>So I started dating my best friend since the 5th grade around last Christmas. We just graduated. Everything is beyond cool, our families even liked each other. But on this last Tuesday, we found out that some antibiotics causes birth control to fail. She missed her period by over a week. She was scared, but honestly, it didn't even bother me, I'm cool with being a dad. I quickly find out she's scared of her family. They don't want her getting pregnant before she graduates college. But she doesn't want to go to college until later. I start training as a welder next month, I'm aiming for underwater deep sea welding. Figure I'll do it for 2 years then chill with my own metal fab shop, even having a kid I just added that second year. Her fucking family wants her to leave me and get an abortion. She's freaking out. Trying desperately to get her family to be reasonable. She is usually super close to them. I told her I'd put in more years as needed to get her through college if need be. She's got the academic chops, she eventually wants to be a P.A. The original plan was a semester break before she went in hard. She didn't want to go full doc because she wants to have a big family with me. Now her parents are suddenly insane and not talking to her unless it's to go to an abortion clinic.
What the actual fucking fuck? They're liberal and all, but I've never seen anything this insane from anyone before this. Have any of you? Pic related but not ours.
why are you so intent on having a child with her so soon? it's not fiscally responsible at all, especially at 18-19 to start a family, worse off, you're condemning that child to live a sub-par life where both mom and dad will never be able to give them enough attention because of the rigorous work/study that needs to happen in those crucial post high school years.
Jayden Ortiz
As a certified commercial underwater welder, I'll be up to my ears in savings at the end of two years. My dad was one and still runs his shop. I've been welding since I was a kid. I'll stick to pipeline welding on land mostly. That'll be in demand until I'm ready to hang up my stinger. Dad is covering my underwater training, almost 40k, it's my graduation present since I already bought the truck I wanted.
Luke Watson
We have contingencies. Worse comes to worse I work in my dads welding shop pulling down around 60k annual, more when I get certified soon for inspection and testing. Had to wait until I was 18 to get my certifications.
Daniel Harris
We didn't intend it, turns out Bactrim causes the pill to fail. She was fighting a sinus infection last month, so here we are.
Christian Brown
Ye but does she swallow
Samuel Jones
I understand that it happened, that's not what I'm asking about. It's more, why not get an abortion?- for all the reasons I stated in my last post.
Tyler Turner
Ye but DOES SHE SWALLOW CUM
Liam Rodriguez
One, she hasn't left you, which means she really cares about you. Keep that in mind. Two, her family is completely insane. And abusive. And three, remember that you don't have to convince your girl. She's on your side already. You either have to convince her family, or convince her to ignore her family. It's a horrible situation.
Good luck and best wishes.
Cameron Diaz
She doesn't want an abortion. But the idea of not having any support from her family is tearing her up. She was getting ready to tell them that she doesn't politically agree with them. We've kept me and my families political affiliations vague. Actually we've even flat out lied about it occasionally at my girlfriends request. Not direct lies, mostly via double meanings and omission. Though recently we could tell they were getting suspicious.
It's messed up shit is like this these days. So that's why I'm posting my guts out here tonight. Are any of you running into these levels of insanity? I dropped money on a diamond ring yesterday, supposed to be ready Tuesday. Sold my favorite rifle and optics for it. Over $4k.
I don't want to pop that on her until things settle a bit, or at least not while she's this sad and stressed. She hasn't been to her home since the positive test. Every time she calls her parents it's a screaming argument.. Fuck.
Ayden Harris
she fucking cares about you and is still with you. you have to convince her to ignore her family after exhausting all options on trying to convince her family. you already have a plan to get her through college and she's smart, start a family with her. don't kill your potential offspring just to please her batshit family, it won't stop at this. with time, they will come around when they see how you've stuck around with her and supported her. if they don't, you don't want them with you anyways. this is your future son/daughter, don't sacrifice them for assholes.
Neither one of us want that. When we started having sex back in December, we had the "what if" talk. She made clear she'd never get an abortion. I accepted that. The surprise is her parents reaction and insistence. Me and my family have offered to get her through school and to help with the kid as needed. Her family says they'll disown her. Her parents are systems engineers that work for a major tech company based in Austin.
Ethan Allen
Usually. But she prefers it shot into her pussy or ass.
Ayden Taylor
Thanks, seems it's the only recourse. I was hoping they'd at least want to be a part of our lives, including their grandchild. Depressing and aggravating.
Gavin Reed
Stay with her, back her up 100%. Fuck her family, i would say call her parents out on how they are acting but that might backfire on her. I'd confront the hell out of them, call them disgusting for not being there for their daughter.
Eli Lopez
Congratulations
Logan Barnes
Yeah, it's how I feel about it and what you said was close to what my dad told me earlier tonight. But thanks, it helps to know that there's people out there who see it like we do.. Gets too easy to think everyone is crazy like her parents.
Camden Powell
>aiming for underwater deep sea welding lol good luck with that
Joseph Long
I got her 100%. Whenever I tell her that since this started, she smiles and sometimes cries telling me she never doubts or doubted that.. Yeah, my folks advised me to just make sure she knows we all have her back (my fam) and to resist any overpowering urges to forcibly persuade her parents. To add insult to injury: Her little sister backs her, and it's obviously affecting HER relationship with their parents.. To the point that today she left for their grandparents place way off in San Saba..
Those grandparents congratulated us already. I already told her grandad about the ring and what I'm waiting for, he agreed that was best.
Gavin Smith
Good. Keep backing her up.
Justin Hill
you have a wonderful thing here. although it seems like the world is ending, everything will work out in the end. best of luck with your future family user, godspeed
All right Yea Forumsros, OP here heading to the sack with said girlfriend.. I'm taking her to her fav crab shack tomorrow and taking her out on the lake with my folks party barge, hoping to get her out into some nice scenery to chill her out a bit. If it rains or the winds are too much, we'll stay home after the crab and watch her fav animes.
Thanks, all of you, even the trolls and pervs. I'll bust an extra nut in her for all of you beloved bastards.
Kevin Jenkins
>found out antibiotics why dont they make this common knowledge in sex ed? anyways, at the end of the day, its between you and your girl but tread lightly. if they are otherwise cool, this may be an out of the norm reaction from them and might just require some time to adjust. let the heat die down a bit and then sit them down and talk to them like adults. also remember that any number of things can happen such as miscarriage or a nervous breakdown during the pregnancy on either partner's part that leads to a changing of views, especially at a young age.
Elijah Morales
Been working in my dads welding shop since I was little, been PADI recreational for years.. Now I got two people I love counting on me. Yeah, I'm good to go Yea Forumsro.
Aiden Murphy
Yo bro, my girlfriends parents went through the same shit, being that her mom is crazy and her father being the more resonable, her moms parents tried forcing her into an abortion too, funny part is they only care about themselves and never want whats best but rather to control the situation. Im just glad she wasnt
Robert Hughes
Leave the cunt. You have ur whole larping life ahead of you, even if ur nkt larping, ull have the oppurtunity to live life without the restraints of a nostalgic pussy
