I’ve been talking to my buddy’s girlfriend and I’ve really been feeling like shit about it...

Are you retard?

Yeah sorry

At least get nudes

tell him she is hitting you up and almost cheating. He'll dump her, then bang her.

This, I mean who knows maybe yall hook up and be happy together or maybe yall hook for a bit and you'll lose a friend just cause you wanted to bust a nut.

Don't be a faggot. Tell your friend that you've been talking and that it doesn't seem like she's loyal. Show him the photo. Good friends you don't jist throw away

My friends girl, whom I've known for 15 years (that's how long they've been together, both each others firsts), and I have had a strong connection with her for a while. My friend refuses to marry her. I dont know why they've been together so long, it seems like either get married or move on. There have been times he told me he thinks about getting a different girl because shes the only one hes been with and he wants to see what else is out there. Shes a nice girl, never causes drama, usually quiet, never busts his balls about anything, let's him do his thing, and shes responsible with money, plain, sdoesnt like to wear tons of make up and flashy clothes or anything. Basically rhe kind of girl you'd want to marry yet he still wont.

Anyway, a few weeks back we were at a party where there was a pool and her and her sister were being shy and saying they didnt want to go in, so I grabbed both of them over my shoulders in a fireman carry and started to walk to the pool as if i was gunna just throw them in. I was just joking around but my buddies gf was clearly very aroused by this and she was almost faint and had to sit down and fan herself off and she kept saying "that was so hot" over and over again like it broke her mind or something. Anyway, there were like 20 people that all saw it, including her bf who got all pissed off, yelled at both of us and left the party while she still sat there blushing. Some people at the party thought the whole thing was kinda funny and harmless but another friend of mine told me I was out of line for doing it (I wasnt even trying to be flirtatious, just joking around). Anyway ever since then I cant stop thinking about her and my go to fap material is the idea of me cucking my buddy, put a baby in her and move into her house (it's her house but buddy lives with her).

you'd be breaking bro code by getting with her but he is being a bitch and she isn't being kept in check by him

I know mate, I dont want to do it but I do at the same time. He was the best man at my brothers wedding (my brother and I are twins so we have a lot of the same friends) but at the same time if this faggot isnt gunna marry her move out of the way and let someone else do it. She has made it very clear she wants to get married and have kids and shes almost 30 and knows shes gotta do it now (shes been on him for like 5 years about having kids but doesn't want to do it outside of wedlock)

it's their business i suppose but you could butt in, it sounds like your mate is staying to stay or some other problem, he needs help himself in a way. my suggestion is you find your own as it's just easier for everyone that way, but if you're not willing to help them you can come in and homewreck instead

Ya and another worry is that itll break up our friend group. Most are married couples, like her friends are married/engaged to my friends whom he is also friends with. I could see it getti g dirty

Basic rules for men
Never fuck your friends girls even if you are gonna cheat do it to a stranger not a friend. Also obviously tell him because she's a fucking whore and if you don't tell him now you're partly at fault when she "finds a lot in common" with some random Chad and your boy finds a video of her getting gang banged. When it comes to cheating zero tolerance, tbh were I in your friends shoes if break up with her because clearly she can't be trusted

It WILL ruin your friend group.
Take it from me.

Story time.
>be me circa 2011 ; Black, fit bro, nerd, Yea Forumsro getting transferred to new school for faking a bomb threat
>meet cute girl in AP genetics
>Become friends and find out we have the same friend group
>Sone time goes by and I start dating said girl and everything is perfect
>she goes camping with her friends but is convinced to cheat on me with someone I consider a (lesbian) sister, encouraged by not one but 5 of my "friends" (one wanted to be with her, one wanted to be with me, one actually wanted us both and the other two I still don't know why they got involved)
>eventually find out and now I hate all lesbians and want them to die, that whole friend group fell apart because they don't know I know their roles in getting my GF drunk, telling her to cheat, that I stopped loving her, that its not cheating if it's lesbian etc

If I saw a single one of them on fire pleading for help I'd just look and laugh and move on

Nah, that's her choice to talk to you. Maybe she feels comfortable around you. Always keep positive relationships with chicks, especially attractive ones. At some point regardless of your friend it will lead to casual sex. win win

Ya but we're late 20s early 30s, not high school kids.

I'm 28, I still hate them all from then. That's my point. You WILL ruin your friend group over this