i need help Yea Forums
>be me
>first time in a relationship
>gf had an ex for 3 years
>we talked about sex and she told me (i asked her) that 2-3 times she was tied up and some other times blind folded
>obviously it was more times than that
>i asked if she liked it and said it wasn't bad BUT she has never suggested we do anything like that until yesterday that i asked her (I've asked many times)
the thing is we really love each other and it's not like the sex is not good, but my ego hurts (insecure as fuck as you can see...)
what does this mean Yea Forums ?
has she changed her mind and don't like these stuff ?
am i not worthy or something ? and if yes how to change it
getting paranoid here...just the thought that she is not turned on enough or doesn't want to do these stuff with me drives me insane
I need help Yea Forums
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To be a dominate to a submissive woman you have to be alpha. You can't fake this, she knows you aren't alpha. An alpha would slap her slut face throw her down, and cuff her.
Cuff her, beat her with your belt until she cries, bruise her tits real good so that she'll have a few marks to remember next week. When she starts sobbing throat fuck her.
Had a similar situation. My ex told me she played out all sorts of fantasies with her last bf. Took a while but I got her to do everything I wanted. Women just want to be fucked, it's up to the man to keep it interesting.
i get violent about 50% of the times we have sex. I even bruise her eye some times. it just bothers me she won't do what she did with him
is it about getting her to do it. I mean for fuck's sake, she has tried stuff...If she liked them why not propose to do it again ? (incredibly insecure gf btw)
Stop overthinking, and stop listening to degenerates here.
Yes im aware of the irony.
She was insecure, maybe did not love him etc etc so she caved in when he asked.
With you, she now have more confidence as its not her first sex/relationship, so she is not pressured into saying yes.
If you want to do it, get a pair of nice cuffs (not actual cuffs, but the thick ones you strap around the wrists/ankles), and bring them out during the next sexy time.
Why not tell her to close her eyes, turn around and wait, put them on.
Remember, it's playful, which is why you go easy, and use the cuffs i said sk they don't hurt her.
Not every woman is into being dominated, however most people (men too) are into games/roleplay.
In the future, she might agree to harder stuff.
Enjoy! Don't think negatively about this my man! Sure she's a keeper.
No wonder she doesn't want to be tied up, she's worried you might kill her.
No sane woman likes being beaten, note that some slapping on the ass doesn't count as beating.
Be a man and stop beating on her.
we've talked about it and she is quite in to it, just not really hard
Honestly, it could just be that she didn't feel comfortable asking you because you might feel uncomfortable about it; especially if you've never given any indication that you'd like to do something like that to her. Can't say for sure, since I don't know her. If it's what I said, then do her a favor and tie her up next time you fuck her. Don't ask, just do it.