Haven't visited this site in years but i don't know who else to vent to anonymously

Enjoy this everyone

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fuck off faggot
we aren’t anybody’s agony aunt
go to reddit if you want hugs and sympathy

Win the custody of your daughter or she will be taken by that bitch

After reading some of the comments, I've smoked a little bit of weed to try to calm down. I think I'm going to figure out where my daughter falls into this. Going to go get a paternity test and lawyer up hopefully....I don't want to confront any of them. Only reason I found out was I went through my wife's phone and saw a bunch of texts to an unlisted number (turned out to be my brother).

I think I have to move on. I was the breadwinner in the family and I helped my brother buy his first house and cosigned for him on a car and I don't know how to remove myself or if I'm able to. I just feel so fucking betrayed. I don't know what to do...

If you really do love the kid I'd suggest NOT getting the paternity test. If you find out she isn't yours it might just fill you emotionally.

Kill* not fill.

You should DEFINITELY hurt your brother. He deserves what ever bad things that comes to him.

you're a huge faggot
has anyone ever told you that

Cut all ties with best friend and brother. Daughter sucks if she's not yours but she sees you as her father, keep her, keep your wife. If wife doesn't agree with what needs to be done she needs her head examined.

first thing, before you confront any of them: do what tony soprano did and go meet with every decent divorce attorney in your area that you can
they’re all on your side, don’t worry about affordability, they’ll figure out a cost structure that you can handle
pick one, and strategize about how to protect your assets and how to enforce an debts that you’re owed by your wife/brother
oh, and get screenshots of the text messages. get as many screenshots and as much evidence as you can. also secure your paper trail: house deeds, bank statements, investments, car titles, insurance documents, wage slips, anything and everything that has your name beside a dollar amount, secure that info and keep it away from your wife/brother
doing all this is sneaky but it’s the only way to protect yourself fully. your lawyer will tell you when the appropriate time to confront your wife/brother is.

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fuck emotional pain, he’ll get over it. he needs to be brutally honest here, with himself and everyone else. if that kid isn’t his and he raises her, she’ll have a legit claim to his inheritance over and above any future kids he has. he needs to identify if that’s going to become an issue asap

This is good advice.

So you are going to raise another mans child? Beta as fuck

Honestly just fucking divorce the cunt. Provide proof shes a bad mother and not deserving of her daughter. And take the kids and whatever you can in the divorce.

They are basically shitting on a plate and you are willingly sitting down calmly and eating it. Divorce that whore and find out if the kid is yours

commit bodily harm on your brother and "best friend"

Stupidest thing ever. Don't follow this retards advice. Get the test. Divorce your wife. Break your brothers jaw. If not your kid, let state. Start fresh in new city. It's super hard but it'll help you move on. Trust me. I traveled the world after a break up. Went to India, Dubai, Mexico. It's better

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This

Was it the threesome that made it better tho

I have a lot of threesomes with my new woman. They're just for fun. You gotta be happy with yourself and life before attempting to move on

Why would you keep the wife? Yikes, cuckholdry is your thing huh?

For the sake of daughter.

Nah, that's flawed reasoning. Raising a daughter in an unhappy household isn't better than raising her in two different possibly happy ones.

"Best friend" and brother are both degenerates, one of whom will almost certainly abuse her.

nobody can help you exept you. Why are you in such a situation? pain lets you grow. good luck

How long have you been married to your wife?

fearmongering nonsense
if OP suspects anything like that, CPS are just a phone call away

both are scum that need to curb stomped

This
And this

Seriously OP, fuck that bitch of a wife, don't allow her in your life
And i'd probably would've beaten my brother, and abandoned that so called "friend"
Spend some find fucking young girls, live a little, improve yourself, and become a better you
Don't be weak minded, do something, and win
And jesus christ, women can be fucking bitches, fuck that shit

If the kid is yours, be the dad she/he's needs
If it's not, don't pay for another mans orgasm

I think you know what you should do, OP. I think you do. So do it, for the good of the land.

This, OP please, if you're gonna get through with this
You have to play your hand like this, you will get even more fucked if you don't
If your wife was able to cheat on you, she will most likely try to fuck you over when you give her the boot

keep calm
disassociate
jerk off
decide what would be the
best thing to do in your situation

fucking kill that bitch bro, kill ur friend and brother too, and rape ur daughter then kys

Step one should definitely be to figure out how it is you failed at being a man so you don't repeat that mistake in the future.

and check if the kid is yours
and after that decide if you want her
than get a good lawyer if you can
and win custody making her pay child support (ask the lawyer about this shit)

the bitch is a cunt
so just fuck her over as much as you can
but don't go overboard
be nice but cold
What did she say about this?
Did she deny or say it's your fault(it isn't)?

test your daughter - dont tell anyone. If she is not your child, divorce using this info in court. A good lawyer could help you keep your shit in this case

I say take this guys advice.. havent seen Yea Forums in the headlines in a while

make sure that whatever you'll choose to do is not cuck move
those bring shame to men

I'm definitely getting the paternity test. why the fuck should i let that slide?
thanks for the advice. I'm looking up local divorce lawyers....don't know who to go with.
I think even if the kid isn't mine, I'll try to take custody. If I can't get custody then I don't trust my wife to raise her not hating me, so I'll distance myself. I don't know man that shits killing me right now.
I know divorce is inevitable. I've been with her for 4 years but i'm just so mad that i wasted it all...
yea i smoked some weed and jerked off. mind boggling how well it clears your head.
thats some solid advice, thanks bud.
haven't confronted her...i'm so scared to do that right now.

what are you gonna do about your brother and "best friend"

stop being moron
it's only two years old
if it isn't yours cut your loses and move on
be thankful you didn't find out later in life when she'd make you pay for even more bastards maybe even nephews
snitch your bro on mom

Pistol, lighter, lots of diesel fuel, 55 gallon steel drum. Those 4 things are all you need to handle the situation

This. The damn kid won't remember shit

Get better friends, forget the brother, and especially forget about the bitch. Do a paternity test on your daughter now and keep a record. If she is yours you will need fight for her, and the odds are not in your favor. Family court is a joke.
If the kid is not yours use it the evidence and bail. Do not try and stay for her. I know that's hard, but once you know you must act or risk a total loss. You deserve to find a loving wife and to have your own child, don't deny yourself that.
Remain calm, document every little thing, no matter how small. Remember, none of this is your fault and you deserve a chance at happiness. You will need a good lawyer, and they aren't cheap. Depending on your situation a private investigator can also be handy.

That's a fucking horrible idea

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Whatever you do, OP, resist the urge to go on a murder spree.

Jesus Chrst can help you in these times and you can start again.
He is the ultimate redeemer and the King of Kings.

Get all the evidence you can. Divorce. If it's your daughter get sole custody. If it's not your daughter attempt to get sole custody to spite them.

You won't get sole custody of a child that isn't yours. It is possible, in theory, but getting custody of your own children when you have been a perfect father is already a rare thing.

More evidence you can get that she's an unfit mother the easier it would be.
Proving she's unfaithful is an easy win.

even if the daughter isnt his... i think its very tough to relinquish legal responsibility since the kid has his name on her birth certificate... maybe a lawyer could chime in

yeah it might be too late for user since he might still have to pay child support

If the daughter isn't yours marry her once she's old enough.

Kill the child and frame it on the wife. It’s finna take time and patience. Otherwise kill the child, and cut the wife’s eyes out. Let the bitch live without sight or light.

but it could be his brothers so it would still be incest

That helps with your own child, but under the law if it's not your kid you would need to show that the mother is incapable of being a proper mother. Judges don't care how often she spreads her legs.
I've known judges to bend over backwards trying to justify giving drug-addicted, in debt, shitty mothers custody over the 10/10 father figure. You can blame the tender years doctrine for that.

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Yeahhhhh dahjot

>Smoked a little weed to calm down

No wonder she cheats on you, lmfao. Get off the weed, don't drink, etc. Be a better person, dump the wife, sue for custody whether she's yours or not, and beat the living shit out of your brother. Make sure the rest of the family knows what he did.

this... most level-headed thing to do.

Well you got cucked OP. Period. You can't let that stand. You only have one option for how to proceed. Must kill so called friend and brother for fucking wife. Must beat wife almost to death and make her watch while you rape daughter. Make sure you don't hold back during the rape. This is about hurting the wife more than anything. After making her watch you rape daughter to death you must make wife eat the body then finally kill yourself for being such a pathetic failure of a man that you allowed her to cheat. She should have been under your complete control and you allowed her to fuck not only your friend but also your brother? You are the most pathetic excuse for a man I have seen on here. Do what must be don't o punish them all and reclaim your manhood you fucking beta ass cuck faggot.

You are almost as pathetic as OP. Fucking weak ass excuse for a man. OP should be murdering all involved then killing himself. How could he live with being such a pathetic cuck?

How is he supposed to rape the kid from there?

Kill. Them. All.

No. OP should be a real man and do what real men do. He should take it in the ass too next time when his wife gets fucked. And provide for all the bastards in the world his Great Woman of a wife can pop out. That's what men do.

Fuck off christcuck. You have no place here. Moralfag christcuckery is not welcome.

Not so best friend is a goddamn motherfucker, but your brother also has got to be a huge dipshit. Not to mention the wife herself obviously. I emphasize, this kind of betrayal must be hard to bear. Just lawyer up and try to get full custody of your little girl. The rest doesn't matter. Maybe kick the two bastards in the balls for good measure, but focus on your daughter first.

Stop spreading pro-cuck propaganda. It's destroyed an entire generation of 'men' already. Fucking beta ass millennials. Kill yourself.

Lawyer first. Then eventually you'll have to confront your brother at least. Come on.

This.

lets discuss this over discord op. if revenge is on the table im sure i can be of some help.

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No he needs to murder all involved and rape bastard kid to death before killing himself. Burn down house with all her possessions in it. Leave her alive to suffer and have mental breakdown. She will spend rest of her life in mental institution being raped by staff and inmates. Op must redeem himself as a man and only by killing brother and friend, raping wife and raping daughter to death then burning down house and leaving wife alive and broken before killing himself can he be redeemed.

No one cares about your conservative feelings, some people smoke weed, and drink alcohol, that doesn't make you a bad person all of a sudden you Christian retard

Both the guy you're arguing with and yourself are wrong

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Enough of the whining. Just murder them all and get it over with. Jesus fucking christ.

>Some people smoke weed and drink alcohol

People like OP.

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this, why are so many people so rational all of a sudden

Decent people which are abused by shitty fags? If anything, he is showing mental fortitude by not being suicidal. Most people would be in his situation.

>Decent people

What makes you think OP is decent? At the very least he's a fucking moron if his own best friend and brother managed to sleep with his wife for years without getting caught.

>most people would be suicidal in his situation

Not really.

These are the things you should do. DO NOT confront them before you're lawyered up and done the paternity test. get as much evidence as possible of her cheating, and backup all that evidence just in case. If you want custody of the child despite it not being yours talk to your lawyer if it would even be possible. overall you should be trying to get most of the stuff in the divorce not 50%. As for your tell your family. They will guilt trip your brother. I don't know what you should do about the "friend". Any by someone else?

The term "cuck" and it's definition has changed, at least to me.

Cuck has gone from a term used for those who have been cheated on, to a person (Usually a man) who is willingly cheated on.

For example, half of /gif and /b refer to "sissy cucks"

So really, if you're cheated on, but hate the fact and move on with your life; You're not a cuck, you're simply a very unfortunate person and I'm sorry.

Cuck propaganda has been flooding the board for years now and like trap porn before it has warped the weak minded Yea Forumstards. Which most Yea Forumstards are weak minded conservicucks. We must stop the infusion of pro-cuck shilling.

You have been shilled. Any man who allows his woman enough freedom to even be able to cheat is a cuck. Must keep them subjugated and beaten into obedience.

Make sure you have irrefutable proof and divorce her you should be able break things off with a large majority of your money and belongings, also probably would get custody for the kids as well if the state you live in isn't an absolute madhouse

Go a load of this guy. This is the kind of man that gets his dick cut off when he's sleeping or poisoned or stabbed to death while you slumber. Silly bastard.

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This is true rationality, no better way to do it

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How does it feel being a massive enough faggot to actually think this way and legitimately believe yourself?

dna testing and blackmail

Your wife is fucked up and you'll have hard trust issues with this.

Some people are just fucked up and really the best thing you can do is just let yourself be hurt for a while.

Then get back on track and have a better life than all of them and do leave them behind.

You can't mend shit like this.

Definitely been here for at least a week guys! XDDDd

The household doesn't have to be unhappy. Sure, maybe you're not head-over-heels in love anymore, but if you can tolerate each other and live together amicably somehow, I think that's much better for the child.

In the '80s and '90s we had a fucking tidal wave of divorces. All the flower children of the '60s and '70s who swore an oath to love or whatever and promised that they wouldn't be the miserable fucks their parents were suddenly realized that they felt differently about their partners and, well, if they're not madly in love anymore then why even be together? So they divorced en masse.

I was one of the children who got caught in that shit. It sucked. And it wasn't even a bad divorce. My parents kind of went their separate ways without too much drama. So, comparatively, I got off easy. Still, it sucked. I basically never saw my father and never saw my mother either really. Dad didn't live with us anymore and took us only every other weekend. He worked the rest of the time. Mom worked, came home, made dinner, and that's basically it.

Would have been nice to have a more conventional home life. Wish my parents could have done that for me.

How does it feel to be such a cuck you can't get let alone control a cunt? Fucking virginfags wouldn't know a pussy from a trap's asshole.

She wouldn't dare. She knows her place and is completely submissive and subservient to me. She doesn't do anything without my permission.

>Dad didn't live with us anymore and took us only every other weekend. He worked the rest of the time. Mom worked, came home, made dinner, and that's basically it.
fucking snowflake. thats what parents do, they work. its called being a grownup. u had it good. 2 homes, food on the table etc

Again, comparatively, I had it great. (One home by the way. My father rented a bedroom and so we never stayed with him or anything like that.)

But to say that things wouldn't have been different and probably better if they had stayed together and made it work is, y'know, false. My mother would probably have stayed home and not gone to work and I'd have had a father that I would have seen more regularly.

fair

He is not going to kill his wife, his brother, his friend, and a kid that he thinks is his. Don’t be silly. He came here for advice in a difficult moment, he doesn’t sound unhinged enough to murder anyone. Don’t put those ideas into his head. Jesus can’t do shit for him, only a good lawyer can help now, and after that, he’ll be fine after some time passes.

He won’t, not under these circumstances. Unless he hires a lawyer so inept that they act like they’re straight out of a cartoon or something.

Paternity test.
If it’s your daughter remain.
Hate your cheating bitch wife, divorce, etc.
But make sure it’s your kid before anything else.
If it’s not? honestly move far far away.
Your never going to come out on top here, there is no battle cause your cheating bitch of a wife wins by default.
The benefits of being female OP

You could leave the country with your child. It is extremely difficult to get the child back into the country in many cases. They would have to get a hold of the child for DNA tests to even prove paternity to launch custody proceedings, and by that time she is young enough that she will have forgotten her real mother.

Probably you should just leave them both behind and take full custody with no visitation for the mother. If you are an amerishart, infidelity is a big bad christian crime in court proceedings.

Don't do anything stupid and violent, no matter what dickheads on here tell you.

KILL WIFE

DO IT FAGGOT

So OP, did you forget to add the bit in your sad sob story about how you were a dickhead to your wife in every way and drove her into someone else's arms?

What is your part in this? Too many nights playing video games while she was looking to get laid? Couch potato? Degenerate gambler? Shitty lover? Never bought flowers? Hit her after one too many or raped her? Fucked her sister? May as well spill the beans seeing as you amde the thread.

Let me guess, you were the world's greatest husband and dad, but she is a terrible person who betrayed you for no reason...

Cut her off financially and start separating your assets. If she asks for help with anything but the kid, you can't afford it. Then follow through with the paternity test and lawyering up.

Right OP, how to get yourself a lawyer:
Firstly, most people in your situation knows how to approach lawyers. That’s a totally normal emotional space to be in. I mean, how the fuck were you meant to know you’d need to prepare for this? So, don’t beat yourself up about it. You are going to find it difficult to understand a lot of the lawyer process, so don’t let that put you off. Hire someone decent, and put your trust I them to do what needs to be done. If you beat yourself up over this, or if you find yourself second guessing your lawyers, that’s gonna fuck your head up. Deal with it, they train for 8 years to do this job, they know what they’re doing.
Now, how do you start?
Your local phonebook! Sounds old school but it’s not. Ring all of them that she adverts that mention “divorce” or “family”.
If you know a lawyer, or have a friend or colleague who knows a lawyer, that can be useful to get some personal recommendations (now that you’ve looked thru the phone book you have names to ask about). But, you don’t need that per se, you can decide on your own if need be.
Third on the hunt is google. Might be lucky and find a decent one on google, but let’s face it, lawyers don’t usually need to resort to google ads or slick websites if they’re actually good. (Private mode in your browser obviously)
So, make a list of all of the ones in your area, filter out the good lawyers and the crap lawyers. Ring them all.
All of them. Book an initial appointment with them and discuss your situation, especially important to bring copies of all of the screenshots and evidence you have and ask each lawyer “Does this evidence help my case?” This’ll take a long time but it’s fundamental. The key point here is that you are fucking her over.

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Lawyers cannot deal with your wife if they’ve already professionally met you and discussed this case with you. If you manage to speak to all of the good lawyers in your area, she’ll only be able to deal with the shitty ones.
You’ll know very quickly who you’d like to deal with after speaking to 10-15 lawyers.
Now, the pitfalls: lawyers are sales people. They want to help you because they want to get paid. They need your money. Theyre a business.
Every single one you meet is going to want to press ahead and sign you up as a full client. Every single one. They’ll all put the hard sell on you, they’ll all be like “Well, if you sign now, I can get started on this right away!” Don’t sign up just yet.
Take your time. You are gonna be dealing with this lawyer for the next 2-3 years. Simply tell them “Thanks for your offer but right now I’m still in shock, I’d like to take a bit of time to think about my future options before I recruit a lawyer.” That kind of reaction is fine, the lawyer won’t think anything of it. You are in shock, it’s no big deal.
Do that 10-15 times and decide who you want to go with. No big deal. Baby steps. Take your time.
As for payment, they’re all going to be expensive. That’s just tough fucking shit. But if you try to do this without them, the family courts will rape you.
Pay them on time, don’t care how poor you are, your lawyer is the very first bill you pay each month. Go homeless for a few months if needed, just don’t stuff your lawyer because they’ll blacklist your name, no other lawyers will ever deal with you again, and the family courts will rape you.
Luckily, they aren’t blood sucking leeches. When you decide on the one you’d like to deal with, explain your finances to them. Be honest.

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Hiding money from your divorce lawyer will result in the family courts raping you because the family court needs to identify exactly how much you have so that they can split it between you and your wife.
Most lawyers don’t want to leave you penniless. They’ll probably work out a payment plan or a reduced fee if you ask them nicely. It’s in their interests to charge a fee that you can actually afford to pay.
But, if your top choice can’t come to some sort of deal with you, respectfully tell them that, and don’t burn any bridges. Simply thank them for their time, and move on to your second choice. Repeat until you sign a deal with a lawyer.
In terms of costs, do remember that if this is legit cheating and false paternity, you may be able to recoup some of what you paid towards your household over the past X number of years. Your lawyer will deal with all that. You’ll need to sue your wife and friend/brother in the civil court. It’s not nice, but fuck them. And having a good lawyer makes the whole process easier for you. You could end up making money out of this!
Another thing to keep in mind is how you act with your wife from this day onwards: you cannot have sex with her until after the divorce! It’s fucked, I know, but family court precedents rule that if a spouse is aware of cheating and has sex with the offending partner, that is deemed as consenting to being cheated on. The thinking here is that if the cheating really offended you, you wouldn’t fuck ever again.

Dude, divorce and go get new friends and girl. Get a new bro while you're at it. Get 50/50 custody and bounce

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One other thing, you mentioned weed, try to get photos of her smoking weed. Doing any drugs. Doing anything that’ll put her in a negative light. Does she mouth off when she’s angry? Record that shit in your phones Voice Memo app. Record everything and keep it as evidence. Your lawyer will tell you if it’s admissible or not.
Good luck OP, you need to do all this within the next few days.
Delaying this much longer than a few days will hurt your case. (Again, it’s fucked I know, but family court precedents hold that if a spouse discovers cheating and delays instigating divorce proceedings, that delay constitutes full or partial consent for being cheated on, depending on various factors such as length of time, and how you acted between funding out and beginning the divorce proceedings, and as I mentioned above, if you had sex and acted caring towards her. Or violent/angry, definitely don’t act violent or angry, that course of action will paint you as a psycho abuser. Punish her in the courts, you can’t punish her yourself. Or you’ll be arrested or accused of abuse. Just treat her passively, if you have a spare room, even better, sleep in there, tell her you’ve got back ache. Just don’t act angrily. And don’t act cuddly. Again, if you act cuddly, that’s gonna be used against you and treated as partial consent. You just need to act fast or the cheating is not gong to be fully taken into account)
I don’t envy you. But we are all here rooting for you! Good luck dude.

No it isn't.

OP, listen to this guy.
Also write in to the Monday Morning podcast with bill burr. I've taken quite a bit of advice from that pod and there's alotta guys like me. Do the guys of this world a favor and send in this case study to learn from

OP, Do exactly this. Once your assets are protected, bounce to a third world country get your dick sucked, travel live a little and then find another mate. Don't be a puss and jump out a window. You're the Hero in the story, start acting like it.

I'm sure this is all bullshit, but just in case...What the fuck are you whining about? You've just been given the gift that so many men would love to have. A free pass. You're out. Particularly if the kid isn't yours. You get to pack your shit and start over. Completely fresh. Reboot. The world is your oyster.

Contact legal counsel, get a paternity test then gtfo if she's not yours.

Do you live near any mosques?

Exactly. Maybe this time he will also realise that the happy family shit, is generally bullshit too. Be the Hero of your life.

Divorce bitch, find out if child is yours, do what you want when you find out, provide proof she cheated to free you from alimony, ruin brother's life and cut contact. Beat the fuck out of "friend" and cut contact

Summer sure does come quick

Summer will be over soon.
But I agree with that guy, an agony aunt is the last thing OP needs. He doesn’t need a bunch of whiny emotional faggots advising him to ask her why she did it. Why she did it doesn’t matter right now. Winning as much as he can in the upcoming divorce proceedings by protecting his assets and his future earnings should be his top priority now.
Emotionally dealing with this will be tough. She fucked him over, worrying about why she fucked him over is only going to fuck his head up when he needs to be prepared to be ruthless.
A good lawyer is what he needs, answers about the whys of the situation are just FUD at this moment in time.

I have absolutely no idea what you should do OP, I really don't know.
Maybe you do though...

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It’s a tough one alright

Why is that important?

Wellllll.....Since this whole thing is probably going to end up in an enormous ball of flames, you may as well take a few undesirables with you.

You have to go back.

There's a magical place just for (you)--->>>

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This...this actually sounds pretty good

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Guy can’t even keep a relationship afloat for 4 years, how the hell is he gonna fake his death and setup a life in the Caribbean?!

Ok, first like leave a note or something then drive to somewhere that people will hear explosion. Get out of your car and like shit in it and leave hair and stuff then put rock on the gas and it will explode when it hits the wall. You should probably leave chicken bones in the car too so they find your hair and bones and shit. After you explode car, walk through the sewers until you meet a traveling companion, then you guys infaltrait a navy base or something and get a boat, then you go down to like where ever basically, its super easy. Pretty sure my dads in brazil

“No wonder she cheated on him, Officer Pussyhound, check out this dude’s weak ass leg bone!”

Obviously your only course of action is to post your wife's tits

Actually this is the best course of action

>allwomenarequeens
>you

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Don't confront her.
Get a lawyer first. Document everything. These things can turn nasty.
Fucking sucks that your best friend and brother are the people involved in this. Try to reach out to other people in your life but be careful your best friend and brother don't hear about it. People will and do lie to try to cover their own asses.
You really need to start acting like a saint. Ditch the weed. No drinking. Don't yell or lay a hand on anyone. Try not to be alone with anyone involved if you can help it. Take up meditation or something to get into a Zen state because you can't afford to lose your shit.
Definitely get a paternity test.
I hope she's yours OP. But if she's not I'd say try to make a clean break. You don't have to sacrifice your life for someone else and the more contact you have with your ex the more miserable you will be.

Exactly this. Become cooler, richer, and more interesting.

Steal the kids with love and watch the rest of them wilt away with shame

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>This guy fucks in family court
OP you are receiving a lot of great lawyer-related advice in this thread. Don’t let us down.

Don’t be bitter though. Treat them nicely. Be courteous and generous (after you get the divorce kicked down)
It really fucks them up when you’re not a bitter hater.

Been through the same exact shit, Yea Forumsro... went through all the emotions you're feeling now. Absolute best thing you can do now is to move on, rebuild your life the way YOU want it, and look for any kind of happiness anywhere you can find it.
>Living well is the BEST revenge!

CHECKED but no desu, flames are a bad way to go out

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Shoot the adults in the head and run off with the little girl à la Leon the Professional

>getting married

I’ll do the hit in exchange for the girl

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>made in brazil

op, prepare yourself as best you can, lawyer, evidence gathering etc. then proceed to devise multiple plans, nothing illegal. For example when you are fully prepped and the attorney gives you the ok signal to invoke hte divorce, find the most inopportune moment for the third parties to be notified of the cheating and the divorce, like some kind of birthday or family gathering. they wont be able to keep their composure and word will come out pretty fast of what happened. DONT do anything like posting pictures or public fb messages etc. this is the safest way to still get revenge, remember when the fam finds out she cheated, it will stay in the fam and will surface when she gets a new relationship. best of luck op

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WORST. ADVICE. EVER!
Move on, find your inner happiness.
>Revenge in a situation like this is just a sign of emotional weakness.

OP, I’m sorry this is happening to you. I can’t begin to imagine the heartbreak you’re going through, and I wish you all the best.

You’re receiving great advice in this thread. Lawyering up, cleaning up, and keeping your cards close to your chest.

Document everything, as it’s acceptable as evidence in court. Get the test, but don’t give up on the child. If you love her, fight for her to have a good father, no matter who the biological is.

The best revenge you can have is to live a happy life. You don’t have to accept them in your life, and I’m not saying you should or ought to accept them. Cut them out, toxins aren’t good for anyone. But I hope that you can forgive them. Any hate you harbor will only hurt you, and frankly your wife, brother, and friend seem to enjoy doing this to you.

Fight through, come to /b (of all fucking places) for a laugh and a spiritual assist, and rise above. Their punishment is the loss of a good person. Not to mention their reputations. No friend, brother, or partner does what they do. No one will trust them ever again.

I’m just glad this thread is still alive. Has OP returned yet? Hope he gets some use out of the advice on here.

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Where the hell is OP?!

Thread started nearly half a day ago. Would it be crazy to think he's gone?

Maybe

Isn't this scenario the most common fantasy and fetish of American white men aged between 25-50 years old these days? You're living a lot of other mens dreams OP, embrace that cuckold life like a true man

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You get a divorce lawyer, take full custody and all assets, and start a new rich life OP

Finding a lawyer hopefully

You need a lawyer and a therapist. Start moving money to a personal account. If you aren't raging then you can make rational decisions about your future and deal with your feelings next.

Your daughter is still your daughter. To her nothing has changed. It's not her fault if your wife was unfaithful, so don't punish or blame her for it or you'll have more feelings to deal with in the future.

quads confirm