whats on your mind /b
I am here to unburden you.
Whats on your mind /b
Jackson Gray
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Hunter White
just let it out
Juan Kelly
I've faked a happy persona over my depression for years, until I finally cracked and had to cut off all my friends a year ago after I got kicked out of college for not attending classes. I don't know how to explain to people what happened.
Hunter Hall
bro sometimes i think my friends don't respect me and talk shit about me behind my back, but i'm not sure if that's just me being paranoid or genuine gut feeling
Liam Gray
paranoid
Christopher Sanchez
its important that you get help user, and talk to someone who you know would care. you need to hype yourself up, and know that this is the first step to getting life back on track. it's not easy, but it gets better.
Benjamin Foster
Whats your diet like?
How much sun do you get in a normal week?
Turns out eating like shit and never doing anything makes you depressed, which makes you eat like shit and never do anything.
Its a vicious cycle.
Kayden Sanders
IT IS HE, THE PIZZA PROPHECY SHALL BE FULFILLED
Joshua Morris
thanks for the advice man
pretty bad I've only been able to eat 1 meal a day the past 2 weeks
I probably leave the house once a week
honestly never realized how bad that sounds until I'm typing this
Lucas Anderson
i have a doctors appointment tommorow and im drunk as hell today.at least tommorow is friday
Mason White
OP here . the feeling comes from somewhere. they probably don't respect. but you probably don't respect your self. you wouldn't put you self in situations and hang around people who treat you a certain way no matter who they are. you are who you hang around. my guess is your no better then them when it comes to respect and gossip. we all have things to work on and stones in our heart we have to drop or stones we need to add to balance out our souls. bless
Mason Gonzalez
This girl, she became friends with her ex friend whos a MASSIVE manipulator. Not only do I have a crush on her but it just hurts knowing both of them might be having fun without me and shit talking. I know that my friend trusts me and supposedly the only person she trusts but its hard for her to like like people due to trauma. It just bothers me her and her ex friend might be bestest friends and my friend simply brushed me off..
Gavin Hughes
OP here . whats really on your mind user. open up your heart and your mind to us. it's all love here.
Gavin Gonzalez
When i was younger i used to call myself ugly and was depressed but was decent looking and now after reaching the legal age to drink i have a beer gut and look disgusting with long hair and fucked skin from narcotic abuse and regret this all but dont care enough to fix myself
Owen Cox
OP here . if your friend simply brushed you off is she truly your friend? I respect you concern for her but you are selfish. you want her all to your self. and thus you are attracted to selfish people. we all have things we want but you must balance the want with the need. you need to love your self. and understand that you simply existing is the gift. everything else is, what do they say. icing on the cake. life is what you make it. :)
Joseph Foster
OP here . common practice of a god not understanding there power. your thoughts are things. and the more you dwell on a thought the realer it becomes. she gave us ultimate power. use it. you already wish to change. take your time. your almost there.
OP here is kinda of annoying me to type but I just wanted to give this thread alittle structure. we need alittle structure in this anonymous wasteland. some...accountability for thoughts. so if I say something you don't like you can address me and I can not hide.
Gavin Hernandez
thanks for this op, i think this really nails it.
Lincoln Watson
Firstly. They do disrespect you behind your back, plot illegal and dangerous stuff to do to you sometimes, but rarely go through with the dangerous or illegal stuff.
They mainly stick to disrespect and legal stuff usually.
If they are really bad they will do the dangerous and illegal stuff too.
In reality, these people justify it by saying everyone does it.
In reality, not everyone does.
There are bad eggs.
You can just be unlucky sometimes and get bad eggs for friends.
I would just get used to finding new friends.
Gavin Sanchez
Why the FUCK have you not joined this server yet?
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LeXl
Austin Flores
very well said
Leo Smith
OP here. interesting view point. although in my opinion it is misguided.
I agree. beware of someone who thinks everyone possesses a negative treat, they are only saying "I possess that negative treat"
I disagree luck plays a part. luck is a poor mans cause and effect. everything happens for a reason even if you don't know the reason.
since im here. let me tell the thread whats been on my mind. even be dealing with trauma from a failed parental relationship my whole life and it has indeed left me fractured. though I have grown alot and in most cases out grown my peers due to this hardship as well as financial hardships i still lack the total dedication to my mission of self improvement. why?. because I struggle with addiction. no not drugs. but pleasure. I love to feel good. cheap feels even. anything to give me my hit of dopamine. I have been giving it thought and thinking maybe the only way to kick my habit for good is to create a strict schedule to avoid all stimulus. but from what I know of christian girls. you can't suppress anything you have to deal with it. so what do you guys think my problem might be or some thing you've learned through your travels through life. you can't help me out of my situation I know that. but maybe you might spark my mind in the right direction. thanks.
Nathaniel Wood
Hey OP. Thank you for this thread and helping others. Sorry however that I cant offer any substancial advice to you. Your situation sounds complex but also I feel that you have very well dealt with it and become strong in the process. Feelgood addiction is a real thing nowadays, people just dont quite realize the extent and consequences. I think you have the right idea, gotta stay active, preferrably outdoors, take baby steps towards your goal.
Easton Watson
Hey OP I'm , I would say my first college experience was exactly what you described. In my case I was taking the easy way out of ignoring my problems by engaging in activities with instant gratification. When I went back to college I would still go after cheap feels but I would only do so after finishing the work I needed to, as a reward of sorts, which allowed me to do much better. I would recommend replacing the unhealthy stimuli you rely on now with healthier ones, like going to the gym, going on hikes, doing productive activities/hobbies. You just have to set a time on your schedule and commit, it doesn't matter if the time is arbirtrary, because once you commit to it it no longer is. All you need to do is commit, because once you start you'll realize you already have all the momentum you need to finish, and the more often you force yourself to do things to do the easier it becomes to do them.
Try to remember how short life is, and think "is this really how I should be spending my precious time? How is this helping me? Should I be doing something else?"