Non-incels, what is your partners policy on ass stuff?

Non-incels, what is your partners policy on ass stuff?

My girlfriend is down for giving and receiving anilingus, really enjoys my index finger massaging her asshole during vaginal intercourse (as long as I work up to it) and that's basically it.

We've given penis in ass multiple goes but I've only made it two or three short strokes past the tip before she always stops me claiming anything more than one finger is too painful.

I've spent over an hour attempting to loosen her into it with lots of tongue jacking, gentle fingering and all the way to hard fingering but always recoils when I try two or even my thumb.

Suggestions?

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Blast it with piss

Wish I could help. Been trying to get in the ass for years.

Fiancee will let me play with her ass and occasionally fuck her ass. Usually I tease her pussy hole with my fingers until she's very wet, then start rubbing her cum on her asshole. With that little bit of lube, I demand she grabs my cock and slowly push it into her ass (having her do it makes it less likely to hurt). Once in, I will always tell her how tight her ass is. She has let me cum in her ass multiple times and she gets really, really wet from it.

Use a normal lubricant, not saliva. Also she had to have "mood" for that, so she will loosen. And when you are trying to actualy put your penis in her asshole, try just a little bit of the tip, then stop. Then again, then stop. Then put a bigger part, stop, put it, stop, bigger part, put, stop, etc.

If all she can take is one finger, she isn't stretched out enough. Take your time and work your way up to completely having her take one finger no problem, then two then slowly work into full anal sex with lube. There are two ways to help this along during, one is having her do it and let her lower herself onto you, 2 if she's into being dominated (work out a safe word before hand) during a heated session, don't ask her, just go for it.

Rape. Just rape her as and tell her she will like it or die. Stop being a beta and take control of her. Make her understand as a woman she is property and has no say. She is just a cunt to be used and serve cock. Also make sure to beat her regularly anyway. A cunt will get ideas if left unchecked for too long. I beat my cunts weekly. They know better than to tell me no.

The few during and after hs were down to try, they all hated it. The couple during college refused to, and the ex fiance hadnt tried, but didnt want to.

I mean, all of that was perfectly fine for me atleast. Anal is a BIG turn off for me.

We can’t do penis in ass, her ass hole is just too small.

My fiance loves anal, not all the time, but basically whenever I want. She loves when I fuck her ass, and once she even went into this crazy primal stance which we since jokingly refer to as "hulking out". I pretty much always cum in her ass when we do, and we both love analingus (not really a fetish or anything for either of us, we just do it for something different every so often).

I know this sounds fake but eh, find yourself a cute thick girl and be amazed.

I lost my virginity to my first girlfriends ass (she was also a virgin). from that point on, i've fucked in the ass all the 5 gfs i've been with.
I couldnt tell you what it is, but i must be good at it. many have confessed that other guys tried to fuck them in the ass and they hated it. for some reason, i turn them on and use perfect technich.
ask me details or info if you want. inb4 haters: most of my gf are petite, under 1.55cm. my dick is pretty thick (15cm circumference).
not all my gf's loved it a lot, but most of them did enjoy it and even asked for more several times when they were very horny. current gf asked me to fuck her ass while she had a big vibrator in the pussy, i didnt think i'd fit, but it did. she fucking loved it

Wife is quite petite and I'm fairly hung, so no ass fucking yet, I've only gotten our smallest butt plug completely inserted into her ass. We usually get stoned beforehand as it helps her relax.

Im more experienced in ass play than her, so I let her plug my ass occaisionally. Gonna buy a strap on next so she can really go to town.

My wife doesn't like it much but will do it once or twice a year if I bug her about it.

OP use tons of lube

I eat my gfs ass a lot and fuck her ass probably once a month

Try the whoops wrong hole method 20 to 30 times in a row

I spent a few years working my girl up to it, teasing her and adding ass play to lots of things we did. Also I enjoy it myself so asked her to do all kinds of things to my ass and she had a lot of time watching me enjoy myself. Finally she asked me to fuck her ass and it was glorious. Mind you I'm on the lower side of average at 5"

Have you tried making her cum first? It can relax her a lot. maybe a drink and an orgasm first will help loosen her up. Sounds like shes a champ and is at least trying but probably not enjoying it enough to get over the discomfort part of the experience. It doesnt need to hurt but sometimes can be uncomfortable even when done right. Alternatively you could look into Poppers, better anal specific lube or as a last resort numbing lube.

I’m fucking taking it one of these days. My marriage is likely over so I’m going to get her ass before that. Maybe it will fix things.

i just fuck her so hard bro

Get her a nice plug/toy, have a couple drinks to relax her while you get it in the first few times using lube..and soon she'll be begging for it.

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Get some poppers, it's what the gays use to relax buttholes

My wife likes it.
>Pic related
There's a method to it though.

>Lube
>No, more than that
>Seriously, just use more

>Push in just the tip
>Let it marinate for a minute, so she gets used to it
>Once she's ready, push in slowly until maximum insertion
>Let it marinate again
>Start with slow strokes
>Work up to full anal blast

>Don't forget the god damned lube

Everyone's different, and she still my not like it.
But it's usually a problem with going too fast, or not enough lube.

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Use a plug, that's how things get loose enough

And I don't mean just use it and then stick your dick inside. Its a slow process.

I am actively fucking a couple of women. None of them will do anal. I'm "courting" a third who is really into it, so I can round things out in my favor for when I want to pound some ass.

She is going there. Let it progress at the rate she is allowing or be cut off soon.

Why are you not using warming lube?

My wife and I have tried. She had a kid before us and one with me. It kinda messed her anus up, as child birth can sometimes do. I fucked her ass once and used a small toy once. Both times caused her pretty extreme "issues" for a while afterwards.

Long before her, i had a girlfriend that LOVED it! She would ask for it. Right after her first cum, she wanted it in her ass. I'd go back and fourth between her ass and puss until she asked me to beat her ass up hard. She would cum when I came. She liked to feel my dick pumping cum inside her.