 year old kissless virgin confirmed.

I'll accept an apology for your condescension after a judge gives you the rudest fucking awakening of your life lmfao.

I never said anything bro

Either way you're fucked. But I would say get the fuck away from that bitch.

I was beat as a kid and went though the whole process. My sisters dad was going to get most of my mom's stuff and visitation until my bio dad found an old photo with a date stamp that showed signs of abuse.

I have videos evidence etc, she even hit my fucking dog. little 8lb pooch threw an ipad at it and said better him than me

Yeah fuck that shit, kick her bitch ass the fuck outside and then she can come back in when she's learned how to not be a complete heartless cunt of human being.

my kids are young, if I find a nice stepmom for them... do they have a shot at ascending?

Just divorce her, but make sure to have enough evidence to prove abuse to the court.

No, even if you are at fault you still are entitled to half of the estate. This means that OP would have to give up half ownership of his house, one car (assuming they own two), half of his retirement account and possibly still be required to pay alimony if she doesn't have a job at the time of the divorce. Plus he would have to continue without a wife and his son would grow up without a mother, all so he doesn't have to get her to stop being a bitch to their son.

here is the kicker guys, she (wife) was touched by a naked kiss with a relative. so when shes divorced what kind of people will unconsciously find her?

OP is a basement dweller with a stipens.. nothing in my name

No mother. No autistic child should ever go through that.

Being a bitch isn't bad. The man my mom is currently married to is a fucking dick. But he's never hit anyone in the family, and he works his ass off to support them so I respect the fuck outta him. Hitting an autistic kid is a whole-nother ballpark

seems like no mom is better....

404 is coming thanks brothers

Like I said earlier, having an autistic son is soul crushing and eventually she will get over it. She's probably just frustrated and angry, if OP talks to her about it he can probably get her to stop and eventually when she looses all hope for a good life she won't be frustrated or angry anymore.

I've been to a therapist with her, explained its especially wrong. she was abused as a child and cant help but repeat and recreate the familiar.

Then you'll have to choose between loosing your wife, his mother and half your shit or waiting a few more months until the shitty life of raising an autistic son causes her to give up

So do you have proof of her abuse? Do you have proof of yall talking about how you don't approve of that and maybe how it is affecting him?

If not then you won't prove shit. To get the mom out of the picture you literally have to have a smoking gun.

If you bring up abuse in court be prepared to go through CPS, who will get all in your shit. Every facet of your life. Counseling for the child, the mother and you.

Not to mention if she is "disciplining" her child, which she has every right to do. So if she can spin it in any way that it was discipline she's going to be off the hook.

If you are serious about this and it's not some larp bullshit, get fucking ready. You need to have a lot of money stashed away too, divorces and lawyers and doctors are not cheap.

CPS is going to fuck that child up too. Especially if he doesn't realize its abuse. Because that's what that shit's going to do to him, make him realize his mother is a piece of shit.

TL;DR Get proof of abuse. Try to stop abuse. If poorfag, you're fucked if you don't stop her.

That’s the thing though, if he starts beating his wife, he’s gonna get fucked too. Many states side with the women. Beating her would stand up for the kid, but if she’s already this much of a cunt, she’s just going to use that against him.

she has agreed to a no contest divorce where I raise the kids. I still think she is full of shit and expect a nasty suprise.

Yes, you are quite retarded.

Mother that hits him is worse. Most people have a hard time coping with it, for an autistic person it's going to be downright impossible to understand and affect his character unduly. You can replace her presence with another female easily enough, you gotta be making the money though. Better start getting that bread.

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His autism doesn't even factor into this. She hits him because he is her son. And women can be evil sometimes. My mother has said some downright evil shit to me as well, doesn't mean she hates me or is out to get me. Some women are just cunts, no reason to take their kids away from them unless they are showing no signs of love towards the child.

An abusive parent is much, much worse than a single parent.

Trust me on on this one, please. I'm 21, autistic and my mom used to hit me, try to treat me like a slave, yell at me and tell me I owe her for raising me.

Me dad got brain damage when i was young and my they devorced when I was 4.

Please, for the sake of your child and the many, many people who will love him troughout his life, get rid of the person hurting him. Because the effects of this kind of abuse sticks for decades. Or even a lifetime if it isn't treated.

Sorry I got emotional. But I'm dealing with the aftermath of this very problem myself right now. Which is very difficult to combine with everyday life in a university.

your mom ever hit you while eating dinner asking why you're so retarded?

The autism does matter. I have siblings that aren't autistic. They didn't have to suffer trough the things I did.

And the fact that the kid is autistic hinders his social development outside the home even more. Getting beaten doesn't just set expectations as to what to expect from someone, it also sets an example in how to deal with emotion and conflict.

Well no, my mum would always have a reason to hit me, even if her reason was stupid. She'd hit me and abuse me if I didn't finish my dinner, but she wouldn't hit me randomly. That's just irrational. Please explain the context more, is this abuse unprovoked?

I'm glad to hear you're in a university and overcame it. People like you give me hope he will have the opportunity for a higher education.

what kills me is the hitting then 10 mins later hugging and crying.

She did

And always in the same fucking spot, which is why I'm half deaf in my right ear

how about you just get rid of your retard kid?

ever talk about it with an analyst? it's old school, expensive, boring and takes a long time... but works

fathers are superior caretakers who allow their children room to develop independence. no mother.

you.

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Your obvious projections don't fortify your argument. There are many people with autism who grow up in a negative home and yet still have the ability to expect kindness in the world. It's all a matter of perspective, autistic or not.

An analyst?
The kind that checks your hearing?

I'm pretty sure it's free right around the corner here. There's a store that sells hearing aides

I'm trying my best, I say its God's work.

psychoanalysis

I didn't say that I don't expect kindness from the world. But I don't expect it from my direct family, they've hurt me too many times over.

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Should I ask a psychologist or something? I don't know where to look. But I'm interested

Yeah, that's too much. Also an abusive mother in and of itself is a really weird sign, something is very wrong if the mom-systems don't kick in properly. Men can either accept or doubt a child is theirs, which is why human children tend to look like their fathers far more than they will end up looking like when they're young; it's a safety system.

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cant hurt, it's like taking a big psychological shit. one must release these poisons in a healthy manner

It's a hard world, it's never gonna be easy and there are plenty of people worse off than you. The way I've always dealt with my problems is by doing these two things. A) Never becoming the people I hate and B) Never allowing people to put their negative energy in my circle. If your direct family are bringing you negative energy, then move on from them. It's not about your problems, it's about how you handle those problems that builds your character.

Make sure to get audionand video if you can

No mother. BIL is learning this the hard way after sticking with a moron until the kids are 10-14. Now they're all fucked and divorced and pissed off at everyone and the kids are abandoned.

Wrong on so many levels

My stepdad used to do that.
It hurt a lot losing my dad after my parents got divorced. But I don't remember even noticing my stepdad missing from the house.

Yes, I am in university. But I didn't get there without struggle. I've gone trough months of therapy and social training. I started of high school by rebelling against it and dropping down to a lower level. I then didn't do anything at school for three years and passed my exams.

I've been working my way back up the educational hierarchy ever since.

shes going to take half your paycheck dumb nigger

Right now my mom's somewhat stable.

But I have to manage her emotionally and make sure she doesn't drink too much if I want to survive.

At least for now

god bless user. amazing father. wish i had one like you. nigga necked himself when i was 10

I can't move on from my family right now. I'm still financially dependent on them.

University isn't cheap.

do well brother and ascend.

my wife was hit by her stepdad too, it's clear as day why she is the way she is.

so the opposite of my mom it seems so fucking bizare illogical makes no sense (to me) why she does it.

Please don't

Knowing you hurt his mom like that will scar the kid for life

sorry to hear that

I'm going to look into that

Thanks, it means a lot to me

All it would take is a pinch of fentanyl to solve your problem. Don't touch it with bare skin.

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if you don't know where to look, ask successful people.

everyone has to work through the story of their life, come to terms with it, then let it go and ascend or you might have to come back and do it again.

Miracle drugs would be a nice thing to have

But that stuff is the reason my big brother is currently living under a bridge somewhere.

and my soul, let's not forget that.

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Oh, come on, what god would allow your own mother to beat you half-deaf? You know in your heart she deserves it. A fire in the master's house is set.

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