Hey Yea Forums.
I'm 23 and been here for about a decade now (kek). I remember back when I was still in Jr. High and High School I used to see a lot of Motivational threads, and they genuinely helped inspire me through some dark times.
Motivational thread? Feel free to talk about where you are at in life and the obstacles you are trying to overcome. I at least believe in you, even if you do not believe in yourself!
What are you doing with your life now, OP?
Welcome to the double digit club Yea Forumsro. Motivation threads and baww threads were great wonders of a bygone era. Let me hope on my PC and check my archive folders and see if I still have my motivation folder and I'll dump it.
I work in a warehouse nearly full time and I'm also in college for Psychology. Both of my parents are psychologists, and I've always wanted to follow in their footsteps. My father died recently, and I realized he died with his son a lowly loser and a failure. I decided that day to make him proud, and that my mother wouldn't die with as disappointing of a son as he had.
Every day is a waking nightmare. My girlfriend constantly whines I don't spend enough time with her, and don't give her enough affection. But I am constantly either working or doing schoolwork. It is frustrating, but C’est La Vie I suppose. What about you, user?
I don’t know why but this always makes me feel a bit better
>modified Monday, November 29, 2010.
Found some from your era Yea Forumsro.
I do like that!
Thanks! Weird that 2010 - 2014 was so long ago, I still remember High School so clearly! So this is what it means to grow up.
>My girlfriend constantly whines I don't spend enough time with her,
I'm sorry to say this user, but you're time with her is limited. you're doing far too many things at once, especially with the emotional baggage following your father's passing. you need to focus on yourself.
my advice? enjoy the sex while it lasts. It's a stress relief. But as soon as she gets wind of another swinging dick that's slightly older, more stable, and can provide she's gone. that's dating in your 20s as a male.
I wouldn't even bother with girls beyond a fuck until your 30s and you're stable. men appeciate over time whereas women deppraciate.
tl'dr
drop the girl before she drops you, focus on your career. and by god my man, save. even 100 a month. Save.
>but you're
jesus i'm fucking up hard today. but you get the point
Ha! I sure hope you are wrong. I've been dating her for over a year, and we've had sex maybe 3 - 5 times. I used to feel bad about fapping while dating her (personal rule of mine is to cut down on the fapping when I have a gf for obvious reasons) but honestly, I'm not really sexually attracted to her. It isn't that she is unwilling, but that I am.
I'm honestly surprised she has been as cool about the lack of sex as she has. Perhaps being sexually frustrated is what makes her so irritable. But I have a lot of stress and pressure in my life at this point, so I'm irritable too. I do care about this girl emotionally, even if I'm not sexually attracted to her.
Honestly? Her being around helps ease financial burdens from me, and she appears to be lonely. Her previous boyfriend was quiet literally illiterate. I do think you may be right though that she would leave me for someone better if given the chance. I am certainly the 'best' she has ever gotten when compared to her exes. Maybe in the end she helps get me through college, and I provide her companionship.
I'm 31 Yea Forumsro, been here for 15 years. That feeling only gets stronger.
And if it makes you feel any better, I work a warehouse job just like you. Scan, scan, scan. Food product.
But I never had the opportunity to go to college because neither of my parents wanted to cosign a loan. I sold my beloved first car just to pay for a couple of semesters.
I maintained a 3.9 GPA but dropped out. Dropped out of community college. Felt like loser even though I was putting out the best I can. Not even going to bother with an associates degree.
College is worthless unless it's a very specific bachelor's, or any of the meaningful Masters/Doctorates.
thank me later
I wish no harm upon your relationship. Sometimes they work out. Mine lasted 5 years and I thought I had it all figured out. Putting myself through college, working full time, paying rent, providing, boom. She got bored and moved on. High school sweethearts and everything. Suck bad. Felt like a shit for a year.
That's neat you work at a warehouse like me! Though I won't lie to you Yea Forumsro, I have no idea how you do it. Literally the only way I am able to survive going to work every day is knowing that EVENTUALLY this will end. I know guys who have worked at this warehouse for 10+ years with no end in sight.
I'd rather eat a fucking bullet.
2/10 chance this is good advice.
If your girl is a good person, remember that people's value to others increases over time.
People are the most important thing in life- and this is coming from an anti-social bodybuilder with an IQ of 135.
There are situational factors to relationships, but if she acts like you want your long-term partner to act except for the observation of quality time scarcity, don't give up on the relationship cuz some basement dwelling neckbeard told you to on an Australian boomerang carving forum.
That is shitty my dude. I don't know if you would agree with me on this, and it's gonna sound cheesy as fuck, but I do genuinely believe that your frist love and first heartbreak are by far the most painful.
Losing my high school sweetheart absolutely destroyed my psychologically and emotionally, but losing gf's since then has been 1/5 the pain.
sauce?!
I literally cannot find the website this came from
They don't have the same mental capacity as we do. Upbringing molds a lot of that kind of behavior. Like you feel you're destined for something greater but wish to remain humble.
but some of those guys have no choice. live check to check and if they miss two, they are homeless.
bro girls in their 20s don't know a fucking thing about life.
True shit. I've been here long enough be able to spot the NEETs and Incels who have no right to be advising anothers life in the state that their own is in.
Anyone else got motivationals to dump? I used to have hundreds but through wipes only have a few dozen now.
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