/B I decided to get real with my life and made a list of the things I want out of relationships.
My whole community/friend group is shaming me for this list. Am I a fuckboi? Should I be ashamed of only wanting these things from women? In my eyes women are pretty useless other than these things. Things I want: Sex (ideally a few times if possible before parting) Occasional/infrequent companionship Casual going/hanging out (rarely needed) A few photos together (personal ego satisfaction)
Things I don't want: Marriage (too risky, bad investment, life destroying) Long-term exclusivity (pointless, no benefit, boring) Children (never wanted em, still don't, vasectomy) Drama or fighting (zero tolerance, will ghost)
Things I have to offer: Emotional security (temporary) Fun/Entertainment (bitches love pointless fun) Money (if i MUST, bitches love "things") Good sex (Luckily I'm not bad at that) Big dick (see above)
I don't know if I'm different than alot of guys, but I've never felt the need or urge to have a long-term partner. I've never had an official "girlfriend", I might've been a few girl's "boyfriend", but not how I saw it.
I just don't bond with women in that way. I can't stay with the same chick too long and usually it causes them to go psycho for whatever reason, at which point things get way too inconvenient and I just cut her off.
I do think I have maybe a chemical imbalance in my brain. Maybe a little sociopathic. But I'd like to think that I'm just a primal old-school kind of masculine male.
Why is it cringe to be honest about what I want? Lol
Jonathan Miller
Lol you autist
Tyler Davis
I might be tbh.
Chase Carter
I thought I might've been a little gay for a time, but the thought of fucking another guy doesn't do it for me. I even came close and just felt nauseated.
Maybe I shouldn't second question myself and just embrace my urges to fuck and dump all the women I meet.
You’re literally telling them you want a girl who you don’t actually like or care about, and she’s only needed to fulfill your desires while you fulfill virtually none of hers... —unless she’s just a vapid slut who only cares about getting fucked and partying. Any halfway sane and mature girl is going to read that shit and see you as childish and selfish and not understanding women worth a damn. Literally all you have to offer is money and sex. unless she’s a dumb whore, that doesn’t mean shit to a woman.
Elijah Morgan
But. I'm fine with that, though. And yeah, I don't really like most women, at least not in a romantic sense. Maybe friends.
And of course you don't tell them that outright, you gotta at least get them cozy, I'm more of a person who leaves out things than lies.
Xavier Mitchell
Huh???? All girls wanna fuck lol. Some are just better at hiding it or putting hoops for you to jump through to be able to do it.
Cameron Kelly
uuui9
William Ward
Just do whatever your inner instinct tells you to do.
I feel the same way as you do. None of my relationships spanned past 9-10 months, and it took couple months for the sex to become „stale“ and boring.
I don‘t know if other men are „lower-men“, but idea of locking down to someone more than 1 year seems catastrophically boring to me. Not that many people have interests at all anyway.
Keep fucking on, no woman is going to say no to a „I fuck and go to the next one“, believe me.
Chase Bell
I am sorry, what is there to love in women?
I tried teaching chess, I tried teaching how to play guitar, I tried teaching many fucking things it just does not work, women are women. They think they matter, but their intelligence average is lower than men, and this becomes boring when the relationship loses its initial flame.
Stop trying to be a gayknight.
Mason Young
I think you nailed it on the head with the sociopathic primal old school kind of guy. Nothing wrong with that if it doesn't hurt anyone.
Christopher Edwards
Leaving things out is lying you dimwit. Look, there are certainly chicks out there into what you want. You just have to find them and appeal to them. Getting ripped is a good way to appeal to them. But, if you do not tell every chick you score all of this upfront, and explain that you won’t change your mind, then you are lying to them. You need to be upfront and direct, like a man. Otherwise you’re just leading girls on and doing that will ducking murder your reputation. You’ll literally be the guy that your own friends warns girls to avoid.
Levi Harris
Shit-tier list to be honest familia. Have you considered switching over and fucking men instead? Seems like you would be into that.
Jeremiah Howard
>I don't really like most women, at least not in a romantic sense
OP what you are looking for is a faggot boyfriend. Now switch on over and stop your crying.
Joseph Moore
You're 30, soon 31? But your list and your comments tells me you're in your late teens, or perhaps it's just arrested development? "..causes them to go psycho... Nah guy, the problem is you.
Sounds like you've not yet been tested by life, did you grow up in a rich family? Never had to consider other people's wellbeing? Feel a bit special?
You need to be out in life quite a bit more to shake that naïveté (I'm being kind here), you need to work with something that allows you to think less about yourself, and more about the needs of others. You need a healthy dose of maturity.
Lol good. I've noticed that women usually go for the guys that people warn them to avoid because either they're curious to see if they can tame him or think other women are trying to cockblock, sabotage them or hide the goods. Females are crazy, I swear to got they think so backwards compared to men, lol. The more rumours the better imo.
I guess if I cared about my so-called reputation this would be an issue *shrug*. Only weak men who are afraid of their desires and getting shamed by society care about that shit. Not caring went well for Charlie sheen, besides the AIDS part
Nah, I actually do alot of volunteer work and whatnot. My family life is good, I was in fact a little spoiled, but lots of love and no abuse or anything.
And I'm pretty straightforward with what I want from the beginning, but somehow the women don't believe me and try to change the rules of engagement.
I guess it's just annoying that if a man just wants sex, goes about getting it, the female catches feelings and tries everything in her power to steer the ship in a different direction, and in the end the man is the bad guy.
It's like America is full of virtue signaling white knights now.
A woman's feelings are just as valid as a man's.
Jaxon Gonzalez
>I was in fact a little spoiled, No! You don't say?
Lincoln Adams
Or rather, a man's needs and wishes are just as valuable as a woman's
It seems like most guys are afraid to go after what their desires because of a little frown or snide comment from people around them. Secretly alot of them are just jealous because you live exactly how you want with no shame and full confidence.
Not hurting anyone. If anything it's these women hurting themselves by misunderstanding the agreement.
No wonder foreign women absolutely love American men over their own, we're easy bitches now, we hold women to no standard with no expectations, easy life lol.
Yes, my parents were immigrants so I guess I see the man/woman thing differently.
Connor Sanchez
Wow. I actually found someone who is in touch with their male DNA.
Love and caring for your fellow man in a universal sense is real, but romantic love is silly and basically made and propogated by the church and women.
Camden Roberts
Jesus you are so cringe
Logan Sullivan
This is anything but cringe, you just do not have enough experience to grasp it
Jeremiah Gray
You’ve already been shunned and mocked by your peers for your childish attitude, but you still think everyone else is wrong. Cringe personified.
Blake Jones
Suit yourself fag.
Juan Bennett
Shunned and mocked??? I'll get the sarcastic comment about how I'm "having fun" or "when are you gonna settle down" here and there, but disrespect? Never lol.
YOU are cringe with that comment, you care too much about people's standards they impose on you.
Enjoy misery.
William Ortiz
On top of everything else, how is this comment helping with anything?
Do I stop losing interestin woman after the 3rd month of the active sex life of that particular relationship, when I say „I am cringy, this is why this happens“?
Jordan Sanders
Why would anyone help you again? You’re a cringy loser who has shitted all over the help and advice offered so far in this thread.
Leo Wilson
Dont really need "help" just seeing if there's other dudes living the way I do on here lol.
