> be me
> have a very close female friend
> helping her a lot (especially financially)
> one day, she blocks you for no reason
> all attempts to talk with her and know what the fuck is going on failed
> all of our shared friends tell me I am stupid and that I should get over it
> I feel so depressed now
What should I do ?
be me
How much money did you give her?
around 500 dollars in the last two months, a little more if you count other "favors"
Lol you were her beta orbiter
You definitely left out a part of your story user.
Don't worry about sharing the creepy thing you did to get blocked here, we're all creeps, we won't judge
I'm assuming you wanted to hook up with her and she knew that right?
This
I didn't want to hook up with her, she had a bf and I had a gf (well, I used to)
You let yourself get played. Learn from this
How long did you know her I'm very confused on why you would give her so much. Was it a loan or a gift?
check what i found on memories
>supporting a woman financially that you're not fucking.
Kek, don't let yourself get played again incel.
there were a few more details, yes
Wednesday was fine, we were talking fine and joking and all. Thurday, I called her to play a game online but she said she was tired. Friday, I heard about a free trip to a city and I called her a lot of times (like 130 times and I am being serious here) but she responded to none, then she blocked me on my phone, facebook and insta. Today I called her by another phone and she blocked me on that number too. That's the context
>I called her a lot of times (like 130 times and I am being serious here)
yikes
Ok but why did you give her the money did she ask??
like 4 years by now
the money was a gift although it was more of a financial support for her than an actual "gift"
If this is a true story, you are a beta cuck, you are retarded, you are nobody, you are literally so weak, not just physically, but mostly mentally. You are a weakling. You are not even a proper human.
And for anyone else reading this; never EVER fucking EVER befriend a female or at least consider a female as a GOOD friend. And NEVER EVER help a female. If you help a female, she won't consider that as a help, but she will take you as someone she can use. No matter how ''good hearted'' that female is, she can't help herself but to consider you as a beta male who she can use for her own good.
And NEVER HELP ANYONE FINANCIALLY. EVER.
Fuck, beta males make me cringe so bad.
130 times? That’s beyond stalker into chop up the girl into a million pieces. You have self control issues you need to fix
she asked, yes, she was going to pay it on different parts and I told her to not bother at the moment until her financial situation would improve.
Photo related? More of her?
>130 times
I knew I was right about there being a creepy thing you did, don't worry though like I said I'm not going to judge.
Got blocked by my ex and tried to call her 14 times which would be the creepiest thing I've done, couldn't imagine having so little self respect to try more than that though.
I've had a wife for just over 10 years now and I haven't called her 130 times in that time period.
She's right to block you. You're not stable.
Being an outside observer seem like you where super clingy. Also her bf probably doesn't like some dude calling her all the time and giving her money I mean it's pretty cut and dry why she doesn't want to interact with you
well, the offer would have expired in a few hours, and this isn't the first time I called her a crazy amount of time (she did that too)
>I called her a lot of times (like 130 times and I am being serious here)
This thread is a product of fiction. Ignore OP and carry on.
Lol you are definitely retarded just re read that to yourself kkid
She has a boyfriend and you are now surplus to requirements.
Move on and learn your fucking lesson next time.
130 wtf bro you’re wild
I ghosted a girl because she sent 10 messages and 2 phone calls in an hour, I felt overwhelmed just from that. I can only imagine how she felt.
>Lol
>kkid
Yeah ok.
Actually, from my experience this is literally great advice.
it really isn't
Yeah exactly look at your post talk about beta cringe kidd
What age are you?
24
You literally know nothing about women and their psych.
Have you been diagnosed with any mental illnesses?
Not asking to be funny or mean or anything like that I'm genuinely curious
But seriously, what’s she look like?
Lol anyone who says they know about "women and the psych" is the biggest virgin on b
no, my mother took me when I was a child to a doctor because I had a few problems in class but the doctor said it was fine "just kids being kids"
Doctor was wrong, post her pics
She taught you a cheap lesson. She could have taken you for everything.
Read, Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman! and get back to me.
can't share her pics, sorry. But she is like naturally tanned and has natural dark curly hair but always makes it sraight anyway.
You can't take a mental evaluation from years ago when you where a kid and apply it to your self now. That's like saying when your 60 I run a 3 minute mile when I was 20 of course I can do it again
This.
You can too, she blocked you, what could possibly happen?
I mean, is calling someone 130 times for an urgent thing proof for any kind of mental disorder ?
You should see a professional. It’s really unhealthy to call someone 130 times. I’m not trying to be an asshole. I’m saying this as someone who is clingy and gets way too attached.
>female friend
Friendzoned!
It’s incredibly bizarre and I can only imagine she was extremely uncomfortable
I can’t judge, same shit happened to me except I was the one to finally block her. Got friend zoned, “borrowed” money all the time. Every once in a while she’d show up drunk and horny and I’d get to bang her. I was that guy who was so far in the zone she’d send me multiple nude pics and ask which one she should send whatever guy she was fucking. We are a stupid sex.
That all said, 130 calls is scary, you need medication
Yes actually it is, the fact you didn't take the hint after 3 missed calls means there is definitely a disconnect. She is probably afraid of you dude, you should really leave this poor girl alone
If her mother would be dying, you still wouldn't call her 130 fucking times. He is a beta male that was used be an average bitch.
After you post her pics
damn, I feel like I burned 500 dollars
That’s not that much for the lesson learned
Yeah that money is gone and I would not try to contact her at all man. Like honestly 130 times and from different phones can be grounds for some judges to put a restraining order on you, if she feels unsafe
Like, is 130 calls that much ? like it isn't really that hard to push a button every 30 seconds (and pause between each call for a time)
Honestly I get annoyed if someone even calls a second time after I ignore them. After 130 I’d probably be kicking your door down.
Yeah, I don’t think this is the actual creepy op, I think a troll moved in
Oh boy do you really not see what's wrong there? You should go see a therapist and talk about this it will help you more then b ever could
move on it is only $500 it could be worse and the 130 phone calls.
I would block you too!
>130
nigger there's your reason wtf
> 130 times
Fuck idk man, nothing overbearing or obsessive here. I wonder if there’s a restraining order in the works.
this
>130 times
If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; if they don’t, hunt them down and kill them.
Maybe I shouldn't have posted that for this OP.
her boyfriend told her it was you or him. She was right to block you after you phone stalked her.
Give yourself time. the way you feel will pass.
No communication with her other then a hand written letter apologizing. No sap in the letter. Just a strait forward, sincere apology. Sign the letter with your name nothing else.
If she lives with her Boyfriend, apologize to him in the letter as well.
IF, IF in time (could be a year or more) she wants to communicate with you she will (She will reach out to you only if it is convenient for her (this is just the way it is, you cannot control or change this)).
A woman has to want to have a relationship. You cannot buy that or force it. They sense desperate, and everything you have done is desperate.
Most important. There is no excuse or substitute for these 2 things:
1) Have self respect.
2) DO NOT GO ANYWHERE NEAR HER HOME>. Stay away from her house.
Last, if she really is your friend, forget about the money. Do not accept repayment. It was a gift. come to terms with that. Then don't do it again.
This was honestly the most helpful answer here and the most logical one, thanks a lot
Wish you the best my friend. Been there..
Memes aside this is the most sensible thing to do not just in OP's case but any scenario where you're blocked by a girl you have feelings for.
Thanks for the post user, through going through something similar I followed the same steps and I'm meeting up with my ex soon because of it.